Benjamin Putnam

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  1. Finally Ready to Confess (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    Sep 18

    Finally Ready to Confess (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    Drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme (Drag Race 6, All-Stars 3) joins Nicole to spill some major breaking news: they've been secretly separated from her partner of 8 years. They talk about the effort it takes to try to stay friends with an ex, the confusing reality of jumping back into the LA dating pool in your mid-40s, and why it's impossible to tell if a guy wants to date you or just wants exclusive Drag Race gossip. Plus, DeLa breaks down her brilliant move to self-eliminate on All-Stars 3, and Nicole reveals the unhinged manifestation trick she used to lock down the nice man in her life. See The Jinkx and DeLa Holiday Show on tour in a city near you! Get tickets and buy the upcoming book at https://www.jinkxanddela.com. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: » Squarespace: Head to https://www.squarespace.com/DATEME to save 50% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME. » Planned Parenthood: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at https://plannedparenthood.org/defend » Hinge: Try Hinge’s new feature, Friend’s Take. Send your link to the group chat and let the people who know you best do the talking. https://www.hin.ge/WhyWontYouDateMe » Betterhelp: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month. Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod  Instagram: @nicolebyer X: @nicolebyer This is a Headgum podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  2. The Good, the Bat and the Ugly

    Sep 9

    The Good, the Bat and the Ugly

    George Santos bets against the house, Harvard Medical School pays an arm and a leg, and one woman’s literal nightmare leaves a bat taste in our mouths.  This week, BenDeLaCreme and Gareth Reynolds open up the Lovett or Leave It advice line. I Don’t Care, I Lovett it lifts a glass to heels, hotel bathtubs, and Matthew Morrison's 9/11 infidelity cabaret. And then bob’s your uncle, it’s time to say goodbye with a round of Second Thoughts. Hate listening to ads? Become a Friends of the Pod subscriber for ad-free episodes of Pod Save America, Pod Save the World, Lovett or Leave It, Runaway Country, Offline with Jon Favreau, and more—plus exclusive content, including bonus episodes of Pod Save America. Subscribe now at crooked.com/friends, on Apple Podcasts, or through the Pod Save America YouTube channel. You can request a transcript by emailing transcripts@crooked.com. Include the podcast name, episode title, and air date. Please allow 48 hours for delivery.

  3. How DeLa Wrote (a) Christmas (book)

    Sep 12

    How DeLa Wrote (a) Christmas (book)

    This week, the ladies are joined by drag icon and AUTHOR, BenDeLaCreme! They talk all things Jinkx & DeLa: How the Queens Made Christmas , DeLa’s debut book out October 20th! Darby and Alexis also compliment her the whole time because they were so nervous to meet her because she’s iconic. Enjoy the episode! Thank you to this episode's sponsor! -Robody: Go to https://RO.CO/imho to see if you qualify. Subscribe: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/channel/UCIdEb15BysFtnW6bi5xnoXw?sub_confirmation=1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Linktree: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktr.ee/imhotheshow?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAae0Kc9V72_edijcSw-DvJ8USoVwlACIGG3rJ83AXEd3fYdzkYPEq2RjCBauAg_aem_ozmic2hgNlmTeNdWPehcdw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Watch the NEWEST videos: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJfepHa7s_TMEV-nhHkF7YjP6DpSd_ncW&si=jcGeJ9KoKtxJ_xk6⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Tip us! Venmo: @IMHOtheSHOW CashApp: $IMHOtheSHOW PayPal: www.paypal.me/iLoveIMHOtheSHOW Call us! 1-224-216-2474 Follow IMHO: The Show: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/imhotheshow/?hl=en⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠tiktok.com/@imhotheshow⁠⁠⁠⁠ Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/imhotheshow⁠⁠⁠⁠ Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠dragqueenmerch.com/collections/imho⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch More IMHO: The Show: Drag Race Recaps | IMHO: The Show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJfepHa7s_TPS0GWqKsA5gGNqiAwU2ApV&si=i69LEHk8vrt19y_M&playnext=1&index=2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twinnuendo | IMHO: The Show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJfepHa7s_TONM8XGr0wi-Vi9wLbb-Maf&si=5qJJeStcDbI7phSU&playnext=1&index=2 Newest Videos: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJfepHa7s_TMEV-nhHkF7YjP6DpSd_ncW&si=jcGeJ9KoKtxJ_xk6&playnext=1&index=2⁠⁠⁠⁠ About IMHO: The Show: Welcome to the official IMHO: The Show YouTube channel! Homosexual opinions from Darby Lynn Cartwright & Alexis Bevels. We watch TV so you don't have to! On this channel, you’ll find a variety of content including IMHO: The Podcast, Drag Race Recaps, Twinnuendo, and more. Make sure to subscribe and enable ALL notifications! For instant updates, check out the social media accounts above. #IMHO #IMHOtheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  4. HOT GOSS #102: All Stars Ruveal, Race Chaser Live Tour 2022, and British Accent Bamboozlement (w/ Bendelacreme)

