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1d ago · Video

Men Cheat,What's Actually Worse.

A man cheated, then moved her into the family home. We start there and it goes everywhere. Our first real sit-down in about a year. Why men still cheat when they have a wife doing everything. Lady Afya's answer isn't the one you expect: the cheating isn't the dealbreaker, the decision-making is. Then: why people run instead of repair. The manosphere, the red pill, and what created them. The 50/50 argument and who actually decides when one person holds the money. The business that failed, six figures gone, and the door that closed right after. And the thing our culture never trained us to talk about, including the part where women admit they don't finish and never say so. Grown love, told out loud. New episodes weekly. TIMESTAMP 0:00 A year since we last sat down 2:09 Roles, or friendship? 3:32 The manosphere and the red pill 6:10 Did feminism create this? 10:10 Why people run instead of repair 12:59 He moved her into the house 13:28 It's the decision making, not the cheating 19:16 The different versions of me 23:32 The failure I still can't put down 26:00 Everything fell apart after we'd already paid 27:07 Six figures gone 29:54 The 50/50 problem and who actually decides 33:20 Asking for a drink at my own engagement 36:44 Stuck in Colorado snow with no jackets 38:03 Sex, and why nobody taught us how to talk about it 48:03 The women who never finish and never say so 51:00 Losing the language, teaching the kids #Grounded #MarriageTalk #WhyMenCheat #BlackMarriage #RelationshipPodcast #CouplesTalk #GhanaianPodcast #MarriedLife why men cheat, cheating in marriage, married couple podcast, marriage advice, relationship advice, side chick, infidelity, should i leave after cheating, red pill, manosphere, feminism and relationships, 50 50 relationship, who pays in a relationship, black marriage podcast, ghanaian couple, marriage after business failure, talking about sex in marriage, sexless marriage, communication in marriage, divorce vs repair, KJ Mensah, Lady Afya, Grounded podcast, couples real talk
1d ago · Video

If Your Marriage Had An Expiration Date, Would You Renew It?

If your marriage certificate had an expiration date, would you renew it? We both said yes. But the answer matters less than what you do if it's no. Choosing a spouse is one of the biggest decisions in life and people treat it like a joke, picking on what they can see. We talk about trust built from starting at the bottom, why anything destructive is always the easy option, why a wife comes before a mother and why people lost it when I said that, and why our community still treats therapy like an abomination. Grown love, told out loud. New episodes weekly. TIMESTAMP 0:00 Nobody learns from other people's divorces 2:17 The biggest decision people treat like a joke 4:46 Trust, and the rough patch we came through 7:04 We started at the bottom 11:15 Trusting him with me and the kids 14:53 Would you pick the same person again? 18:06 Say it, don't store it 20:13 If your marriage certificate expired, would you renew it? 24:02 Everything bad is easy 24:51 Your wife comes before your mom 28:02 Money, going broke, and how a partner reacts 31:01 Why Ghanaians won't go to therapy 34:12 Reading people before they tell you anything 37:49 The ones who are only performing 44:00 Social media rewards the worst information 46:21 I knew she'd betray you #Grounded #MarriageAdvice #ChoosingAPartner #BlackMarriage #GhanaianPodcast #TherapyStigma #WifeComesFirst #CouplesTalk marriage advice, choosing a spouse, would you marry them again, trust in marriage, wife or mother first, in laws and marriage, black marriage podcast, ghanaian couple, therapy stigma africa, marriage counseling, communication in marriage, married couple podcast, reading people, betrayal, money problems in marriage, african marriage, KJ Mensah, Lady Afya, Grounded podcast, relationship advice couple
4d ago · Bonus Video

