Connect With Your Teens | Conversation Starters, Parenting Tips, Screen Time, Build Connection, Communication Skills

Terri Lee | Christian Parenting Coach, Communication Specialist, & B.A. Social Work
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*****TOP 2.5% GLOBAL PODCAST***** The go-to podcast for Christian moms who want deeper connection with their teens. Are you tired of feeling dismissed every time your teen pulls out their phone mid-conversation? Do conversations with your teen feel more like nagging sessions than real connection? Is your teen shut down, distracted, or glued to a screen… while you’re desperate to build trust and keep your relationship strong? I’m so excited you’re here! This podcast will help you move from walking on eggshells to having real, trust-building conversations—without the nagging, misunderstandings or push-back. My mission is to equip you to communicate with tools that replace frustration with understanding, turn tension into trust, and help you become the mom your teen feels safe opening up to. Hi, I’m Terri Lee. A wife, mom, tutu, and communication coach. For years, I thought the key to raising my kids well was teaching the right lessons, taking them to church, and trying to fix their behavior. But instead of building connections it only led to frustration, distance, and feeling like my words didn’t matter. I realized that to have deep, lasting connections—both now and after my kids left home—I needed to change how I communicated. So, I did. I learned to listen without criticism, speak in a way my kids felt safe, and build thriving relationships. Now, I help moms do the same, and I can’t wait to share it with you! If you’re looking for practical ways to talk to your teen, build a relationship based on mutual respect, and get them off their phones long enough to connect—this show is for you. Grab your latte and let’s dive into it. Want to stay connected? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com

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    27 | Why Your Teen Goes Silent When You Ask Questions (And How to Fix It)

    When was the last time your well-meaning questions turned your teen into a brick wall? If you’re tired of watching your teen shut down, walk away, or give one-word answers, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, we’re uncovering why the way you ask can actually create more distance—and how one simple shift can open the door to real connection. Every mom wants to know what’s happening in their teen’s life, but even with the best intentions, sometimes our approach makes them pull away instead of draw near. You’ll learn: ✔️ Why questions make your teen go silent ✔️ Three key shifts that turn questions into safe invitations ✔️ A simple approach that transforms conversation into connection If you’ve been longing for deeper conversations with your teen, this episode will give you a fresh perspective and practical steps you need to create conversations your teen actually wants to have. Resources & Links: ✨ Join the FB Community: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly tips, encouragement, and be the first to know of upcoming events: Weekly Newsletter ✨ Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💬 Leave a Review so moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://bit.ly/ConnectWithYourTeensPodcast

    8 min

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    26 | Why Your Teen’s Connection Tank is Running On Empty and What You Can Do To Fill It

    Is your teen’s constant pull toward devices and friends leaving you feeling shut out? Do you worry that you’re losing the bond you once had with your child? What if their need for connection is actually God’s design calling out to you?  Ever feel like your teen is slipping away—spending more time on their phone, retreating to their room, or turning to friends and social media instead of you? You’re not alone. In this heartfelt episode, Terri opens up about why your teen’s connection tank might be running on empty and what you can do to refill it—starting today. Discover the biblical foundation for connection, the hidden reasons your teen may be seeking it in unhealthy places, and simple, everyday ways you can rebuild trust, strengthen communication, and create the safe space your child is desperately longing for. Because connection isn’t optional. It’s part of God’s original design—and when you pursue it, you give your teen the gift of being truly seen, known, and loved. 👉 Inside this episode you’ll learn: Why connection is essential to your teen’s well-being (and not just “nice to have”). How God models connection through His pursuit of us—even when we mess up. What today’s teens are saying about their parents, devices, and what they really want most. Five practical ways you can start filling your teen’s connection tank today. 💡 If you’ve been praying for a breakthrough in your relationship, this episode will give you hope, encouragement, and a tangible first step. Resources & Mentions in This Episode: ✨ Youth wellness expert Katey McPherson → https://www.kateymcpherson.com Connect With Me: ✨ Join the FB Community: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly tips, encouragement, and be the first to know of upcoming events: Weekly Newsletter ✨ Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💬 Leave a Review so moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296

    14 min

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    25 | Parenting Tips: One Reason Teens Tune Out Their Moms!

