A Note From The Principal's Desk

Dr. Stacy Shepard

"A Note From the Principal’s Desk" is a candid, insightful podcast hosted by Dr. Shepard, bringing real talk from inside the school walls to the community at large. Each episode tackles relevant issues in education—from school policies and student well-being to leadership, equity, and community involvement. With 18+ years of experience in education, Dr. Shepard offers a unique perspective grounded in both compassion and accountability. Whether you're a parent, educator, student, or advocate, this podcast is your go-to space for transparency, truth, and transformation in our schools. #YourFavoriteSchoolLeader

  1. Trauma or Attitude? Understanding the Difference and Responding with Compassion

    12/18/2025

    Trauma or Attitude? Understanding the Difference and Responding with Compassion

    In this final installment of the trauma series, Dr. Shepard invites listeners into an honest, reflective, and deeply necessary conversation about one of the most misunderstood issues in schools, families, and adult relationships: the difference between a trauma response and a “bad attitude.” Drawing from personal experience, school leadership, trauma-informed practice, and faith, Dr. Shepard challenges the quick labels we often assign to children and adults alike. She unpacks how behaviors such as emotional outbursts, withdrawal, perfectionism, defiance, and overreactions are often rooted in unresolved trauma—not disrespect. This episode explores: Why trauma does not expire with ageHow childhood wounds often show up in adulthoodThe danger of punishment without understandingHow educators, parents, and leaders can shift from reacting to respondingPractical ways to de-escalate, restore, and create emotionally safe environmentsWhen to support, when to set boundaries, and how to love from a distanceDr. Shepard reminds us that being trauma-informed is not a strategy—it’s a mindset. It’s about seeing people differently, leading with curiosity, and choosing compassion without excusing harmful behavior. Whether you are an educator, parent, leader, or simply someone on a healing journey, this episode will challenge you to pause, reflect, and reframe how you respond to others—and yourself. ✨ Some attitudes are not attitudes at all. They are pain asking to be understood.

    34 min
  2. Trauma & Black Men in Education: Healing Out Loud

    11/26/2025

    Trauma & Black Men in Education: Healing Out Loud

    In Season 4, Episode 2 of A Note From the Principal’s Desk, Dr. Shepard is joined by three dynamic Black male educators and leaders—Leo Heath. Jr., Dexter Strowman, and Tyler Jones—for a raw, honest roundtable on trauma and Black men, especially those serving in schools and leadership. Together, they unpack: What trauma really looks and feels like for Black men—from childhood bullying and broken friendships to loss, church hurt, and family expectationsHow unspoken pressures show up for Black male educators: having to be “perfect,” code-switching, being “Black enough” yet “professional enough,” and constantly carrying the weight of representationThe reality of being the “strong friend,” struggling to find safe spaces to be vulnerable, and what it means to heal out loud while protecting your peaceThe conversation also dives into forgiveness, boundaries, faith, gym time, quiet time, and how writing, prayer, and solitude help them stay grounded. Dr. Shepard holds space as these men share their truth on loyalty, bias in schools, racism and microaggressions, emotional regulation, and the deep desire to be who they needed when they were younger—for students, for family, and for themselves. This episode is a must-listen for educators, families, and anyone who loves or leads Black men. It’s candid, layered, and full of moments that will make you pause, reflect, and see our brothers with more compassion. Season 4 continues the trauma series with this powerful reminder: Black men deserve room to feel, heal, and be fully human—out loud.

    1h 4m
5
out of 5
7 Ratings

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"A Note From the Principal’s Desk" is a candid, insightful podcast hosted by Dr. Shepard, bringing real talk from inside the school walls to the community at large. Each episode tackles relevant issues in education—from school policies and student well-being to leadership, equity, and community involvement. With 18+ years of experience in education, Dr. Shepard offers a unique perspective grounded in both compassion and accountability. Whether you're a parent, educator, student, or advocate, this podcast is your go-to space for transparency, truth, and transformation in our schools. #YourFavoriteSchoolLeader