What if influence has less to do with having a position and more to do with how we use the influence God has already entrusted to us? We explore what Scripture shows us about the unique influence women can have—with or without a position of authority—and examine women such as Abigail, Esther, Delilah, Jezebel, Rahab, Tamar, and others who shaped circumstances for good or for evil. We look at the difference between godly influence and selfish manipulation and identify four marks of godly influence: it is submissive to authority, sacrificial, strategic, and aimed at benefiting others and glorifying God. Ultimately, we consider how we can recognize the spheres of influence already around us and use them for the good of others and the advancement of God's kingdom. What We LearnedWomen are described at creation as a “helper” or ezer, a Hebrew word also frequently used of God as help, pointing to a role that can be deeply influential rather than merely subordinate.Influence is defined as “the capacity to be a compelling force on the actions, thoughts, and behaviors of others.”Scripture gives examples of women influencing circumstances for both good and evil, including Abigail averting a conflict with David, Esther advocating for her people, Delilah bringing down Samson, and Jezebel influencing Ahab toward evil.Women do not need a formal position, title, paycheck, platform, podcast, or position of authority to make a significant impact in the world around them.Godly influence is submissive to authority; submission does not mean having no voice or being a doormat, but recognizing and honoring legitimate authority.Godly influence is sacrificial, often involving personal risk or loss for the benefit of others.Godly influence is strategic, using wisdom, timing, shrewdness, and intentionality for God's purposes rather than selfish manipulation.Godly influence benefits others and glorifies God, seeking the advancement of God's purposes rather than personal power or control.Related EpisodesWe did a deep dive on 1 Timothy 2 here: “So...Can Women Not Talk in Church?” “Complimentarianism (and other short words)”“Gender Roles Q&A”“She Should Cover Her Head??”“Complementarianism Isn’t About You — It’s About God”Scripture Referenced Eve & Adam – Genesis 2:18-23 God as our ezer – Psalm 121:1-2, Psalm 33:20Sarah & Abraham – Genesis 16Rebekah & Isaac – Genesis 24-27Tamar & Judah – Genesis 38Potiphar’s Wife & Joseph – Genesis 39Two Hebrew Midwives, Shiphrah and Puah – Exodus 1Zipporah & Moses – Exodus 4Daughters of Zelophehad – Numbers 27Rahab in Jericho – Joshua 2Jael & Sisera – Judges 4-5Delilah & Samson – Judges 13-16Abigail, Nabal & David – 1 Samuel 25Jezebel & Ahab – 1 Kings 16The little slave girl & Naman – 2 Kings 5Athaliah, Jehosheba & Joash – 2 Kings 8-11Herodias & John the Baptist – Mark 6Women supporting Jesus’ Ministry – Luke 8Woman at the Well – John 4Elizabeth & Mary – Luke 1-2Deborah – Judges 4-5EstherJoin our team! patreon.com/jimmykellyneedham Produced by Sound of a Rose — https://soundofarose.com