Aligned Attraction

Lee Noto
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Aligned Attraction is the go-to podcast on intimacy for powerful women. On the podcast, we teach you how to take a stance of 'fierce love' with yourself (and in your relationships) -- the kind of love that cuts through the illusion of unworthiness, and allows you to feel deeply safe to be yourself in dating and love. Each week, you'll hear from us: Lee Noto & Ani Manian, Master Intimacy Coaches and Founders of Aligned Attraction (A modern relationship school for self-aware women who are ready to revolutionize their relationship with themselves and create sexy secure love.) If you're ready to play FULL OUT and have the heart-throbbing love you’ve been craving, this is the podcast for you!

  1. 3 ngày trước

    Ep. 98: We Broke Every Relationship Rule… And Our Marriage Got Better

    My husband and I have done some things in our relationship that made the people around us genuinely worried about us — and honestly, I get it. From the outside, it probably looked like things were falling apart. But what we were actually doing was throwing out the rulebook and figuring out what actually works for us, even when it went against everything we’d been told a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. In this episode, I’m sharing three specific things we did that most people would consider a red flag — and why each one ended up being one of the best decisions we’ve ever made for our marriage. Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian

    18 phút

  2. 27 thg 5

    Ep. 97: This one quality destroyed AND saved my marriage (are you doing it too?)

    After nearly 10 years of coaching couples and individuals through some of the hardest relationship patterns imaginable, I've discovered one single quality that I've watched silently destroy relationships — including my own marriage — and yet, when finally confronted, become the very thing that saves them. In this video, I'm getting deeply personal about the childhood wounds, unconscious patterns, and self-protective behaviors that I didn't even know were running my relationship into the ground, and exactly what I did to turn it around. If you're struggling with relationship challenges, repeating painful patterns, feeling emotionally disconnected from your partner, or wondering why your love life never seems to change no matter how much personal development work you do — this one is for you. Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian 00:00 Introduction 00:53 What Is the Shadow? 01:50 Empathy as a Shadow Example 02:33 My Personal Story 06:42 Owning Your Shadow (The Eminem Method) 08:15 Creating Inner Safety 11:50 How to Find Your Shadow 13:27 Sitting with Discomfort 16:01 Building Capacity for Joy

    18 phút

  3. 21 thg 5

    Ep. 96: Why Weird Couples Have the Happiest Relationships (And the 3 Traits All Thriving Couples Share)

    After 10 years coaching couples, I started noticing a few surprising patterns in the relationships that didn’t just survive… but genuinely thrived. Not the couples who simply stayed together out of logistics or comfort, but the ones who still deeply liked each other decades later. The ones who made it through betrayal, grief, rupture, and massive life transitions only to come out even more connected. The biggest indicators had very little to do with what most people think... In this video, I’m sharing the unexpected qualities I’ve seen in the happiest long-term relationships, and “being weird together” might matter more than we realize. Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian #relationships #longtermrelationship #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #marriage

    14 phút

  4. 27 thg 4

    Ep. 95: How I became trigger proof (and how you can too)

    The other day at the grocery store, my husband said something that used to trigger the living daylights out of me. This time, instead of reacting, I got curious. I asked him what inspired him to say it. What he said back unlocked something so big I had to come tell you about it. In this episode, I'm sharing the framework Ani gave me that morning. A simple way of understanding what's actually happening when our partner says something that stings, and why most of us stay stuck in the same loop without realizing there's another way. I'm not going to spoil the unlock, because I want you to feel it the way I did when he said it out loud. But if you've ever walked away from a conversation with your partner feeling hurt, misread, or unloved, this episode is going to give you a brand new way to think about it. I also share what happened in my own marriage this morning when I tried to actually live this out (spoiler: not smooth, not pretty), and the question I'm sitting with now that I think is going to change how I show up in love. This one is for you if you're tired of the same comments getting under your skin, you've done a lot of inner work, and you're ready for the next unlock. Connect With MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manianWork with me: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian

    11 phút

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    Ep. 94: The 1% Rule of Relationships: Why Most Couples Will Never Have What They Say They Want

