All Pro Dad Podcast

All Pro Dad
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On average, men switch jobs every four years, but one role guys will never outgrow, is dad. It’s a serious responsibility that lasts a lifetime and comes with highs, lows, and a ton of questions. It’s okay not to have all the answers… but the most committed dads are always chasing them.    The All Pro Dad podcast helps men navigate their toughest parenting problems. Experienced dads tackle tough topics, share what's worked for them, and discuss how to love your kids well. We do it all with a combination of humor and humility. If you have more questions than answers, this is the place to be. Today’s the perfect day to become an All Pro Dad.

  1. 3D AGO

    What’s Really Going On When Our Kids Care About Popularity?

    There’s nothing wrong with wanting to fit in but chasing popularity can cause social anxiety in children. How can dads guide their kids toward true belonging without losing who they are? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to unpack what’s really going on beneath a child’s desire to be popular. Why This Matters When dads misunderstand popularity, they miss the deeper need for belonging—and risk disconnecting from their kids in moments that matter most. Key Takeaways • Popularity isn’t about ego—it’s about belonging and emotional safety. • Kids experience social pressure deeply, and minimizing it increases their sense of isolation. • Dads can guide their kids best by using a simple framework: See. Steady. Shape. Practical Tips for Dads 1.   See first: Acknowledge your child’s feelings before trying to fix anything. 2.   Stay steady: Your calm presence helps regulate their emotions in stressful social moments. 3.   Shape over time: Don’t rush the lesson—help them build perspective gradually. Important Episode Timestamps  [00:00] How to Help Your Kids Navigate Social Pressure Without Losing Who They Are  [00:52] What Did You Do to Be Popular Growing Up?  [04:19] Why Popularity Is Really About Safety and Belonging, Not Being Liked  [06:42] How Kids Use Popularity to Answer the Question "Do I Belong and Do I Have Value?"  [09:27] Why Dads Should Comfort First and Fix Later When Kids Feel Left Out  [11:20] 3 Types of Kids Struggling With Popularity and How to Spot Them [13:58] "I Don't Care About Being Popular" — Why That's Never Really True  [16:33] Why Dads Want to Fix Social Pain and Why That Instinct Backfires [17:59] The See, Steady, Shape Framework: A Dad's Guide to Helping Hurting Kids  [19:04] This Week's Pro Move: Ask your kid, “What does it mean to be a popular kid?”—and listen longer than feels natural. All Pro Dad Resources 5 Ways to Vet Your Kids' Friends 10 Ways To Help Your Kids Stand Up To Peer Pressure 3 Things To Do When Yo We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    24 min

  2. APR 13

    Am I Handling My Anger Well? A Checklist for Better Parenting

    Anger shows up fast. For a lot of dads, it feels justified in the moment but regrettable right after. It's the emotion we tend to express most. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to unpack what’s behind our emotions and how to respond so we build connection instead of creating distance. Why This Matters How a dad handles his emotions shapes how his kids experience him and how they learn to handle emotions themselves. Key Takeaways • Anger is “acceptable”: Most dads are not trying to be angry—they are trying to feel in control. • There’s more to you than anger: Anger is often the only emotion men were trained to express, masking deeper feelings underneath. Practical Tips for Dads 1.    Name it: Identify what you’re actually feeling beneath the anger (hurt, stress, embarrassment, exhaustion). 2.    Frame it: Challenge the story you’re telling yourself and replace it with a more accurate, helpful perspective. 3.    Aim it: Choose a response that builds connection with your child. Important Episode Timestamps [00:00] How Dads Can Handle Anger Without Hurting Their Kids [00:44] 5 Types of Angry Dads: Which One Are You? [03:11] Which Anger Style Do You Identify With Most? [05:37] Why Dads Feel So Confused and Guilty About Their Anger [06:17] Real Stories: Times We Lost Our Temper as Dads [09:00] What Happens to Your Kids When You Don't Manage Your Anger [10:39] Why Anger Is Usually Not the Real Problem for Men [14:44] The Name, Frame, Aim Framework for Managing Dad Anger [17:58] How to Apply Name, Frame, Aim to Your Anger Style APD Pro Move: When anger rises this week, walk through Name. Frame. Aim. because your kids don’t need a perfect dad, they need a present one who is learning. All Pro Dad Resources: The Wisdom in Dealing with Anger 3 Deadly Reactions Dads Must Stop How to Be a Calm, Cool, and Collected Parent We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    21 min

