All About Being Single

Wioleta
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Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the philosophy of the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories (hopefully soon, some guest conversations, and listener voice memos), you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.

  1. 5d ago

    Meet Singles IRL | Ideas for Places to Meet Other Single People in the Wild | Episode 54

    Looking for love but feeling stuck in the same old bar scene? Well, I totally get you! In this episode, we dive into some fresh and fun alternatives to the usual spots for meeting singles. I’m sharing my top picks for places where you might just bump into that special someone, from cozy coffee shops to lively trivia nights and beyond. We all know the dating apps can be a bit of a joke, so why not try something different, like joining a recreational sports league or volunteering for a cause you care about? Let’s keep the hope alive and explore how to connect with fellow singles in everyday settings—because trust me, love can be found in the most unexpected places! Check out upcoming singles events hosted by Wioleta at singleandsocial.com. Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Exploring the single life can sometimes feel like navigating a maze—one filled with dead ends, unexpected turns, and the occasional pitfall of overpriced drinks at a bar. Our host, Wioleta, dives deep into this jungle of singleness, sharing her own experiences and insights on where to actually meet potential partners beyond the bustling nightlife scene. She candidly admits that while bars and restaurants are the usual haunts for singles, they aren't the only options. Instead, Wioleta encourages listeners to consider coffee shops as a casual meeting ground, suggesting that making eye contact and engaging with fellow caffeine lovers can lead to opportunities for connection. Who knew a latte could spark romance? Wioleta moves on to trivia nights, pointing out how they provide a laid-back atmosphere to gauge someone’s personality—after all, competitiveness can be a revealing trait! And let’s be honest, nothing breaks the ice like a shared laugh over a wrong answer. She goes on to highlight various other places, like recreational sports leagues and group fitness classes, which can be ideal for meeting fellow singles while having fun and staying active. Wioleta emphasizes that the key is to engage in activities that you genuinely enjoy, which naturally increases the chance of meeting someone compatible. Whether it’s picking up a new sport or joining a yoga class, the focus should be on having a good time, with the bonus of potential romance. As she reflects on these ideas, Wioleta's relaxed tone makes it clear that the journey of finding love doesn’t have to be a chore—it can be an adventure filled with laughter, connection, and maybe even a little bit of unexpected magic along the way. Takeaways: Coffee shops are excellent for meeting singles, but don't just zone out with headphones.Trivia nights not only offer fun challenges but also a chance to meet singles in action.Joining a recreational sports league can be a fun way to connect with other singles.Volunteering at local charities is a rewarding way to meet like-minded individuals who care.

  2. Sep 1

    Lack of Motivation Because I'm Single | How Accountability Can Make Single Life Easier | Episode 53

    Ever feel like you’re a bit more productive when someone else is counting on you? Well, that’s the crux of our chat today! We dive into the ups and downs of single life, where the freedom to do whatever you want can sometimes feel a bit like a double-edged sword. When you're flying solo, the motivation to whip up dinner or hit the gym can feel like pulling teeth—especially when there’s no one around to keep you accountable. I share some personal stories and clever tips on how to find that external push, whether it's through workout buddies or even a cleaning playlist. So, let’s explore how we can make this single life not just manageable, but enjoyable! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. In a world where being single is often painted as a carefree party, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. I dive into the nitty-gritty of living alone and the unique challenges it brings, especially when it comes to accountability. You know that feeling when you’re at home and the fridge is just a few steps away, but that bag of chips is calling your name louder than your gym shoes? Yeah, that’s the reality of being single. When there's no one around to nudge you to hit the gym or whip up a healthy dinner, it’s all too easy to let the motivation slip away. I reflect on how living alone means every single decision becomes a negotiation with yourself. Should I cook for one? Is it worth it? Or should I just order takeout and call it a day? Let’s be real, it’s much easier to stick to a routine when you have a partner in crime to share the load — and the pizza. But hey, it’s not all doom and gloom! There’s a certain freedom in being single that can be liberating. You can dance like no one’s watching (because, well, no one is!) and binge-watch your favorite shows without sharing the remote. However, I invite my listeners to consider how we might create our own accountability in this solo journey. Maybe it’s finding a workout buddy or starting a dinner party tradition to gather friends. The beauty of social creatures like us is that we thrive on connection, and sometimes that means being a little more intentional about reaching out. After all, cooking for someone else can be way more rewarding than just whipping up a salad for yourself on a Tuesday night. Ultimately, the takeaway? Embrace the single life, but don’t shy away from finding those connections that can help you stay motivated. Whether it’s a friend who shares your fitness goals or a buddy who will cook with you, it can make all the difference in turning mundane tasks into enjoyable moments. So let’s create that accountability together, because we all deserve a little help now and then — even if it’s just to resist the siren call of the snack cabinet!

