Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)

Adam Flaherty, Marc Checket
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Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket are two dads from suburban New England. And while they might think they’re pretty funny and cool, the world clearly does NOT need another white dude ramble-cast. That’s why Modern Dadhood explores what it really means to be a "dad" in 2024 through candid, authentic, and often hilarious conversations with diverse dads of all walks of life… including famous dads, NOT famous dads, dads-to-be, step dads, grand dads, trans dads, and more. By celebrating present, engaged parenting and commiserating over common fatherhood challenges, listeners will gain new perspectives and feel empowered to become more present and mindful fathers, raising the next generation of kick-ass, world changing kids. Expect a mix of humor, heart, and 90s nostalgia in each episode. Modern Dadhood is a 2025 Signal Award winner, including the Gold award in the category Family & Child-Raising! #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenting #dadding #dadpodcast #parentingpodcast

  1. Rewriting the Rules | Shannon Carpenter on Owning Stay-At-Home Fatherhood

    JAN 30

    Rewriting the Rules | Shannon Carpenter on Owning Stay-At-Home Fatherhood

    There are countless reasons why a parent might choose to step away from their career to stay home and raise their kids—financial considerations, personal values, or simply wanting to be more present during those formative years. But even in 2026, most people still assume it’ll be Mom who makes that move. Enter Shannon Carpenter: a stay-at-home dad of three who traded investigating elder abuse for state agencies for full-time parenting almost 20 years ago, and has never looked back. Shannon is the author of The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad (Penguin Random House), a humorous, heartfelt guide for dads navigating the world of primary caregiving. He opens up about fighting isolation, bucking stereotypes, and how he has redefined success and identity in his life. Listen to the end for Kisses & Disses! Topics include: •  The decision-making process behind becoming a stay-at-home dad and challenging traditional gender norms. •  Navigating isolation, building community, and the importance of friendships for at-home fathers. •  Strategies for connecting with teenagers and adapting parenting styles for different phases and individual children. •  Mental health for dads: separating personal identity from the parenting role and prioritizing self-care. •  Societal perceptions of stay-at-home dads and ongoing barriers to equality in caregiving roles. •  The impact of workplace policies, cultural changes, and paid family leave on modern fatherhood. •  Writing "The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad" and advocating for actionable, practical advice for fathers. •  And more! LINKS Shannon Carpenter (homepage) The Ultimate Stay At Home Dad (Bookshop.org) Shannon Carpenter (Instagram) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    51 min
  2. Moments of Profundity in 2025

    JAN 2

    Moments of Profundity in 2025

    In this special episode we're calling Moments of Profundity in 2025, we're revisiting some of the most meaningful conversations from the past year, celebrating the joys and complexities of fatherhood in 2025. The topics range from building trust around screens and social media with Soren Poulsen, to supporting men through the grief of miscarriage with Kelly Jean-Philippe, and reimagining parent-child communication to encourage openness and problem-solving with Nick Hexum of 311. Links to the full episodes: Building Trust Around Screens + Social Media | Soren Poulsen on Raising Digital Citizens Navigating Miscarriage and Grief as a Dad | Kelly Jean-Philippe on Pregnancy Loss + Healing Breaking The Cycle, Filling The Void | Chris Robbins on Self Development + Empty Nesting Music, Milestones, and Mindfulness | Nick Hexum of 311 on Raising Creative, Empathetic Girls Finding Calm in the Parenting Chaos | Kirk Martin on Triggers, Patience, Problem Solving Father's Day 2025 | Father/Son Reflections on Being a Dad Thanks, Modern Dadhood listeners for sticking with us, and here's to a positive, healthy, and fruitful 2026! -Adam & Marc LINKS Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    37 min
  3. How (And Why) to Raise Change-Makers | Dr. Alvin Thomas on Anti-Racism, Mentorship, Empathy

    12/19/2025

    How (And Why) to Raise Change-Makers | Dr. Alvin Thomas on Anti-Racism, Mentorship, Empathy

