Toddler Toolkit

Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
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The complete toolkit for understanding toddler behavior (e.g. hitting, throwing, biting, pushing), navigating tantrums and meltdowns, fostering healthy sibling relationships and dynamics so your kids can get along and raising skilled resilient self-regulated toddlers. If you have toddlers that are close in age or multiple kids then this podcast is made for you! Heather helps parents transform their aggressive toddlers behavior into a calm, kind and caring toddler with a more peaceful and joyful home. Heather is the Founder of Heather Schalk Parenting, a Twin Mama, Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, Teacher for 10 years (pre-k through 9th grade), specialization in behavior, with her M.Ed. Heather's passion is helping moms of toddlers who have disruptive tantrums develop proactive and 'in the moment' strategies to Transform their toddlers disruptive tantrums, aggressive ‘button-pushing’ behavior into a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler so you have a joyful family and enjoy motherhood. Next Toddler Mom Cohort to Transform Aggressive Toddler Behavior taught by Heather is in September 2024!

  1. 4일 전

    What Really Holds Moms Back in Fitness & This Truth That Works Instead w/ Athena Concannon

    Realistic Fitness and Nutrition for Busy Moms ft. Athena Concannon | Toddler Toolkit Podcast Most moms don’t fail because they lack willpower—they’re stuck in fitness myths that don’t work. In this episode, Athena Concannon reveals the truth that actually helps busy moms see real results without extremes. Connect with Athena HERE:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/athenaconcannon/ Website: https://www.achievewithathena.com/ ------------------------------------------------------ I’m so honored to be a speaker in the Happily Family Online Conference (Oct 9–13) alongside Dr. Daniel Siegel! My favorite author in the parenting education and neuroscience space. 💛-A lot of different people come to the Happily Family Conference… foster and adoptive parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, teachers, therapists, and coaches. If you live with kids or work with them, then this conference is for YOU. People attend from all over the globe. -More than 100,000 families are already joining in. Together, we’ll hear from 25+ parenting experts sharing practical tools for real family life…the messy, imperfect, beautiful kind.👉 Save your free spot and get your FREE TICKET HERE! ------------------------------------------------------Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Join us on today's episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast as we welcome Athena Concannon, a certified personal trainer, nutrition coach, and creator of the Balanced Body Project.  Athena shares her journey from fitness enthusiast to helping busy women, especially moms, achieve their fitness goals without the extremes.  Learn about her practical strategies, the importance of balance, and how to prioritize self-care in the chaos of motherhood. Athena also talks about the impact of mindset shifts and how to avoid the common all-or-nothing trap. Perfect for moms looking for realistic and compassionate approaches to health and fitness. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement00:51 Athena's Journey into Fitness and Nutrition04:22 Balancing Fitness with Motherhood06:42 Overcoming the All or Nothing Trap10:17 Realistic Fitness Strategies for Moms23:13 Customizable Fitness Plans28:37 Mindset Shifts and Client Success Stories35:15 Final Thoughts and Contact Information ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    38분

  2. 9월 22일

    Why ‘Calm Down’ Backfires & What to Say Instead During Meltdowns

    In this episode of Toddler Toolkit, we explore the difference between control language and connection language when dealing with toddler meltdowns. "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Learn why phrases like 'calm down' and 'stop crying' often backfire, and discover 12 effective swaps to help support your child's emotional regulation. We also discuss the importance of intention and body language in parenting. Plus, hear about the upcoming Happy Family Online Conference in October 2025 and get tips on how to navigate meltdowns even when you're burned out. 00:00 Introduction: From Control to Connection01:35 Understanding Control Language02:44 The Importance of Connection Language04:42 12 Helpful Swaps from Control to Connection10:18 Real-Life Examples and Final Thoughts12:25 Upcoming Events and Conclusion ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    14분

  3. 9월 15일

    From Tantrums to ‘I’m Sorry’: Emotional Milestones Every Parent Should Know

    From Tantrums to ‘I’m Sorry’: Emotional Milestones Every Parent Should Know "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE! Episode Mentions: 3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over Mistakes What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes Everything Today's Episode: Parents love celebrating first steps and words, but what about emotional milestones? In this episode of Toddler Toolkit, we'll talk about key emotional milestones like empathy, self-calming, and remorse. Join us as we share practical tips and real-life stories, including an embarrassing but insightful incident at Chick-fil-A, to help you recognize and celebrate your child's emotional growth. Learn how to notice and name these important skills and how to support your toddler’s emotional development. Plus, hear about special announcements including upcoming conferences and our second anniversary celebration! 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Milestones01:06 The Indoor Play Place Incident04:35 Key Emotional Milestones07:29 7 Notice and Name Scripts09:40 Understanding Delayed Processing11:21 Regret vs. Remorse13:06 Supporting Emotional Growth14:46 Announcements and Upcoming Events ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    18분