    06/04/2021

    HOT GOSS #102: All Stars Ruveal, Race Chaser Live Tour 2022, and British Accent Bamboozlement (w/ Bendelacreme)

    Willam and Alaska have all the piping hot tevantra on the All Stars 6 Ruveal, announce their 2022 live podcast tour, and are joined by Bendelacreme who shares the truth about her ability to do a British accent. Plus these divas are ready for fourteen months of attention in a single hour. Get your tickets for the Race Chaser Live Tour UK Dates 2022 www.racechaserlive.com Listen to Race Chaser Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus Follow us on IG at @racechaserpod and click the link in bio for a list of organizations you can donate to in support of Black Lives Matter Rainbow Spotlight: Priyanka - Cake FOLLOW ALASKA https://twitter.com/Alaska5000 https://www.instagram.com/theonlyalaska5000 https://www.facebook.com/AlaskaThunder https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9vnKqhNky1BcWqXbDs0NAQ FOLLOW WILLAM https://twitter.com/willam https://www.instagram.com/willam https://www.facebook.com/willam https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrO9hj5VqGJufBlVJy-8D1g RACE CHASER IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  5. I Haven’t Posted In A Week (w/ BenDelaCreme)

    03/08/2024

    I Haven’t Posted In A Week (w/ BenDelaCreme)

    Big Dipper and Meatball are joined by international drag superstar BenDelaCreme to talk about the joys of her creative process, what it’s like to make independent content, and why people think she’s so respectable. Plus they listen to lots of your unhinged voicemails. Get it together, callers!! Check out bendelacreme.com for all things Dela! Get your tickets for Sloppy Seconds Live in Brooklyn on April 7th at www.thesultanroom.com Listen to Sloppy Seconds Ad-Free AND One Day Early on MOM Plus Call us with your sex stories at 213-536-9180! Or e-mail us at sloppysecondspod@gmail.com FOLLOW SLOPPY SECONDS FOLLOW BIG DIPPER FOLLOW MEATBALL SLOPPY SECONDS IS A FOREVER DOG AND MOGULS OF MEDIA (M.O.M.) PODCAST Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  6. Drag Is Not Good Inherently (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    01/15/2021

    Drag Is Not Good Inherently (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    Meatball and Big Dipper talk with world famous drag queen BenDeLaCreme about moving to LA at the beginning of the pandemic, creating the independent film “The Jinkx and DeLa Holiday Special,” and explore the inspirational moments of Burlesque that helped shaped DeLa’s understanding of performance and drag. Plus they awkwardly talk about doing sex stuff. Also check out hipdot.com to order Meatball's new makeup palette!  Listen to Sloppy Seconds Ad-Free AND One Day Early on Forever Dog Plus Call us with your sex stories at 213-536-9180! Or e-mail us at sloppysecondspod@gmail.com FOLLOW SLOPPY SECONDS FOLLOW BIG DIPPER FOLLOW MEATBALL SLOPPY SECONDS IS A FOREVER DOG AND MOGULS OF MEDIA (M.O.M.) PODCAST Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  7. The Cult of RuPaul's Drag Race

