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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

Ask Ashley: The Podcast Ask Ashley

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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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    The Dollar Drink Tip

    The Dollar Drink Tip

    Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss Ashley N getting wasted at the school parent’s mixer, the Mariah Carey residency in Vegas, and men who are addicted to the “like” button on IG. 


    02:01 - All eyes are on women’s basketball right now. From the final four to the WNBA, Ashley + Ashley hop into the pay disparity convo as well as recap the WNBA Draft fashions. Do you know Caitlin Clark is the first basketball player ever to be dressed by Prada?


    21:41 - The rap beef is still brewing… The Ashley’s catch-up on the latest Drake, J. Cole, Future, Metro, Kendrick Lamar, A$AP Rocky, Rick Ross, Weekend mess!! It’s confusing but they try to make sense of it all. 


    33:46 - You can always count on your single guy friends to find every possible bad b*tch on Instagram. Do you have a guy friend who can always be spotted in the likes? Ashley + Ashley do. 


    36:13 - There was a time you tipped the bartender a dollar a drink. Remember that? The Ashleys have a convo on tipping and the guilt that comes along with it. 


    45:34 - It’s Question Time! Ashley + Ashley switched it up this week, it’s a game of Marry, F, Kill. From the big 3, to the rap-vengers, to TV dads, and brands of water, the ladies weigh in. 


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    I Luh You Girl

    I Luh You Girl

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week coming to the mic from Washington, DC! This week The Ashleys discuss more uncomfortable airport encounters, meeting Dave Chapelle, the new diagnosis that is iPhone finger, and jaw-dropping divorce rates. 


    00:33 -  YG & Saweetie should be the dream Cali Couple, but for some reason it doesn’t quite hit.  They are not quite A$Ap and Rihanna, but who’s fault is it? YG, the outside ninja, or Saweetie, the manufactured Latto? 


    06:26 - Don’t trust these men. They clearly make bad decisions. Did a stripper named Diana really ignite a war between Drake, Future, Metro and now Kendrick, J.Cole, A$AP, etc? She must have that wet wet. 


    09:56 - Ashley N took a trip to DC this week and finally got a chance to experience the African American History Museum. She shares the impact the experience had on her and lets the audience in on her time celebrating her client, Kevin Hart, as he received the Mark Twain Award.


    21:11 - Ashley W took a trip to Disney World, but from racist rides to sex trafficking bathrooms, and obnoxiously long lines, Ashley W doesn’t quite consider it the happiest place on Earth. 


    39:25 - Are we being force-fed negative statistics and forced to believe that marriage doesn’t work? Or do we really live in a different time and era? The Ashleys weigh in from two different sides of the spectrum. 


    49:47 - It’s Question Time! You may know everything about your best friend, but how much do you know about their other friends? Who is the most conceited or most likely to join a cult? This week Ashley + Ashley shift the spotlight and answer questions about their friend- in - laws.  



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    • 1 hr 5 min
    That’s Not Your Husband

    That’s Not Your Husband

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss their favorite Spice Girls, Ashley N officially having a teenager, their good sis AD from Love Is Blind, and how to escape a whale encounter. 


    01:45 - During the late 90’s and early 2000’s - you were only on one side. Was it Backstreet Boys or *Nsync? The Ashley’s were both *Nsync girlies but it took until now to give BSB their credit. 


    19:00 - It’s official! The Ashley’s have their first teenager. Ashley N’s daughter has turned 13 and it wasnt easy for anyone involved. But shout out to Ash N for throwing an epic 13th birthday party, tears and all. 


    27:45 - Ashley + Ashley finally discuss season 6 of Love Is Blind. In a nutshell: The most successful member of Love Is Blind is the chick that gets left at the altar. Chelsea was wasted the entire season. Apple Watches are the quickest way to get caught up.


    52:44 - Question time! Let’s just say sometimes there’s no good answer when it comes to a Would You Rather.  What's worse? Him having a baby or him cheating with a man? Losing your sight or your memories? Being burned alive or drowned? Losing all of your money and valuables or all of the pictures you have ever taken?


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    • 1 hr 2 min
    You Gotta Draw 2!

