Self-Regard

Riley Blanks Reed

Self Regard is a podcast that delves into the intersection of identity, mental health, and higher consciousness. Host Riley Blanks Reed takes listeners on a journey of self-discovery through solo episodes and insightful interviews with writers, entrepreneurs, and change makers. Join us as we explore the complexities of being human and the power of self-regard. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 22/02/2023

    Reflections 3: Intentional Love; The Intersection of Connection and Individuality

    Welcome to Part 2 of Reflections. In this episode, I expand on the definition of love as an active word; a verb that isn't solely about attraction or compatibility, but moreover: effort, intention, and understanding. While this episode is relevant to all relationships – friendships, familial ties, romantic flames, and platonic connections – I largely use my 13 year long relationship as my lens. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is that there has to be a balance between individualism and connection, an element of reciprocity and mutual appreciation, and giving and receiving graciously. A few key takeaways: Life's challenges don't always have to be fixed, and planned visions are not certain.Love is not determined by personalities, but by creating a fascinating harmony that keeps bonds in tact while fortifying your individual selves.Other people's behavior towards you is not a reflection of your own worth. Instead, it is a reflection of their relationship with themselves.Love requires a balance between separateness and togetherness. Commitments are voluntary agreements, while attachments are attempts at control.Communication is important, but comprehension is key. Ensure that the other person truly understands you.Cultivate fascination and curiosity in your relationships to keep them alive and interesting.Spend time alone to know yourself better and to therefore be more present in your relationships and your communities.Ask yourself: "does this person make me happy?" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    14 min
  2. 15/02/2023

    Reflections 2: Grieving the Loss of My Faithful Shadow

    I lost my dog baby, George, suddenly; and I am devastated. Everything feels unfamiliar without him. As his primary caregiver, he offered me pure, unconditional love and unselfish devotion. This part of the series was intended to cover the importance of relationships in our identity and livelihood. It felt relevant to share this grief because the loss of George – the loss of a relationship – has challenged my home life and compelled me to wonder who I am without him following me into every room. My partner and I haven't experienced this kind of rupture in our environment. It has challenged us to grow and support one another in newfound ways. This loss looks like heartbreak and emptiness. But, within any container is an opportunity to expand. I know there are ways George will remain with us, even if not in physical form. And we will get to that evolution of the grieving process together. “Form is emptiness, emptiness also is form. Emptiness is no other than form, form is no other than emptiness. Form is that which simply is before we project our beliefs onto it. ‘Form is emptiness’ refers to our simple, direct relationship with the immediacy of the experience. First we wipe away our preconceptions and then we even have to let go of our belief that we should look at things without preconceptions. In continuing to pull out our own rug, we understand the perfection of things just as they are. But ‘emptiness also is form’ turns the table. Emptiness continually manifests as war and peace, as grief, birth, old age, sickness, and death, as well as joy. We are challenged to stay in touch with the heart-throbbing quality of being alive. That's why we train in the relative practices of limitlessness and tonglen. They help us to engage fully in the vividness of life with an open, unclouded mind. Things are as bad and as good as they seem. There's no need to add anything extra." –Pema Chodron Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Self Regard is a podcast that delves into the intersection of identity, mental health, and higher consciousness. Host Riley Blanks Reed takes listeners on a journey of self-discovery through solo episodes and insightful interviews with writers, entrepreneurs, and change makers. Join us as we explore the complexities of being human and the power of self-regard. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.