    09/20/2022

    The Cult of RuPaul's Drag Race

    If you don’t worship at the altar of this week’s “cult,” then simply sashay away! One of the most intense, vicious, fabulous reality TV fandoms in history is that of the competition show that put drag queens on the mainstream map: RuPaul’s Drag Race. Season 6 and All-Star queen BenDeLaCreme joins Isa and Amanda to offer an inside look at the most cult-like aspects of Drag Race, from the time she was physically stalked by a fan to the producers’ truly bonkers manipulation techniques. The tea is piping hot!!! For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/CULT Go to Zocdoc.com/CULT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code cult50 Check out jordanharbinger.com/start for some episode recommendations, OR search for The Jordan Harbinger Show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  8. “Three Hundred’s Company” w. Jinkx Monsoon and BenDeLaCreme

    10/18/2023

    “Three Hundred’s Company” w. Jinkx Monsoon and BenDeLaCreme

    Ira and Louis celebrate 300 episodes by discussing The Eras Tour movie, Jada Pinkett Smith, Troye Sivan’s new album, Ice Spice reverence for critics, and social media echo chambers. Drag icons Jinkx Monsoon and BenDeLaCreme join to discuss their creative inspirations, what the find funny, and crafting The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Tour. Plus, Ira and Louis blind rank pop culture and answer pressing listener questions.    Subscribe to Keep It on YouTube to catch full episodes, exclusive content, and other community events. Find us there at YouTube.com/@KeepItPodcast

  9. HOT GOSS #47: Suck Less Face and Body, States are re-opening? and WQUR (w/ Ben DeLaCreme)

    05/01/2020

    HOT GOSS #47: Suck Less Face and Body, States are re-opening? and WQUR (w/ Ben DeLaCreme)

    Alaska and Willam dive deep into gossip, conjecture, and the DM's, joined by special guest, Ben DeLaCreme! Listen to Race Chaser Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus Check out Ben DeLaCreme's new podcast WQUR: Queer Quarantine Radio at patreon.com/wqur FOLLOW ALASKA https://twitter.com/Alaska5000 https://www.instagram.com/theonlyalaska5000 https://www.facebook.com/AlaskaThunder https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9vnKqhNky1BcWqXbDs0NAQ FOLLOW WILLAM https://twitter.com/willam https://www.instagram.com/willam https://www.facebook.com/willam https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrO9hj5VqGJufBlVJy-8D1g HOT GOSS IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/race-chaser/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  10. BenDeLaCreme

    10/06/2021

    BenDeLaCreme

    This week Busy and Caissie discuss how the after-effects of Busy’s retreat are holding up. Is she still feeling the bliss? Caissie talks about what she thinks is the difference between a job and a calling, and somebody cries a couple times. You’ll find out who! Then, the truly wonderful BenDeLaCreme swings through to talk about RuPaul’s Drag Race, making movies and the many pivots that have shaped her life. SPONSORS: Jinjer.us/BEST for 20% off 1st order of Jinjer Oil AthleticGreens.com/BUSY for free 1 yr supply of Vit D & 5 free travel packs DrinkBev.com/BUSY for 20% off 1st purchase Framebridge.com/OURBEST for 15% off 1st order OliveAndJune.com PROMO CODE: BEST for 20% off 1st mani system Shop.AnaLuisa.com/BEST PROMO CODE: BEST for 10% off Get full access to A Bear on a Wire at busyphilippsisdoingherbest.substack.com/subscribe

  11. Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    05/22/2020

    Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    BenDeLaCreme (RuPaul's Drag Race, RPDR All Stars) chats about how he deals with other people's traumas, getting gaslight by their therapist, and whats it's like to move in with a new boyfriend right before the pandemic. Plus, he explains his initial excitement to attain Race Chasers, and what made him so angry before his proposal. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  12. BenDeLaCreme