  3. APR 6

    How to Teach Your Kids Values: 4 Practical Steps for Parents

    We’re always teaching our kids values. The question is, are we being intentional about it? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to reflect on the lessons they were taught and offer four practical ways parents can pass on solid principles to their kids. Why This Matters The values we intentionally teach and model become the compass that guides our kids’ character, decisions, and relationships for the rest of their lives. Key Takeaways ·      Kids watch us constantly: Harvard research shows children learn social behaviors primarily through observing and imitating adults, especially parents. ·      Being specific matters: General praise doesn’t accomplish as much as specific praise, which, when tied to values, increases repetitive behaviors.  Actions Steps for Dads 1: Think through the values you want to teach. 2: Talk about values with your kids. 3: Model your values. 4: Affirm your kids when they live out your values. Important Episode Timestamps  00:00:21 – Childhood Values That Shape Who You Become 00:01:59 – When You Don’t Live Up to Your Values 00:04:07 – You’re Always Teaching Values (On Purpose or Not) 00:04:58 – Why Kids Need Values to Navigate Life 00:06:43 – The Two Values That Matter Most: Character and Relationships 00:07:38 – Step 1: Decide What Your Family Stands For 00:10:57 – Real-Life Family Values That Actually Work 00:12:28 – Step 2: Talk About Your Values With Your Kids 00:13:08 – Teaching Perseverance: “Don’t Quit” 00:14:04 – Step 3: Model the Values You Want to See 00:18:18 – Step 4: Affirm and Reinforce Good Behavior  APD Pro Move: Write out your family values together as a group. Put them on paper and hang them somewhere in your house where you can see them, memorize them, and hold each other to them. All Pro Dad Resources: 4 Ways to Teach Your Kids to Be More Than a Good Person Don’t Raise Perfect Kids—Raise Good Ones 5 Ways to Help Your Kids Stan We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    25 min

  4. MAR 30

    How Do I Make The Most of My Time With My Kids?

    As kids grow, schedules fill up, friendships expand, and the hours we spend together begin to shrink. Dads can’t waste time. We must intentionally raise them. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how dads can make the most of the limited time they have with their children. Why This Matters We only get a short window of opportunity to shape our kids’ character, strengthen our relationship, and influence who they become. Key Takeaways ·      Time equals influence: There is no substitute for spending time with your child. Dads spend about 59 minutes per day with their kids, up from 16 in 1965. (Per UC Irvine.) ·      Kids prefer connection over lessons: Do the things that draw you closer. ·      Small moments add up: Create opportunities to make memories and build trust with your child.  Action Steps for Dads 1: Don’t get discouraged by the clock. 2: Look for teachable moments. 3: Don’t pull back, push in.  4: Schedule 1-on-1 time. 5: Embrace your traditions. Important Episode Timestamps   00:02:13 – Time Starts Flying Right Away 00:03:30 – The Shocking Math of Time With Your Kids 00:05:04 – Are You Raising Your Kids or Just Around Them? 00:05:39 – Dads Are More Involved Than Ever 00:07:43 – Why Kids Turn to Mom First 00:08:26 – Modeling Matters More Than Lecturing 00:10:38 – Don’t Panic About the Clock 00:12:42 – Be Present Instead of Living in the Past 00:15:14 – Use Teachable Moments 00:17:53 – Push In, Don’t Pull Back as Kids Get Older 00:19:50 – Be the Steady Anchor in Emotional Storms 00:23:13 – Schedule One-on-One Time With Your Kids 00:24:09 – Small Moments Create Lasting Memories 00:25:21 – Build Traditions Your Kids Will Remember 00:27:33 – Enjoy the Moment APD Pro Move: Build a calendar, or get a shared calendar on your phones, and schedule time together with your kids this week.  All Pro Dad Resources: One-on-One Time for Kids With Dad 4 Small Decisions Your Kids Will Love We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    29 min

  5. MAR 23

    How Do I Handle Fights With My Wife?

