Autism Odyssey

Betsy Hicks Russ

Autism Odyssey is a warm, uplifting, and often humorous podcast exploring new ways to understand and support the autistic experience. Host Betsy Hicks-Russ shares heartfelt stories, practical caregiver tips, and soulful insights on presuming competence, alternative communication including the letterboard, and nurturing body and mind through nutrition and awareness. Each episode invites listeners to expand perception, laugh often, and celebrate the brilliance within every unique journey.

  1. JAN 23

    Presumed Wrong: How Flawed Science Became a Barrier to Non-Speakers with David Kaufer

    Betsy Hicks-Russ interviews David Kaufer, who discusses the biases and misconceptions surrounding non-speaking autistic individuals and their communication methods. Kaufer highlights the flaws in message passing tests, the role of expert witnesses in debunking alternative communication methods, and the importance of presuming competence. He also touches on recent legislative changes that support communication rights for non-speakers and shares personal experiences with his son, Stone, who uses spelling to communicate. The discussion emphasizes the need for advocacy, awareness, and a shift in societal perceptions of non-speaking individuals. https://davidkaufer.com https://BetsyOnTheGo.com Takeaways David Kaufer challenges the biases against non-speaking autistic individuals.Message passing tests are flawed and do not accurately assess communication abilities.Expert witnesses often have financial incentives to debunk alternative communication methods.Presuming competence is crucial for empowering non-speaking individuals.Legislative changes are being made to support communication rights for non-speakers.Personal experiences highlight the effectiveness of spelling as a communication method.The conversation emphasizes the need for greater advocacy and awareness.There is a coordinated effort to undermine alternative communication methods.The psychological implications of message passing tests can lead to unfair assessments.The future of communication for non-speakers looks promising with increased awareness.

    44 min
  2. JAN 16

    The Presume Competence Series - Episode 3

    For many families of non-speaking autistic people, the search for communication doesn’t begin with choice—it begins with desperation. Years of therapy. Years of assessments. And still no reliable way to hear their child’s thoughts, preferences, or inner life. In Episode 3 of the Presume Competence Series, we build directly on the foundation laid in Episodes 1 and 2—where we explored why spelling-based communication works and how motor planning differences can interfere with traditional AAC and speech-based expectations. Once motor planning is understood, the question shifts. Not whether someone understands—but how they can most reliably express what they already know. This conversation examines how assessments are often used far beyond what they are capable of measuring. We unpack how speech and language tests are mistaken for measures of intelligence, how compliance and immediate motor output are confused with comprehension, and why brief assessment snapshots are treated as permanent conclusions. Our panel explores how these practices shape belief systems, silence parental intuition, and discourage families from exploring spelling-based communication—often through fear-based narratives that are not supported by the evidence they claim to rely on. As one panelist reminds us: no expert, in any capacity, ever has the right to tell a family there is no hope. We invite parents and professionals alike to reconsider the role assessments play in decision-making—and to remember that assessments are tools for gathering information, not verdicts on intelligence, potential, or inner language. Because when communication finally becomes possible, it changes everything. And no family should be told not to look simply because the system isn’t ready to see. BetsyOnTheGo.com AutismOdyssey.org Takeaways: No expert has the right to tell you there's no hope.Assessments often fail to measure true intelligence.Spelling-based communication offers a reliable expression method.Motor planning is crucial for understanding non-speakers.Current assessments are often misused and misunderstood.Parents must advocate for their child's communication needs.The system often silences parental intuition.Spelling methods are not harmful, contrary to some claims.Education should equip and enrich, not just test.Parents are the legal authority in their child's education. Takeaways

    46 min
  3. 12/05/2025

    The Presume Competence Series - Episode 2

    In this episode, we open a doorway into acknowledging the contrast of a neurotypical brain and body verses an autistic brain and body and how they each learn & process the world—we explore autistic communication, and the unique challenges that arise when AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) devices are part of the equation. It also examines how traditional approaches like ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) can create additional barriers by overlooking the impact of apraxia on motor-based communication. The essence of the conversation points out the fundamental flaw of the traditional methods—a lack of presumption of competence in the intellect of the individual leads to misguided perceptions of what a child’s motor response actually means. These methods can often lead to increased anxiety, meltdowns, and conditioning of rote motor responding instead of purposeful motor responding. The conversations highlight that the method yielding the most transformative outcomes for many nonspeaking individuals is presuming competence in their intellect and utilizing the letterboard—an approach that honors purposeful motor planning and supports unlimited expression, while illuminating what truly fosters meaningful communication: understanding the motor system behind expression, recognizing the parent’s role in nurturing a pathway to authentic voice, and embracing the power of community, consistent practice, and shared encouragement as individuals develop and strengthen their communication—however that voice comes forward. Love John Paul Foundation https://lovejohnpaul.org/ Communication 4 All https://communication4all.org/ Sara Intonato - Autism Changemakers https://www.skool.com/autismchangemakers/about?ref=91091eabcbb74826b4cb2581d181dc47 The importance of presuming competence in non-speakers.Understanding the differences in how autistic and neurotypical brains process information.Motor planning is crucial for effective communication.Scrambling loops can help break repetitive behaviors.AAC devices have limitations that can hinder communication.Independence in communication should not come at the cost of support.Autonomy is essential for the well-being of non-speakers.Parents play a vital role in their child's communication journey.Community support is crucial for parents of non-speakers.Daily practice and engagement are key to developing communication skills.

    44 min
  4. 11/21/2025

    The Mom Behind the Famous Son - Nicci Smith - Episode 42

    Betsy Hicks-Russ interviews Nicci Smith, the mother of Tanner from 'Love on the Spectrum.' They explore themes of identity, the challenges of parenting a child with autism, the importance of fitness and self-care, and the impact of social media on their lives. Nicci shares her journey of self-discovery, the significance of nutrition, and the realities of living with autism. The discussion also touches on the constructive criticism they face in the public eye and the importance of kindness in online interactions. Nicci Smith - Tanner with the tism - Tannerwiththe_tism Nicci Smith - nicci_smith6 Talk to Me Sis Podcast - ttmspod Betsy Hicks-Russ Betsyonthego.com AutismOdyssey.org Tiktok, Instagram & Facebook - BetsyOnTheGo Takeaways Nicci Smith is a passionate advocate and mother of Tanner from 'Love on the Spectrum.'Navigating identity can be challenging for parents of children with special needs.Fitness and self-care are crucial for mental and physical well-being.Social media can amplify both support and criticism for public figures.Nutrition plays a vital role in maintaining health, especially in midlife.The journey of parenting a child with autism is filled with both challenges and joys.Constructive criticism can lead to personal growth and reflection.It's important to be open-minded and sensitive to the experiences of others.Creating a supportive community is essential for personal and collective well-being.Kindness and understanding should be prioritized in online interactions.

    1h 5m
5
out of 5
17 Ratings

About

Autism Odyssey is a warm, uplifting, and often humorous podcast exploring new ways to understand and support the autistic experience. Host Betsy Hicks-Russ shares heartfelt stories, practical caregiver tips, and soulful insights on presuming competence, alternative communication including the letterboard, and nurturing body and mind through nutrition and awareness. Each episode invites listeners to expand perception, laugh often, and celebrate the brilliance within every unique journey.

You Might Also Like