In this episode of Alive & Sober with Reno Collier, Reno sits down with special guest Carla, a clinical mental health counselor and leader at Delta, an intensive outpatient program for people in recovery. Together, they dive deep into the real-life challenges faced after quitting drinking or drugs—especially the difficult journey of rebuilding trust and relationships with children and family members after addiction.Carla shares her expertise working with individuals in recovery, offering practical advice for parents who are struggling to reconnect with their kids. She emphasizes the importance of patience, consistency, and genuine change, explaining that healing relationships is a marathon, not a sprint. The conversation covers the steps needed to regain visitation and custody, including staying in contact with caseworkers, maintaining stable housing and employment, and demonstrating ongoing recovery.Action Steps – The 4 R’s:Read: Spend time in the Bible, focusing on passages about forgiveness, restoration, and God’s unconditional love (such as Luke 15:11-32, the Parable of the Prodigal Son).Reflect: Consider how your actions have affected your loved ones and what steps you can take to rebuild trust. Reflect on the importance of patience and consistency in the healing process.Respond: Pray for strength, patience, and the willingness to surrender your struggles to God. Example prayer: “God, help me to forgive myself and others, to trust Your timing, and to do the work needed to restore my relationships. Guide me as I rebuild trust with my family and let Your love lead the way.”Reveal: Demonstrate the truth of God’s forgiveness and restoration by consistently living out your recovery, making amends, and showing real change to your children and family. Share your story with others who may be struggling, offering hope and encouragement.Whether you’re a parent in recovery, someone supporting a loved one, or seeking inspiration for your own journey, this episode offers hope, practical tools, and spiritual encouragement. Don’t give up—healing is possible, and you can be the one to break the cycle for future generations.Keywords: Reno Collier, Carla, Alive & Sober, recovery, addiction, parenting, forgiveness, making amends, rebuilding trust, faith, God, generational trauma, substance abuse, Delta program, outpatient recovery, Christian recovery, family restoration, sobriety, healing, self-forgiveness, prayer, Bible, spiritual growth, breaking the cycle, trauma recovery, mental health counseling, support, hope, encouragement, 12 steps, amends, trust, patience, consistency, surrender, Christian podcast, recovery podcast