    Finances. Sex. Laundry. Fights happen over all kinds of things and can drive husbands and wives apart. It always takes two to keep a cycle going, but sometimes one can stop it. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster to talk about how we should handle fights with our wives. Why This Matters How we handle conflict helps determine the strength, happiness, and longevity of our relationships.  Key Takeaways ·      Fights are happening all the time: According to YouGov, 30% of couples argue once per week or more.  ·      Silly fights can cause serious damage: Fights are almost always about something deeper than what started them.  Steps to Handle Fights 1. Get curious. Ask yourself, “What is this really about?” 2. Own your part. Acknowledging your part in conflict doesn’t mean blaming yourself or taking full responsibility.  3. Forgive. Go ahead and give the forgiveness today that you will most likely need tomorrow.   4. Circle back. Don’t let the fight go unresolved. Circle back and let your wife know you love her more than you love being right.  Important Episode Timestamps  00:00:34 – 00:01:57 | A Marriage Fight Ted Still Regrets 00:01:57 – 00:06:17 | Most Marriage Fights Aren’t About the Real Issue 00:06:17 – 00:07:30 | The Fear and Shame Cycle in Marriage Conflict 00:07:30 – 00:09:47 | Why Men Shut Down and Women Escalate in Arguments 00:09:47 – 00:11:40 | One Way Dads Can Break the Conflict Cycle 00:11:40 – 00:14:05 | The Danger of Rumination in Marriage Arguments 00:14:05 – 00:15:24 | A Real-Life Example of Misreading Intentions 00:15:24 – 00:16:38 | The Simple Power of Forgiveness in Marriage 00:16:38 – 00:19:40 | Taking Space Without Making Your Spouse Feel Abandoned 00:19:40 – 00:22:07 | The Pro Move: Ask If You’re Making Her Feel Safe APD Pro Move: The next time you are feeling conflict with your wife, ask, “Am I making her feel safe or afraid?” All Pro Dad Resources: 4 Things to Do After an Argument With Your Wife 5 Traps to Avoid in an Argument With Your Wi We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    23 min

  6. MAR 16

    Why Is Student Behavior Getting Worse?

    Ask a teacher if his or her job is getting harder. Most will tell you student behavior is their biggest professional hurdle. Can dads play a role in fixing things at school? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how bad student behavior has gotten and how the solution starts at home.  Why This Matters If we want our kids to excel in the classroom, we should focus on promoting good behavior.  Key Takeaways ·      Mental health impacts behavior: Increased anxiety, stress, and frustration make it hard for kids to focus. ·      COVID still lingers: The impact is still felt socially and academically. ·      Screens have changed kids’ brains: Constant visual stimulation makes paper and books "boring." Practical Tips to Help Improve Student Behavior 1. Stop Passenger Parenting (see Episode 106).  2. Deal With Anxiety.  3. Relieve Stress Away From School.  4. Start an All Pro Dad Chapter.  Important Episode Timestamps 00:02:07 – 00:03:42 | Are Student Behavior Problems Getting Worse? 00:03:42 – 00:05:18 | What’s Driving the Spike in Classroom Issues 00:05:18 – 00:07:06 | The Self-Regulation Crisis in Kids 00:07:06 – 00:09:11 | Screen Time, Dopamine & Attention Problems 00:09:11 – 00:11:04 | The Disappearing Authority of Teachers 00:11:04 – 00:13:02 | Parents vs. Schools: Who Owns Behavior? 00:13:02 – 00:15:14 | Why Kids Struggle With Boundaries Today 00:15:14 – 00:17:26 | Emotional Regulation Starts at Home 00:17:26 – 00:19:41 | Supporting Teachers Instead of Undermining Them 00:19:41 – 00:22:58 | Raising Kids Who Can Function in the Real World APD Pro Move: Do one of these things:  ·      Talk to your kids about anxiety and work on coping mechanisms ·      Do something fun and crazy this week to reduce stress ·      Check out an All Pro Dad Chapter All Pro Dad Resources: Episode 106 – What is a Passenger Parent and Am I One? Episode 95 – What Challenges Is Gen Alpha Facing? We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    28 min

  7. MAR 9

    How Dangerous is Doomscrolling?

