Aging in Style with Lori Williams

Lori Williams Senior Services

Aging in Style with Lori Williams is about finding the silver lining no matter what life throws at you. Whether you're a caregiver or an older adult, you can count on author and multi-award-winning senior living expert Lori Williams to provide you with education and resources on all aspects of aging. The podcast will introduce you to aging experts and inspirational seniors. Lori pulls from her experience as the caregiver for her husband Mark who is a stroke survivor, and shares how to pay for care, navigate senior housing options, advocate for your loved one's care, and most importantly, learn to thrive not just survive as you age. loriwilliams-seniorservices.com

  1. 4天前

    262. Six Lessons I Learned on the Other Side of the Move

    It's funny how life has a way of teaching us new things, even when we think we're well-versed in a particular area. As someone who has been a senior living expert for nearly 20 years, I thought I had a firm grasp on everything related to senior housing. However, this past experience of helping my mother and her husband transition to assisted living and memory care offered a fresh perspective. Being on the other side of the process with my family allowed me to glean six valuable lessons that I want to share with you today. These insights not only deepened my understanding of this challenging transition but also equipped me with more empathy for the families I work with daily. Chapters: 01:01 Personal Journey: Helping My Mother Move01:36 Six Lessons Learned from the Move05:32 Lesson 1: Plan in Advance10:23 Lesson 2: Be on the Same Page with Siblings12:18 Lesson 3: Go with Your Gut14:16 Lesson 4: Set Expectations17:13 Lesson 5: Communication is Key20:58 Lesson 6: Financial Planning is a Gift22:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts What's interesting is that the advice I often dispense to others became my guiding light during this journey. It's a humbling reminder that no matter how much we know, there's always room for growth and learning. As I navigated this process as a family member, I discovered nuances and emotional layers that previously seemed theoretical. Today, I'm excited to share these insights with you, hoping they will provide some guidance and peace of mind if you ever find yourself in a similar situation. Lesson 1: Let's dive in with the first lesson: planning in advance. As much as we try to avoid it, acknowledging the future and preparing for it can make all the difference. I always advise people to plan ahead, yet it's easy to overlook this when reality hits home. My family learned firsthand that waiting lists are real and getting ahead of the curve can be a lifesaver. We found a memory care for my stepfather close to my brother's home—an essential factor when emergencies arise, however, we had to wait three weeks until a room was available. My mother waited almost three months until an apartment in assisted living came available for her. Lesson 2: Being on the same page with siblings was our second lesson, proving crucial. My brothers and I managed to stay united, allowing us to support our mother effectively. This unity reduced stress and facilitated decision-making. However, I couldn't help but feel some guilt, as the bulk of the responsibility fell on them due to my own caregiving commitments and that I live in Texas and the rest of the family is in Mississippi. It highlighted the importance of being honest with each other and shouldering the load together as best as possible. Lesson 3: Thirdly, going with your gut proved to be invaluable. It's easy to get caught up in a checklist mentality, weighing pros and cons in black and white. But the intangible feel or vibe of a place shouldn't be underestimated. A compassionate staff member's interaction with a resident served as a deciding factor for us, embedding confidence that our choice was right—trusting this gut feeling made all the difference. Lesson 4: Setting expectations formed the foundation of our fourth insight. We had to understand and accept that no place is perfect; challenges are inevitable. From ventilation issues in my mom’s room to protocol nuances when my stepfather had falls—being prepared for imperfections made these situations more manageable. Understanding that no community can promise a fall-free experience emphasizes this point. Lesson 5: Fifth on our list is communication. We often hear it, but its importance can't be overstressed. Whether it was about a missed sign-out when leaving the community or unfinished paperwork, open lines of communication...

