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Helping women who have been confronted with life challenges, turn their experiences into an opportunity at a new direction in life.

A second chance at life‪®‬ Arvilla Beckworth

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Helping women who have been confronted with life challenges, turn their experiences into an opportunity at a new direction in life.

    Exiting a relationship with a narcissist

    Exiting a relationship with a narcissist

    As I wrap up the narcissist series, I want to encourage anyone who is currently in a relationship with a narcissist and is ready to leave to get a support system around you to make that transition safely.

    Once a narcissist knows that the relationship has come to an end, they may try to do everything in their power to win you back. Be strong and remember why you are leaving.

    In this episode, I give three quick tips to help you on your journey.


    Create an exit plan to physically leave.
    Remove all contact with this person. The less interaction the better.
    Find closure and heal. Find a therapist who specializes in traumatic abuse.

    If you need help healing from a narcissistic relationship, please contact Joy Larkin of Live Narc Free, LLC. She is a Narcissist Abuse Coach who specializes in how to overcome narc abuse and turning your pain into power. Let here know Arvilla sent you!

    Joy Larkin at www.livenarcfree.com

    Instagram: @livenarcfree.llc

    Check out today's episode!


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    • 13 min
    Dealing with a family member who is a narcissist

    Dealing with a family member who is a narcissist

    It can be difficult when someone you love doesn't know how to love you back. They lack empathy and even blame others, but what do you do when it is your family member?
    In this episode, I give you four tips to deal with a narcissistic family member.

    Please don't call them a narcissist: Unfortunately, people with a narcissistic personality disorder will not recognize that they are the problem. They cannot see their behavior.
    Please don't argue with them; you will not win: They see themself as the victim, and you are the problem. Offer them a compliment first, then give them a small dose of negative feedback.
    Set limits and boundaries: Decide to give some space to the other person or cut ties altogether. You may not be able to control their behavior, but you can prevent being around them.
    Seek counseling and support from family members: Get a support system that will build you up and help you heal from the hurt.

    If you need help healing from a narcissistic relationship, please contact Joy Larkin of Live Narc Free, LLC. She is a Narcissist Abuse Coach who specializes in how to overcome narc abuse and turning your pain into power. Let here know Arvilla sent you!
    Joy Larkin at www.livenarcfree.com
    Instagram: @livenarcfree.llc
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    • 14 min
    Living Narc Free, Interview w/Joy Larkin

    Living Narc Free, Interview w/Joy Larkin

    What do you do when you have a narcissist in your life?

    Narcissistic Abuse Coach Joy Larkin of Live Narc Free, LLC is joining us today as she talks about narcissists. She originally shared her story on YouTube and received 10,000 views and 60 comments!

    Joy explains how she not only dealt with an ex-boyfriend but her aunt as well. She removed herself from both of them and then turned her pain into power by helping others overcome narcissistic abuse.

    In this interview, she gives ten traits on recognizing if you are dealing with a narcissist. Here are five.


    Plays the victim
    Sense of entitlement
    Blames others
    Doesn't take responsibility
    Controlling



    Books she read to assist her healing:


    The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho 
    The Four Agreements: A practical guide to personal freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
    The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
    A New Earth: Awakening to your life's purpose by Eckhart Tolle
    The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav 
    You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay 
    You Can Live Your Dreams by Les Brown



    If you dealing with a narcissist or have dealt with one, please reach out to Joy! 

    You can connect with joy at www.livenarcfree.com

    Instagram: @livenarcfree.llc

    Facebook: @livenarcfree


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    • 23 min
    How to recognize a narcissist

    How to recognize a narcissist

    How many of you know a narcissist?
    I believe we all have seen, met, worked with, been around, maybe in a relationship with a Narcissist. Someone who thinks you should praise the ground they walk on exaggerates their accomplishments and even removes people from their lives if they are not beneficial to them. Taylor Counseling Group stated in an article "How to deal with a narcissistic family member," April 2, 2021, that an estimated 5% of the American population may have a narcissistic condition.
    I am in no shape or form a qualified therapist, but I had a past relationship with a narcissist that made me feel like I was the problem and I could never make them happy. The signs were there; I did not know it at the time. SO in this episode, I want to help someone recognize the traits and avoid being in a toxic relationship.
    If you need help healing from a narcissistic relationship, please contact Joy Larkin of Live Narc Free, LLC. She is a Narcissist Abuse Coach who specializes in how to overcome narc abuse and turning your pain into power. Let her know Arvilla sent you!
    Joy Larkin at www.livenarcfree.com
    Instagram: @livenarcfree.llc
    Check out today's episode!
     

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    • 23 min
    Creating a goal list for your dreams

    Creating a goal list for your dreams

    As I wrap up the dream series, I wanted to give you the final piece to making your dreams come true. There are many areas of your life that you want to set goals for, and each area should have its own list.

    Having a list will serve as a blueprint/road map on where you need to focus your time and energy.

    Understand there will be seasons of your life where you will not feel like working on your goals, and that's ok. Just remember to revisit those goals once you are ready.




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    • 14 min
    Are you a Dreamer or Goal-Getter?

    Are you a Dreamer or Goal-Getter?

    The number one reason why people do not accomplish their dreams is that they do not take action.

    Do you know the difference between a dream and a goal? 

    As a kid, I loved to dream and thought of the possibilities of what my life could turn out to be. Dreaming is what kept my imagination going. But, once I got a little older, I realized I had to do something about those dreams for them to come true.

    Are you ready to take those dreams and turn them into a reality?

    Take a listen to this week's episode as I explain the difference between the two and give you tips to becoming a goal-getter!

    If you need help getting your dreams out of your head and onto paper, you can contact me at arvilla@arvillabeckworth.com.


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    • 11 min

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