    What does it actually take to create a relationship that's deeply safe, wildly passionate, and rock solid? Not just on the good days, but in the hard moments too? After almost a decade of coaching women in their relationships, and walking through my own marriage alongside it, I've come to believe there are really only two skills that separate the women who create extraordinary relationships from the ones who stay stuck in painful patterns for years. Just two. In this episode, I walk you through both of them, starting with a raw, unfiltered story from my own marriage earlier that morning. A rupture with my husband Ani, a pattern I inherited from my mother, and the exact moment I had to face the uncomfortable truth that I wasn't quite who I thought I was. This episode is for you if you've ever felt like you keep repeating the same patterns in your relationship, if you've done a lot of "inner work" but still can't seem to shift the dynamic with your partner, or if you've been sold the fantasy of a passionate, secure, adventurous relationship without anyone ever telling you what it actually costs to create one. Reflection Questions (for journaling or voice memos)Where are you currently discharging tension in your relationship instead of holding it?What's one pattern you've been refusing to look at, because looking at it would mean you're not quite who you thought you were?What did you learn about love and partnership from watching your parents, and which of those patterns are still running in your relationship today?If you committed to becoming the woman who could hold what an extraordinary relationship requires, what would change starting today? Connect With MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manianWork with me: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian Subscribe & ReviewIf this episode resonated for you, the biggest way you can support the show is to subscribe, rate it, and leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more women in relationships find this work, and I read every single review.

    21 phút

  6. 06/11/2025

    Ep. 93: How Shalini Manifested the Love of Her Life (with Boundaries, Vision & a Google Doc)

    A Conscious Love Story with Shalini & Oz | Relationship Goals, Secure Attachment, & Lifestyle Design What happens when a woman becomes the partner she’s always wanted—and then calls in the love of her life? In this heart-melting episode, I sit down with Shalini and her beloved Oz to share their real-life love story—a story that started inside the Aligned Attraction mentorship and blossomed into a deep, secure, playful, and visionary relationship. From celibacy and inner healing to boundary-setting, Google Docs, and future Excel spreadsheets (yes, really)—you’ll hear how two intentional humans created a relationship rooted in soul, structure, and laughter. Whether you’re single and intentional, partnered and growing, or just love a good love story, this episode will soften your heart and remind you what’s possible when you lead with self-love. 💡 What You’ll Hear:How Shalini called in her partner through deep self-work and aligned boundariesThe role of the “Date Me Doc” in Oz’s playful, intentional search for loveWhat made both of them say “I’m in” (and take each other off the market)How they navigate conflict, build safety, and come back to connectionTheir approach to future planning, lifestyle design, and conscious parenting visionWhy knowing your inner child’s wounds helps you stop repeating the same patternsWhat it looks like to hold polarity: the King & the Kid, the Sword & the Ocean ✨ This is for you if:You’re ready to call in your person from a place of wholeness (not hustle)You want to hear what actually builds safety, attraction, and longevity in loveYou crave a relationship where you can be your full, goofy, glorious selfYou’re done with dating burnout and want a new path forward 🔍 If you’ve searched:“how to call in your life partner”“dating with intention"“conscious relationships/conscious relating"“how to create secure attachment in dating”“love after healing journey” This episode is for you! 🧠 Mentioned in this Episode:Inside the Sexy Secure Love system (that we teach in our mentorship program for women in relationships)Polarity, secure attachment, emotional rangeThe “Date Me Doc” trend + creative matchmaking strategiesLifestyle planning for couples (travel, kids, community & career)Conflict repair, feminine receptivity, and masculine directnessMonthly relationship check-ins + shared “love lists” 💬 The Untamed MomentThe moment Oz says he can be both the King and the Kid in Shalini’s presence… and she lets him. This is what happens when you build safety together. (Spoiler: this is the love we’re all worthy of.) 💌 Drop a comment: What part of this love story hit home for you? #consciousrelationship #relationshipgoals #secureattachment #feminineenergy #manifestyourpartner #datingwithintention #relationshipadvice #loveafterhealing #alignedattraction #sexysecurelove #untamedlove

