My father died in prison. In this episode of The Collier Landry Show, I talk about the complicated reality of what that means for me: the grief, the relief, the confusion, the old wounds, and the strange finality of losing the man who murdered my mother and shaped so much of my life through trauma. This isn’t a simple story, and it isn’t a simple loss. I share what happened when I got the call, how I navigated conversations with prison staff and family, what it brought up emotionally, and why this moment feels like both an ending and the beginning of something else. I also talk about guilt, unresolved grief, generational trauma, and the ritual I may create with my father’s ashes as a way to finally put part of this story to rest. If you’ve ever had to grieve someone who also caused deep harm, this conversation is for you. Welcome to The Collier Landry Show, where we explore healing, creativity, and the real work of building a meaningful life after trauma. Ways you can support this podcast: ➡️ Buy Me A Coffee https://www.buymeacoffee.com/collierlandry ➡️ Amazon Affiliate: https://www.amazon.com/shop/collierlandry ➡️ VENMO: https://www.venmo.com/u/collier-landry ➡️ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/collierlandry ➡️ Merch Store: https://www.collierlandry.com/store IG 📸: https://instagram.com/@collierlandry Episode Highlights: 00:00 Hospital wake-up call 00:26 My father died 00:55 Missed calls and the 4 a.m. shock 03:09 Parole, anger, and unresolved fear 05:25 The ventilator decision 07:18 Prison rules, letters, and reality 09:15 Family calls and travel stress 13:17 My sister and saying goodbye 15:43 The contradiction of who he was in prison 19:08 Cancer, decline, and the speed of death 22:00 Support messages and old wounds 24:57 Therapy, grief waves, and what this stirred up 27:28 No deathbed confession 29:38 Ashes, ritual, and closure 31:52 Ending the cycle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