  4. 9월 8일

    3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over Mistakes

    3 Phrases That Calm Toddler Meltdowns Over Mistakes "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! In this episode, Heather shares personal stories and practical tips for parents to help their toddlers build resilience. Through reassurance and a growth mindset, toddlers can overcome frustration and perfectionism. The episode includes specific scripts for parents to use, discusses common toddler struggles, and emphasizes the importance of validating emotions and encouraging retrying. Listeners will learn how early intervention can have a long-lasting positive impact on their child's development. The episode concludes with an invitation to explore further resources and celebrate the podcast's achievements over its two-year journey. 00:00 Welcome to the Podcast00:02 Understanding Toddler Meltdowns01:26 The Remote Truck Struggle03:36 Teaching Moments from Accidents06:28 Validating and Reassuring Your Child09:29 Common Toddler Perfectionism Triggers12:17 Building Resilience for Life13:01 Exciting Announcements and Final Thoughts ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    15분

  5. 9월 1일

    Why School Drop-Off Can Get Hard & What to Do About Late Separation Anxiety

    Why School Drop-Off Can Get Hard & What to Do About Late Separation Anxiety "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we discuss why separation anxiety can show up later than expected and offer creative strategies to ease drop-offs. Sharing personal experiences and practical tips like Jobs of Connection, you'll learn how to help your toddler feel more secure and connected during their transition to preschool or kindergarten. Tune in for helpful insights and support for handling these common challenges. 00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast01:10 Understanding Delayed Separation Anxiety01:42 Real-Life Examples of Separation Anxiety02:50 Why Separation Anxiety Happens05:13 Creative Solutions for Drop-Off Challenges05:39 Jobs of Connection: Practical Tips10:32 Conclusion and Additional Resources ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    12분

  6. 8월 25일

    The 4 Tantrum Styles: Which One Are You (and How to Handle Meltdowns Better)

    Understanding Your Toddler's Tantrums: Find Your Parenting Style "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! This episode was referenced for you to also listen to:  What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes Everything Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we tackle toddler tantrums and the different styles parents use to handle them: the fixer, the shusher, the avoider, and the controller. We discuss why these behaviors happen, what might be missing in each approach, and introduce the balanced parent style for a healthier way to manage meltdowns. We'll also reflect on how our own upbringing influences our reactions and offer insights to help you become more intentional and self-aware in your parenting. Don't forget to grab the free guide 'Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast' from the show notes. 00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:22 Understanding Tantrum Styles04:02 The Fixer Tantrum Style07:45 The Shusher Tantrum Style13:01 The Avoider Tantrum Style15:13 The Controller Tantrum Style18:01 Becoming a Balanced Parent22:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    26분

  7. 8월 18일

    Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead

    Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! This episode was referenced for you to also listen to:  What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes Everything In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we dive into the power of holding space for your toddler's big emotions without trying to fix or debate them. Learn three core practices: holding space, matching and leading the energy down, and repairing over perfection. Discover practical steps to calm your child's nervous system, turning meltdowns into teachable moments. Get insights on how to use your presence, body language, and tone to create safety and connection. Plus, hear a real-life story about handling playground dynamics effectively. For more resources, check out the free guide on solving toddler struggles in the show notes. 00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:03 Understanding the Power of Holding Space00:52 Mindset Shift: You Don't Have to Fix Every Meltdown01:50 Core Practice 1: Holding Space05:32 Core Practice 2: Match, Then Lead the Energy Down06:45 Core Practice 3: Repair Beats Perfection08:15 Real-Life Example: Holding Space at the Park12:22 Five Lessons from the Story15:47 Final Thoughts and Resources "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    18분

  8. 8월 11일

    Bribes vs. Earning: Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Candy

    Bribes vs. Earning: Effective Toddler Parenting Strategies "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! Listen to this episode that pairs with this one,  Get Your Toddler to Cooperate Without Bribes or Threats In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast, we explore the critical difference between bribing and helping toddlers work towards something. The podcast covers why this distinction matters, real-life examples, and effective strategies to foster intrinsic motivation in children. We also discuss why bribes often backfire, the hierarchy of motivation, and provide practical tips from the host's background as a special education teacher and toddler parenting coach. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:13 Understanding Bribes vs. Earning Rewards03:01 Examples and Real-Life Analogies05:42 Proactive Strategies and Habit Building16:31 Hierarchy of Motivation19:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE! ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

    23분
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The complete toolkit for understanding toddler behavior (e.g. hitting, throwing, biting, pushing), navigating tantrums and meltdowns, fostering healthy sibling relationships and dynamics so your kids can get along and raising skilled resilient self-regulated toddlers. If you have toddlers that are close in age or multiple kids then this podcast is made for you! Heather helps parents transform their aggressive toddlers behavior into a calm, kind and caring toddler with a more peaceful and joyful home. Heather is the Founder of Heather Schalk Parenting, a Twin Mama, Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, Teacher for 10 years (pre-k through 9th grade), specialization in behavior, with her M.Ed. Heather's passion is helping moms of toddlers who have disruptive tantrums develop proactive and 'in the moment' strategies to Transform their toddlers disruptive tantrums, aggressive ‘button-pushing’ behavior into a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler so you have a joyful family and enjoy motherhood. Next Toddler Mom Cohort to Transform Aggressive Toddler Behavior taught by Heather is in September 2024!

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    Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
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    2023년 - 2025년
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    © 2025 Heather Schalk, M.Ed.
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