Badass Momma: 4th Trimester Lessons

Danielle 💜 Meyer
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Society doesn’t always tell the whole truth about birth and postpartum. I'm on a mission to change that. I sit down with my friends, who just happen to be experts in this field as they are mommas too! We get real about the fourth trimester. We're talking about the good, the bad, and the messy. From postpartum depression to breastfeeding struggles, and even birth stories we didn’t ask for!

  1. 09/07/2025

    My Story, Part 8: From Hypervigilance to Healing: Inside Danielle’s Postpartum Reality

    In this episode, Danielle gets real about the messy, unfiltered side of postpartum recovery—navigating blood loss, iron infusions, intrusive thoughts, and the weight of anxiety that clung to every moment. She shares the raw truth of what healing looked like: therapy sessions, hypervigilance, a body that didn’t feel like her own, and the small support systems that made survival possible. Shedding light on the unseen side of postpartum recovery—from medical scares and iron infusions to anxiety, therapy, and healing—because no mom should feel alone in the fourth trimester. Get accountability on self-care, and a community of badass mommas who get it. Join the movement by texting me at 563-581-2879. I can’t wait to meet you and help you become the badass momma who deserves self-care time. I’ll see you inside.

    59 min

  2. 07/15/2025

    My Story, Part 7: From Hospital Haze to Home; the First Days With Jett

    In this emotionally raw and beautifully honest episode, Ashley and Danielle pick up where the story left off—coming home from the hospital with their newborn, Jett. But this isn’t just about the car ride. It’s about the emotional weight of stepping out of the safety of hospital walls and into the unknown world of new parenthood.From a 3-hour snowstorm drive that mirrors their inner overwhelm to the startling realization that bonding doesn’t always happen instantly, this episode shines a light on the very real, often unspoken truths of postpartum life.If you’ve ever felt guilty for not loving every moment or scared by the thoughts in your own head, this one’s for you.⸻ In This Episode, We Talk About: • Leaving the hospital with Jett and the chaos that followed • That wild moment when postpartum reality hits hard • What it’s like to feel emotionally detached from your baby at first • Crying in the car and choosing your partner—because the bond isn’t there yet • How guilt, therapy, and intrusive thoughts shape the postpartum experience • The quiet, crucial reminder: your mental health matters⸻ Notable Quotes:“Yeah, it was so on top of trying to manage all of the emotional turmoil of my own.”“Because you were feeling guilty… about not bonding.”“If I had to choose my wife or my kid, I would always choose you—because I didn’t know him.”“My voice matters. My mental health matters.”⸻ This episode is a love letter to: • The mom who didn’t bond instantly • The mom who’s scared by her own thoughts • The mom who’s crying in the car, wondering if she’s cut out for this • And the one who’s healing in silence—until now02.⸻Take your journey with this podcast to the next level by joining our monthly membership program! Get accountability on self-care, and a community of badass mommas who get it.Join the movement by texting me at 563-581-2879.I can’t wait to meet you and help you become the badass momma who deserves self-care time. I’ll see you inside

    51 min

  3. 05/15/2025

    My Story, Part 6: From Discharge to Disconnect: Danielle’s First Night Without Jett

    Danielle shares what it felt like to finally be discharged from the hospital—without Jett. From navigating accessibility issues at the hotel to the haunting silence of being separated from her newborn, this episode unpacks a night that felt anything but healing. Take your journey with this podcast to the next level by joining our monthly membership program! Get accountability on self-care, and a community of badass mommas who get it. Join the movement by texting me at 563-581-2879. I can’t wait to meet you and help you become the badass momma who deserves self-care time. I’ll see you inside.

    45 min

  4. 04/16/2025

    My Story, Part 5: From Hemorrhaging to Holding On: Danielle’s Deep Dive into Trauma, Recovery & WTF Moments

    Danielle never got a full explanation for why she hemorrhaged after giving birth—so in this episode, she begins to piece it together out loud. From uterine exhaustion to vasospasms and a surprise second incision, she and Ashley unpack the causes of her blood loss, the eight transfusions, and what it meant to land in the ICU.This conversation goes beyond the clinical. It’s about the people who showed up: the lactation consultants who took her birth plan to heart, the nurses Ashley befriended in record time, and the loved ones who brought warmth—literally and figuratively.There’s vulnerability. There’s humor. And yes, there’s an unexpected emergency you’ll never see coming.Because postpartum isn’t always pretty. But there’s power in telling the messy parts, too.Take your journey with this podcast to the next level by joining our monthly membership program! Get accountability on self-care, and a community of badass mommas who get it.Join the movement by texting me at 563-581-2879.I can’t wait to meet you and help you become the badass momma who deserves self-care time. I’ll see you inside.

