Summary In this episode of Ask Christa!, host Christa Dhimo addresses a listener's concern about their boss's lack of meetings and the feelings of disconnection that arise from it. She emphasizes the importance of purposeful meetings, the benefits of maintaining a connection with one's boss, and the dynamics of manager-employee relationships. Christa provides insights into how meeting frequency should align with the employee's role and the necessity of fostering a healthy rapport with management. The episode concludes with resources for further understanding workplace dynamics and improving communication with bosses. Key Takeaways · Meetings without purpose plague most people during the day. · It's important to feel and be connected (including to your manager) at work. · The cadence of meetings with your manager should support a purpose. · Visibility of your work is a benefit of meeting with your boss. · Strong functional employee-manager relationships are essential. · Honest and respectful rapport is crucial for successful meetings with employees / managers. · You deserve to have a gainful relationship with your boss. · Reduced meetings might happen as you grow in your role. · Staying connected is a good reason to meet. Additional Resources Aggarwal, A., Chand, P. K., Jhamb, D., & Mittal, A. (2020). Leader–Member exchange, work engagement, and psychological withdrawal behavior: the mediating role of psychological empowerment. Frontiers in Psychology, 11, 423. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00423 Dhimo, C. (2025, June 23). Ask Christa! Why organizational structure matters!! (S2E19). Ask Christa! https://www.askchrista.com/ask-christa-why-organizational-structure-matters-s2e19/ GreggU. (2023, August 31). Leader-Member Exchange LMX Theory [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sRXPZ79L10 How to Get the Most Out of a One-on-One with Your Boss. (2024, April 12). Harvard Business Review. https://hbr.org/2024/04/how-to-get-the-most-out-of-a-one-on-one-with-your-boss Indeed Editorial Team. (2025, December 11). 12 ways to ensure a successful meeting with your boss. Indeed Career Guide. https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/meeting-with-boss --------------------- Ask Christa! Business Questions, Straight Answers, Real Impact © 2025 - Present Christa Dhimo in partnership with Impono LLC and 21st Century Strategies. Ask Christa! has a pending Trademark. All Rights Reserved. I record and produce my podcasts using Riverside and their music library for subscribers. Links: Ask Christa!: https://www.askchrista.com/ Contact & Booking: https://christadhimo.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christadhimo/ Disclaimer The Ask Christa! show is designed to provide accurate and practical insights into common business challenges and workplace issues. Dr. Christa Dhimo stands by the information she shares and the resources she provides; however, every situation is unique. Listeners are encouraged to use this podcast as a helpful resource while also seeking additional, qualified, professional advice, including but not limited to legal, financial, medical, or other professional advice, as warranted. Ask Christa! and its host disclaim liability for actions taken solely on the basis of the information provided here, especially if taken out of context.