Victim Mindset & Bigger Weddings

Two Signs You're Setting Yourself Up to Fail. The bigger the wedding, the bigger the divorce — and after doing it twice, I'm telling you why that's not a coincidence. In this episode we get into it: the victim mindset excuse that's holding people back, a hard look at the politics nobody wants to say out loud, and then we go deep on marriage — why a massive wedding is often a red flag, how having kids changes attraction, and the money conversation every couple needs to have before saying "I do." If you're engaged, married, or just trying to understand relationships and money better, this one's for you. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Victim mindset — stop making excuses 01:06 Politics, welfare & personal responsibility 02:55 Corporate America & the mindset trap 05:25 BLM, immigration & who really benefits 07:48 The bigger the wedding, the bigger the divorce 09:51 How kids change attraction (be honest) 12:16 What a "non-negotiable" wedding really tells you 14:37 Final word 🔔 Subscribe for real talk on relationships, money, and building a life that's actually yours. #Marriage #Divorce #Relationships #RealTalk #Wedding #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalFinance #Mindset #MarriedLife #Marriage #Divorce #Relationships #Wedding #RealTalk #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #MarriageAdvice #PersonalFinance #Mindset #VictimMindset #MarriedLife #RelationshipTips #CoupleGoals #RealConversations #PodcastClips #MensPodcast #TruthTalk #LifeAdvice #StandardsForYourLife big wedding divorce, does wedding size predict divorce, marriage advice, relationship advice, real talk podcast, victim mindset, personal responsibility, marriage and money, financial advice for couples, dating advice for men, relationship podcast, wedding red flags, how kids change attraction, marriage tips, divorce statistics, men's advice podcast, standards podcast, KJ Mensah, real talk relationships, engagement red flags, wedding industrial complex, marriage mindset, couples finance, relationship psychology, mens relationship advice
Jan 1

There Is Still Life Drama | End Of Year Episode

There Is Still Life Drama | End Of Year Episode
Jul 17

Im I Still Reacting

Episode: Am I Still Reacting? Mensa before this recording is considering the possibly restructuring the podcast and questioning whether reaction content still has a place in the show. Before making any final call, he dives into a few more viral clips — including a heated Ghanaian relationship debate about men's financial obligations and entitlement, plus a clash between two very different takes on "value" in relationships: one woman who says simply being a woman is enough, versus another who insists on actively being useful and irreplaceable to her partner. Mensa breaks down why one mindset builds lasting relationships and the other doesn't, all while wrestling with where this show goes next. Want me to tighten it further (e.g., under 200 characters for a platform limit) or make a punchier one-liner version too?
10/19/2025

Older Women Are The Problem ?

ARE MEN HAPPIER WHEN MARRIED WITH KIDS?ARE OLDER WOMEN ARE BITTER BECAUSE THEY RUN OUT OF OPTIONS ?When you know he can’t lead, don’t stay hoping to change him. In this video, KJ Mensah breaks down why dating without direction leads to chaos—and why both men and women lose focus once intimacy starts too soon. We’ll unpack the truth about purpose, leadership, marriage, and why peace—not pleasure—makes men happier.TIMESTAMP00:00 Men are Happier with Family 11:40 Older Women Are Bitter because they run out of options ____________________________________________________PLEASE SEND VIDEO IDEAS TO:TikTok: kj.mensahIG: bythewayitsmensa_____________________________________________________Buy me a drink and support the channel💸CashApp | https://cash.me/$joeykmennPayPal | https://paypal.me/MHFM3nsa_____________________________________________________Hit The LIKE & SUBSCIBE BUTTON GET TO 5000 SUBS!TURN ON YOUR NOTIFICATION 🔔NEW CONTENT DROPPING DAILY_____________________________________________________Disclaimers:Fair use is a legal doctrine that says I can reuse copyright-protected material under certain circumstances without getting permission from the copyright owner.**Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. No copyright infringement intended. ALL RIGHTS BELONG TO THEIR RESPECTIVE OWNERS**All opinions are my own. This video is for entertainmnet & educational purposes only.I do not own the rights to any vidoes I'm reacting to. I'm only stating my opinion about the video My opinions doesn't make it factsThis Channel and my videos are for educational purposes only.Fair UseCopyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act of 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research.Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing.Fair Use DefinitionFair use is a doctrine in United States copyright law that allows limited use of copyrighted material without requiring permission from the rights holders, such as commentary, criticism, news reporting, research, teaching or scholarship. It provides for the legal, non-licensed citation or incorporation of copyrighted material in another author’s work under a four-factor balancing test.#ModernRelationships #DatingAdvice #MarriageTalk #KJMensah #PurposeAndPeace #RelationshipPodcast #Masculinity #FeminineEnergyhttps://youtu.be/xx28UmhYtY0
10/19/2025

