A Decade Never to be Forgotten

Jethro Jones
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This podcast follows the journey of twelve people over a decade of their lives. There will be joy, heartache, union, separation, pain, and happiness. It's going to be a wild ride.

  1. MAY 7

    Connor Pay Year 2

    Former BYU center Connor Pay is back for year two of his decade-long journey — and what a year it's been. From the highs of NFL mini camps with the Seattle Seahawks and Las Vegas Raiders, to an unexpected pivot into college coaching and international entrepreneurship, Connor's story is proof that God's plan is almost never the plan you made. In this episode: The NFL dream — and what actually happened. Connor breaks down the brutal reality of life as an undrafted free agent: the bidding wars that went dark, the piece of paper in his locker, the flights that got canceled, and why not getting preseason film can end a career before it starts.Coaching at BYU. How a conversation with head coach Kalani Sitake turned into a full-time staff position — and why Connor never saw it coming.The We Are One Foundation. Connor is heading to Tonga in June to open an employment center for 130 remote workers, running in partnership with BYU Pathway. He's the VP of the foundation and co-founder of the affiliated company alongside Isaiah Kafue.NIL, the transfer portal, and real talk about money. Connor lived on both sides of the NIL era and is now coaching guys through it. His message: you may never make this much money again — invest now.Elder Rasband. A two-and-a-half-hour conversation about honesty, NIL, and revelation — leading to a friendship that ended with an apostle sealing Connor and his new wife Mallory in the temple.Mallory. She DM'd him on Instagram. He responded. They got married in February. Two months in, he's already the one filling up her water bottle before bed.D&C 88:73 and a phone password that finally made sense. One of the most quietly powerful "hand of the Lord" stories you'll hear — seven years in the making.How to receive revelation — what Elder Rasband taught Connor's younger brother Austin that applies to all of us.Links: Track your own decade: adecadenevertobeforgotten.com — use the daily journal to answer a new question every day and watch your perspective change over the yearsThe app: adntbf.comWant to follow Connor's journey? Tune in again next year — and next time, Mallory's joining too.

    1h 28m

  2. MAR 28

    Faith and Big Decisions: Year 2 with Savannah Dean

    In this episode of A Decade Never To Be Forgotten, Jethro catches up with Savannah one year after her mission. A lot has changed—she got married to her high school sweetheart Alec after reconnecting over the summer, and they moved fast with intention and spiritual confirmation. Topics covered: How Savannah and Alec reconnected after their missions and decided to get married within monthsFinding spiritual confirmation through peace rather than dramatic revelationMaintaining good habits from missionary life in the "real world"The importance of regular temple attendance and finding something new each visitEarly marriage adjustments (including learning to cook!)Switching from nursing to Communication Disorders/Speech Language PathologyRunning her first marathon with minimal training—and losing four toenailsLooking ahead to graduate school and using her spiritual gift of loving people in her future career

    35 min

  3. FEB 5

    Cali Year 2!

    In this annual father-daughter conversation, Jethro D. Jones sits down with his daughter Cali to reflect on 2024 and look ahead to an exciting 2025. Cali shares her spiritual growth, her unique senior year with only three classes, her decision to serve a mission, and her travels to Germany. Key Topics Discussed: Spiritual Growth & Scripture Study Cali's deep dive into Doctrine & Covenants studyReading the Book of Mormon for the 9th timeWeekly temple attendance as a personal commitmentMaking Jesus Christ a priority, not just a goalSenior Year & Time Management Taking only 3 classes (English, Art, and Calculus)Learning Parkinson's Law firsthandUsing free time for temple visits, walks with mom, and workEarning the Seal of Biliteracy in SpanishMission Decision Announcement of serving a mission starting August 2025How the age change for sister missionaries influenced her decisionFeeling spiritually prepared and at peace with the choiceHopes to serve internationally and learn a new languageGermany Trip Highlights Traveling with dad and staying with his mission friend's familyRunning 14 miles through a former coal mineVisiting Berlin, the Berlin Wall, and PragueExperiencing authentic German culture (including pasta with watered-down ketchup)Looking Ahead Monthly challenges leading up to the mission (No Spend January, meditation in February)Track season and the steeplechaseRunning Katya's fundraiser for Shriners HospitalGraduating high school and trip to Scotland with momForest Frank concert with sister EloiseMemorable Quotes: "Last year I wanted to make Him a priority, but this year He is a priority.""I'm the most ready person out there—I'm not gonna be shy about that.""Being sad about it isn't really gonna change anything."Resources Mentioned: A Decade Never to Be Forgotten journaling app: adecadenevertobeforgotten.comCome Follow Me study programShriners Hospital fundraiser