    Remember when you were a kid and there was Breaking News on TV? The avalanche of images. The wave of emotions. The same thing happens today, every time we start doomscrolling. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the dangers of doomscrolling, how it impacts us, and how dads can help their kids stop the cycle.  Why This Matters Doomscrolling reportedly leads to worse mental health outcomes, more anxiety, and higher rates of suicide. Doomscrolling is looking through an endless feed of negative content. Can Dads Stop the Cycle? 1. Talk to your kids about doomscrolling 2. Teach kids to think of good things 3. Fuel their optimism Important Episode Timestamps  00:02:20 – 00:04:46 | What Is Doomscrolling and Why It’s So Addictive 00:04:46 – 00:06:11 | Doomscrolling at Work and Before Bed 00:06:11 – 00:08:01 | The Brain Science Behind Phone Addiction 00:08:01 – 00:10:26 | How Doomscrolling Fuels Pessimism and Anxiety 00:10:26 – 00:12:14 | Negativity Bias: Why Bad News Sticks 00:12:14 – 00:14:09 | Teen Mental Health, Suicide Risk & Screen Time 00:14:09 – 00:17:22 | 24/7 Breaking News in Your Child’s Pocket 00:17:22 – 00:20:19 | How Dads Can Talk to Kids About Doomscrolling 00:20:19 – 00:24:41 | Fighting Doomscrolling With Optimism and Good News APD Pro Move: Have your kids tell you something good.  Find a positive or funny story to share with your kids every day. If your kids are teenagers, ask them to find a good story to share with you. All Pro Dad Resources: Episode 93 – How Do I Make the Social Media Algorithm Work For Me? Episode 109 – Should I Let My Kid Be An Online Influencer? Study on optimism during COVID pandemic We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

    26 min

  8. MAR 2

    What Do Dads Need to Stop Saying to Their Kids?

    A father’s words can build his kids up or tear them down. They are powerful, and can stick with kids for the rest of their lives. That’s why we have to watch what we say. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how often we (even accidentally) say the wrong thing and what uplifting things we should be saying instead. Why This Matters The words we use with our kids can build up or tear down. We must choose them wisely. Things to Stop Saying to Sons 1. “You can’t do it.” 2. “You’re not strong enough.” Or “Don’t be a wimp.”  3. “I’m disappointed in you.” 4. “I’m working on something important. You’ll have to wait.” Things to Stop Saying to Daughters 1. “Have you gained/lost weight?” 2. “Stop being so dramatic.” 3. “You’re just like your mother.” 4. “Oh, but you’re so pretty.” 5. “If you had done ______, you could have done even better.”  Things to START Saying Instead 1. “I love you.” 2. “I’m grateful to be your dad.” 3. “I believe in you.” Important Episode Timestamps 00:00:48 – 02:41 | Why Your Anger Isn’t Really About Your Kids 02:41 – 05:12 | The Hidden Triggers Behind Dad Reactions 05:12 – 07:36 | The Difference Between Discipline and Control 07:36 – 10:18 | Parenting From Pressure vs. Parenting From Purpose 10:18 – 12:44 | How Stress Leaks Into Your Tone and Body Language 12:44 – 15:03 | The 5-Second Pause That Changes Everything 15:03 – 17:29 | Repairing After You Lose Your Cool 17:29 – 19:58 | Teaching Kids Emotional Regulation by Modeling It 19:58 – 22:11 | Breaking the Generational Pattern of Anger 22:11 – End | The Dad Challenge: Lead Yourself First   APD Pro Move: Give your kids a new affirmation every day this week. All Pro Dad Resources:  Episode 8 – What Are 7 Things A Son Needs From His Dad? Episode 9 – What Are 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Dad? Episode 87 – How Can I Connect With My Kids? We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

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On average, men switch jobs every four years, but one role guys will never outgrow, is dad. It’s a serious responsibility that lasts a lifetime and comes with highs, lows, and a ton of questions. It’s okay not to have all the answers… but the most committed dads are always chasing them.    The All Pro Dad podcast helps men navigate their toughest parenting problems. Experienced dads tackle tough topics, share what's worked for them, and discuss how to love your kids well. We do it all with a combination of humor and humility. If you have more questions than answers, this is the place to be. Today’s the perfect day to become an All Pro Dad.

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  • Creator
    All Pro Dad
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    126
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