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  2. 9月19日

    261. 'Wait, You're Not There When We Move In?' Roles and Responsibilities of Senior Placement Agencies

    Navigating the world of senior living can be quite a maze, especially when you're trying to figure out where the responsibilities of a senior placement service end and the duties of a senior community begin. Some families I've worked with have found themselves unsure about this transition, leading to confusion on move-in day and beyond. It's a common concern: knowing who to turn to for answers when it comes to important details like parking the moving truck or discussing care needs. These are things most people don't think about until they're knee-deep in the process, so let's start clearing up where my role as a senior placement advisor ends and where the community's responsibilities begin. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Moving Day Questions00:26 Welcome to Aging and Style with Lori Williams00:55 Clarifying the Role of Senior Placement Services01:31 How Senior Placement Services Help You04:33 Transitioning to Community Care06:06 Common Questions During the Move09:24 Ongoing Support and Communication11:40 Conclusion and Podcast Subscription Reminder In my years of experience, I've seen many families, like the sweet family I worked with recently, find themselves unsure about which questions to direct to whom. It often boils down to ensuring everyone is on the same page, which can make all the difference in transitioning smoothly into a senior community. Let's dive into why this understanding is so crucial and how it can make your journey to finding the right care environment more seamless. As a senior placement service, my team and I are here to help you sift through the dizzying array of senior housing options. Whether it's an independent living facility, assisted living, memory care, or a residential care home, we are your guides through the process. We listen to your stories, your needs, and even preferences, such as garden-loving mothers or casino-going dads. Our goal is to match you with two to three communities that we believe fit best based on our knowledge and relationships with these communities. But once you've chosen that perfect community, our role begins to change. While we stay in touch and provide guidance throughout the transition, the community is now in the spotlight. Their team, including executive directors, marketing and sales directors, nurses, and caregivers will be the ones you turn to for questions involving the community and care needs. It's important to emphasize that, though it may seem like one cohesive journey, it's a handover. Similar to a realtor helping you find a new home, once you're ready to call it your own, it's the community itself that becomes your new point of contact. They oversee everything from health care management to everyday logistics, like parking on that all-important move-in day. Of course, I’m just a message away if questions arise or circumstances change significantly. A common mix-up occurs when families ask me to join them on moving day. I appreciate being part of your journey, but carrying the couch isn't part of my job description! Instead, I connect you with trusted packers and movers, individuals who excel at this facet of the move and ensure it all goes smoothly. And let's not forget about those critical questions concerning medication management and care needs. These are also domains where the community really takes the lead, thanks to their accredited staff who are dedicated to maintaining the necessary health standards and protocols. I often remind families that they need to establish strong rapport and communication channels with their community's team once they have moved in. Issues will arise, questions will pop up, and knowing who to direct them to makes all the difference in ensuring your loved one remains happy and safe. In instances where care needs change—say if your loved one develops dementia or

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  3. 9月12日

    260. AI Is Fuelling A Billion-Dollar Scam And Seniors Are The Main Target: Here's How To Stay Protected

    There's a new billion-dollar scam that is targeting seniors, using artificial intelligence in ways that are both alarming and sophisticated. Imagine working your whole life, saving diligently, only to have your retirement funds siphoned away by cunning scammers leveraging cutting-edge technology. It’s a chilling thought, but it's not just a distant worry for the future—it's happening right now. The FBI has been sounding the alarm on this very issue, and as a senior living expert, I feel compelled to share what I know so we can better guard against these threats. These scams are disturbingly creative, targeting vulnerable seniors, many of whom are already balancing the challenges of living on a fixed income. The deceptive practices being used are truly frightening, and knowing what to watch out for is crucial. So let's break down how these scams unfold and explore steps you can take to protect yourself and your loved ones. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast00:49 The Rise of AI-Driven Scams Targeting Seniors01:31 How AI Scams Unfold02:17 The Role of AI in Senior Scams 06:19 Protecting Yourself and Your Loved Ones from Scams07:56 Final Thoughts and Resources Just this past week, the FBI issued a warning about AI-fueled scams that are manipulating trust on a massive scale. We're talking about criminals engaged in a three-phase con artistry, beginning with a seemingly innocent tech support call. This is usually where they trick you into giving them remote access to your computer, leading to far more damaging involvement. The next step sees the scammers posing as representatives from your bank, seeding panic by claiming your account has been compromised. In this state of confusion and fear, many are coerced into moving their funds to a so-called "safe" account—which, in reality, is entirely under the scammer's control. But it doesn't stop there. The third tactic involves impersonating government agencies like the FBI or Medicare, creating an overwhelming sense of urgency for transferring assets immediately. It's this pressing urgency that hooks unsuspecting victims, perpetuating the false narrative right until it's too late. A particularly unsettling element in these scams is the use of AI to clone voices or create deepfake videos. Imagine hearing the voice of someone you trust, urging you to act quickly—it'd be hard not to comply. These scammers are gathering information from social media, tailoring their cons with personal touches that make their messages appear genuine. Pete Nicoletti, the Chief Information Security Officer at Checkpoint, has warned that these AI-driven tactics are devastating, emphasizing how families need to be on the lookout. One strategic approach to counteract voice cloning and deepfakes is establishing a family code word that’s only known among trusted individuals. It's a simple yet effective safety measure to confirm identities quickly in an emergency. Furthermore, banks aren't sitting idly by. Many are combating these scams with their AI tools, flagging unusual transactions and raising alerts for suspicious activities. However, you too must take part. Always verify any financial activities directly with your institution using official channels—not the ones given by potential scammers. If you find yourself caught in any scenario that feels off or induces panic, the golden rule is to pause and verify before acting on impulse. Consult official sources and connect with your bank using trusted contact numbers—not those a possible scammer might provide. Being forewarned is being forearmed. Talking openly about these scams, sharing experiences and advice with neighbors and friends—it's our best defense. We must act collectively, supporting one another in these uncertain times. If you believe you've been targeted, report it to the relevant authorities and...