    You Gotta Draw 2!

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week, to discuss Sammie and his big one, adding YG to the sexiest rapper list, losing airline status, and singing & dancing along to songs by killers. 


    01:40 - Do you remember Sammie? He only had a few hits, but they are forever ingrained in The Ashley’s hearts. Sidenote: Did you know he had a BIG one?


    08:55 - It’s time to clarify some basic party rules! From red cup etiquette to the official uno rules, Ashley + Ashley deliver must use rules on shots and draw 2’s.


    15:19 - Ashley W has added a new J. Cole clip to her morning motivation. Clarify and define your vision for yourself in the highest possible way that you could see. Be as specific and see yourself as high as you possibly can, be delusional even. Then protect that belief


    20:49 - Do you remember when people were supposed to stop wearing Tommy Hilfiger because he was racist? Apparently it’s fake news, but was it really Ralph Lauren? Aren’t they basically the same anyways?


    25:11 - It’s no secret that Ashley + Ashley are travel snobs, but both of them are facing a serious Airline Status problem.  It’s giving downgrades in customer service, luggage experiences, and priority lanes and they don’t like it.  


    39:22 - It’s Question Time! Ashley + Ashley are discussing being envious as a child, shows that Ashley W refuses to watch, drunk text vs sober thoughts, and thoughts before bed. 

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    • 53 min
    We Don't Know You Bro

    We Don't Know You Bro

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss music from their fav teen rom coms, protecting your home & family, and the morning kegel routine all women should do to start their day.


    09:26 - Imagine receiving this text: “There are 4 armed men in your neighbors backyard. Please stay inside your house.” Ashley N received a scare that woke her completely up. From security cameras to shotguns, she’s going to be more prepared than ever. 


    26:17 - The PTA has decided to put on a Travis Kelce & Taylor Swift day for class theme week and The Ashleys aren’t here for it.  But also, this is the last time you will even hear Travis or Taylors name on the podcast.  Ash + Ash acknowledge Jason, it's Travis they don't know anymore.


    33:39 - The ladies thought Idaho Inmate Penpal was the weirdest page on Instagram, but leave it to Ashley W to find something to compete. 


    41:34 - It’s Question Time! Ashley + Ashley are discussing lying to your doctor, running errands with your boo, questioning your religion, and catching a cheater. 

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    • 55 min
    Graduated With A 2.7 GPA

    Graduated With A 2.7 GPA

    Ashley + Ashley are in the studio this week to discuss their new favorite artist, Flo Millie, NPR Tiny Desk, rappers who didn’t age well, and unsolicited dick pics. 


    08:34 – Ashley W took a trip to the equator and almost got lost, but she did kind of ask for it. From a 5 star resort to the campos, she saw the whole island from a birds eye view.  


    26:54 – You’ve all seen it so the ladies might as well talk about it.  Drake’s leaked video. The Ashley’s were slightly impressed, for obvious reasons, but also completely perved out. Unsolicited dick pics are a NO!


    36:07 -  From tutors to janitors to getaway drivers, the ladies discuss the stupidest things they did for men in their youth. 


    47:20 – Question Time! Ashley + Ashley are discussing relationship approval, pleading the fifth, astrology beliefs, and unnecessary lies. 
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    • 58 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
146 Ratings

146 Ratings

Lolalu298631 ,

Love my weekly catch-up with Ashley N & Ashley W

I love this podcast! It truly feels like I'm catching up with girlfriends when I'm listening. I love how they share so much about their lives, their opinions on current events, celebrity gossip, their travels, interests, dating, tv shows, and issues that impact women, the black and brown communities, and the amazing music throwbacks! It is equally enjoyable to have an episode with just them catching up and updating us on their week or when they have a guest and focus on a topic. Truly an enjoyable podcast to listen to. I look forward to the weekly episodes :)

xstaceex ,

So Relatable and Informative

This show has such great content! It has guided me in various phases of my life with a sense laughter. Love the girls and the content it gives out. Appreciate them 💕

monee317 ,

I also LOVED Jagged Little Pill!!

I’ve found my home here🤗

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