Alongsider Church

Alongsider Church

Alongsider Church is a community following Jesus together and helping others do the same. These messages are designed to help you know God, grow in your faith, and live on mission—from neighborhoods to nations.

  1. 4D AGO

    Prayer: The Conversation that Changes Everything - Desiring Prayer - Jeff Jewett

    Prayer is something most of us have done, but many of us struggle with. In this message, we explore why prayer can feel difficult and how God invites us into something simple and real. Through Scripture, we see that prayer isn’t about saying the right words—it’s about knowing God as our Father. If prayer has ever felt confusing, distant, or hard, this message will help you take a simple next step. Prayer isn’t something we add to life. It’s how we live with God. SCRIPTURE. Romans 8:14-16, Ephesians 1:15-19 OUTLINE. 1. Prayer Feels Familiar… But Can Be Confusing • We’ve heard prayers • We’ve said prayers • But we’re not always sure what we’re doing Key Idea: Prayer isn’t something we add to life—it’s how we live with God. 2. We Pray as God’s Children (Romans 8:15–16) • We are not strangers—we are sons and daughters • We cry, “Abba, Father” Key Idea: Prayer starts with relationship, not performance. 3. We Pray to Know God (Ephesians 1:15–19) • Paul’s prayer: that we would know God better • Not just information—but heart transformation Key Idea: Prayer is about knowing God, not just getting things from Him. 4. Prayer Is Hard • It exposes what’s going on inside us • We feel distracted, empty, or unsure Key Idea: We move through duty… to get to delight. 5. Prayer Changes Us • It gives peace in anxiety • It reshapes how we see life • It draws us closer to God Key Idea: Prayer may not change everything around us—but it changes us. Take a Step This Week • When you see the stone → pray • Keep it simple • Pray for someone who doesn’t know Jesus Key Idea: Don’t overthink it—just talk to God. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS. Warm-Up • What’s one prayer you remember from growing up (serious or funny)? Kids • When could you talk to God this week? Before bed, at school, or somewhere else? Reflect • What has your experience with prayer been? Easy, difficult, confusing, meaningful? Why? • Why do you think prayer can feel hard or easy to avoid? Scripture • Read Romans 8:15–16. How do these verses speak to those who feel they are not good enough for a relationship with God? • What emotions do you experience when you hear the word “father”? What does it mean for you to think of God as ‘Abba, Father’? • Read Ephesians 1:17–18. How do we grow in knowing God better? What are you doing right now to pursue Him? Personal • How do you experience the Holy Spirit in your everyday life? How do you want to experience the Holy Spirit in your everyday life? • When unhealthy thoughts enter your mind, what has helped you? Action • What is one simple step you can take this week to grow in prayer? • What part of the passage or sermon would you like to understand better or talk about more? NEIGHBORHOODS TO NATIONS. • How would you explain the Gospel to someone who feels they are not "good enough" for God? • Who is one person in your life that doesn’t know Jesus that you can begin praying for this week? • How might God want to use you in their life? PRAYER PROMPT. Abba Father, thank you for loving us and calling us your children. Help us know you better this week. Give us a desire to pray and draw near to you. Amen.

    27 min
  2. MAR 15

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Strength to Stand - Joe Gregory

    In Ephesians 6:10–24, Paul reminds believers that our true struggle is not against people but against spiritual forces of evil. This sermon explores how the enemy works through temptation and accusation to pull us away from God. Most importantly, we see how the truth of the Gospel equips us to stand firm in Christ.     Scripture. Ephesians 6:10-24.   Outline. 1. Know Your Enemy Our struggle is not just against circumstances or people, but against spiritual forces of evil. The devil’s goal is to create distance between us and God through deception.   2. Recognize His Schemes The devil primarily works through temptation and accusation.   Temptation: “This isn’t really wrong… God is holding something back.” Accusation: “What you’ve done puts you beyond God’s forgiveness.”   We see both of these tactics in the fall of humanity in Genesis 3.   3. Stand Firm in the Gospel Paul tells believers to put on the armor of God. This armor is the truth of the Gospel—what Christ has already accomplished for us.   4. Remember What Christ Has Done The Gospel reminds us:   We are redeemed We are forgiven We are saved by grace   Because of this, temptation loses its appeal and accusations lose their power.   5. Fight Through Prayer and Community Paul ends by calling believers to pray continually and support one another.   Spiritual battles are not meant to be fought alone.    Questions. Kids: What can you remember about Jesus when you feel tempted to do something wrong?   The sermon described two errors: giving the devil too much power or ignoring his influence completely. Which of these are you more likely to fall into today, and why?   Temptation often sounds like a small or reasonable compromise. What are some ways you personally experience temptation in everyday life?   After we sin or fail, we can feel shame or distance from God. Have you ever experienced thoughts like “God must be disappointed in me” or “I’ve messed up too much”? How did that affect your relationship with God?   Paul calls believers to pray for one another. What is one area of your life where you would like prayer or encouragement?   Neighborhoods to Nations. If our true enemy is spiritual evil rather than people, how should that shape the way we love and share the Gospel with our neighbors, coworkers, or friends who don’t know Christ?

