Badass Confidence Coach | Your Personal Trainer for Your Mind

Anna Marcolin
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The Badass Confidence Coach is your go-to podcast for high-achieving women and men ready to step into their full potential. Hosted by Anna Marolin, therapist, life coach, and 20-year triathlete, this show is not your average therapy session. Anna is on a mission to empower everyone to overcome their self-doubt, crush their goals, and live their most badass lives. Tune in to discover practical strategies, candid conversations, and actionable advice to conquer the challenges holding you back. From battling loneliness and anxiety to mastering mindset shifts and embracing self-love, Anna dives deep into the struggles we all face, alongside insightful guest interviews and engaging discussions with her husband, Tim. Expect raw honesty, unwavering support, and a hefty dose of inspiration as Anna shares her expertise gained from over two decades of counseling and coaching experience. Whether you're seeking to boost your confidence, redefine success, or simply kick ass in life, The Badass Confidence Coach is your personal guide to unlocking your full potential. Subscribe now and join the community of badass women and men who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary. You can also find Anna on Instagram and TikTok @askannamarcolin.

  1. 16H AGO

    284. The Slow Burn of Resentment and What's Really Driving It

    Send us Fan Mail Resentment doesn't arrive all at once. It builds slowly, quietly, through a thousand small moments where you said yes when you meant no, where you kept going when you needed to stop, where you waited for someone to notice something you never actually said out loud. Join Anna and Tim as they dig into one of the most common and least talked about emotions in relationships, families, and workplaces. They get into where resentment really comes from, why high-functioning women are especially prone to it, and what's actually happening when the anger finally surfaces. This Episode Covers: Why resentment builds in silence and what keeps it growing under the surface.The difference between direct anger and the colder, score-keeping kind.How overgiving can come from anxiety and approval-seeking, not just generosity.Unspoken expectations and why you're grading people on a rubric they never saw.The gap between capability and capacity, and why being able to carry it all doesn't mean you should.What self-abandonment actually looks like and why no one is coming to rescue you from a dynamic you keep participating in.How resentment leaks out sideways when it never gets said directly.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 25m

  2. APR 30

    283. Breaking Patterns Feels Worse Before It Feels Better (Part II)

    Send us Fan Mail A lot of people expect change to feel empowering right away. It doesn't always. Sometimes it feels awkward, boring, exposing. Sometimes it feels like grief. And that part doesn't get talked about enough. Join Anna and Tim as they get into the real texture of what breaking a pattern actually requires. Not the inspiration, the resistance. The moment when the new thing feels unfamiliar and wrong, and the old thing is right there pulling at you. Anna gets honest about her own patterns, including the anger she learned from watching her dad shut down every room he walked into, and what it actually took to start doing something different.  This Episode Covers: Why we repeat what is unresolved, not just what hurts us.Attaching to someone's potential instead of the reality right in front of you.The shame spiral that kicks in when you realize how long you've known better.Why the new pattern feels wrong even when it's right.The difference between insight and behavior change, and where most people stop.Catching the pattern earlier, before it's already played out.What it means to grieve the familiar version of yourself.Anna's own story of burning out by being everyone's fixer, and what was actually driving it.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    52 min

  3. APR 23

    282. Why You Keep Repeating Patterns That Hurt You (Part I)

    Send us Fan Mail You've been here before. Different person, different situation, different details, but the same feeling. That hollow recognition of, why am I here again? And what makes it worse is that you're not oblivious to it. You've journaled about it, talked about it in therapy, listened to the podcasts. You see the pattern. And you're still in it. Join Anna and Tim as they get into the real reasons why smart, self-aware people keep repeating the patterns that hurt them most. Not because they're broken or secretly love suffering, but because these patterns are doing something. They're familiar, they're emotionally convincing, and for a lot of people, they once worked. Understanding that changes everything about how you approach breaking them. This Episode Covers: Why familiar feels true even when it's hurting you.How painful patterns often started as survival strategies.The difference between having insight and actually changing behavior.Why shame makes the cycle worse, not better.How chaos, over-functioning, and hyper-independence can become emotional defaults.What a coach or therapist sees that you genuinely cannot see about yourself.Why breaking a pattern can feel threatening even when you want out.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 2m

  4. APR 16

    281. The Real Cost of Avoidance and How to Finally Face It

    Send us Fan Mail You already know what you're avoiding. You can feel it sitting there, waiting. And yet, staying busy, scrolling, overthinking, keeping the TV loud. It all works, at least for a little while. Join Anna and Tim as they pull back the curtain on one of the most underestimated forces in people's lives: avoidance. Not the obvious kind, but the sneaky kind that shows up as productivity, people-pleasing, staying "easygoing," and endless thinking that never quite leads to action. They get into why smart, capable people do this, what it's actually costing them, and the moves that help you start facing what you've been sidestepping. This Episode Covers: Why avoidance isn't laziness and what it actually is.The sneaky ways avoidance shows up that most people don't recognize.What happens when your nervous system starts treating discomfort like danger.How avoidance erodes self-trust, fuels anxiety, and quietly shrinks your life.Why the thing you keep avoiding doesn't disappear but grows.The difference between processing and avoiding, and how to tell which one you're doing.Steps to start facing what you already know needs your attention.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 11m

