Bryan Safi

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  1. Best of 2025!

    10H AGO

    Best of 2025!

    Happy Holidays to all our listeners! We're off this week but have compiled some of the best bits from the year for your listening pleasure. We hope we've been entertaining and informative and that you'll join us again in 2026! Our Patreon bonus episodes continue through the holidays! For more content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 57m
  2. The 2025 Holiday Spectacular!

    DEC 18

    The 2025 Holiday Spectacular!

    We're happy to bring back our annual tradition of welcoming some of our favorites into our holiday home before the winter break! Punam Patel reveals what underrated department store she purchased her outfit from at a local dead mall, Pete Zias tells the tale of a stolen Labubu , Darby and Alexis from IMHO: The Show are taking Metamucil gummies to stay regular, Mano Agapion educates Erin on Sniffies, and Michelle Collins advises us on which designers to buy from and avoid. For this week's Dateline Recap visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 55m
  3. Back to Front: Hosting Tips with Paget Brewster (Free Feed 11)

    5D AGO · BONUS

    Back to Front: Hosting Tips with Paget Brewster (Free Feed 11)

    Let's go back in time. Back...to the front! As a little bonus treat, join us in the Time Machine as we revisit the earliest days of Ask Ronna. This week we go back to the very start of 2020. Ronna (& Bryan) are joined by Paget Brewster (Criminal Minds, Drunk History) in The Carriage House in Marblehead this week. They answer listener questions on how to give your partner attention while also traveling for work, what to do when your neighbor isn't taking care of their cat, and how to let your pool boy know he's not doing a great job.

    1h 43m
  4. Yadvina's Keys to The Carriage House: Oh, Penelope Jean, How Could You? (Patreon 266)

    2D AGO · BONUS

    Yadvina's Keys to The Carriage House: Oh, Penelope Jean, How Could You? (Patreon 266)

    Before Yadvina leaves for her holiday weekend in Boca Raton, she's agreed to give you a little sneak peek and let you inside The Patreon Carriage House. From August 8, 2025 - Hi, Rhonda! We've got a great show this week, especially for the many, many Brian Dennehy fans we no doubt have in The Carriage House. After a quick recap of the David Geffen divorce drama (and it really is a drama, excuse me), Ronna (& Bryan) tackle a cliffhanger about how to be a better wing-woman for your single friends.  Don't miss the social event of the Ask Ronna year in 2026! Join us at Lonely Hearts Live in New York for what promises to be a Valentine spectacular! We'll at the Bell House in Brooklyn on Saturday, February 7th, at 7:30pm. Be there! askronnalive.com

    38 min
  5. 280 - Head On Down Bing Way with Special Guest Host Casey Wilson

    DEC 16

    280 - Head On Down Bing Way with Special Guest Host Casey Wilson

    Wait a minute. It's our season finale, and while Ronna isn't able to join us this week, we've got a guest host that'll knock your socks off. Joining (Bryan) is one of our dearest friends on earth - Casey Wilson! Of course you know Casey from her podcast work with the equally fabulous Danielle Schneider at Casey and Danielle's Garbage World (basically their own network, pardon me), where you can listen to BITCH SESH and so much more. In fact, they've started a project called REWIND SESH, which (Bryan) just appeared on, where they rewatch season one of RHONY. And if that wasn't enough, their holiday special TREE TIME is available now. Casey (& Bryan) give advice this week on a question of art, how to tell your sister-in-law you don't want to travel with her, and proper towel etiquette when you're a houseguest. It's our season finale, so we'll see you again in mid-January. But in the interim, there are still a few tickets left to LONELY HEARTS LIVE IN NEW YORK! Join us in Brooklyn on February 7th for what promises to be the Carriage House social event of the season. askronnalive.com Sponsors: Imagine if edibles just made you feel good instead of too high. With Lumi Gummies, it's possible! Go to lumigummies.com and use code RONNA for 30% off your first order. Available nationwide! Take comfort in Born Shoes! Go to bornshoes.com and use RONNA for 15% off plus free ground shipping on all full price shoes.