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  4. 9月5日

    259. Navigating Senior Living Locations: Close to Home or Venture Further Out?

    When it comes to finding the right senior living arrangement for our loved ones, the options can seem both endless and confining. It's a deeply personal decision that hinges on balancing proximity with care quality. As families, we often find ourselves at a crossroads: should we choose a senior living community that's geographically close, offering frequent visits and convenience? Or should we explore options a bit farther afield, where specialized care and affordability might better align with our family's needs? These are not just logistical decisions but emotional ones, filled with the desire to maintain strong family ties while ensuring our loved ones receive the best possible care. It can be challenging to weigh these factors, but with a little guidance, the path ahead can become clearer. Chapters: 01:05 Common Question: Proximity vs. Distance01:55 Benefits of Staying Close04:53 Considering Options Further Away05:19 Specialized Care Needs and Affordability07:12 Availability and Wait Lists08:18 Balancing Needs and Final Thoughts09:19 Conclusion and Contact Information The decision of proximity is a tale of two paths. On one hand, the benefits of staying close to home are undeniable. Convenience and accessibility stand out, making it easier to pop in for a quick visit, manage doctor's appointments, or simply check in. In bustling metropolitan areas like Dallas, TX, where I am based, being able to swing by after work without a lengthy drive can ease stress for both you and your loved one. There's also significant peace of mind when mom or dad is just a few minutes away. In emergencies, close proximity allows for quicker responses, providing comfort knowing you're not far if needed. Maintaining a strong family connection is another benefit, ensuring cherished little moments together are frequent and filled with love. However, sometimes the best solution isn't right around the corner. Specialized care needs can mean exploring communities further away, especially if they offer exceptional programs tailored to your loved one's requirements. Quality of care should always be a priority, and sometimes, a bit more travel is worth it for peace of mind. Affordability and availability are notable considerations when expanding your search. Pricing can vary significantly by zip codes, and looking a bit farther might reveal communities that offer the right care at a more manageable cost. Additionally, availability can differ; broadening your net can sometimes avoid long waitlists and ensure timely placement in the right environment. Picture this scenario: you fall in love with a community close to home, but there's a waitlist, and your loved one needs immediate care. Exploring slightly wider options might quickly secure a place where they can be safe and cared for until a spot opens closer by. The potential to transition back when the time is right demonstrates the flexibility and creativity necessary in these decisions. What's crucial is to have an open mind and to weigh these options based on what works best for both you and your loved one. Proximity has its advantages, but sometimes, the better fit lies across town or in the next city over. The right decision prioritizes a balance between family needs and the quality and safety of care for our loved ones. At the end of the day, there's no one-size-fits-all answer, and each family must navigate this journey in their own unique way. Remember, you don't have to figure it all out alone. My team and I are here to help guide you through these tough decisions, providing clarity and peace of mind. Whether you're in the Dallas-Fort Worth area or beyond, reach out—we're just a call away. And don't forget to share this insight with friends and family who might be facing similar choices. Subscribe to the podcast to keep informed and connected....