    1 giờ 15 phút

  7. 17/10/2025

    Ep. 92: What Ayahuasca taught me about what ALL men want

    In this episode, I’m sharing how ayahuasca taught me what men actually want most in love, and trust me, it’s not what you think. For years, I thought being a great partner meant being impressive. You know… beautiful, productive, healed, spiritual, totally “on it.” But the more I tried to be perfect, the more disconnected I felt, from myself, and from Ani. Then, during a recent ayahuasca ceremony, I had this wild revelation that completely changed how I show up in love. But it didn’t start pretty. It started with emotional mud wrestling, loneliness, restlessness, and that deep ache of not feeling chosen. And somewhere in the middle of all that chaos… the cosmic joke landed. By the end of this episode, I’ll share what I finally realized about love, attraction, and what men truly crave, and how it has nothing to do with what you do, and everything to do with who you are. 🔥 What You’ll Hear Me Talk AboutWhat men don’t want (and how I learned this the hard way)The trap of performing in love — trying to prove, perfect, or “earn” your valueHow ayahuasca mirrored my old pattern of hustling for worthThe loneliness that comes from believing your value is externalThe turning point: from wrestling myself to realizing something way simplerThe “no-process process” — why presence is the workThe surprising energy that shifts everything in love and polarityHow I started practicing peace, belonging, and safety in real time 💎 Who This Episode Is ForThis one’s for the high-achieving, self-aware woman who’s done all the inner work — but still feels like she has to earn love, control outcomes, or hold it all together. It’s for the woman who’s tired of performing and wants to feel relaxed, desired, and deeply safe in her relationship — without doing more, fixing more, or processing forever. 🌹 The Untamed MomentMy Untamed Moment came right in the middle of ceremony, when I stopped trying to “process” my pain and just stood up — started dancing — and realized I could choose peace instead of working my way to it. That moment flipped everything for me. Because I saw that ease, safety, and love aren’t things you earn. They’re states you return to. 💬 Reflection QuestionWhat do you want in your love life — and how will you feel when you have it? Can you practice that feeling now? Let me know in the comments — I’d love to hear what state you’re choosing. 📲 Stay ConnectedInstagram → @lee.manian #feminineenergy #relationships #ayahuasca #embodiedlove #lovehealing #sexysecurelove #traumarecovery #intimacycoach #untamedintimacy #feminineembodiment

    25 phút

  8. 06/10/2025

    Ep. 91: I Was Pushing My Husband Away Without Knowing It | What Men Really Want

    There's one major lesson I learned the HARD way in my relationship, and that's the difference between what I thought my husband needed, and what he ACTUALLY needs. In this video, I'm breaking down what I call The Masculine Trinity—the three things men want most in relationships. And I'm getting vulnerable about all the ways I used to get this completely wrong with my husband. If you've ever wondered why your man shuts down, withdraws, or seems distant even when you're trying to help... this video is for you. What You'll Learn:Why unsolicited advice damages relationships (even when you mean well)The difference between "being helpful" and what men actually experience as supportHow tiny corrections land as massive disrespect to menWhy trust is the oxygen masculine energy needs to thriveThe simple appreciation practices that refuel your manThe feminine art of discernment: knowing when to share your wisdom vs. when to hold spaceHow managing your internal state creates both sovereignty AND intimacy Reflection Question:Where in your relationship could you offer more respect, trust, or appreciation... and less input, control, or correction? What would shift if you did? Drop your answer in the comments—I read every single one. Timestamps:0:00 - The moment I realized I was doing it all wrong 2:15 - What men actually need (The Masculine Trinity) 4:30 - RESPECT: Why men shut down when they feel disrespected 8:45 - My confession: How I used to micromanage Ani 11:20 - TRUST: The oxygen men need to rise 14:50 - Why "Have you done it yet?" destroys trust 17:25 - APPRECIATION: How to refuel your man 21:10 - The deeper work: Managing your internal state 24:40 - The feminine art of discernment 26:30 - Reflection question for you Keywords:relationship advice, what men want, masculine feminine polarity, healthy relationships, relationship communication, marriage advice, understanding men, david deida, alison armstrong, respect in relationships, trust in relationships, relationship tips for women, how to support your man, feminine energy, masculine energy, relationship expert, intimacy in relationships, secure attachment, relationship coaching, women supporting men, emotional maturity in relationships Hashtags:#RelationshipAdvice #WhatMenWant #MarriageAdvice #HealthyRelationships #FeminineEnergy #MasculineEnergy #RelationshipTips #UnderstandingMen #IntimacyCoach #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGoals #CouplesCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #LoveAdvice #RelationshipCoach #DatingAdvice #ModernRelationships #ConsciousRelationships #Polarity #PartnershipGoals ------------------ To learn more about Lee Noto & her work: Email: hello@leenoto.com Website: https://leenoto.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/ YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

    14 phút
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Aligned Attraction is the go-to podcast on intimacy for powerful women. On the podcast, we teach you how to take a stance of 'fierce love' with yourself (and in your relationships) -- the kind of love that cuts through the illusion of unworthiness, and allows you to feel deeply safe to be yourself in dating and love. Each week, you'll hear from us: Lee Noto & Ani Manian, Master Intimacy Coaches and Founders of Aligned Attraction (A modern relationship school for self-aware women who are ready to revolutionize their relationship with themselves and create sexy secure love.) If you're ready to play FULL OUT and have the heart-throbbing love you’ve been craving, this is the podcast for you!

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    Lee Noto
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    2020 - 2026
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