    1h 7m
  6. LinkedIn Algorithm, Lavender Scare, Bad Haircuts and Truffle Pigs

    DEC 11

    LinkedIn Algorithm, Lavender Scare, Bad Haircuts and Truffle Pigs

    This week Bryan is upset over his short haircut, and Erin's back from her trip to Italy where she got her fill of truffles and was made fun of by flight attendants because of her hairstyle. Erin covers how women are exposing the "bro-coding" algorithm on LinkedIn by changing their gender marker from female to male and seeing an increase in their reach and visibilty on the networking platform. Bryan discusses the modern day Lavender Scare and how right-wing influencers and government officials are on the hunt for "woke" government employees and policies and firing people for how they identify. For additional hours of bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    57 min
  7. 279 - Hi, Meliss! with Chloe Radcliffe

    DEC 9

    279 - Hi, Meliss! with Chloe Radcliffe

    Now wait a minute. Our guest this week, who's quickly become one of our best friends, pardon me, is quite the little dealmaker. Just ask her landlord! Joining us is the delightful Chloe Radcliffe! You know Chloe from her numerous stand up appearances as well as in Steven Soderbergh's COMMAND Z. She's been named one of Just For Laughs' New Faces of 2025 and will appear in Bradley Cooper's new film IS THIS THING ON? You can also catch her in Denver tonight at Denver Comedy Underground as well as in New York this Friday 12/12 at Ars Nova. Chloe joins us to give advice on what happens when a friend refuses to give you a hot guy's phone number and whether or not you need to shed your quirky ways as you age. If any tickets are left to LONELY HEARTS LIVE in New York, you better grab them quick! We'll be there Saturday February 7th at the Bell House in Brooklyn, and it's guaranteed to be a Valentine's event to remember! Sponsors: Take comfort in Born Shoes! Go to bornshoes.com and use RONNA for 15% off plus free ground shipping on all full price shoes. We've said it before, but if you're looking for the best chocolate chip cookies on Earth, you'll find them at Showstopper Cookies! Go to showstoppercookies.com and use code RONNA for 20% off your order, available to be shipped nationwide! And they make for an amazing gift, pardon me. Want chef-crafted recipes and high quality ingredients delivered straight to your door? You need Hello Fresh! Go to hellofresh.com/ronna10fm for TEN free meals plus free breakfast for life!

    1h 34m
  8. Back to Front: The Ghost of Ronnukah Past (Ronnukah 2019)

    DEC 13 · BONUS

    Back to Front: The Ghost of Ronnukah Past (Ronnukah 2019)

    Let's go back in time. Back...to the front! As a little bonus treat, join us in the Time Machine as we revisit the earliest days of Ask Ronna. This week we thought it would be fun to revisit our VERY FIRST Ronnukah from the 2019 holiday season. Experience the magic and wonder of Ronna (& Bryan)'s first ever gift list. If you're still looking for last minute gifting advice, you might find it here, even if it's from six years ago, excuse me.

    2h 6m
  9. Same Sex Marriage Rulings in Japan and the EU, Rockettes and the American Girl Doll Store with Guest Host Naomi Ekperigin!

    DEC 4

    Same Sex Marriage Rulings in Japan and the EU, Rockettes and the American Girl Doll Store with Guest Host Naomi Ekperigin!

    While Erin is out of town Bryan is joined by friend of the show Naomi Ekperigin this week! We discuss what we did for Thanksgiving, and how Bryan spent last week with his family doing a tour of NYC including the Radio City Christmas Spectacular and an investigative report on how the American Girl Doll Store is one big scam. Bryan covers a recent ruling in Japan which upheld a same-sex marriage ban, and how the European Union's highest court ruled that member countries must recognize same-sex marriages between two citizens even if their home country does not have marriage equality laws in place. Listen to Naomi's podcast Couples Therapy, watch St. Denis Medical Monday Nights on NBC or on Peacock and get tickets to her December 28th zoom comedy show A Night of Cinema with Naomi and Megan here! For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    55 min
  10. 278 - Listen, Hoes with Mandell Maughan