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  5. 8月29日

    258. Four New Texas Laws Are Changing Senior Housing: What You Need To Know To Stay Protected

    Big changes are on the horizon for senior care homes in Texas, sparked by a wave of new legislation designed to enhance protections for our elders. While these laws were inspired by some recent news stories, the focus is now on creating a brighter, safer future for seniors in residential care. Now is the perfect time to explore these legal updates, understand their implications, and ensure our seniors enjoy the quality of care they deserve. Let’s dive in and see how these changes are set to enhance senior living in Texas. Chapters: 0:43 - Overview of New Texas Laws Affecting Senior Care 1:39 - Cases That Prompted Legislative Action 4:32 - House Bill 2510: Penalties for Unlicensed Facilities 5:17 - Senate Bill 1137: Regulations for Group Home Consultants 6:31 - Senate Bill 1383: Placement Agency Requirements 9:31 - Senate Bill 1777: Healthcare Provider Referral Restrictions 10:28 - Understanding the Gray Areas in New Legislation 12:05 - Guidance for Families Seeking Senior Care 13:03 - Closing Thoughts on Senior Care Standards Understanding the New Laws: Recent legislation in Texas aims to ensure holistic safety and well-being in care homes. These changes are part of a broader effort to improve standards and make senior living facilities safer for everyone. House Bill 2510, effective September 1, 2025, is one piece that underscores the necessity for proper licensing in care facilities. Similarly, Senate Bill 1137 aims to provide clarity and safeguard the integrity of placement services by regulating referrals to unlicensed homes. This ensures families have transparent and reliable guidance when choosing a care home for their loved ones. Another vital component is Senate Bill 1383, which mandates liability insurance and due diligence for placement agencies. This echoes an industry-wide push towards greater accountability and trust, reassuring families that their best interests are being protected. Senate Bill 1777, taking effect on September 1, 2025, curtails any payments for referrals to unlicensed homes. This move emphasizes the commitment to maintaining ethical practices in senior care transactions. These updates may seem complex at first glance, but they aim to create a more robust system, ensuring senior residents receive the best possible care. Think of them as paving the path to a more trustworthy and dependable senior living environment. At Lori Williams Senior Services, we're embracing these changes wholeheartedly. We've decided to go above and beyond by no longer referring clients to unlicensed care homes. It may be legal for smaller homes to operate without a license, but we believe that peace of mind for families is priceless. As we navigate these big changes, we encourage families to stay informed and proactive in their decision-making. Always verify the licensing of care homes and ensure your placement service is compliant with these new developments. Our show notes are filled with valuable resources to help guide you through this journey. Thank you for joining in on this important conversation, and remember, knowledge is our strongest ally in championing the care our seniors deserve. Please share this with friends and loved ones, especially those in Texas, to spread the word about positive changes in senior care. Resources mentioned in this episode:Get my new book, 'Surrounded by Love: One's Family Journey Through Stroke Recovery': https://loriwilliams-seniorservices.com/book To suggest a topic, be a guest or support the podcast, please email a href="mailto:Lori@Loriwilliams-seniorservices.com" rel="noopener...