    Are you tired of repeating your advice to your teen and getting eye rolls or silence in return? Do you feel frustrated when your teen seems to tune out even the guidance you know could help them? Wondering why your well-meaning solutions often push your teen further away instead of connecting them to you? In this episode, we’re diving into a common communication pattern that keeps teens from truly listening—the one many moms unconsciously repeat without realizing it. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of over-explaining, eye rolls, or your teen shutting down, this episode is for you. You’ll learn how to shift from being a problem-solver to a gentle guide, so your teen feels respected, heard, and more open to your advice. By the end, you’ll walk away with practical tips to strengthen your connection and become the mom your teen naturally turns to for guidance. 💛 Want more support? ✨ Join the FB Community: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: Weekly Newsletter ✨ Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💬 Leave a Review so moms can find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. Listen on Apple Podcasts here or wherever you catch podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-conversation-starters/id1826286296

    10 min

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    24 | Talk So Teens Listen: 5 Keys to Better Communication

    Ever feel like one wrong word with your teen can flip the whole conversation? A slammed door, a sarcastic remark, or the dreaded eye roll—and suddenly you’re caught in a storm of emotions. Your heart races, defensiveness rises, and before you know it, you’ve drifted into frustration or silence. Mom, I know that storm well. And I also know this: you don’t have to be tossed around by it. You can stay steady. You can stay connected. In this episode, I’m sharing 5 keys to better communication so that even when the waves rise, you remain grounded and calm. These are simple but powerful practices that create safety—not just for you, but for your teen too. Because when you’re anchored and steady, your teen actually feels it, and it opens the door for them to listen and engage. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✨ Why anchoring matters when conversations get stormy ✨ How to reset your emotions so you don’t default to fixing, criticizing, or shutting down ✨ 5 practical ways to stay grounded in Christ so your teen feels safe to listen And as a bonus, I’ve created a Spotify Anchoring Song Playlist—songs that will help you breathe, worship, and reset in the middle of the storm. You can grab it in the show notes. 🎶 Resources & Links Mentioned ✔️ 🎶 Get the FREE Spotify Anchoring Song Playlist: https://connectwithyourteens.com/opt-in-ras-anchoring-playlist-638960 ✔️ The Pause App by John Eldredge – Apple Store | Google Play 🤝 Stay Connected ✨ Join the FB Community: https://bit.ly/HowToConnectWithYourTeen ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💛 Leave a Review If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you take a minute to leave a written review? Your words and show rating help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → Leave a review here.

    16 min

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    23 | Build Connection with Your Teen and Transform Conflict into Lasting Legacy

    Ever feel like you’re losing connection with your teen? Like every attempt at conversation ends in silence or conflict? Silence at the dinner table, battles over screen time, or constant eye rolls that make you feel invisible in your own home? Maybe you’ve been carrying sadness or guilt, feeling the weight of distance between you and your child — and wondering if the closeness you once had is gone for good. But, Mom, what if there’s more? What if this season could be about more than just surviving the teen years? What if the very struggles that feel so heavy right now are not just problems to solve, but doorways — opening into a deeper trust, a stronger bond, and a lasting transformation in your relationship? I believe that when we as moms reconnect with our teens, we unlock a future that’s different not just for our families, but for generations to come. What we’re talking about could completely shift how you see your role in your teen’s life and the impact your family can have in a world that desperately needs what you’re building. In this episode, you’ll hear: ✨ Why conflict can be holy ground instead of a battleground ✨ The ripple effect your family’s transformation can have for generations ✨ A vision of your role as a peacemaker, shaping a legacy of love, honor, and reconciliation   ✔️ Want more support? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💛 Leave a Review 💬 If you learned something or were encouraged, would you take 30 seconds to leave a written review? Your words truly help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296

    10 min

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    22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

    Have you ever said something you meant as helpful, only to have your teen take it the wrong way? You’re thinking, “I just want them to know I care.” But what they hear is, “You don’t think I can do anything.” In this episode, we’ll look at why your words sometimes don’t land the way you intend—and 3 key shifts that help your teen feel safe to keep talking instead of walking away. Here’s what you’ll discover: ✔️ The “identity filter” that shapes how your teen hears every word ✔️ How to move from control to collaboration in daily conversations ✔️ Simple reframes that build trust and connection If you’re tired of eye-rolls, shutdowns, or conversations that go nowhere, this episode will give you fresh hope and practical ways to connect with your teen’s heart. 💛 Scripture Reference: James 3:5 – “The tongue is a small part of the body, yet it carries great power.” 🎶 Song Mentioned: Speak Life by TobyMac - TobyMac - Speak Life ✔️ Want more support? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💬 Leave a Review: If you learned something or were encouraged, would you take 30 seconds to leave a written review? Your words truly help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296

    9 min

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    21 | Parenting Styles That Build Respect: Teenage Insights With Bre Lee (Part 2)