    DEC 2

    278 - Listen, Hoes with Mandell Maughan

    Now wait a minute, We've been chasing this particular guest for a while, and when we finally got her in The Carriage House, we knew we'd made a great decision, excuse me. Joining us this week is the utterly delightful Mandell Maughan!  You know Mandell from shows like ME, MYSELF, AND I and RESIDENT ALIEN. And, of course, one of our favorites, BAJILLION DOLLAR PROPERTIE$. You can catch her in January in the upcoming Netflix comedy FREE BERT. Mandell helps us give advice on spending Christmas alone and how to handle a spouse who might not have the best dining etiquette. Join us for THE Ask Ronna social event of the year, LIVE and in person in New York! LONELY HEARTS LIVE is coming to the Bell House in Brooklyn on Saturday, February 7th. If you missed us in Boston, here's your chance to be part of Carriage House history. It is NOT to be missed! Tickets at askronnalive.com  Sponsor: We've said it before, but if you're looking for the best chocolate chip cookies on Earth, you'll find them at Showstopper Cookies! Go to showstoppercookies.com and use code RONNA for 20% off your order, available to be shipped nationwide! And they make for an amazing gift, pardon me. Take comfort in Born Shoes! Go to bornshoes.com and use RONNA for 15% off plus free ground shipping on all full price shoes.

    1h 38m
  11. Back to Front: Ring In the New Year with Ronna (& Bryan) (Free Feed 10)

    DEC 6 · BONUS

    Back to Front: Ring In the New Year with Ronna (& Bryan) (Free Feed 10)

    Let's go back in time. Back...to the front! As a little bonus treat, join us in the Time Machine as we revisit the earliest days of Ask Ronna. This week we go back to the tail end of 2019. It's just Ronna (& Bryan) in The Carriage House as they answer listener questions and prep for the new year. They give advice on how to confront noisy neighbors, how to make New Year’s special if you're staying in, and how to overcome imposter syndrome in a new job. Plus, Ronna walks you step-by-step through the Swiss First Class experience.

    1h 49m
  12. 277 - Ronnukah 2025

    NOV 22

    277 - Ronnukah 2025

    It's the most wonderful time of the year - Ronnukah! Can you believe it's already here? Our gift suggestions are thoughtful, unique, fun, and, above all, chic, pardon me. It's a high/low extravaganza at all price points, and we had a BLAST putting it together for you! Enjoy! Our FANTASY picks will be available EXCLUSIVELY on patreon.com/askronna Members of the Private Reserve will get our Shades of Vanilla Newsletter which is our official Ronnukah compendium; a comprehensive list of everything we mention in the episode, including where to buy it. And if that wasn't enough, we've also got a special gift (or two) of our own for you.  Our elves have concocted quite the treats this season; our Winter Warmer Box! Stay cozy and warm this holiday, and then come celebrate the season with us in The Carriage House at the Holiday Kiki. You'll get all the ingredients and accoutrements to make an INCREDIBLE Irish Coffee: Five Farms Irish Cream, Shanky's Whip Whisky Liquer, Partners Coffee, a frother, and an elegant Irish coffee mug with our signature leopard.  If you're already an ARSC member, you'll get this as your quarterly box. If you're not yet a member, act now as quantities are VERY limited! ronnukah.com Coffee not your thing? Another offering: Our our annual Bubbles Box! A FABULOUS Crémant de Savoie, one of our stunning gold ARSC x Viski champagne stoppers (one of the highest quality items we've ever offered), along with Ronna's latke recipe. Details at ronnukah.com And finally, we can neither confirm or deny quite yet, but if you're looking for something to do on Saturday, February 7th, or planning to gift an EXPERIENCE this holiday season, your favorite podcast mayyyy be doing a Lonely Hearts Show LIVE in NYC. Watch this space for details! Sponsor: Looking for a great holiday gift? Take comfort in Born Shoes. Go to bornshoes.com and use code RONNA for 15% off plus free ground shipping on all full price shoes.