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  6. 8月22日

    257. The 3 Hardest Conversations to Have with Older Adults (and Tips to Make it Easier)

    As time goes on, relationships evolve, and new conversations begin to surface, especially with senior adults in our lives. It's not uncommon to find ourselves tiptoeing around certain discussions, unsure of how to approach them without causing discomfort or misunderstanding. Today, I want to talk about three conversations that tend to be particularly challenging: taking the car keys away, transitioning from independence, and end-of-life planning. Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction: Hardest Conversations with Aging Loved Ones01:00 – Hard Conversation #1: Taking Away the Keys02:30 – Tips for the Keys Conversation04:30 – Hard Conversation #2: Considering Senior Living06:00 – Emotional Attachments and Fears About Moving07:30 – Tips for Discussing a Move to Senior Living09:30 – Creative Ways to Introduce Senior Living Communities11:30 – Identifying What Would Make Them Ready to Move12:00 – Hard Conversation #3: Health and End-of-Life Wishes14:30 – Tips for Discussing End-of-Life Plans These aren't easy topics, and they require sensitivity, patience, and the right timing. Personally, I've found that initiating these discussions takes a little courage and a lot of empathy. But don't worry—you're not alone in this. By tackling these topics with care, we can foster understanding and strengthen our bonds with those we love. End-of-Life Care: More Than a Difficult Conversation It's crucial to remember that these discussions are about providing peace of mind and ensuring that their wishes are respected. Framing it as a collaborative planning effort can ease tension and open the doors for a more meaningful exchange. Balancing Independence and Safety Another tricky topic is the transition from independence and driving. When it became clear that it was no longer safe for my grandmother to live alone, addressing the subject was heart-wrenching. It's important to focus on sensitivity, avoiding any language that might make them feel invalidated. Finding the right senior living arrangement can feel like a tightrope walk, but framing it as a way to ensure their safety and comfort usually helps. End-of-life Planning: Uncovering the Inevitable End-of-life conversations can be uncomfortable at any age, but they’re increasingly vital as our loved ones age. I discovered that approaching this with openness and honesty can lay the groundwork for a more secure future. It’s less about prying and more about ensuring that no one is left in uncertainty during difficult times. The Role of Empathy in Difficult Dialogues One key aspect in all these conversations is empathy. By truly listening and understanding their perspective, you’re more likely to foster a supportive environment. Seniors often have wisdom and experiences that are invaluable to these discussions. Tap into that and make them feel heard. Emphasizing Legacy and Life Stories Discussing legacy can enrich these talks, transforming what might be seen as a chore into a celebration of life and accomplishments. Encouraging them to share stories not only adds depth to their narrative but also provides a natural segue into tougher topics with a backdrop of fond memories. Overcoming Avoidance: Taking the First Step I’ve found that procrastination is a common hurdle. Waiting for the 'perfect' moment usually results in missed opportunities. Setting aside a time to talk, perhaps during a family gathering or a quiet candid evening, can set the stage more...

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  7. 8月15日

    256. Paperwork You Need Before Moving to Assisted Living and Memory Care

    When the time comes to transition a loved one into assisted living or memory care, the relief of choosing the perfect community can quickly be overshadowed by the seemingly mountainous paperwork that follows. I remember the personal journey of navigating these requirements with my family, and let's just say, it's an experience that can be downright overwhelming, if you're not prepared. But breathe, now. You're not alone in this journey, and with a little guidance, you can tackle these administrative challenges efficiently. In our latest podcast episode of "Aging and Style with Lori Williams," I sat down with Theresa Williams, seasoned sales director at Rambling Oaks in Highland Village, Texas, to learn more about what comes next after selecting a community for your loved one. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Senior Living Requirements00:28 Welcome to Aging and Style with Lori Williams00:58 Steps After Choosing Assisted Living or Memory Care02:25 Essential Move-In Information and Paperwork02:50 Medical Requirements and Physician Orders06:43 Tuberculosis Screening and DNR09:35 Additional Documentation and Pet Requirements16:59 Medication Management in Assisted Living18:45 Final Thoughts and Checklist Recap Understanding the Paperwork and Processes The first thing to note is that every assisted living community will require a certain amount of paperwork—it's a necessary part of ensuring your loved one's smooth transition into their new home. Theresa emphasized the importance of having all medical and legal documentation on hand, including a signed physician's order listing all medications, even over-the-counter ones like vitamins and aspirin. A surprising requirement for many families is the need for a negative tuberculosis screening before moving in. This health check is crucial for ensuring the safety of all residents and staff at the community. Additionally, an out-of-hospital Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order, signed by a doctor, is often mandatory, underscoring the importance of understanding and preparation with your healthcare policies. One key tip Theresa shared is to be proactive in facilitating this process. Families can often expedite things by personally visiting the doctor's office with the required paperwork during an appointment. After all, the speed at which these documents are processed can largely depend on the doctor's workload and familiarity with the protocol. Interestingly, requirements such as chest x-rays might differ from state to state. In some areas, such as Mississippi, both the tuberculosis test and chest x-ray are mandatory, while in others, like Texas, one or the other may suffice. It's always best to check with the community on their specific requirements to avoid delays. Aiding Families Through the Journey Theresa mentioned that while some communities might take a guiding role, others expect families to manage the document submission. Regardless, keeping an organized checklist and maintaining regular communication with all parties involved can significantly streamline the process. Don't forget about your pet's needs if they are joining your loved one in their new home! Communities may also require vaccination records for any pets accompanying residents, so have those ready as part of the preparation. The familiarity of the community staff with the transition process can be a real asset. Experienced directors like Theresa often go out of their way to support families, helping them understand what specific paperwork is needed well ahead of time, ensuring there are no surprises down the line. The process of moving a loved one into assisted living might seem daunting, but with the right preparation and support, it doesn't have to be...