    18 min
  3. MAR 1

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Christlike Work - Jeff Jewett

    Work can reveal what’s really in our hearts. In “Christlike Work” (Ephesians 6:5–9), we explore how the gospel reshapes both employees and employers. Because Jesus is Lord of our lives, He is Lord of our work. Whether you work under authority or carry it, this message invites you to see your job as worship, your leadership as stewardship, and your daily faithfulness as eternally significant. Our worst moments at work do not get the final word. The cross does.    Scripture.  Ephesians 6:5-9 [5] Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. [6] Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. [7] Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, [8] because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. [9] And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him.   Outline.  Main Truth: Because Jesus is Lord of our lives, He is Lord of our work.   1.    Working for the Boss (6:5–8) a.    Obey Within Biblical Boundaries ·      We obey with humility and sincerity — unless asked to: Do what is sinful, participate in idolatry, or silence Christ. b.    Remember Who You’re Serving ·      “Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord.” (6:7) ·      Your daily work is worship. ·      Before work this week, pray: “Jesus, You are Lord here.” c.     Trust the True Reward ·      The Lord sees what others overlook. ·      Nothing done for Christ is wasted. 2.    Working as the Boss (6:9) a.    Authority Is Stewardship - Leadership is service, not control. b.    No Threatening - Do not use fear. Every boss has a Boss in heaven. c.     Remember Your Master - Jesus leads with authority and humility. So should we. Questions. Open: What do you like best about your boss?   Kids: This week, what is one thing you can do — at school, at home, or at practice — like you’re doing it for Jesus?   What have you felt enslaved to this past week: Your job? Family obligations? Your home? The kids’ soccer team? Other?   How should we understand the word “slaves” in these verses? Do you believe these verses condoned slavery as acceptable? Explain.   How are you tempted to cut corners, be a people-pleaser, or work only when someone is watching in the workplace (or anywhere else)? Why is it so appealing?   Where has work (paid or unpaid) recently felt frustrating, unfair, or unseen? Where do you most struggle to remember that you’re ultimately working for Christ and not just a person?   If you have any level of authority (parent, supervisor, team lead, volunteer leader), how is Jesus inviting you to lead differently? How could you reflect the Son of Man’s character better?   How does remembering that you are forgiven and secure in Christ change the way you respond to failure or criticism at work?   Neighborhoods to Nations. Who is one person in your workplace (or daily rhythm) who may not know Christ? What is one intentional next step you could take toward them this week — prayer, conversation, encouragement, or invitation?   How might your work ethic either attract or repel people from Jesus? Is there a specific way your integrity, generosity, or humility could open a gospel conversation?

