22 episodes

Mark and Monica Neubauer have invested hours and years into cultivating good conversation skills with each other and with others. People are complex beings and we live in shades of nuance that are best understood in conversation and the telling of stories. They will share stories of the journeys of their lives and have conversations with others about topics that may be tough to show how much we all really have in common.

An Open Conversation with Mark and Monica Mark Neubauer and Monica Neubauer

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 3 Ratings

Mark and Monica Neubauer have invested hours and years into cultivating good conversation skills with each other and with others. People are complex beings and we live in shades of nuance that are best understood in conversation and the telling of stories. They will share stories of the journeys of their lives and have conversations with others about topics that may be tough to show how much we all really have in common.

    Let's Talk Politics

    Let's Talk Politics

    Mark and Monica are talking politics! The way they follow politics has changed so much throughout their adult life.  If you are fascinated by it, enraged, or just curious, listen in for some tips for engaging when watching or listening and learning about politics in the US.

    Monica can be found at MonicaNeubauer.com
    Mark can be found at TheLaughingArtist.com - when the website works.  So much to do.

    • 26 min
    Life Expectations with Mark and Monica

    Life Expectations with Mark and Monica

    Welcome back to "An Open Conversation with Mark and Monica." In this episode, we delve into the theme of "Expectations." Monica and Mark Neubauer share real stories and insights on the impact of expectations in various aspects of life. From managing grocery expenses to parenting styles, aging, and societal norms, the Neubauers discuss the influence of expectations on relationships, work environments, and the real estate industry. They explore the importance of clear communication, adapting to changes, and embracing imperfections. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of expectations in this open and honest conversation.



    Timestamped overview
    00:00 Adapting to changing workplace expectations across generations.
    04:20 Frustration with agent's text-only communication preference.
    07:41 Prioritizing healthy food, balancing expenses creates tension.
    10:26 Joy can be found despite suffering expectation.
    15:05 Overprotective parenting aims for an ideal childhood.
    19:55 Parenting and gardening have similar outcomes.
    20:43 Value in different approaches; imperfection is universal.
    25:39 Miscommunication happens when words don't match feelings.
    27:12 Enjoyment, challenges, and perspective on life's journey.
    33:18 Value achieving easier movement and aging well.
    34:18 45-minute strength training class for older women.
    37:01 Seeking normality and adapting to situations positively.



    Key Points and Bullet Underpoints
    Primary Topic: Grocery Expenses and Financial Management
    - Impact of food expenses on finances
    - Importance of managing grocery shopping
    - Need for better financial management to avoid high grocery bills
    - Unexpectedly high grocery expenses due to Mark's surgery



    Primary Topic: Aligned Expectations in Life
    - Raising children and managing leisure activities
    - Reflecting on finding joy amidst suffering
    - Societal expectations of a perfect life and handling disappointments
    - Concept of misery being optional when reality does not meet expectations
    - Illustration of road trip and the impact of false expectations



    Primary Topic: Communication in Relationships and Work Environments
    - Importance of clear communication in developing new relationships
    - Poor communication leading to frequent failures
    - Adjustments in work environments to meet the expectations of new generations
    - Impact of lack of communication in the real estate industry
    - The value of scheduled check-ins for evaluating and improving systems in relationships



    Primary Topic: Aging and Expectations
    - Tailored exercise classes for specific age groups
    - Normalizing and adapting to changes in the body as it ages
    - Need to adjust expectations and embrace imperfections
    - Kids feeling pressure to be perfect in various domains
    - Lack of chance for people to make decisions and explore on their own
    - Unaligned expectations in midlife with the reality of aging
    - Challenges of unexpected physical changes and adjustment to aging
     
     
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    About The Neubauers:
    Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant.


     Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com
    Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art. 


    www.TheLaughingArtist.com

    • 38 min
    Holidays and Relationships with Mark and Monica

    Holidays and Relationships with Mark and Monica

    Mark and Monica are looking forward to the holidays and time with family and friends.  And with their favorite movies. 

    Here is a review of the points Monica made at the end of the conversation. Remember, you cannot control others.  You can only control yourself.  Have some fun!
    Say you are Sorry.  I am sorry.  Forgive others.  It is easier when they apologize, but it is good for you to do this all the time, regardless of whether they say it or realize it or not. Do your best to understand them.   In conversation and time with others - at holidays or any gathering.  Listen to what others are saying.  If you disagree, listen until they finish.  Thank them for the conversation and move on to another conversation.  There is no need to argue.  You won't change them.  If you are a bit tired or don't want to "have to stay a long time".  You don't have to stay.  Go, have fun and leave early at an appropriate time.  If it is at your house, you can go to bed and let your guests continue to have fun. Be in control of yourself.  Whatever that means for you. For me, it means eating and drinking in moderation.  Give grace to others.  We all make mistakes.  Let more things go.  Give more hugs.  Choose to no be offended. Take time to process the feelings you have when anyone is late or does something you don't like - process the feelings, snuggle the pet, or get or give a hug, and then move on.  AnOpenConversation.com

    • 31 min
    Emotions and Self-Awareness with Mark and Monica

    Emotions and Self-Awareness with Mark and Monica

    • 29 min
    Actively Listening for Better Results with Sue Mohr

    Actively Listening for Better Results with Sue Mohr

    Are you committing ASSUMICIDE?
    We have lost the Art of Listening. We are facing an epidemic of people not being able to listen effectively. People are caught in the habit of Assumicide where we only hear half of the things that people say and just assume what we believe people are saying.
    Sue Mohr, a Master Certified Life and Business Coach/Consultant has joined Monica Neubaue to have An Open Conversation about Actively Listening.