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  8. 8月8日

    255. Ask Lori: When Should I Start Planning A Move to Senior Living? Replay

    As we gracefully move into the 'golden years' of our lives, I often hear concerns about what lies ahead. Many are worried about the changes that come with age, particularly concerning living situations. It's no secret that the conversation around planning for assisted living or senior housing can stir emotions. But what if I told you that being proactive about your future could open up exciting new opportunities for you and your loved ones? While the idea of considering a new living arrangement may initially seem daunting, it's essential to start these discussions early. As a certified senior advisor, I know that planning for the future can alleviate stress and give you a sense of control. After all, you should have the freedom to enjoy your later years without unnecessary worries lingering in the background. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Aging and Style01:40 Planning for Senior Living03:12 Dealing with Emotional Challenges03:44 Safety and Home Modifications04:11 Exploring Senior Living Options05:32 Importance of Early Planning08:35 Understanding Wait Times and Deposits10:32 The Role of Placement Services11:44 Conclusion and Encouragement Imagine this: you're on a time crunch, emotions are running high, and suddenly you're faced with the monumental task of choosing between a nursing home and assisted living. It’s not uncommon for individuals and families to wait until a crisis hits before exploring their options. Avoidable? Absolutely. Starting with a detailed plan, long before a "must-move" situation arises, can save time, heartache, and ensure you're making the best choices. The whole idea is about being informed. Whether it's you or a loved one, understanding the various options such as assisted living, memory care, or nursing homes, can make a vast difference. Think of it like using a map for a journey—knowing what paths are available can lead to more fulfilling, positive experiences. Consulting with professionals can provide much-needed guidance, making your transition as smooth as possible. In previous episodes, we've heard stories from older adults thriving in ways they hadn't imagined due to well-executed plans. From lively assisted living communities to peaceful senior apartments, the possibilities are numerous. I remember visiting a senior apartment and thinking, “Wow, can I move in?” These places often exceed expectations, offering lifestyles that promote freedom from the demands and expenses of owning a traditional home. Let's face it: the thought of leaving our beloved home can trigger resistance. But understanding that various senior living options exist to enhance—not diminish—lifestyle should encourage exploration. Not every place fits everyone. For some, it's the allure of a golfing community with friends, while others prefer solitude. Indeed, like any other life decision, personal preferences dictate the best choice. Financial considerations cannot be overlooked. Sure, maintaining a home is costly—taxes, repairs, utilities, they all add up. Planning ahead offers a clear view of the financial landscape, allowing you to assess what suits your budget while achieving comfort and care requirements. Many are surprised to discover the comparative affordability and attractiveness of senior living arrangements. Waitlists shouldn't scare you, but they are a reality. Smaller residential care homes, renowned for their cozy appeal, often mean limited availability. Being on a waitlist, even years before the move, grants you options when the time comes. Think of it as a reservation for peace of mind. Additionally, tapping into the expertise of seasoned advisors provides a layer of reassurance. Our services, including placement advice, come at no cost but offer priceless peace of mind. I can't recount how many...

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Aging in Style with Lori Williams is about finding the silver lining no matter what life throws at you. Whether you're a caregiver or an older adult, you can count on author and multi-award-winning senior living expert Lori Williams to provide you with education and resources on all aspects of aging. The podcast will introduce you to aging experts and inspirational seniors. Lori pulls from her experience as the caregiver for her husband Mark who is a stroke survivor, and shares how to pay for care, navigate senior housing options, advocate for your loved one's care, and most importantly, learn to thrive not just survive as you age. loriwilliams-seniorservices.com

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