    23 min
  4. FEB 15

    The Gospel in Every Relationship - The Gospel at Home - Jeff Jewett

    Marriage can feel funny, frustrating, and painfully familiar. In this message from Ephesians 5:21–6:4, we use humor from Everybody Loves Raymond to explore what God says about life at home—marriage, parenting, and family relationships. This sermon reminds us that the gospel isn’t about getting everything right in our homes. It’s about trusting Jesus, who already did. Whether you’re married, single, divorced, widowed, or raising kids in the middle of real life, this message points beyond our imperfect relationships to Christ’s perfect love for His church. The gospel belongs at home, and God’s heart is to move that love from our homes to our neighborhoods and all the way to the nations. Scripture. Ephesians 5:21-6:4. Questions. Open: What do you like best about your boss? -or- Which TV family best reflects your family? Everybody Loves Raymond? The Simpsons? Bluey? Modern Family? Last Man Standing? Another show? Kids: What does God ask of all children, and with what promise (v. 1-3)? What is one way you can show love like Jesus at home this week? Where did this passage or message connect with your real life right now—at home, work, or relationships? What does mutual submission look like in everyday life (how we speak, listen, and make decisions)? How does remembering that the gospel—not a perfect marriage—is the ultimate thing change the pressure we feel in relationships? How does our culture define marriage differently than Ephesians 5, and where do you feel that tension most? Men or women: What stands out to you about God’s calling for husbands or wives in this passage? Why? How do you personally respond to the standard God sets here—what feels encouraging, challenging, or uncomfortable? What does Christ’s love for the church teach us about leadership, sacrifice, and responsibility in the home? For parents (or future parents): What does it look like to raise children in the training and instruction of the Lord in everyday life? What have you felt enslaved to recently, and how does this passage speak freedom into that? Neighborhoods to Nations: How can the way you love people at home help show Jesus to your neighborhood? Jesus loves the church sacrificially, patiently, and faithfully. Where is God inviting you to reflect that kind of love this week at home, with family, or in close relationships? Resources. Letters to a Romantic – Sean Perron & Spencer Harmon Clear, thoughtful, and thoroughly biblical guidance for navigating dating with wisdom and integrity. The authors address everything from first dates and parental involvement to breakups, pornography, physical boundaries, past sexual history, and even how to decline a date well. If you want to honor Christ in your dating relationships, this is a must-read. The Meaning of Marriage – Tim Keller with Kathy Keller Marriage is both glorious and demanding. Keller captures this tension beautifully—marriage is a source of deep joy and strength, yet it also involves sacrifice, humility, and perseverance. It’s a profound mystery rooted in the gospel, echoing Paul’s words in Ephesians 5:32. Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family – Paul David Tripp A gracious and hope-filled call for parents to live and lead in light of the gospel. Tripp combines rich theology with practical wisdom, helping moms and dads parent not from fear or control, but from the grace and hope we have in Jesus.

    29 min
  5. FEB 1

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Walking in Love - Jeff Jewett

    In Ephesians 5:1–20, Paul calls believers to imitate God as dearly loved children—to live lives of love, walk in the light, and be filled with the Spirit. This sermon explores how the gospel shapes our desires, brings what’s hidden into the light for healing, and forms a life marked by wisdom, gratitude, and everyday faithfulness. Living as children of light isn’t dramatic—it’s deliberate. This message invites us to step out of isolation, walk together in the light, and love others as Christ has loved us. Scripture. Ep 5:1-20 [1] Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children [2] and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. [3] But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. [4] Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. [5] For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a man is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. [6] Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient. [7] Therefore do not be partners with them. [8] For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light [9] (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) [10] and find out what pleases the Lord. [11] Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. [12] For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. [13] But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, [14] for it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: “Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” [15] Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, [16] making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. [17] Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. [18] Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. [19] Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, [20] always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. One Step Into the Light This Week Choose one concrete step: ☐ Join a 10:24 group ☐ Confess a struggle to a trusted believer ☐ Ask someone to pray with you ☐ Initiate a gospel-centered conversation ☐ Serve someone quietly and intentionally Questions. What is a piece of advice you’ve remembered for years? -or- Growing up, what were your parents’ rules about bad language? Where is God inviting you to practice an ordinary, intentional act of love this week—at home, work, or in your neighborhood? Where might unchecked desire be slowly pulling your heart away from Christ? When did you first realize that sinful behaviors and lifestyles are “fruitless”? Is there an area of your life you tend to keep hidden, and what would it look like to bring that into the light through trusted Christian community? What does it look like on a practical level to “expose” the darkness of our world? What practices or rhythms help you stay attentive to the Spirit during everyday life, and where do you sense God inviting you to be more intentional? From Neighborhoods to Nations. Who in your life (a neighbor, coworker, or friend) holds different beliefs or values, and what would it look like to love them faithfully and sacrificially without compromising your commitment to Jesus? Practice Thanksgiving. Make a list of every blessing you’ve received in the past week, everything you feel thankful for. Express your thanks to God for each item on your list, praising him as your provider and sustainer.

    23 min
  6. JAN 21

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Our Relationship with the Heart - Blake Manuel