Sarah Fontenot | Gender Roles, Money & Leadership

All right, welcome back to Conversations. I have a fun pack today. Literally, I think I have about 10 videos, maybe nine or maybe eight. I think it's about nine or 10. So, we have a lot to go through. If you are first time here, I will I would really appreciate it if you you can give this video a thumbs up. If you want to follow, please go ahead follow, hit a subscribe button, hit that notification button. I really appreciate you for that.Are modern women truly submissive—or only when it benefits them?In today’s episode of Conversations, we dive deep into the selective submission debate:Why do some women claim they want a “leader,” but only follow when it’s fun, comfortable, or financially beneficial?We break down viral clips on modern relationships, money dynamics, feminism vs. femininity, and whether submission has become conditional in 2025 dating culture.TIMESTAMP00: 00 Opener , You Are Supposed to Pay your own Bills 06:48 I only Submit To Men with money 16:19 Can your man ask you to change outfit22:04 Combative Women Don't listen to Men28:03 Women Aren't Submissive Anymore Debate on Pop the balloon💬 Topics Covered:The difference between leadership and control in relationshipsSelective submission vs. consistent partnershipWhy money seems to define respect for some womenThird-wave feminism and the rise of gender wars onlineCan a man who earns less still lead a relationship?👊🏽 Join the conversation, drop your thoughts in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for more real-talk relationship breakdowns and viral debates. #sarahfontenot #kjmensah #modernrelationships #tonightsconversation #kittarose #SubmissionDebate #genderroles #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #RelationshipTalk #Konversations #DatingPodcast #MoneyAndLove #realtalkhttps://youtu.be/-Yrfx8Iaheo
04/06/2024 • STaMens+ Only

A PIECE OF MY TIMELINE

A piece of my 2022 untold incidents.
04/10/2024 • STaMens+ Only

MARRIAGE N SEX. II

Marriage and Sex Series | MarriSex Timestamp 00:00 Intro To Marrisex 02:20 Health is Wealth 13:30 Sexual Future Plans 21:15 Sex FeedBacks 24:25 Sexual Fantasies
08/13/2024

Marriage Isn’t Worth It, PT II

This is not a new conversation, its all over the media. Joey and Stasia continues thier disagreement on the topic of marriage in this DNA. On this episode, the couple addressed all the benefits of getting married in the United States, and if its worth it. Enjoy another great episode, let the couple know your thought on this. 🎧 Listen: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tuxedo-time/id1630503233 Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/6ZugOE7F3vXvXzZTtO6bfM PATREON: https://patreon.com/SSPM3NSA?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

The ByTheWayItsMensa Show Standards for Wealth, Leadership, and Legacy. The ByTheWayItsMensa Show is a weekly conversation about building a life that's actually yours, wealth, leadership, discipline, legacy, mindset, and freedom, with relationships woven in when the moment calls for it. Hosted by KJ.Mensah, author of Standards, this show speaks first to Africans building a life across two continents and Africans building at home, and just as directly to African American listeners and anyone else navigating the same tension between where you come from and who you're becoming. Some weeks it's a solo teaching episode breaking down a real standard to live by. Other weeks it's a listener's own story, a real coaching session, or an honest answer to a question sent in. No guest required, no filler, no performance. Just real talk about building wealth that lasts, leading without losing yourself, discipline that holds when no one's watching, and the kind of legacy and love worth actually building on purpose. New episodes weekly. Standards you can actually keep.

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Self-Improvement

The platform brings you all you need to hear about everything in life. Yes, everything life. Sike, that was a lie, we can't talk about everything but we will try. KJ.Mensah Podcasts discuss everything business, relationship, and health just to name but a few for self-improvement. Discussed topics are everything American, Black, African, and more importantly, Everything Ghanaian! M3nsa|Stasia brings you everything News, Realtionships and all in between. "Unfortunately", the truth cannot be sugar-coated but served Raw. This is the place to be. Very informative but Opinionated.. Join us every week for everything Entertainment, culture..... Well, relationship sits at the door front as we take you on a Journey through ours to spice up yours. You can thank us later. Apple Podcast Subscription provides exclusive content | Uninterrupted Listening | Early access to episodes

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There Is Still Life Drama | End Of Year Episode

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Older Women Are The Problem ?

Sarah Fontenot | Gender Roles, Money & Leadership

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