All Things Melanin

Shelby and Erica

Besties, Shelby and Erica are the hosts of the All Things Melanin Podcast, a space dedicated to open, honest, and transparent conversations. They talk candidly about dating, relationships, career, brand building, and faith. From personal to professional, their relatable banter will have you laughing one second and feeling all the emotions the next. This audio series was created to encourage, inspire, and motivate multifaceted women to go after their dreams, and live their best lives.

  1. 13H AGO

    How to Tell the Difference Between a Red Flag and Fear?

    Are you actually seeing a red flag, or are you just projecting past fears onto a new situation? This week, Erica and Shelby dive deep into the psychology of discernment—both in our relationships and our creative journeys. We’re exploring what it looks like to "do your best" when your "best" changes every single day. In this episode, we discuss: The Check-In: Redefining what "doing your best" looks like in this current season of life. Dating & Relationships: How to distinguish between an actual red flag and your own internal defense mechanisms. The Journey: The honest reality of staying obedient to your vision without burning out. We share personal stories of "doing too much," trying to prove our worth through our work, and the warning signs of resentment and exhaustion. Mentor Moment: "He checks every box, but I don't feel peace." We help a listener navigate the difficult decision to walk away from a "perfect on paper" partner. Words of Encouragement: A grounding reflection on Romans 12:12—remaining joyful in hope and faithful in prayer through every affliction. Have a question for us? Email: allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com | DM: @allthingsmelanin__ to have your question answered on our Mentor Moment Segment. Let's Stay Connected Visit our website at www.allthingsmelanin.org Follow us on YouTube Follow us on Instagram @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Threads @allthingsmelanin_ Follow us on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    38 min

  2. APR 2

    Systems for Success & Knowing When to Let Go

    Is your plate full, but your cup empty? This week, Erica and Shelby are talking about the art of the "pour"—how we invest in ourselves to keep the momentum going without burning out. We’re getting practical about the tools that keep All Things Melanin running and getting personal about the relationships that might be running their course. In this episode, we cover: The Check-In: What "pouring into yourself" looks like in this current season. Dating & Relationships: How to identify the "enough is enough" moment in both romantic and platonic relationships. The Journey : We’re pulling back the curtain on the tech stack that runs our brand while we work 9-5s. From Later and Canva to using AI for brainstorming, we discuss how to choose tools that actually make you more efficient. Mentor Moment: A 6-figure earner asks: "My childhood friend is making snide comments about my success and calling me greedy. How do I handle the 'it must be nice' energy?" Words of Encouragement: A grounding reminder from Matthew 6:24 on why today’s grace is enough for today’s troubles. Have a question for us? Email: allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com | DM: @allthingsmelanin__ to have your question answered on our Mentor Moment Segment. Connect With Us: Visit our website at www.allthingsmelanin.org Follow us on YouTube Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Threads @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    37 min

  3. MAR 26

    Private Life, Public Brand: Finding the Balance

    Is privacy the new "flex" in dating? In this episode, we explore whether you should keep your romantic relationship off social media and how much of your relationship you should actually share online. We dive into The Journey of getting back to business basics to avoid burnout and scale with intention. Plus, we tackle the big question: Is it time to take a leap of faith and apply for your dream job? This episode dives into: Dating & Relationships: The pros and cons of keeping your partner private. The Journey: Why returning to the basics is the ultimate power move for your brand and/or career. Mentor Moment: How to overcome the fear of "the leap" and have the audacity to go after your dream role. Words of Encouragement: Zechariah 4:10—The importance of never despising small beginnings. Visit our website at www.allthingsmelanin.orgFollow us on YouTube Follow us on Instagram @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Threads @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    39 min

