Backstage w/ Matt Stone

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A backstage pass to The Bigger Stage, where host Matt Stone covers the behind-the-scenes lowdown on his journey to build The Bigger Stage brand, business, and show, and the business and life lessons he's learning along the way. mattstone.substack.com

  1. 2d ago

    Write the Letter

    Years ago in Tokyo, Matt read a book that hit him like water in the desert — Dr. Tasha Eurich’s Insight — and came away certain of two things: he wanted to actually know this person, and he had something to offer her too. He could have fired off the standard email. Great book, can we talk. Instead he sat down and wrote a proper long-form letter about what the book meant to him and why he thought they should meet, then assumed he’d never hear back. He did hear back. What she said, essentially, was that it was unlike almost anything she receives. That letter became a friendship that’s lasted years, survived a collaboration that didn’t work out, and opened doors he never asked it to open. The point isn’t the doors. Matt’s argument is that American culture runs highly transactional — something he sees clearly after fourteen years living abroad — and that in an era of accelerating disruption, genuine non-transactional relationships are exactly what people are starving for. That matters most for anyone in transition: leave a big company after years of adapting to its culture and your own identity can be surprisingly hard to locate, which is precisely the gap a real feedback loop fills. He also makes a counterintuitive case for reaching out to people you assume are out of your league. It’s a bit like the old line about models never getting asked out because everyone assumes their dance card is full — prominence can be isolating. The only requirement is that you mean it. The weekend question: who have you neglected, who would you like to know, and what would it take? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    Write the Letter

  2. 3d ago

    Game Recognizes Game

    Matt’s been stuck on a talk. He knew the topics, knew the material was in there somewhere, but couldn’t find his own angle on it — buried under operations, meetings, priorities, and everything else that pulls a founder away from the deeper stuff. Then a colleague and dear friend looked at him and simply laid it out: it’s this, because you lived that, because you value this. He was writing furiously. It was obvious the moment someone else said it out loud. His conclusion is that without genuine relationships, he wouldn’t have had the mirror — and the mirror is what shows you the thing you can’t see from inside your own head. He also offers some relief for anyone paralyzed by the pressure to be original. You’re probably not going to produce a new theory of relativity, and you don’t have to. Simon Sinek’s idea about starting with why wasn’t new either — what was original was how he made people understand it, in a TEDx talk that was essentially one guy and a flip pad. Your experience, your perspective, your personality is the original delivery. From there Matt gets to the observation that gives the episode its title: game recognizes game. The people closest to you are close because you share critical values, which is precisely why they can see yours — and when they reflect those values back to you, they appreciate them in both senses at once. They recognize the value, and they increase it. (Anyone who’s been following the DAP framework will notice that’s the same word doing the same job in the middle of it.) The nudge for today: who can you reach out to for perspective, and what insight do you need to power your next move? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    Game Recognizes Game

  3. 4d ago

    Tissue Box Posts

    You’ll find no shortage of advice telling you to be everywhere, all the time, posting a dozen times a day across every platform. Matt listens to Gary Vee too — but he thinks that prescription quietly breaks down for the solopreneur or the founder building something real. To explain why, he reaches for a company most people have already forgotten: Quibi. Hollywood titan Jeffrey Katzenberg and former eBay and HP chief Meg Whitman, $1.75 billion in funding, premium short-form video built for the gaps in your day. It lasted about six months. They even named the company after the format — “quick bites” — which Matt argues is the tell. His diagnosis is simple and it applies to you: Quibi led with format and left purpose and story for later. A new delivery system only matters when people already want what’s being delivered — tell someone their injection can become a pill and they’ll listen, but only if they were sold on the drug in the first place. Which is why the endless “should I be on TikTok?” debate misses the real question: what’s your story, your purpose, your intention? Delivery is fungible. And as a friend of Matt’s puts it, short-form without that foundation is just tissue box posts — used once, thrown away, no loyalty built, and burnout waiting at the end of the treadmill. His prescription is unglamorous and durable: get clearer on who you help and why, then find the method that draws it out of you — writing, a writing group, a Substack nobody reads yet, and reading widely (fantasy counts). Tend the garden instead of feeding the machine. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    Tissue Box Posts

  4. 5d ago

    Nobody Wants a Fan Base of Bots

    The New York Times found hundreds of AI-generated doctors, healers, and wellness influencers on social feeds — convincing-looking people who don’t exist, selling supplements to real consumers. Matt’s not here to pile on about how dystopian that is (it’s dystopian on its face, and there’s more coming). He’s interested in the opportunity hiding inside it. If the feed is filling up with synthetic humans, then being a real, accessible, meet-you-in-person human becomes the scarce thing — and Matt thinks that’s exactly where the next real leaders get built. Which brings him to a correction of his own thinking. He used to believe you could skip the messy work of community — just do the podcast, grow the YouTube channel, collect the followers. He now thinks that was wrong. A million subscribers isn’t a million fans; plenty of people click subscribe without being all in on you. Community is the thing that turns an audience into a fan base, and it takes real feeding: showing up, telling the truth, apologizing when you blow it, creating actual chances to connect. He also opens with an entrepreneur who inspired him — a Japanese founder who built a health food brand against heavy family pressure and is now bringing it to the US, with the unmistakable energy of someone who will simply never quit. The questions to sit with: what are you building, what’s your intention behind it, and which community would be best served by it? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    Nobody Wants a Fan Base of Bots