    Our lives don’t change from the outside in; they change from the heart out. In Ephesians 4:17–32, Paul shows us that spiritual drift begins long before obvious sin appears. Hearts slowly harden, minds grow dull, and what once felt wrong can start to feel normal. But the gospel interrupts that drift with a powerful turning point: “But that is not the way you learned Christ.” In this message, we explore how renewal begins by putting off the old self, being renewed in our minds, and putting on the new life God creates in Christ. True transformation isn’t self-improvement; it’s gospel renewal. And when our hearts are renewed, our relationships are renewed too — shaping how we speak, forgive, work, and love others every day. Ephesians 4:17-32. Outline. 1. Life Apart from God: A Heart Shaped by Drift Darkened thinking and hardened hearts Sin slowly reshapes the heart over time 2. A Gospel Turning Point: Learning Christ “But that is not the way you learned Christ” Identity in Christ changes how we live 3. Renewal Begins on the Inside Putting off the old self Being renewed in the mind Putting on the new life God creates 4. The Gospel That Makes Us New Renewal is God’s work, not ours New life comes through Jesus 5. Renewed Hearts, Renewed Relationships Truth, grace-filled words, forgiveness Everyday life shaped by the gospel 6. Living the Gospel Rhythm Ongoing renewal, not one-time change God’s love reshapes every relationship, beginning with the heart Questions. Paul begins this passage by describing people who are “alienated from the life of God” because of hardened hearts. Why do you think Paul starts with the heart and mind rather than behavior? How does that challenge the way we often think about spiritual growth? The sermon described callousness as something that develops slowly over time. What stood out to you about the idea of drift? Why do you think sin is often easier to tolerate over time than to confront early? Verse 20 marks a clear turning point with the word “But.” Why is that word so important in this passage? What does it mean to you personally to learn Christ, not just learn about Him? Paul calls believers to be “renewed in the spirit of your minds.” What’s the difference between changing behavior and experiencing heart renewal? What helps you honestly evaluate the condition of your heart before God? The sermon emphasized that renewal is only possible because of the gospel. Why is it important to remember that renewal is something God does, not something we accomplish? How does returning to the gospel help when you feel stuck, discouraged, or aware of ongoing struggle? Paul describes renewed hearts showing up in very practical ways—truth, anger, work, words, and forgiveness. Which area from verses 25–32 stood out to you most this week? Why do you think Paul focuses so heavily on relationships when talking about renewal? From Neighborhoods to Nations. As renewed hearts shape renewed relationships, who is someone in your neighborhood, workplace, school, or daily life who might experience the love of Christ through the way you live differently? How could living from a renewed heart open a door for the gospel this week?

    29 min
  7. 12/21/2025

    The Gospel in Every Relationship: Made for Mission - Jeff Jewett

    What is the mystery at the heart of the gospel, and why does it matter for our relationships? In this message from The Gospel in Every Relationship series, we walk through Ephesians 3 as Paul explains a mystery once hidden and now revealed in Jesus Christ. Through the gospel, people from every background are brought together as one family in Christ. We reflect on how this mystery was revealed and how it shapes the church’s life and mission today. The gospel forms us together and sends us outward, loving our neighbors and carrying the good news to the nations. Ephesians 3:1-21. Outline. 1. The Mystery (3:2–6) a. God’s gift of grace (3:2) God freely gives His grace and entrusts it to His people to share. b. God reveals His plan (3:3–5) What was once hidden has now been made known by God through His Spirit. c. What God’s plan is (3:6) Through the gospel, Jews and Gentiles are brought together as one people in Christ. 2. The Mission (3:7–12) a. Chosen for the mission (3:7–8a) God graciously calls and empowers ordinary people to serve His purposes. b. What the mission looks like (3:8b–9) Proclaiming the riches of Christ and making God’s saving plan known to all. c. Why the mission matters (3:10–12) God displays His wisdom through the church, giving us bold and confident access to Him through Christ. 3. The Prayer (3:14–21) a. Strength from the Father (3:14–16) Paul prays that God would strengthen us with power through His Spirit. b. Rooted in Christ’s love (3:17–19) Christ dwells in us by faith, filling us with the depth and fullness of His love. c. Glory to God forever (3:20–21) God works beyond what we ask or imagine, for His glory in the church and in Christ. Questions. What part of the gospel feels most familiar to you? What still feels surprising or humbling? Paul describes himself as a steward of God’s grace. How does that shape the way we view our faith, not as something to protect, but something to pass on faithfully? Through the gospel, we are made heirs together, members of one body, and sharers in the promise. Which of those truths do you most need to lean into right now, and why? How does being reminded of the wonderful inheritance that lies ahead of you change the way you look at both your recent successes and your current problems in this life? No one is in a church accidentally, and no one is unnecessary. Who in our church needs encouragement to see that they are not there accidentally or unnecessarily? In times of difficulty, is your heavenly Father the first person you turn to, or the last resort when all else fails? Reflect on a time when you struggled as a Christian, or repeatedly gave in to a particular sin. How was that connected with a failure to grasp Christ’s love for you, the gospel? How have these verses encouraged you to pray and helped you to know what to pray for? Neighborhoods to Nations. Who are you walking alongside right now? What might it look like to live out the gospel relationally with them? Paul saw the church as God’s display of His wisdom to the world. How can our everyday faithfulness—prayer, generosity, hospitality, partnership—play a role in God’s mission from our neighborhoods to the nations?

    30 min

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Alongsider Church is a community following Jesus together and helping others do the same. These messages are designed to help you know God, grow in your faith, and live on mission—from neighborhoods to nations.