  3. Aug 25

    Life Lessons | Cheers to 1 Year of Podcasting About Single Life Experiences | Episode 52

    Ever wondered what advice you’d give your past self? Well, today’s episode dives into just that, as I reflect on the 52 lessons I’ve learned over the past year of podcasting and being single. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about dating; these nuggets of wisdom cover everything from self-discovery to the quirks of life with a cat. I mean, who knew being single could come with such a treasure trove of revelations? We’ll chat about the importance of starting new things, the healing power of pets, and how the journey of self-growth can change your dating pool—even if it gets a bit smaller! So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore these lessons together. Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Sitting down with our past selves is a pretty wild concept, right? It’s like a time travel therapy session where you get to dish out advice to your past self, or maybe just remind them to wear sunscreen. In the latest episode of All About Being Single, Wioleta takes us on a reflective journey as she celebrates her podcast's one-year anniversary. Can you believe it? A whole year of weekly chats about the single life! She’s not just patting herself on the back, though. With a list of 52 lessons learned over the past year, she dives into what being single has taught her beyond dating and relationships. For instance, she shares how embarking on new projects can feel daunting but is ultimately rewarding. And hey, if you’ve ever wanted to start something but felt stuck, Wioleta's here to tell you – just go for it! Whether it’s starting a podcast or picking up a new hobby, starting is often the hardest part, but it’s also where the magic happens. As she continues to unpack her lessons, Wioleta emphasizes the importance of inner work. It’s like self-care on steroids! The more we understand ourselves, the more selective we become about who we surround ourselves with. It’s a double-edged sword; while we might narrow our options, we attract a higher caliber of people. Plus, she reminds us that love evolves. The way we love changes as we grow, and that’s okay! It’s all part of the journey. By the end of the episode, Wioleta encourages listeners to embrace their single status and find joy in their own company. After all, the world is full of possibilities waiting for you to explore. So, grab a cup of coffee and tune in to this heartfelt episode that’s all about growth, self-discovery, and the beauty of being single. In a world that often romanticizes coupledom, Wioleta’s candid reflections provide a refreshing perspective on single life. She highlights the undeniable truth that being single can sometimes be tough, especially when the desire for companionship is strong. Yet, she also asserts that it’s a chance for profound personal growth. As she shares her insights, we see her grappling with the realities of being single and what that means for her identity. She candidly discusses how societal pressures and expectations can weigh heavily on single individuals. But instead of wallowing in the stigma, she flips the narrative, encouraging a mindset shift. Wioleta invites listeners to embrace the lessons learned during their single years. From finding solace in furry friends (shoutout to all the cat lovers) to recognizing that not everyone’s advice is worth taking, she provides a plethora of wisdom. This episode is not just a celebration of her podcast milestone but also a rallying cry for all singles to cherish their journey and the lessons that come with it. After all, every experience, whether good or bad, shapes who we are. Tune in for a dose of empowerment, some laughs, and a reminder that you are not alone on this journey! Takeaways: Reflecting on our past selves can lead to valuable insights for personal growth and self-improvement.Starting something can be the toughest hurdle, but it’s crucial to just dive in and see where it takes you.Having a pet, especially a cat, brings immense joy and healing, as they really have a special way of lifting our spirits.Being single can be a journey filled with lessons that shape our understanding of relationships and self-worth.

  4. Aug 18

    Solo Support | How Find Strength Within and Create a Support Network | Episode 51

    Who’s got your back when you’re single and having a rough day? In today’s chat, we dive into the importance of being your own support system while navigating the ups and downs of single life. I share some personal experiences, like the time I tackled a home remodel solo (spoiler: it was a wild ride) and how that taught me to lean on myself as much as others. We’ll explore practical ways to give yourself the love and support you might wish a partner could provide, whether it’s treating yourself to your fave takeout, going for a walk, or just letting yourself feel the feels without judgment. So, grab your favorite snack, and let’s get into how to turn that “single” status into a chance to thrive on your own! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv.