    11/17/2021

    BenDeLaCreme

    Jinkx is joined by her friend of 12 years, BenDeLaCreme, for an intimate conversation! They chat all things their new holiday show, their long lasting friendship, hookups, secrets, and behind the scenes tea. Plus, they answer some of your questions like "Has there been a moment that almost ruined the friendship?" So hit the play button! Listen to Hi Jinkx Ad-Free AND One Day Early on Forever Dog Plus FOLLOW JINKX Website Instagram Twitter FOLLOW MOM PODCASTS HI JINKX! IS A FOREVER DOG AND MOGULS OF MEDIA (M.O.M.) PODCAST Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  13. BenDeLaCreme on Anti-LGBTQ Bills & the Drag Defense Fund

    03/25/2023

    BenDeLaCreme on Anti-LGBTQ Bills & the Drag Defense Fund

    "I am acting this gay no matter what happens around me." BenDeLaCreme, star of "RuPaul’s Drag Race," discusses how limiting access to drag and LGBTQ+ spaces won't limit queerness in children, how drag performers have historically uplifted and fought for the queer community, and the ACLU's Drag Defense Fund. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  14. BenDeLaCreme, Lo Mein and Lobster

    12/21/2018

    BenDeLaCreme, Lo Mein and Lobster

    Drag queen BenDeLaCreme is "sweet as pie and sharp as cheddar." And Ben, who plays "DeLa," has a lot to say about food. So what would this RuPaul's Drag Race All-Star want for his last meal? (Answer: a nostalgic buffet of his favorite New England foods.) Do you order lo mein or chow mein? It probably depends on what coast you live on! We explore the differences between east coast, midwest & west coast American-style Chinese food with “Chinese Soul Food” cookbook author  Hsiao-Ching Chou and “The Search For General Tso“ producer Jennifer 8 Lee (a guest from our very first episode). Also, Ben shares his favorite cartoon foods, the trashy treat his mom used to make him which inspires some very odd childhood favorites from our listeners, and Ben outs his dear friend, Drag Race winner Jinkx Monsoon, for having an Easy Mac addiction. BenDeLaCreme is wrapping up a run of holiday shows in Seattle with Jinkx Monsoon called "To Jesus, Thanks for Everything" - and then they perform in Portland and San Francisco just after the holidays. Go to BenDeLaCreme's Facebook page for tickets. Follow yourlastmealpodcast on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Support Cascade PBS: https://secure.cascadepublicmedia.org/page/133995/donate/1/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  15. The Jinkx Monsoon Interview (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    08/03/2022 • Subscribers Only

    The Jinkx Monsoon Interview (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

    It is a very special episode of "Hi Jinkx" as BenDeLaCreme interviews Jinkx after winning Rupaul's Drag Race All Stars 7! They chat her time on the show, her win, Veteran Dave, hosting SNL, and so much more. Plus, Jinkx opens up about Ru forgetting her name at DragCon. So sink your teeth into this new episode of Hi Jinkx! Listen to Hi Jinkx Ad-Free AND One Day Early on MOM Plus FOLLOW JINKX Website Instagram Twitter FOLLOW MOM PODCASTS HI JINKX! IS A FOREVER DOG AND MOGULS OF MEDIA (M.O.M.) PODCAST Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  16. Hoe, Hoe, Hoe Ft. BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon

    11/15/2019

    Hoe, Hoe, Hoe Ft. BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon

    Bryan and Chris are back and they are pissed at Madonna. They start by discussing the icon’s chronic lateness on her tour and the fans that are suing her for it. Next, a listener writes in wondering how to be comfortable being less masculine. Later, they are joined by BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon to discuss RuPaul’s Drag Race, their new touring show All I Want For Christmas Is Attention, and play a round of C**k It or Block It. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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