    Have you ever considered why the experience of being a dad can look radically different across cultures and communities?  In our 2025 holiday episode, we’re honored to welcome Dr. Alvin Thomas—associate professor, mentor, thought leader, award-winning podcast host, and an internationally respected researcher in human development and family studies. Dr. Thomas has devoted his career to supporting Black fathers, families, and children, and advancing anti-racism efforts, and in our conversation he opens up about anti-racism, modern masculinity, and our responsibility as parents to raise empathetic, informed, and resilient kids. Topics include: • Exploring the broad definition of fatherhood—including mentorship, community care, and “cosmic children”—beyond biological ties. • Dr. Thomas’s anti-racism work and what it means to create spaces for Black children and families to thrive authentically. • The challenges and responsibilities of teaching kids about racism, empathy, and dualities in the world, especially as white parents in predominantly white communities. • Storytelling, mentorship, and the creation of The Black Fathers' Pulse podcast as tools for sharing research, building community, and supporting fathers. • Modern masculinity, vulnerability, and the evolving expectations of men and fathers in society—and how culture and the internet can impact those roles. • The importance of supportive spaces for men, breaking generational cycles, and building resilient, healthy family ecosystems. • And more! LINKS Dr. Alvin Thomas (homepage) Dr Alvin Thomas (LinkedIn) Dr. Alvin Thomas (YouTube) Dr. Alvin Thomas (Instagram) Dr. Alvin Thomas (X) The Fatherhood Depot (Substack) The Black Fathers' Pulse (TikTok) The Black Fathers' Pulse Podcast (Apple) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok)   Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, Modern Dadhood listeners! We are so grateful for you. -Adam & Marc #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    58 min
  4. Creating Holiday Magic | Author Matt Tavares on Tradition, Creativity, and Fatherhood

    12/05/2025

    Creating Holiday Magic | Author Matt Tavares on Tradition, Creativity, and Fatherhood

    The holidays are here, and so is that energy—frantic, magical, and a tad overwhelming. But for children’s book author and illustrator Matt Tavares, it’s also the season of book signings and creative endeavors. Matt is an award-winning author and illustrator of nearly 30 books, among them the beloved Dasher series and its latest installment, Dasher and the Polar Bear. Matt joins us fresh off his book tour and right in the midst of holiday hustle to chat about raising two young adult daughters, and how storytelling and art keep the spirit of the season alive year after year. Don't miss Adam's Instant Regret which found him in an uncomfortable predicament! Topics Include: •  The journey to becoming a children's author and illustrator, even before having kids •  The creative process behind beloved holiday books like Dasher, including the origins and expansion of the series •  Navigating the collaboration and feedback loop with publishers, editors, and even family •  Exploring new genres such as graphic novels, and the role of children's reading habits in creative evolution •  The upcoming Dasher animated Christmas special for Disney+ • And more! Links: Matt Tavares (homepage) Matt Tavares (Facebook) Matt Tavares (Instagram) Matt's Illustrated Prints Dasher Hoops Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    50 min
  5. Mastering "Work From Home" as a Dad | Thom Gibson on Happiness, Health, Fatherhood

    11/21/2025

    Mastering "Work From Home" as a Dad | Thom Gibson on Happiness, Health, Fatherhood

    Feel like working from home with kids is a constant juggling act, and you’re dropping balls left and right? More dads than ever are navigating the chaos of Zoom calls interrupted by tiny voices, endless snack requests, and the struggle to be present both at work AND at home at all times. Thankfully, in this episode we're joined by social media strategist Thom Gibson, founder of Work From Home Dads, and proud father of two young kids. After a decade spent teaching middle school math and robotics, Thom made the leap—leaving the classroom to build new businesses (and memories) from his home office. His story is packed with insights on boosting productivity, improving daily and weekly routines, and mastering the real work-life blend for dads. Stick around to the end for a gut-busting installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud? and a rock and roll blast from the past from Marc's kid-music-side-project, Stuffed Animal. Topics include: •  Tips and Advice for Work-from-Home Parents •  Combating Isolation as a Remote Working Parent •  Tom's 6-hr Workday Playbook •  Realistic Approaches to Remote Work Productivity •  And more! LINKS Work From Home Dads 6-hr Workday Playbook (free) Work From  Home Dads (Instagram) Work From Home Dads (X) Thom Gibson (homepage) Thom Gibson (LinkedIn) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    47 min
  6. Finding Calm in the Parenting Chaos | Kirk Martin on Triggers, Patience, Problem Solving

    10/24/2025

    Finding Calm in the Parenting Chaos | Kirk Martin on Triggers, Patience, Problem Solving