  5. APR 9

    280. Why You Can't Relax Even When Nothing Is Wrong

    Send us Fan Mail You sit down. Nothing is actually wrong. No emergency, no conflict, no fire to put out. And somehow your brain is already scanning, already running tomorrow's to-do list, already pulling you back into motion. It's not a character flaw. It's a pattern, and most high-functioning people are living inside it without realizing it. Join Anna and Tim as they dig into why so many capable, driven people can't power down, even when life is going well. Anna draws on 30 years of working with clients to name what's really happening under the surface, from nervous systems that learned vigilance as survival to the quiet fear of what might come up if you actually went still. This Episode Covers: Why high-functioning people are often the most dysregulated on the inside.How childhood environments teach your body to stay on alert.The connection between constant productivity and avoiding what you don't want to feel.Why being calm can feel suspicious, even threatening, to a nervous system that doesn't trust it.What rest actually looks like versus scrolling, passing out from exhaustion, or staying busy.The one question to start asking yourself instead of "why can't I relax?"Small ways to start teaching your body that stillness is survivable.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 35m

  6. APR 2

    279. The Real Work of Building Emotional Intelligence

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us are walking around operating on three channels: mad, fine, or tired. And if that's the vocabulary we're working with, we're going to keep spinning out in the same patterns, the same arguments, the same spiral of "no one ever chooses me" without ever actually getting underneath what's driving it. Join Anna and Tim as they get into the real, unglamorous work of building emotional intelligence in yourself. Not in a partner, not in your kids. In you. Anna breaks down the actual skills, the science behind them, and why naming what you feel isn't soft work. It's strategic. This Episode Covers: Why most people default to "mad, fine, or tired" and what it costs them.The affect labeling research that shows precise emotional language literally reduces reactivity in the brain.How to separate the feeling from the story you're telling yourself about it.When the story is old pain wearing a current face.Why your partner is not your nervous system manager.The pause where emotional intelligence actually lives.What regulation looks like in practice, including the Gottman timeout strategy for couples.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 9m

  7. MAR 26

    278. What Emotional Intelligence Actually Looks Like in a Partner

    Send us Fan Mail Everyone's talking about attachment styles, love languages, chemistry. But there's one variable that actually determines whether love feels sustainable or completely exhausting, and most people aren't looking for it. Join Anna and Tim as they break down what emotional intelligence really is and, more importantly, what it isn't. Because knowing the therapy terms doesn't mean someone has the skills. Anna lays out the green flags, the observable behaviors that tell you whether the person in your life can actually show up when things get hard. This Episode Covers: Why knowing all the right psychology terms has nothing to do with having emotional intelligence.The science behind why "just calm down" never works.How growing up around shutdown, rage, or emotional chaos shapes what you mistake for depth or passion.The green flags to look for in a partner, from naming emotions to staying present under pressure.What weaponizing vulnerability actually looks like.How unrepaired conflict slowly calcifies into resentment.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

    1h 16m

  8. MAR 19

    277. The Habits That Are Quietly Worsening Your Mental Health

    Send us Fan Mail It doesn’t look destructive. It looks normal. It looks like staying informed, thinking things through, being strong, or just unwinding at the end of the day. But underneath it, something is building. Join Anna and Tim as they break down the everyday habits that feel harmless, even helpful, but are quietly increasing anxiety, draining energy, and pulling people further into their heads. This conversation gets real about the subtle ways mental health erodes, from constant stimulation to avoidance to comparison, and why most people don’t even realize it’s happening. It’s not about changing your personality; it’s about getting honest about your behavior. This Episode Covers Doom scrolling to “stay informed” and flooding your nervous system.How the brain reads everything as danger, no matter the source.Overthinking as a false sense of control and not real problem-solving.Replaying conversations and strengthening the anxiety pathway.Emotional avoidance that shows up as “I’m fine” and staying busy.Unprocessed emotions turning into irritability, numbness, and resentment.Sabotaging sleep and why it impacts mood, impulse control, and anxiety.Comparing your inside to someone else’s highlight reel and fueling shame.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth. Mad love! Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coaching The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform! CONNECT WITH ANNA: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin Email hello@annamarcolin.com Website https://www.annamarcolin.com

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The Badass Confidence Coach is your go-to podcast for high-achieving women and men ready to step into their full potential. Hosted by Anna Marolin, therapist, life coach, and 20-year triathlete, this show is not your average therapy session. Anna is on a mission to empower everyone to overcome their self-doubt, crush their goals, and live their most badass lives. Tune in to discover practical strategies, candid conversations, and actionable advice to conquer the challenges holding you back. From battling loneliness and anxiety to mastering mindset shifts and embracing self-love, Anna dives deep into the struggles we all face, alongside insightful guest interviews and engaging discussions with her husband, Tim. Expect raw honesty, unwavering support, and a hefty dose of inspiration as Anna shares her expertise gained from over two decades of counseling and coaching experience. Whether you're seeking to boost your confidence, redefine success, or simply kick ass in life, The Badass Confidence Coach is your personal guide to unlocking your full potential. Subscribe now and join the community of badass women and men who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary. You can also find Anna on Instagram and TikTok @askannamarcolin.

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