    2h 12m
  13. Gods of Egypt w/ Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi (HDTGM Matinee)

    FEB 4

    Gods of Egypt w/ Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi (HDTGM Matinee)

    Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi of the Attitudes podcast joins Paul and Jason in-studio to discuss the 2016 Fantasy film Gods of Egypt. Is it a good sign when the opening narration isn’t confident in remembering the plot of the movie? What was the sphinx saying? Why doesn’t Gerard Butler’s accent stay consistent throughout the movie? All of this and more is covered as they get deep into this green screen adventure. (Originally released 8/19/16) • Go to hdtgm.com for tour dates, merch, FAQs, and more• Have a Last Looks correction or omission? Call 619-PAULASK to leave us a voicemail!• Submit your Last Looks theme song to us here• Join the HDTGM conversation on Discord: discord.gg/hdtgm• Buy merch at howdidthisgetmade.dashery.com/• Order Paul’s book about his childhood: Joyful Recollections of Trauma• Shop our new hat collection at podswag.com• Paul’s Discord: discord.gg/paulscheer• Paul’s YouTube page: youtube.com/paulscheer• Follow Paul on Letterboxd: letterboxd.com/paulscheer• Subscribe to Enter The Dark Web w/ Paul & Rob Huebel: youtube.com/@enterthedarkweb• Listen to Unspooled with Paul & Amy Nicholson: unspooledpodcast.com• Listen to The Deep Dive with June & Jessica St. Clair: thedeepdiveacademy.com/podcast• Instagram: @hdtgm, @paulscheer, & @junediane• Twitter: @hdtgm, @paulscheer, & msjunediane  • Jason is not on social media• Episode transcripts available at how-did-this-get-made.simplecast.com/episodes Get access to all the podcasts you love, music channels and radio shows with the SiriusXM App! Get 3 months free using the link: siriusxm.com/hdtgm Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 7m
  14. Gay Marriage Support in Decline, Menopause Treatment Changes, Cigarettes and Books from the 1930s

    NOV 20

    Gay Marriage Support in Decline, Menopause Treatment Changes, Cigarettes and Books from the 1930s

    This week Erin shares her new hobby of reading rare books from the 1930s, and Bryan gets back to smoking on the set of a short film in New York. Bryan covers annual polls from YouGov/The Economist and Gallup showing support for gay marriage and trans rights is at its lowest level in the last 10 years. Erin discusses how the NHS in the UK is now including menopause screening in routine health checks, plus how the FDA is removing black box warnings from most menopausal therapy products. To subscribe to Erin's Substack click here. For tickets to Dead Pilots Society on 12/7 in LA click here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 6m
  15. Matinee Monday: The Snowman LIVE! (w/ Bryan Safi & Erin Gibson)

    08/14/2023

    Matinee Monday: The Snowman LIVE! (w/ Bryan Safi & Erin Gibson)

    Bryan Safi & Erin Gibson (Attitudes! podcast) join Paul and Jason to discuss the 2017 psychological crime thriller The Snowman starring Michael Fassbender and Rebecca Ferguson. LIVE from Largo in Los Angeles, they discuss the name Harry Hole, how nobody ever mentions there's a snowman at every crime scene, the coffee bean torture scene, and more. Plus, we hear some exclusive behind the scenes info from someone who worked on the film. (Originally released 03/14/2019) • Go to hdtgm.com for tour dates, merch, FAQs, and more• Have a Last Looks correction or omission? Call 619-PAULASK to leave us a voicemail!• Submit your Last Looks theme song to us here• Join the HDTGM conversation on Discord: discord.gg/hdtgm• Buy merch at howdidthisgetmade.dashery.com/• Order Paul’s book about his childhood: Joyful Recollections of Trauma• Shop our new hat collection at podswag.com• Paul’s Discord: discord.gg/paulscheer• Paul’s YouTube page: youtube.com/paulscheer• Follow Paul on Letterboxd: letterboxd.com/paulscheer• Subscribe to Enter The Dark Web w/ Paul & Rob Huebel: youtube.com/@enterthedarkweb• Listen to Unspooled with Paul & Amy Nicholson: unspooledpodcast.com• Listen to The Deep Dive with June & Jessica St. Clair: thedeepdiveacademy.com/podcast• Instagram: @hdtgm, @paulscheer, & @junediane• Twitter: @hdtgm, @paulscheer, & msjunediane  • Jason is not on social media• Episode transcripts available at how-did-this-get-made.simplecast.com/episodes Get access to all the podcasts you love, music channels and radio shows with the SiriusXM App! Get 3 months free using the link: siriusxm.com/hdtgm Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 56m
  16. Dateline Recap: The Prince, The Whiz Kid & The Millionaire

