All The Good Men

Fabienne Annick

Welcome to All The Good Men with Sex, Love, & Spirit Coach Fabienne Annick. This podcast is a response to the question “Where are all the good men?” Good men are everywhere. Each episode is a conversation where we explore and celebrate healthy masculinity from all angles. We dive into self mastery, sexuality, emotions, shadow work, plant medicines, and so much more with incredible men doing powerful things in the world.

  1. 04/18/2025

    11. My relationship with the masculine

    In this first solo episode of All The Good Men, I open up about my personal journey with masculinity - both in the men I’ve known and within myself. I’ve had to untangle the stories I inherited about what it means to be a man, to be a woman, to be in relationship, and to hold both masculine and feminine energy within me. I share how my experiences with men, and my own inner masculine, have evolved over the years—from admiration and disappointment, to deep healing and profound respect. I talk about the importance of role models, the impact of societal gender roles, and the need for more examples of healthy masculinity in the world. This episode is a love letter to both the masculine and the feminine, and an invitation to all of us to meet each other with more reverence, curiosity, and grace. I also speak to… What I’ve learned from both the beautiful and painful expressions of masculinityHow I’ve healed my relationship with my inner masculine over timeThe role that women played in shaping my understanding of genderWhy honoring the feminine is essential for balanced powerHow men can be powerful role models for the next generationWhy vulnerability is not weakness—it’s the foundation of real strengthThe ongoing, transformative journey of redefining gender and relationship Connect with me: Website: www.fabienneannick.comInstagram: @fabienneannick Join us at Harmonìa, June 2-8: https://www.fabienneannick.com/harmonia

    25 min
  2. 04/03/2025

    10. Food, hormones & masculinity: The hidden link with Martin Pytela

    In this episode, I sit down with Martin Pytela, a functional medicine expert and metabolic typing coach, to explore the profound connection between nutrition, mental health, and overall well-being. Martin shares his personal health journey, revealing how conventional medicine failed to address his root issues and how metabolic typing transformed his approach to healing. Together, we discuss the impact of diet on emotional regulation, the effects of plastics and environmental toxins on hormonal health, and the importance of self-awareness in making informed dietary choices. We also dive into… How metabolic typing helps identify your unique nutritional needs The connection between diet, mental health, and emotional well-being The dangers of refined foods and how impulse control is tied to nutrition How mixed heritage influences dietary choices and health The role of mindset in creating sustainable health habits Understanding estrogen dominance and how diet impacts hormonal health How toxicity, malnutrition, stagnation, and trauma shape overall wellness Practical steps men can take to improve their health today Martin Pytela is a functional medicine expert and metabolic typing coach committed to "Restoring Vitality to You and the Planet." His journey into holistic health began after struggling with mercury toxicity, which led him to explore natural healing methods. Since 2011, Martin has coached over 12,000 clients and educated more than 60,000 students on topics like metabolism, detoxification, gut health, and longevity. Through his Life Enthusiast platform, he provides resources and solutions for individuals seeking to reclaim their health. Connect with Martin: Podcast: Life Enthusiast Podcast Website: www.life-enthusiast.com Instagram: @lifeenthusiast15 Facebook: Life Enthusiast Contact YouTube: Life Enthusiast Channel Connect with Fabienne: Website: www.fabienneannick.com Instagram: @fabienneannick

    48 min
  3. 01/09/2025

    09. The dance of attachment with Adam Schlender

    In this episode, I sit down with Adam Schlender to explore the dance of attachment, and the multi-faceted dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. We discuss the importance of presence, emotional regulation, and understanding in fostering healthy connections, while diving deep into how communication, trust, and embodiment shape our relationships. Adam shares his personal journey and insights on navigating purpose, offering actionable practices to create more fulfilling relational experiences. We also dive into… How emotional regulation is foundational to personal and relational growth Navigating attachment styles through the lens of the island, wave, and anchor How embodiment influences love and connection Building trust and respect to create a new template for healthy relationships The cyclical nature of relational growth and evolution Practices for deepening intimacy, communication, and connection The transformative power of choosing connection over judgment Adam Schlender is a visionary entrepreneur, founder of OPUS, and inventor of the SoundBed, a revolutionary sound healing device that serves as a powerful tool for nervous system and emotional regulation. With a first-principles somatic approach to healing and growth and a deep understanding of sound’s influence on the physical and energetic bodies, Adam merges science and ancient wisdom to create transformative practices that unlock expansive personal growth, including Expansive Sacred Union (ESU), which integrates somatic experiencing, Vedic teachings, and tantra to help individuals and couples live lives of purpose, power, and pleasure. Connect with Adam: Explore OPUS and the SoundBed Connect with Fabienne: Website:⁠⁠ www.fabienneannick.com⁠⁠ Instagram:⁠⁠ @fabienneannick⁠⁠ Free Gift:⁠ ⁠Morning Practice Meditation