    57 min

  4. 12/27/2025

    Faith, Family, and Flow: Lessons from Year Two with Staci and Jethro

    Introduction: Jethro and Staci reflect on the second year of their decade-long journey, setting the stage for a candid and insightful conversation.Lightning Round: Quick-fire questions about marriage, parenting, and personal growth, including communication, handling trials, and surprising lessons as parents.Family Traditions & Spiritual Practices: The importance of family vacations, daily prayer, and integrating spiritual habits into everyday life.Gratitude & Inspiration in Trials: Finding gratitude and peace during difficult times, and sharing recent books and talks that have inspired personal growth.Celebrating Small Wins: The value of acknowledging and celebrating achievements as a family, and how goal-setting and support foster a positive environment.What We Wish People Would Ask: Honest reflections on the questions they wish others would ask about their journey, and the joy found in growth and resilience.Trusting in the Lord Through Financial Struggles: Stories of faith, miracles, and provision during financial challenges, and the lessons learned from budgeting and trusting in divine help.The Doctoral Journey: Navigating the ups and downs of pursuing a doctorate, including closed doors, unexpected opportunities, and the importance of perseverance.When It's Right, It Flows: Recognizing moments of alignment and peace when following the right path, even amidst effort and uncertainty.Faith Without Works: The necessity of taking action, using agency, and working in partnership with faith to achieve goals and receive guidance.Milestones vs. Identity: Shifting focus from external achievements to embracing divine identity and finding peace beyond milestones.A Decade of Growth and Change: Reflections on personal and family growth, preparing children for independence, and the evolving nature of goals and expectations.Preparing Kids for Life: Teaching responsibility, life skills, and spiritual habits to children, and celebrating their unique paths and strengths.Generational Blessings & Spiritual Legacy: The impact of family heritage, faith traditions, and the compounding effect of generational efforts on spiritual growth.Closing Thoughts: Looking ahead to the coming year with optimism, gratitude, and a commitment to continued growth and discovery. Key Themes: Faith, family, resilience, personal growth, spiritual practices, parenting, financial stewardship, and the power of tradition and legacy. Takeaway: Jethro and Staci share a heartfelt, honest look at the challenges and blessings of their journey, offering wisdom and encouragement for anyone navigating their own decade of change.

    1h 31m
  5. Prioritizing Family - Courtney and Trevor Thornton 2025

    11/16/2025

    Prioritizing Family - Courtney and Trevor Thornton 2025

    In this episode, we catch up with Courtney and her husband Trevor Thornton for their second-year interview. The conversation starts with an introduction to Trevor and explores the couple's journey, including their decision to homeschool their children and prioritize family. They delve into the creation of a multi-year journal designed to help users reflect on their lives over a decade and how this has impacted their own experiences. Courtney opens up about how the loss of their daughter, Presley, has influenced their family priorities and spiritual growth. They also talk about their recent trip to Alaska and how it reinforced their appreciation for nature and God's creations. The Thorntons share their ongoing project of converting their annual blanket drive into a non-profit organization, aiming to support more NICUs and make a broader impact. They conclude with a discussion on their current church callings and their hopes for maintaining a strong family focus over the next decade. 01:35 Meet Trevor: Courtney's Husband02:49 Trevor's Career Journey04:07 Reflecting on Last Year's Interview04:56 The Importance of Family07:08 Homeschooling Challenges and Insights09:55 Incorporating Real-Life Learning17:13 Balancing Roles: Teacher and Parent20:41 Spiritual Guidance in Homeschooling34:27 The Impact of Losing Presley43:46 Future Plans: Nonprofit Organization48:33 Local Hospital Support and Blanket Donations50:04 Reflecting on the Impact of Blanket Donations51:13 Debating the Future of the Blanket Drive51:47 The Emotional Significance of the Blanket Drive53:13 The Purpose Behind the Blanket Drive54:04 Balancing Personal Grief and Helping Others54:51 The Decision to Continue the Blanket Drive56:40 The Role of Faith and Divine Timing01:00:51 Starting a Nonprofit: Steps and Motivation01:05:23 The Importance of Taking Action01:14:41 Family Trip to Alaska01:17:26 Experiencing Spiritual Moments on the Cruise01:20:05 Appreciating Nature and God's Creations01:25:03 Future Priorities and Family Focus01:28:20 Current Callings and Final Thoughts

    1h 30m
  6. Lindi Marcusen, Elite Sprinter

    08/01/2025

    Lindi Marcusen, Elite Sprinter

    In this episode, we explore the remarkable story of Lindi Marcusen, a Paralympian whose life took a drastic turn following a traumatic car accident. Lindi recounts her journey from being a vibrant college student to facing life-altering injuries, including losing a leg and suffering a traumatic brain injury. Despite these challenges, she found resilience, became a Paralympic athlete, and now inspires others facing similar trials. Lindi shares deep insights into her recovery, the importance of self-care, and how faith and a supportive community helped her navigate her new reality. Her journey underscores the power of perseverance and staying focused on one's goals, even when life diverges drastically from initial plans. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:37 Lindi's Early Life and Relationship03:00 The Accident and Its Aftermath07:40 Rehabilitation and Recovery20:28 Faith and Personal Struggles29:49 Journey to Becoming a Paralympian33:37 The Love for Sprinting34:07 Starting with Parasport34:49 Overcoming Doubts and Challenges35:58 Current Achievements and Teaching Others36:51 Balancing Career and Passion39:45 Rediscovering Artistic Side41:17 Finding Joy in the Mundane47:47 The Paralympic Journey56:38 Building a Supportive Team01:00:25 Growing Closer to Christ01:05:18 Lessons from the Past Year