    NOV 27

    Dateline Recap: The Prince, The Whiz Kid & The Millionaire

    Happy Thanksgiving! We're off this week but we wanted to share one of our recent favorite Dateline Recaps from behind the paywall! Palm Springs, big hair, adult film stars, celebrities, and an iconic local journalist who we'd marry in a heartbeat. The gayest Dateline we've ever covered. Dateline Season 34, Episode 3. A group of conspirators, including a self-proclaimed Nepalese prince, defraud and kill a retired art collector and legendary Palm Springs socialite in one of the longest and most expensive missing-persons investigations in California history. For more Dateline Recaps and additional bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    52 min
  17. New York Times Blaming Women in the Workplace, Kim Davis’ Supreme Court Defeat, Austin, Erewhon Smoothies and Digi-Annie

    NOV 13

    New York Times Blaming Women in the Workplace, Kim Davis’ Supreme Court Defeat, Austin, Erewhon Smoothies and Digi-Annie

    Erin is dehydrated after her visit to Austin, Bryan befriends his Erewhon-going seatmates on a flight to New York, plus some balm/SPF talk and a celebration of the results from last week’s elections.  Erin discusses the NYT Opinion interview with three feminist conservative bootlickers titled “Did Liberal Feminism Ruin the Workplace”.  Bryan brings us some cautious optimism with Kim Davis’ defeat with the Supreme Court declining to take up her case against Obergefell v. Hodges and the right to same-sex marriage, but how it doesn’t necessarily set a precedent and could still be brought up again in the future. For hours of bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 14m
  18. Javier Milei, Gender Pay Gap Widening, Slow Horses and Great Aunt Tiny

    NOV 6

    Javier Milei, Gender Pay Gap Widening, Slow Horses and Great Aunt Tiny

    This week Erin goes horseback riding which causes Bryan's childhood equine trauma to resurface.  Bryan discusses Argentinian President Javier Milei's Trump-style crusade against "LGBTQ+ ideology" and his ban on gender affirming care.  Erin covers the gender pay gap which has widened for a second year in a row due to women being forced back into the office post-COVID and losing work from home benefits which aided in caring for their families.  For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    55 min
  19. Church of Norway Apologizes, The Tech Right's Phyllis Schlafly, The Rachel and I'll See You At The Botanical Garden, Bitch.

    OCT 23

    Church of Norway Apologizes, The Tech Right's Phyllis Schlafly, The Rachel and I'll See You At The Botanical Garden, Bitch.

    This week Erin and Bryan are both enjoying the fall weather in Santa Fe and New York, sharing some recent restaurant experiences, what it's like being interrupted by Boomers, and reminisce about The Rachel haircut. Bryan discusses The Church of Norway apologizing to the LGBTQ+ community for decades of discrimination, and for causing shame, harm and pain, plus Houston removing a rainbow crosswalk memorial and Snoop Dogg making amends after recent comments about the lesbian storyline in Pixar's Lightyear. Erin tears into the Tech Right Phyllis Schlafly - Katherine Boyle - who's been helped by the feminist movement but wants to tear down those pathways for those coming up behind her, plus local candidates in upcoming elections you should know about and support. Subscribe to Erin's Substack Get tickets to Bryan's final Are You Mad At Me in LA on 11/3! To get this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 10m
  20. Female World Leaders, Newsom Bill Vetos, and a Happy Hallowqueen!

    OCT 30

    Female World Leaders, Newsom Bill Vetos, and a Happy Hallowqueen!

    It's All Hallows' Eve and Erin and Bryan are dressed as everyone's favorite 90s home decorator and TV psychic for the occasion. Plus, everyone's favorite game - spin that wig! Erin shines a spotlight on two world leaders on opposite ends of the political spectrum: Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi who is shepherding a new wave of conservatism in Japan, and Catherine Connolly the left wing, anti-establishment President-Elect of Ireland. Bryan covers California Governor Gavin Newsom's latest disappointments in vetoing two bills that would have increased access to PrEP and gender affirming care. For tickets to Bryan's final Are You Mad at Me? in LA on 11/3 click here. Subscribe to Erin's Substack here. For more of our bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 1m
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