Abdulfattah Adeyemi

Abdulfattah Adeyemi

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  1. THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

    1D AGO

    THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

    When we were children, we learned A for Apple…B for Ball…C for Cat… But nobody taught us A for Affection, B for Boundaries, and C for Communication Yet, these are the very letters that build or break marriages. In this emotional, practical, and reflective lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores The A–Z of Marriage — an insightful look into love, communication, trust, mercy,forgiveness, emotional intelligence, and building a peaceful home.   From Affection to Zeal, Mercy to Patience, and Trust to Understanding, this lecture combines Islamic wisdom, relatable humour, emotional insight, practical marital advice, and timeless relationship principles.   Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, struggling in your relationship, or helping others build healthy homes… this lecture will transform how you see marriage.   TOPICS COVERED: Emotional intimacy Conflict resolution Preventing divorce Healthy communication Emotional maturity in marriage Trust and loyalty Kindness and mercy The spiritual side of marriage Building lasting love   Happy homes are not built by perfect people…they are built by people who learn the language of marriage well.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   marriage advice, islamic marriage lecture, muslim couples, marriage communication, relationship advice, marriagemotivation, emotional intelligence marriage, conflict resolution marriage, happy marriage tips, islamic relationship advice, husband and wife lecture, family life islam, preventing divorce, love and mercy in islam, marriage counseling

    1h 14m
  2. YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

    5D AGO

    YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

    Many people want marriage… but very few truly understand what it requires. And many people are preparing for the wedding day… but not preparing for married life.   In this powerful and eye-opening lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the reality of marriage beyondthe dreams, emotions, and societal expectations. Are you ready for marriage… or just interested in it?   THIS LECTURE WILL HELP YOU: Understand the difference between the idea and the reality of marriage Identify why people rush into marriage—and why others delay it Evaluate your true readiness (emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, and financially) Avoid common mistakes that lead to marital breakdown Prepare yourself properly before entering marriage Learn where and how to find a suitable spouse the right way   Whether you are single, searching, or preparing for marriage, this message will guide you toward making wiser, moreintentional decisions.   Like & Share this lecture to inspire others.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi   marriage readiness, islamic marriage advice, before getting married, relationship advice islam, marriage preparation,muslim singles advice, how to prepare for marriage, marriage reality, why marriages fail, choosing a spouse islam, premarital advice islam, marriage lecture islam, relationship readiness, emotional maturity marriage, marriage expectations   What stage are you in right now?   Not ready yet Preparing myself Actively searching Already married (learning)   Let’s learn from each other.

    1h 43m
  3. EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

    MAY 6

    EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

    Dear Husband: This Is Why YourMarriage Is Struggling  A man can provide everything… yet still struggle to build a peaceful home. In this powerful and practical lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores one of the most overlooked aspects of marriage—emotional intelligence in husbands. Why do many marriages experience tension, distance, and repeated conflict? Often, it is not about money or provision… It is about how emotions are handled.   This lecture will help you: Understand what emotional intelligence truly means in marriage Learn how to listen, respond, and lead with wisdom Avoid common mistakes that damage relationships Build emotional stability and connection in your home Create a peaceful, respectful, and loving environment   You will also discover: Practical ways to manage anger and reactions How to understand your wife’s emotional needs A message of encouragement for husbands who are trying but struggling A powerful du‘ā for peaceful and successful marriages   A man can provide everything… but still fail to create a peaceful home. This is not just advice… It is a guide to building a home filled with sakīnah (tranquility).   Subscribefor more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi     marriage advice for husbands,emotional intelligence in marriage, islamic marriage advice, husband and wiferelationship, conflict resolution marriage, muslim husband responsibilities,marriage tips for men, how to be a good husband, relationship advice islam,emotional maturity men, peaceful marriage islam, communication in marriage,marriage problems solution, love and respect marriage, family life islam

    53 min
  4. EI: WHAT EVERY WIFE MUST KNOW

    MAY 2

    EI: WHAT EVERY WIFE MUST KNOW

    Many marriages are not broken because of lack of love…but because of how emotions are handled. In this powerful and deeply reflective lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores how emotional intelligence can transform a marriage—especially through the role of the wife in preventing unnecessary conflict and preservingpeace in the home. LEARN HOW TO: Manage emotions during tense moments Communicate with wisdom and timing Avoid common mistakes that escalate conflict Understand your husband’s emotional patterns Create a calm and emotionally safe environment   THIS LECTURE ALSO ADDRESSES: The balance between patience and self-respect When to speak, when to pause, and how to respond The spiritual dimension of emotional intelligence in Islam   Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, or seeking to improve your relationship, this message will give you practical tools and deep insights to build a more peaceful and emotionally intelligent home. “Many marriages are not destroyed by big problems… but by small emotions handled with ‘wishdom’ instead of wisdom.” Follow me for more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi emotional intelligence in marriage, islamic marriage advice,relationship advice for wives, muslim wife advice, marriage conflict resolution, how to avoid arguments in marriage, marriage tips islam, peaceful marriage tips, emotional intelligence relationship, communication in marriage,marriage counseling islam, love and respect in marriage, relationship wisdom islam, marriage reminders, conflict management in marriage In moments of tension, what is hardest for you? Controlling my emotions Choosing the right words Timing my response Understanding my spouse Your answer might help someone else reflect.