  4. MAR 19

    Building When No One is Clapping: The Reality of the Grind

    Ever feel like you’re working on a vision that only you can see? This week, Erica and Shelby get vulnerable about dating, the journey of building a brand and/or business, and much more. Inside this episode, we discuss: Dating & Relationships: Are you protecting your peace, or are you just unavailable? We discuss how to identify if you're operating from high standards or emotional armor. The Journey: We share the raw reality behind All Things Melanin. From late-night self-doubt to praying over ideas no one else sees yet—how do you build when no one is clapping? Mentor Moment: A listener in her late 30s asks: "I’ve been single for 10 years and I’m hyper-independent. How do I soften for a future spouse without shrinking myself?" Words of Encouragement: A powerful reminder from Habakkuk 2:3 on trusting the timing of your vision. If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in our DMs @allthingsmelanin__ Connect With UsVisitour website at www.allthingsmelanin.org Follow us on YouTube Follow us on Instagram @allthingsmelanin__ Follos us on Threads @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    35 min

  5. MAR 12

    How to Maintain Relationships During Your Busiest Seasons

    This week, Erica and Shelby get real about the "busy seasons" of life.  In this episode, we discuss: Dating & Relationships: Strategies for maintaining romantic and platonic relationships when you’re navigating difficult and busy seasons. The Journey: After 10+ years in the workforce, we share the lessons we learned the "hard way" Mentor Moment: We tackle a tough listener dilemma: Do you tell your best friend her new man is a walking red flag, or do you stay quiet? Words of Encouragement: Romans 15:13 – Finding joy and peace in the overflow of hope. Stay Connected With Us:Visit our Website www.allthingsmelanin.org Follow us on YouTube Follow us on Instagram @allthingsmelanin__ Follow us on Threads @allthingsmelanin__ Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    38 min

  6. 11/07/2025

    Living for the Weekend

    In the season finale episode, Shelby and Erica kick off the episode by sharing a random act of kindness they've experienced. In this episode, we discuss: High standards vs. Unrealistic expectationsHow to become more discoverable and find your unique voice for your brand and/or businessNavigating difficult situationsWords of Encouragement from Proverbs 16:3 If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in our DMs @allthingsmelanin__ Stay Connected Visit our website at allthingsmelanin.org Follow on YouTube Follow on Instagram Follow on Threads Follow on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    38 min

  7. 10/30/2025

    Ranting & Raving

    Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode by sharing one piece of advice their moms have given them that has always stuck with them. In this episode, they discuss: The impact of dating apps and social media in navigating the dating sceneUnique challenges and triumphs their brand has experiencedMaintaining a sense of individuality when in a long-term relatinshipWords of encouragement from  Psalm 56:3: If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in our DMs @allthingsmelanin__Stay Connected: Visit our website at allthingsmelanin.org ⁠Follow on YouTube ⁠Follow on Instagram ⁠Follow on Threads ⁠Follow on Facebook Keep up with Erica Keep up with Shelby

    39 min

  8. 10/23/2025

    Has the Check Cleared?

    Shelby and Erica kick off this week's episode with a heart of gratitude. This week's episode discusses: Navigating dating and healingBuilding meaningful relationships through networkingKnowing when to take a leap of faith vs. staying putWords of encouragement from Luke 1:45If you have a question that you want us to answer, send us an email at allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com or slide in our DMs at @allthingsmelanin__ Stay Connected: Visit our website at ⁠⁠⁠allthingsmelanin.org⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow on ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow on ⁠⁠Threads⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Follow on ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Keep up with Erica⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Keep up with Shelby⁠⁠⁠

    29 min
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Besties, Shelby and Erica are the hosts of the All Things Melanin Podcast, a space dedicated to open, honest, and transparent conversations. They talk candidly about dating, relationships, career, brand building, and faith. From personal to professional, their relatable banter will have you laughing one second and feeling all the emotions the next. This audio series was created to encourage, inspire, and motivate multifaceted women to go after their dreams, and live their best lives.

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  • Creator
    Shelby and Erica
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    173
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Shelby and Erica
  • Show Website
    All Things Melanin