    1h 11m

  7. 07/01/2025

    Becky Sampson on Faith after Fallout

    Becky Sampson sits down with host Jethro Jones to trace the pivotal moments that shaped her faith, health, and purpose—from childhood shame and food addiction to an abusive first marriage, dramatic career pivots, and her mission-driven resolve to help others navigate divorce and self-worth through Christ. Over two and a half hours, Becky’s candor and resilience reveal how God weaves trials into a decade never to be forgotten. Key Takeaways Shame → Hiding → Binge-Eating Loop – how a single childhood comment ignited years of self-sabotage and weight gain.Answering the Call – why Becky’s seemingly “undesirable” Idaho-Pocatello mission became a spiritual anchor.Cycles of Abuse & Accountability – candid reflections on being both victim and perpetrator in a toxic first marriage.From Radio Tears to Public Coaching – the leap that turned raw story-telling into a platform for service.Divorce Advocacy – founding OnlySubpoenas.com to guide others through complex, often hidden, legal and emotional battles.Temple Time & Self-Care – slowing down to let God recalibrate priorities amid relentless service.The Next Ten Years – Becky’s commitment to return annually and share how obedience shapes her unfolding story.0:02:30 | Becky recalls her extroverted childhood and early “gusto.”0:07:45 | The origin of shame → “stupid” label → food as comfort & secret binge-eating0:15:05 | Deciding to serve an LDS mission when that was rare for young women.0:22:05 | Receiving an unexpected call to the Idaho-Pocatello Mission—and its hidden purpose.0:45:30 | Marriage #1: physical & emotional abuse, miscarriage surgeries, and the reinforcing “I deserve this” cycle.0;59:30 | Spiritual wake-up in the Las Vegas Temple the day before starting a food-recovery program.1:09:50 | First on-air breakdown: hosting a two-hour live radio show that launched public coaching.1:29:50 | Maintaining goal weight while confronting external pressure and relapse fears.1:37:10 | Filing for (second) divorce, learning legal strategy, and sensing God’s hand in timing.2:00:58 | Birth of OnlySubpoenas.com—using detective skills to uncover hidden assets for clients.2:10:05 | Setting boundaries: “I don’t need your permission to take care of myself.”2:16:45 | Discovering a shared LDS backdrop with Jethro; looking ahead to yearly check-ins.2:28:34 | Closing tears, gratitude, and blessing listeners to find Christ in their own trials. Links & Resources Companion 10-Year Journal: ADNTBF.com / ADecadeNeverToBeForgotten.comBecky’s divorce-advocacy firm: OnlySubpoenas.com

    2h 30m
  8. Moses Lwakihugo's Incredible Journey of Faith

    06/01/2025

    Moses Lwakihugo's Incredible Journey of Faith

    Join host Jethro Jones as he sits down with Moses Lwakihugo, an immigrant from the Democratic Republic of the Congo with an unforgettable story. Moses shares his harrowing experiences of living through the war in the Congo, fleeing to Burundi and Kenya, and eventually finding peace and happiness in the U.S. Despite witnessing unthinkable atrocities, including the murder of his father, Moses's faith has remained steadfast, greatly influenced by the gospel of Jesus Christ. Today, he leads a multi-lingual, Swahili-speaking group in Spokane, Washington, where he helps immigrants acclimate to their new lives while spreading the message of hope and faith. Discover how Moses turned his pain into purpose and how his journey is inspiring countless others. 01:15 Moses's Journey to America02:12 Faith and Family in Spokane04:29 A Divine Encounter at WinCo12:44 Joining the Church15:54 Reflections on War and Faith31:36 Helping Refugees and Giving Back36:24 Experiences in the Church37:33 A Life-Changing Decision37:59 Connecting Across Continents39:31 Translating the Gospel41:01 Forming a Swahili Branch41:31 Global Outreach Through Zoom43:48 A Multilingual Congregation45:32 Personal Testimonies and Experiences53:54 The Importance of the Gospel58:46 Reflections on Trials and Faith01:05:07 A Miraculous Birth01:06:38 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    1h 9m
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This podcast follows the journey of twelve people over a decade of their lives. There will be joy, heartache, union, separation, pain, and happiness. It's going to be a wild ride.

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