    31 min
  5. MARRIAGE AND ITS SEASONS

    APR 28

    MARRIAGE AND ITS SEASONS

    Many couples panic when things change… but what if nothing is wrong? What if your marriage is simply in a different season?  Marriage is not a straight journey—it is a cycle of seasons.   In this deeply insightful lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the reality that every marriage passesthrough different phases: moments of love, times of pressure, periods of reflection, and seasons of testing.   This powerful reminder will help you: Understand why love changes over timeRecognize the season your marriage is in Avoid making permanent decisions in temporary moments Navigate difficult phases with wisdom and patienceRebuild the connection and rediscover love You will also hear a touching reflection on: The Marriage Keepers who endured And those who had to recalculate their path and begin again This is not just a lecture… it is a message of hope, healing, and perspective for every married person—or anyone preparing for marriage.  What season is your marriage in right now?Spring | Summer  | Reflection | Testing Share below—your response might help someone else.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa  Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠  Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA  Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi marriage and its seasons, islamicmarriage lecture, relationship advice islam, marriage challenges, love inmarriage islam, why marriages fail, how to fix marriage, muslim couples advice,marriage reminder, emotional intelligence in marriage, marriage counseling islam,understanding relationships, marriage motivation, relationship wisdom, islamicreminder marriage, surviving marriage struggles, love and patience in islam

    1h 27m
  6. THE QUANTUM HEART: RETHINKING PRAYERS

    APR 20

    THE QUANTUM HEART: RETHINKING PRAYERS

    Why do some prayers feel unanswered?Is there a deeper spiritual principle behind powerful supplication in Islam?In this transformative lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the hidden dimensions of duʿā’ through the lens of Qur’ānic spirituality, Prophetic wisdom, and the deeper psychology of the heart.Many believers approach prayer from a mindset of lack and desperation, but the Qur’an teaches something different: gratitude, certainty, remembrance, and alignment with Allah’s mercy.Using the powerful metaphor of “The Quantum Heart,” this lecture explains how the believer’s inner state—gratitude, yaqīn, and tawakkul—shapes the experience of duʿā’ and deepens our relationship with Allah.You will discover:• Why many people unknowingly weaken their duʿā’• The Qur’anic law of gratitude and spiritual increase• The relationship between duʿā’ and divine decree (Qadar)• The psychology of powerful supplication taught by the Prophet ﷺ• The 7 conditions of spiritually powerful duʿā’• How dhikr and spiritual affirmations recalibrate the heart• The deeper meaning of living in continuous conversation with AllahThis lecture will transform the way you think about prayer, gratitude, and the unseen connection between the heart and divine mercy.May Allah accept our duʿā’ and make our hearts alive with His remembrance.Subscribe for more Islamic wisdom, lectures, and reflectionsLike & Share this lecture to inspire others in understanding the Islamic perspective on the Quantum Field.Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapyDownload the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2faVisit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠FOLLOW ME ON:Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQAInstagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemiFacebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemiTikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemiYouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemidu'a in islampower of duaanswered prayers islamhow to make dua in islamquantum heart islamislamic spiritualitypowerful dua islamdua and qadargratitude in islamislamic reminderislamic lecturetawakkul in islamislamic psychologylaw of gratitude islamislamic motivationhow to get your dua answeredislamic reminder 2026muslim spiritualityyaqeen in islamdhikr and dua #Dua#IslamicReminder#AnsweredPrayers#Tawakkul#IslamicLectures#SpiritualityInIslam#QuranicWisdom

    1h 57m
  7. WHAT IS YOUR PERSONAL WEAKNESS?

    APR 16

    WHAT IS YOUR PERSONAL WEAKNESS?

    What is your personal weakness — and why does it keep showing up in your life? In this deep, thought-provoking Islamic reflection, we explore The Philosophy of Weakness: why human beings are created with weaknesses, how personal shortcomings shape destiny,and how true strength is born from mastering the self. This lecture blends Qur’anic wisdom, spiritual psychology, and deep self-reflection to help you identify your weak points and transform them into tools for growth.   You’ll learn: ·        What weakness really is (a design feature, not adefect) ·        Why we perform strength instead of building real innerstrength ·        How the inner battle between nafs, fear, desire, anddiscipline shapes your life ·        The different types of personal weaknesses (moral,emotional, spiritual, cognitive, relational) ·        Why we avoid our weak spots — and how excuses turnweakness into identity ·        How the Qur’an frames human weakness as a doorway toAllah’s mercy ·        Practical ways to turn weakness into a workshop forcharacter development ·        Why private struggles shape public character anddestiny ·        How mastering your weakness becomes your greatest form of power This lecture is for anyone struggling with:self-discipline, consistency in worship, emotional attachment, anger, desire, fear of failure, low self-worth, or recurring personal weaknesses.   Your weakness is not your identity — but what you do with it shapes your destiny. May this reflection help you move from avoidance to awareness, from struggle to strategy, and from weakness toquiet strength.   Which weakness do you struggle with most — anger, desire, fear, attachment, or consistency?Share one word in the comments. Naming it is the first step to mastering it. Like & Share this lecture to inspire others inunderstanding the philosophy of weakness.   Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy   Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa   Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠   Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community:https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠   FOLLOW ME ON:   Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA   Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi    personal weaknessself mastery in IslamIslamic self developmentphilosophy of weaknessinner strength Islamnafs in IslamIslamic psychologytazkiyahself discipline IslamIslamic remindersIslamic motivationIslamic lecture on characterhow to overcome weaknessspiritual growth in IslamIslamic personal developmentinner struggle Islamtawbah and self improvementIslamic reflectionbuilding character in Islamemotional weakness Islamself control IslamIslamic spiritualityQur’anic wisdom on weaknessIslamic mindsethealing the heart Islam

    1h 47m

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