    Ever wonder what really makes teens feel seen and valued? In this heartfelt conversation with my daughter Bre, we pull back the curtain on the everyday moments that build lasting connection between parents and teens. From playful interactions to deep discussions, we share both sides of the parent-teen relationship - what works, what doesn't, and why. This isn't just theory - it's real insight from both a mom and daughter's perspective on how to create the kind of relationship where teens feel safe to open up and parents feel confident to lead with love. What you'll hear in this episode:  How to use play and humor to connect at any age  Why affirming identity matters more than praising accomplishments  The power of showing up and putting distractions aside  How to enter your teen's world through music, interests, and friendships  Why asking permission before giving advice builds trust  Practical ways to support your teen, even when you disagree ✅ One Thing To Do This Week (Choose One):  Option 1: Notice & Affirm:  Take a moment to notice and affirm something about who your teen is, not just what they do. Look for their kindness toward a sibling, creativity in solving a problem, or perseverance in a challenge. Speak it out. Let them know you see them. Option 2: Practice Intentional Presence:  Enter their world – Ask your teen to share a favorite song, game, or story from their day and engage with genuine curiosity. Let them feel seen. Choose whichever option feels most natural to you - both are powerful ways to start building deeper connection today. Bre’s Podcast Links and Interview with her pastor: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/me-myself-and-why/id1778954356 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3FiT9YvhDF1bPIwXSzABRw?si=d5jmrlLCTSard9L3r3qfDg Interview on One On One: Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/one-on-one/id1797863869?i=1000724844022 YouTube: https://youtu.be/qfNuVRrYeIY Related Episodes: 14 | The Power of Listening: How Young People Find Belonging When We Truly Hear Them With Greg and Kim McInturff (Part 1): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296?i=1000722896181 15 | The Power of Listening: How Young People Find Belonging When We Truly Hear Them With Greg and Kim McInturff (Part 2): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296?i=1000723151231 Want more support? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com

    33 min

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    20 | How to Create Safe Spaces for Honest Conversation—Teenage Insights With Bre Lee (Part 1)

    Moms, when your teen pulls back, it can feel discouraging and even scary. But what if behind the silence is a longing to be known? In this powerful conversation with my daughter Bre, now 35, you’ll hear straight from her heart about her experiences as a teen and young adult — what made it hard to talk openly with us, what shifted when we learned new communication skills, and what she wishes moms understood about holding a safe space. In her early twenties, she spent four years in youth ministry, so she has a unique view on how teens think and what challenges they face in communicating with parents.  This episode is full of parenting teens insights that will encourage you to slow down, set aside the agenda, and use gentle conversation starters that build trust instead of shutting it down. We talk about: Why teens often believe the pattern of past reactions more than the parent in front of them How “unexpected kindness” made a bigger impact than any correction The difference between talking to your child vs. connecting with a person The power of invitations: “I’m here to hold your story” Why vulnerability as a mom builds trust more than perfection ever could 💡 Questions to reflect on as you listen: Do you know what patterns your teen has come to expect from you? How do you usually respond when you see your teen holding back? What would it look like to lay aside an agenda and enter the conversation with openness?   ✔️ Want more support? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram: instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com 💛 Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged or gave you hope for your relationships, would you leave a written review? Your words help other moms find this podcast and the support they’ve been praying for. → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296.

    24 min
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*****TOP 2.5% GLOBAL PODCAST***** The go-to podcast for Christian moms who want deeper connection with their teens. Are you tired of feeling dismissed every time your teen pulls out their phone mid-conversation? Do conversations with your teen feel more like nagging sessions than real connection? Is your teen shut down, distracted, or glued to a screen… while you’re desperate to build trust and keep your relationship strong? I’m so excited you’re here! This podcast will help you move from walking on eggshells to having real, trust-building conversations—without the nagging, misunderstandings or push-back. My mission is to equip you to communicate with tools that replace frustration with understanding, turn tension into trust, and help you become the mom your teen feels safe opening up to. Hi, I’m Terri Lee. A wife, mom, tutu, and communication coach. For years, I thought the key to raising my kids well was teaching the right lessons, taking them to church, and trying to fix their behavior. But instead of building connections it only led to frustration, distance, and feeling like my words didn’t matter. I realized that to have deep, lasting connections—both now and after my kids left home—I needed to change how I communicated. So, I did. I learned to listen without criticism, speak in a way my kids felt safe, and build thriving relationships. Now, I help moms do the same, and I can’t wait to share it with you! If you’re looking for practical ways to talk to your teen, build a relationship based on mutual respect, and get them off their phones long enough to connect—this show is for you. Grab your latte and let’s dive into it. Want to stay connected? ✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/ ✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter ✨ Instagram instagram.com/terricommunicationcoach ✨ Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com

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