  5. Aug 11

    From Hope to Nope | Dating Disappointment While Single | Episode 50

    Disappointment in dating options is a common theme we dive into today, and let me tell you, it’s a real doozy. We chat about the struggle of being single and the rare moments when you actually meet someone who sparks your interest, only to face the letdown of a last-minute cancellation or a total dud. I mean, how many times have we thought we found a gem, only to realize they’re just another rock in the dating landscape? I share some personal stories that highlight those frustrating encounters, like that guy who flaked after a great connection, or the one who thought sending me money would win me over—spoiler alert: it didn’t. So, grab your favorite drink and join us as we navigate the wild world of dating disappointments and maybe find a little humor in the chaos along the way! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Dating can sometimes feel like a game of musical chairs where everyone is dancing around, but when the music stops, you're left standing alone. In this episode, we dive into the bittersweet realm of modern dating as I, Wioleta, share my own experiences of disappointment while navigating the single scene. It’s a wild ride, filled with moments of hope and letdowns that are all too familiar. I discuss the frustrating reality of meeting people who seem promising but then vanish faster than my motivation to go to the gym after the New Year. Picture this: you finally meet someone who ticks all the right boxes at a bar, you exchange numbers, and then—bam!—they flake out. I mean, what’s up with that? It’s like finding a unicorn in the wild, only for it to gallop away just when you’re about to take a selfie. Throughout our chat, I also reminisce about some awkward encounters, like that one guy who tried to buy me a drink from across the bar. Spoiler: it didn’t go as smoothly as I’d hoped. It’s a reminder that just because someone shows interest doesn’t mean they’ll make a move or that you’ll be interested in them back. As we peel back the layers of dating disappointments, we also talk about the importance of reframing these experiences. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I encourage you to look at each encounter as a step toward figuring out what you really want. It’s a journey, folks, and every twist and turn teaches us something new about ourselves and what we’re looking for in a partner.

  6. Aug 4

    Bars, Apps, and Singles Mixers | Where Can Singles Meet Other Singles? | Episode 49

    If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Where the heck are all the other single people hiding?” you’re not alone! Wioleta dives into the struggle of trying to meet fellow singles in today’s world, where it often feels like the only place to connect is at the bar—or worse, on a dating app that’s just a swipe away from a headache. We chat about how, as life gets busier and our friends pair off, it can feel like the universe is conspiring against us in our quest for companionship. But fear not! Wioleta shares some fresh ideas for getting out there and meeting new folks through activities that spark genuine interactions. So grab your favorite drink (maybe not from the bar!) and join us as we explore the uncharted territories of single mingling! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Navigating the single scene can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack, right? So, where are all the single folks hiding these days? Our discussion dives into the struggle of meeting new people in a world where swiping right has become the norm. As Wioleta shares her own experiences, she reflects on the challenges of socializing when the usual hangout spots—like bars—often feel like places where the coupled crowd gathers. She emphasizes that bars, while they can occasionally be a goldmine for meeting singles, don’t always cater to those looking for meaningful connections. Instead, they can attract folks whose priorities might not align with a budding romance. Wioleta’s candid anecdotes about her adventures at bars highlight the paradox of wanting to meet new people while also feeling hesitant about the environments where those encounters happen. But fear not! The episode doesn’t just leave us hanging. Wioleta passionately advocates for creating more engaging spaces where singles can meet without the pressure of a bar scene. Think trivia nights, game nights, or even volunteering events—activities that foster genuine interactions and allow people to connect over shared interests. As she gears up to host singles events, she reminds us that every little effort counts in expanding our social circles. If we want to meet others, we need to step out of our comfort zones and into those spaces where real conversations can spark. So, grab your dancing shoes and join us as we brainstorm ways to break the ice and spark connections beyond the usual haunts! Takeaways: Meeting other single people can feel like searching for a unicorn in a crowded bar.Navigating the dating scene is tough, especially when everyone's busy with their own lives.Bars might be the go-to spot for singles, but they aren't always the best option for genuine connections.We need more activities that encourage interaction, like trivia nights or volunteer events, instead of relying solely on bars.

