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Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru Demuren & Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi
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Find out all of the latest gossip happening in Nigeria and across the world on the Off Air Podcast with Gbemi and Toolz. Keep up to date with entertainment news, fashion news, relationship advice, inspirational and motivations topics and lots more. Plus, they do not keep it PG!!OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz promises to be exciting and fun.

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    Gen X vs Gen Z on Sex, Self-Pleasure & Partner Pleasure | Say It With Your Chest

    Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real. We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural. From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss: Discovering self-pleasure growing up Porn, performance myths & unrealistic expectations Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures? When does it become a problem in relationships? Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want? Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”? The monogamy debate  We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it. 00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest 02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up 08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure & Unrealistic Expectations 15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More? 22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring 29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied? 36:15 – Communication, Ego & Giving Feedback 44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate 53:10 – Sexual Exploration & Personal Boundaries 01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem? 01:10:15 – Final Thoughts & Audience Reactions

    50 min

  2. 18 FEB

    Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?

    In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner. Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom.  Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way! 00:00 - Intro 02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance? 07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations 13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure? 17:45 - Fake It 'Til You Make It? 22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure 27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions 32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight 36:00 - Closing Thoughts

    16 min

  3. 11 FEB

    Taking Charge in the Bedroom: Dominance, Desire & Speaking Up ft. Slumflower

    In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing valuable insights on power dynamics, and how she navigates dominance and submission in a healthy and consensual way. Plus, get the inside scoop on her experiences in relationships and how to communicate what turns you on without fear, shame, or hesitation. In partnership with Durex, this episode explores mutual pleasure, sexual confidence, and how both partners can truly understand each other’s needs in and out of the bedroom. 00:00 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to 'Say It With Your Chest'? 03:30 - Meet Slumflower: From Best-Selling Author to Dominatrix 07:00 - The Importance of Confidence in Communication 12:20 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships 16:50 - Saying What You Want in Bed: How to Communicate Your Needs 22:00 - The Psychology of Men’s Submissive Tendencies 28:15 - Confidence, Consent, and Comfort: The Key to Great Sex 33:00 - Breaking Down Cultural Barriers: Owning Your Pleasure in Nigerian Society 39:30 - Sexual Exploration: How to 'Train' Your Partner (In a Fun Way) 44:00 - The Role of Praise: Why Men Love to Be Called 'Good Boy' 49:20 - Slumflower’s Take on Dominance, Submissiveness, and Consent 54:00 - A Conversation on Mutual Pleasure: Durex’s Role in Sexual Confidence 58:30 - Closing Thoughts: Speak Up, Own Your Desires, and Say It With Your Chest

    28 min

  4. 4 FEB

    Who Sets The Rules In The Bedroom: Men or Women?

    In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement. From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits. Join the conversation in the comments 👇  #SayItWithYourChest Proudly powered by Durex. 00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex  02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?  07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually  11:46 – Silence, fear & the pressure on women  18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?  24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets & shame culture  32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?  40:18 – Compliments, playlists & setting the mood  53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence & consent

    28 min

  5. 28 JAN

    Kinks & Fantasies in Nigerian Bedroom

    In this special episode of 'OffAir,' hosts Gbemi and Toolz, along with guest Yeside Olayinka Agboola, founder, Oloricoitus, delve into the intriguing world of kinks, fantasies, and sexuality in Nigeria. They define kinks and fantasies and discuss the contrasts between public conservatism and private liberalism in Nigerian attitudes towards sex. The episode highlights the booming industry of aphrodisiacs and sex enhancers, and the importance of communication, emotional security, and kindness in exploring sexual preferences with partners. Practical steps for safe exploration, such as testing and using condoms, are covered. The episode concludes with myth-busting statements about kinks and sexual communication and a detailed overview of Durex products designed to enhance sexual experiences. The hosts encourage viewers to explore their kinks and fantasies safely and communicate openly with their partners.  #SayItWithYourChest #OffAirXDurex 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview  00:35 Defining Kinks and Fantasies  03:26 Exploring Nigerian Attitudes Towards Sex  05:38 Communicating Desires and Overcoming Insecurities  11:13 Safe Sex Practices and Misconceptions  13:20 Encouraging Exploration and Emotional Security  19:09 Myth Busters and Product Recommendations  22:23 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

    23 min

  6. 12/12/2025

    Simplify Global Payments with Paga: Eliminating Financial Hurdles for Africans Abroad

    In this episode of FX Files an OffAir Specials brought to you by Paga, we address a significant concern for Nigerians and Africans when traveling abroad, the frustration of having cards from Nigerian banks declined due to network issues or suspected fraud.  Our hosts, Gbemi And Toolz discuss the challenges of making payments overseas and introduce Paga's innovative solution. Paga US now allows anyone with a US residential address to open a fully regulated US bank account, offering physical and virtual Visa cards, and seamlessly integrate with services like Apple Pay and Google Pay.  The highlight of this special episode is an insightful conversation with the CEO of Paga, Tayo Oviosu who explains how the new service removes the hassle of traditional banking processes, enabling users to manage multiple currencies, send and receive money effortlessly, and maintain a strong financial link back home.  Tune in to learn how Paga is transforming banking for the African diaspora, making global financial transactions smoother and more accessible.

    36 min

  7. 05/12/2025

    The horror of dating in Nigeria Ft Skuki & Nimi

    In this final episode of the season, Gbemi and Toolz discuss various hot topics including dating dynamics in today’s Nigeria with Nimi and Skuki Peeshaun, the challenges young professionals face, and insights on remote work. Highlights include a fan mail segment where a young listener seeks advice on handling financial pressures from her parents, debates on dating standards, emotional intelligence in relationships, and the impact of social media on dating. The episode also features a guest segment with Nadine, the market manager of GrabrFi, discussing the benefits of remote work and challenges like payment barriers for Nigerian freelancers. In addition, there's a special segment on the importance of sunscreen, particularly in Nigeria's intense sun, in collaboration with Beauty by Daz.

    1h 33m

  8. 28/11/2025

    When Japa turns to Japada Featuring Mommychoplife, Chude jideonwo's new book

    In this episode, the hosts cover a wide range of topics, from tech controversies and social media feuds to mental health, career advice, and personal growth.  Featuring special guests like Chude Jideonwo and Mommy Chop Life, the episode explores experiences with depression, relocating abroad, financial solutions, skincare tips, and navigating life’s challenges. Packed with candid stories, laughter, and practical advice, this episode is full of insights you won’t want to miss. #OffAirWithGbemiAndToolz

    2h 17m
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Find out all of the latest gossip happening in Nigeria and across the world on the Off Air Podcast with Gbemi and Toolz. Keep up to date with entertainment news, fashion news, relationship advice, inspirational and motivations topics and lots more. Plus, they do not keep it PG!!OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz promises to be exciting and fun.

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  • Creator
    Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru Demuren & Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 OffAir Podcast
  • Show Website
    OffAir Podcast

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