    1h 18m
  4. 12/12/2024

    08. Integrative semen retention & sexual embodiment with Taylor Johnson

    In this episode, we explore how sexual embodiment, presence, and intentionality can transform our lives both inside and outside of the bedroom. Taylor introduces the concept of integrative semen retention, advocating for a non-dogmatic approach to sexual mastery practices. We discuss the impact of societal narratives on masculinity, offering actionable insights for a more fulfilling sexual and emotional life. We also dive into… Practical techniques for moving out of the head and into the body Balancing structure and flow in sexual practices How understanding ejaculation frequency can enhance creativity and mental clarity Shifting from goal-oriented to pleasure-oriented sex Reclaiming the power of sexual language and shifting societal narratives The importance of men connecting with each other to share vulnerabilities How shame is the biggest energy leak  Taylor Johnson is a men’s coach and facilitator specializing in helping men create epic sex lives by combining esoteric sexual wisdom with Western science and practicality. He is the creator of the Orgasmic Mastery course and host of the Sex Upgraded podcast. Taylor’s mission is to guide men toward more fulfilling, connected, and powerful relationships with their sexuality. Connect with Taylor: Learn more about his Orgasmic Mastery Course YouTube: @TaylorClarkJohnson Podcast: “Sex Upgraded”  Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson  Connect with Fabienne: Website:⁠ www.fabienneannick.com⁠ Instagram:⁠ @fabienneannick⁠ Free Gift: ⁠Morning Practice Meditation

    1h 9m
  5. 11/14/2024

    07. Exploring masculinity through psychedelics with Ismail Ali

    In this episode, Ismail Ali comes on to explore the nuances of psychedelics and how they impact the human experience. We discuss the multi-layered impact that altered states of consciousness can have on our relationship with ourselves and with the world, including our gender identity and expression.  We also dive into… Reframing our use of the term “recreational” in the context of drug use  Recognizing that we have more agency than we’ve been led to believe  The illusion of “safety” and how it prevents us from growing  The purpose of the spiritual path as increasing our capacity to sit with discomfort  Why plant medicines get gendered  Post-binary thinking as the evolution of our consciousness  Suffering as an innate part of the human condition  Removing the mediator between us and The Divine  Ismail Lourido Ali, JD (he/him or they/them) has been personally utilizing psychedelics and other substances in celebratory and spiritual contexts for over half his life, and has been actively participating in the drug policy reform movement for a decade. As the Director of Policy & Advocacy at the Multidisciplinary Association of Psychedelic Studies (MAPS), Ismail supports the design, building, and implementation of psychedelic policy reform across the country and world. Ismail co-founded and co-chairs the Board of the Psychedelic Bar Association and is licensed to practice law in the state of California. Ismail advises, is formally affiliated with, or has served in leadership roles for numerous organizations in the drug policy ecosystem, including Students for Sensible Drug Policy, Chacruna Institute, the Ayahuasca Defense Fund, and Alchemy Community Therapy Center (formerly Sage Institute). Connect with Ismail: Instagram: @sage_izzy Learn more about the Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies: https://maps.org/  The Psychedelic Bar Association: https://thepsychedelicbar.org/  Connect with Fabienne: Website: www.fabienneannick.com Instagram: @fabienneannick Free Gift: Morning Practice Meditation

    1h 6m
  6. 10/31/2024

    06. Creating safety within with Soma Miller

    In this episode, Soma Miller shares a transformative vision for modern masculinity, discussing how men can redefine their relationship to themselves and others through deep inner work. He explores the power of reparenting the nervous system, emphasizing the importance of meeting childhood needs to prevent unconscious void-filling. Soma brings a unique “East meets West” perspective to his coaching, blending indigenous wisdom, shadow work, and somatic practices. We also dive into… How safety and challenge work together to foster healing and growth A man’s relationship to the feminine as a mirror of his inner world The influence of Lakota traditions and connecting to nature as a masculine balance Why mentorship and community spaces model healthy nervous systems How fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity Embracing and honoring the unconscious self with reverence for the feminine Navigating confrontation and aggression without losing inner power Soma's group program and its role in supporting men’s journeys Soma Miller is a father, transformational men’s coach, and visionary at the forefront of redefining modern masculinity. Fusing shadow work, somatic practices, indigenous wisdom, and relational mastery, Soma guides men to align with their deepest values, creating secure, sexy intimacy and a life fueled by purpose and impact. Devoted to fostering emotionally mature and empowered masculinity, Soma is passionate about helping men break through societal conditioning to live authentically, connect deeply, and lead with integrity. Connect with Soma: Website: www.theessentialman.net Instagram: @the.essential.man Connect with Fabienne: Website: www.fabienneannick.com Instagram: @fabienneannick Free Gift: Morning Practice Meditation

    54 min

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Welcome to All The Good Men with Sex, Love, & Spirit Coach Fabienne Annick. This podcast is a response to the question “Where are all the good men?” Good men are everywhere. Each episode is a conversation where we explore and celebrate healthy masculinity from all angles. We dive into self mastery, sexuality, emotions, shadow work, plant medicines, and so much more with incredible men doing powerful things in the world.