    Ever find yourself losing your cool when your kid melts down, or scratching your head as they refuse to clean up their room (again)? Turns out, there’s a surprising science behind keeping calm amid the chaos of parenthood. We're joined by Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the immensely popular Calm Parenting podcast. Kirk is the proud dad of one grown son, Casey, and “America’s Calm Coach” to thousands of families around the world. Kirk shares his journey from career military upbringings to a unique problem-solving approach that’s helped countless parents reframe their reactions and connect deeply with their kids. Whether you’re raising a strong-willed, high energy kid, or just want to inspire more harmony at home, Kirk’s insights offer practical, uplifting wisdom for every dad (and mom!) Topics Include: • Navigating meltdowns and emotional outbursts in kids and understanding what's really going on beneath the surface. • Shifting parenting habits from authoritarian styles to problem-solving and connection-based approaches. • The importance of parents regulating their own emotions to positively impact children's behavior. • Recognizing and working with individual differences in children, even among siblings and twins. • Practical strategies for tackling persistent challenges like messy rooms, homework battles, and resistance. • The significance of affirming and bonding with children, especially in moments of weakness or conflict. • Normalizing triggers for both parents and kids, and using tools like a “trigger board” to foster open communication. • And more! LINKS Celebrate Calm (website) Calm Parenting Podcast Calm Parenting (Instagram) Calm Parenting (Facebook) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    58 min
  7. Music, Milestones, and Mindfulness | Nick Hexum of 311 on Raising Creative, Empathetic Girls

    09/26/2025

    Music, Milestones, and Mindfulness | Nick Hexum of 311 on Raising Creative, Empathetic Girls

    Not everyone instinctively knows when they’ve reached the point in life where they’re ready for kids. For Nick Hexum, the self-proclaimed “dad” of his band 311, that moment came when he realized his wild days were behind him and he was ready to step into family life as a husband and father. Nearly two decades later, he’s a proud dad of three daughters, ages 5 to 16. We caught up with him for a rare in-person conversation during a tour stop in Portsmouth, New Hampshire. Nick opens up about the challenges and rewards of raising kids while touring, the jaw-dropping story of delivering his own daughter during a home birth, how fatherhood reshaped his songwriting, and the powerful influence his own upbringing has had on the way he parents today. Episode 130 of Modern Dadhood finds the guys recording in person, outside, over a frosty fall beverage. The guys chat briefly about finding positivity in a world that can feel particularly dark at present, and why the autumn has a certain exciting energy. They catch up with Nick Hexum, lead singer and songwriter for 311, before a gig promoting his 3 new americana/bluegrass EPs (compiled on a full length album called Phases of Hope and Hollow). Nick candidly shares stories about his family and his career as a touring musician, reflecting on how becoming a dad has impacted his work and put his life into perspective. Topics include: •  Touring as a musician dad: balancing life on the road with being present for important family milestones. •  How becoming a father transformed Nick's creative process, songwriting inspiration, and outlook on life. •  Nick's incredible (and dramatic) story of delivering his daughter at home •  The evolving relationship between Nick’s children and music, including their early involvement in creating songs and videos. •  The influence of Nick’s own upbringing, especially his positive relationship with his father, on his parenting style. •  Navigating social media, privacy, and the shifting dynamics as his kids grow into their teen years. •  Maintaining a positive worldview amid challenging news cycles, and fostering open, vulnerable communication with his kids. •  And more! LINKS Nick Hexum (website) Nick Hexum (Instagram) Nick Hexum (TikTok) 311 (official) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

    53 min
  8. Rewind Episode | Mortician Victor M. Sweeney on Raising Death-Positive Kids

    09/12/2025

    Rewind Episode | Mortician Victor M. Sweeney on Raising Death-Positive Kids

    We've been teasing it for months; a new podcast that we are producing in conjunction with Wavland which is hosted by former Modern Dadhood guest, Victor M. Sweeney. And now the time has come to make the official announcement and share the trailer. And we couldn't think of a better way to do that, than to couple it with a Rewind episode of our original chat with the Internet's famous mortician himself. Stay to the end for some death-themed movie trivia... And please subscribe to the new podcast using the links below! LINKS Victor M. Sweeney (YouTube) Victor M. Sweeney (Instagram) Death And (Apple Podcasts) Death And (Spotify) Now Departing (Victor's book!) Caspar Babypants Spencer Albee Modern Dadhood (website) AdamFlaherty.tv Stuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music) MD (Instagram) MD (Facebook) MD (YouTube) MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

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Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket are two dads from suburban New England. And while they might think they’re pretty funny and cool, the world clearly does NOT need another white dude ramble-cast. That’s why Modern Dadhood explores what it really means to be a "dad" in 2024 through candid, authentic, and often hilarious conversations with diverse dads of all walks of life… including famous dads, NOT famous dads, dads-to-be, step dads, grand dads, trans dads, and more. By celebrating present, engaged parenting and commiserating over common fatherhood challenges, listeners will gain new perspectives and feel empowered to become more present and mindful fathers, raising the next generation of kick-ass, world changing kids. Expect a mix of humor, heart, and 90s nostalgia in each episode. Modern Dadhood is a 2025 Signal Award winner, including the Gold award in the category Family & Child-Raising! #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenting #dadding #dadpodcast #parentingpodcast

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