    About 90% of the problems in relationships come from not listening. Everyone wants to be heard and wants to talk, but we need to take away our automatically self-focused nature and learn how to actively listen to hear other’s perspectives.
    Sue shares with Monica’s listeners her technique of repeating back. When someone is talking, repeating in your head what the person is saying transforms you into an active listener. This allows you to stop your own thinking, pushing out the other thoughts swirling in your head and centering you to just focus on the person talking.
    Sue and Monica discuss the awareness that you need  to be an effective listener.
    There are 3 main areas that will help you master the art of listening:
    Know the person speaking - their personality and history Respect the person the person speaking Understand yourself Once you become an active listener, you won’t believe how your world will change!
    Sue Mohr
    Master Certified Life and Business Coach/Consultant
    https://www.theinnervizion.com/
    Sue Mohr  started a coaching and consulting firm in 2003 called The Inner Vizion. The company serves creatives and entrepreneurs through a whole-istic approach focusing on mental, emotional, and business wellness. Sue's goal is to co-create with others, helping them find their true passion and vision. Her book, Hope Is … is sharing the message that No matter the circumstances Hope is available to YOU right now.
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    We will send you 10 conversation starters to help you with having AN OPEN CONVERSATION.
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    https://www.facebook.com/AnOpenConversation
    Receive updates on podcast releases and share your pain journey with our Open Conversation Community.
    About The Neubauers:
    Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant.
    Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com
    Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art.
    www.TheLaughingArtist.com

    • 40 min
    Global Living with Doreen Cumberford

    Global Living with Doreen Cumberford

    Global Living
    Doreen Cumberford works with expats, global nomads and international returnees to create happier, easier and more successful transitions while globally mobile. She is joining An Open Conversation with Monica Neubauer to discuss Living Internationally. Although Doreen’s heart is in Scotland where she grew up, she has a love for the 8 other countries that she has lived in from England, South Africa, Dubai, United States, Japan, Saudi Arabia and now Mexico where she resides. Through her experiences as a global housesitter and relocating overseas she has learned how to navigate traveling and moving internationally. 
    Doreen shares with Monica’s listeners her tips for being a successful Global Housesitter and relocating successfully to different countries.
    Tips for Living and Working Internationally:
    ●       Know the sacrifices - There will be sacrifices no matter what choices you make
    ●       Have Cultural Intelligence - Have the imagination, communication skill and tolerance to work across cultures
    ●       Remain Global Hearted with an open mind, heart and voice
    ●       Be willing to adopt people into your life and enjoy the varied cultures
    ●       Be considerate of the mindset of others
    ●       Have conversations of what is possible in your life - you can create the life of your dreams
    Both Doreen and Monica leave us with the  question, “Are You Willing to be Transformed by Travel!”
     
    Doreen Cumberford
    Expat Author, Global Housesitter, Transition Expert
    www.doreenmcumberford.com
     A Certified Coach, and 30 year licensed Practitioner, Doreen speaks, writes and teaches about the principles and practices necessary to navigate global mobility while maintaining vitality through health and well-being.
    The author of Life in the Camel Lane, Arriving Well and Home Again, Home Again – Jiggedy jig she is currently compiling her second book on Repatriation. A native of Scotland, her experience in 8 overseas postings over 3 plus decades, on 4 continents have enabled her to constantly create new lifestyles and trained her to constantly move with ease and grace. Doreen helps globally mobile people master transitions, relocate well and find joy in-between.
    Join An Open Conversation Community
    Join  An Open Conversation Community and be a part of our open conversations about improving your life through Civil Duty and Civil Service.
    Sign up at: https://www.anopenconversation.com/contact We will send you 10 conversation starters to help you with having AN OPEN CONVERSATION.

    Follow us on FB at: https://www.facebook.com/AnOpenConversation
    Receive updates on podcast releases and share your pain journey with our Open Conversation Community.

    About The Neubauers:
    Monica Neubauer is a Speaker, Author and Everything DiSC consultant. Follow Monica at: www.MonicaNeubauer.com
    Mark Neubauer is a creator of many things. This website is for his art.
    www.TheLaughingArtist.com

    • 47 min

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I really enjoying listening to Mark and Monica’s podcast. It brings great insight into your journeys and troubles. Please continue.

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