  7. Jul 28

    The Solo Struggle | Things That Are Harder When You're Single | Episode 48

    Ever felt like life throws you an extra challenge just because you're single? Well, today we're diving into the nitty-gritty of what makes being single feel like a tough gig compared to being in a couple. From navigating weddings solo to tackling DIY projects all by yourself, we’re exploring how these everyday situations can feel like climbing a mountain without a buddy to lend a hand. We’ll chat about the financial hits of going solo, like paying that rent all on your lonesome or the struggle of planning for retirement without a partner’s income. But don’t worry, it’s not all doom and gloom; we’ll also throw in some positivity as we encourage you to think of the perks of being single. So grab a snack, kick back, and let’s unravel this single life together! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Navigating life as a single can feel like a never-ending rollercoaster, where the highs are thrilling, but the lows can be a bit more dramatic than expected. One major theme we delve into is the array of challenges that singles face, especially when it comes to social events. You know those weddings where everyone seems to be coupled up, and there you are trying not to make eye contact with the bouquet while dodging questions about your love life? Yeah, we’ve all been there! It’s not just the awkwardness of attending events solo; it’s the pressure of having to find a plus one or deal with the curious glances from relatives who think your love life is a mystery novel waiting to be solved. We chat about how these experiences can really amplify feelings of loneliness, especially during the holidays when everyone seems to be in cozy couples mode. But it’s not all doom and gloom! We also tackle the financial realities of being single, like paying rent solo or handling all the household chores by yourself. Sure, you don’t have to share the remote, but those bills don’t pay themselves. And what about those DIY projects? Let’s just say that assembling IKEA furniture alone can turn into a game of ‘how many curse words can I fit into one afternoon?’ It’s a lot to juggle, and it often leaves us feeling like we’re carrying the weight of the world on our single shoulders. We wrap up with a little encouragement to embrace the positives that come with being single. After all, independence has its perks! So, we challenge you to think about what you love about being single. Maybe it’s the freedom to binge-watch your favorite shows without negotiating with a partner, or the ability to make spontaneous plans without checking in with anyone. We want to remind you to celebrate those solo wins, because sometimes, it's important to reflect on how fabulous it can be to do life on your own terms!

  8. Jul 21

    Single With Stuff To Look Forward To | Finding Joy in Your Own Company | Episode 47

    Are you feeling like your single life is a waiting game? Well, today we're diving into the idea that just because we’re flying solo doesn’t mean we have to hit pause on our excitement. I get it—sometimes it feels like all the good stuff is waiting for that special someone to show up. But hold on! This episode is all about finding joy in our own journey, with plenty of things to look forward to, like solo trips, new hobbies, or even that long-awaited DIY project. Whether it's planning a weekend getaway, starting a new side hustle, or simply treating yourself to a well-deserved spa day, we’ll explore ways to create our own fun. So, let's chat about how to fill our calendars with things that make us smile, and remember: life is too short to wait around for someone else to make it special! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Feeling a bit underwhelmed in your single life? You're not alone! Our host, Wioleta, dives into the often-overlooked aspects of being single and how to fill your calendar with exciting plans that don't hinge on someone else. Instead of waiting for that special someone to come along, she encourages us to embrace our independence and find joy in personal milestones like solo trips, home renovations, or even learning a new skill. The episode is packed with examples, from planning a weekend getaway to picking apples at a fall festival, all aimed at igniting excitement in our lives right now. Let's choose to live fully in the present and create experiences that we can look forward to, whether it's hosting friends for a game night or simply enjoying a quiet morning with a good cup of coffee. So grab your favorite drink, maybe dance a little, and let’s get inspired to make plans that are all about us! Takeaways: Being single doesn't need to be a waiting game; we can create our own joy and excitement right now.There are countless personal milestones we can look forward to, like solo trips or starting a new hobby.Taking control of our finances can open doors to experiences we’re excited about, like vacations or new adventures.It’s important to focus on goals that are independent of others; our happiness shouldn't hinge on someone else's plans.

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Single by choice, by chance, or by WTF is going on? This candid podcast explores the philosophy of the realities of single life, modern dating, loneliness, self-love, healing, confidence, and personal growth. Through relatable and unfiltered stories (hopefully soon, some guest conversations, and listener voice memos), you’ll find your space and your community to feel seen, empowered, grounded, and ready for love whenever it shows up.

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  • Creator
    Wioleta
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    ©2025 Wioleta
  • Show Website
    All About Being Single