  5. 6d ago

    How to Look Two Inches Tall

    Matt watched the World Cup final this weekend (under mild spousal duress — he’s the first to admit soccer isn’t his sport) and came away far more struck by what happened after the whistle than during the match. Watching the trophy ceremony footage, he saw a masterclass in the wrong instinct: a stage that belonged to the winning players, and a guest who wouldn’t leave it. He’s careful to say this isn’t political commentary — there’s plenty of that already — but he couldn’t let the leadership lesson pass, because it was that clear. The principle underneath it applies to every stage you’ll stand on this week, including the sales call, the team meeting, and the panel nobody’s filming. You can hold every title, command real power, and still look about two inches tall the moment you try to take a spotlight that isn’t yours. The inverse is just as reliable: graciousness, making room, highlighting others, and stepping off when it’s not your time is what makes a person look ten feet tall. Matt calls it quiet power — it lives in the pauses, in the message, in the inclusivity. He also notes we’re all unusually attuned to this, having grown up on playgrounds with the kid who took all the credit, which is why even small versions of it register. The week’s question: how will you make someone else shine? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    How to Look Two Inches Tall

  6. Jul 17

    The Response, Not the Catastrophe

    Matt just stepped out of a recording with T.J. Winick — a broadcast journalist who spent two decades at ABC News (Nightline, Good Morning America) before crossing over to help companies build and defend their reputations — and he’s still buzzing from it. The through-line of Winick’s book Reputation Capital is deceptively simple: reputation is an asset you accumulate over time, like money in the bank, and when trouble hits, it’s rarely the catastrophe that destroys a brand. It’s the response. As Winick puts it, the best-managed crises are the ones you never heard about — which reframes PR from a monthly retainer for press hits into something you build early, strategically, and authentically (right down to how you show up in AI search through third-party validation). But the part that lit Matt up is bigger than crisis management. Whatever business you’re in, you have a shot at thought leadership — and thought leadership just means helping people make sense of a complex, sometimes scary world. Own an HVAC company? You have a real perspective on energy prices, climate, even the metals in your supply chain, that could help someone understand why things are happening around them. The catch is that you usually can’t see your own leadership potential until someone helps you pull it out. So Matt’s takeaway lands where the week has been pointing: let yourself be interviewed, find the right partners, and let them draw the stories out of you like clay on a wheel. His weekend question: what conversation could you have that reveals something genuinely useful to the people you serve? (Recorded through the Canadian-wildfire haze blanketing New York — Matt sounds a little under the weather, and says so.) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    The Response, Not the Catastrophe

  7. Jul 16

    The Stage Is Already in Front of You

    For anyone who keeps saying “I need to get out there, I need to do a talk” and hasn’t yet, Matt has a short, direct nudge. The stage you’re waiting for probably already exists — you’re sitting in it. He tells the story of a networking group he’s part of, where he was invited to give a ten-minute talk to twenty-eight people in a room with the same croissants, coffee, and fruit basket as always. Same room, same meeting — but it had grown more vibrant since his first visit, and it hit him: this was a bigger stage than it used to be, without ever changing rooms. That’s the whole reframe. A stage isn’t a TEDx spotlight or a conference hall of 10,000 (which, let’s be honest, is usually a couple hundred). It’s any place where familiar, friendly people gather regularly and trust each other — a low-pressure room to work your material, ask for real feedback, and get better every single time. Matt did the talk differently than ever before, got great feedback, and it still wasn’t perfect — which is exactly the point, because you just keep doing it and keep refining. He closes with a practical on-ramp for the person who senses they’ve got a story but can’t quite grab it: let yourself be interviewed, watch it back, and pull the story out like clay on a wheel. The takeaway to carry into your day: treat the world as your stage, and step onto the one already in front of you. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

    The Stage Is Already in Front of You

  8. Jul 14

    MattGPT

    Matt’s back with a warning he’s aiming squarely at himself as much as anyone: creative atrophy. He uses AI tools constantly and says so plainly, but he’s noticing what happens when you outsource the thinking rather than the tasks — the posts all start to look the same, the output looks fine, and the muscle quietly wastes away. His half-joking name for the alternative is MattGPT. He has a brain. He intends to use it. So he offers three things he does daily to keep the fire lit. Get quiet — turn off the podcasts, the music, the YouTube, everything — because silence is oxygen for a fire, and cut the oxygen and the fire goes out. Let your mind wander, not chasing shiny objects but stepping through a Narnia-style doorway into a place of wonder and memory. Then ask yourself questions, because as his mentor taught him, your brain will focus on whatever you point it at — you just have to leave the browser open long enough for the answer to come back. He also makes a case worth hearing on why storytelling isn’t actually a trend (it has never once not been relevant), why “brand” mostly just means reputation, and how much of the in-and-out chatter is driven by social media marketers doing their job. Plus a tease: a new partnership he’s excited about, coming in the next couple of weeks. The question to sit with: what will you do today to take your brain to the gym? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mattstone.substack.com

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A backstage pass to The Bigger Stage, where host Matt Stone covers the behind-the-scenes lowdown on his journey to build The Bigger Stage brand, business, and show, and the business and life lessons he's learning along the way. mattstone.substack.com

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