    56 min

  5. 04/04/2025

    My Story, Part 4: From ICU to Identity: Danielle’s Reminder to Take It One Step at a Time

    After 38 hours in the ICU and a brush with death, Danielle found herself in a recovery room—physically wrecked, emotionally raw, and unsure how to begin this whole "being a mom" thing. In this episode, she walks us through what those first moments post-birth really felt like, from confusion and frustration to quiet, unexpected humor. If you’ve ever felt like you were dropped into motherhood without a map, this one’s for you. Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode: What happens after the ICU when your body is still in survival mode but everyone expects you to just be a mom now. The truth about postpartum recovery that no one talks about—spoiler: it’s not peaceful, and it’s definitely not instant. Why taking it one step at a time might be the most powerful postpartum advice you’ll ever hear. Take your journey with this podcast to the next level by joining our monthly membership program! Get accountability on self-care, and a community of badass mommas who get it. Join the movement by texting me at the 563-581-2879. I can’t wait to meet you and help you become the badass momma who deserves self-care time. I’ll see you inside.

    1h 5m

  6. 03/09/2025

    My Story, Part 3: From Survival Mode to Thriving, Reclaiming My Strength

    What happens when birth turns into a fight for survival? In this raw and powerful episode, I take you inside my ICU experience—the pain, the fear, and the resilience that carried me through. From enduring Pitocin contractions on a gurney while being rushed to treat an embolism to the moment I realized just how critical my condition truly was, I share the moments that shaped my fight to live. You’ll hear about the four phone calls I made, the nurse who brushed my hair and brought my humanity back, and the gut-wrenching realization of the trauma Ashley and I were accumulating. Most importantly, I unpack how I didn’t just survive—I thrived. Through mindset shifts, medical interventions, and the unshakable bond with my wife, I found strength in the impossible. This episode is for anyone who has ever been in survival mode, for the moms navigating trauma, and for the partners holding it all together. Tune in now for an episode filled with truth, resilience, and hard-won wisdom. Text "community" to 563-581-2879 to join our badass momma community!

    29 min

  7. 03/07/2025

    My Story, Part 2: From Announcing 'Jett' to Crisis in the ICU: Danielle's Fight for Survival

    In Part 1, I shared the moments leading up to Jett’s birth—the exhaustion, the unexpected turns, and the first signs that something wasn’t right. But what happened next? That’s where things took a terrifying turn. In Part 2, we pick up right where we left off. What started as relief and celebration—calling my mom, announcing Jett’s name—quickly spiraled into a full-blown medical crisis. One moment I was holding onto the joy of his birth, and the next, I was in the ICU, freezing, struggling to breathe, and fighting to stay conscious. 🔹 What you’ll hear in this episode: The moment I realized something was very, very wrong. The chaos of medical staff trying (and failing) to get an IV in for a blood transfusion. The moment my breathing changed—and why it was so dangerous. Ashley’s perspective: watching helplessly, navigating the NICU alone, and advocating for me in the ICU. Why this experience changed everything—including how I feel about having more kids. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, pause here and go back—this story starts long before the ICU, and it’s important to hear how it all unfolded. This is a story of survival, trauma, and grief. If you’ve ever felt like your body betrayed you, if you’re carrying the weight of a birth that didn’t go as planned, or if you just need to hear someone say, “I get it,”—this episode is for you. 🎧 💛 Let’s keep this conversation going. If this episode resonates with you, send me a message—I’d love to hear your story, text me at 563-581-2879 #BadassMommaPodcast #BirthTrauma #PostpartumSurvival #ICURecovery

    1h 15m

  8. 03/07/2025

    My Story, Part 1: From Acupuncture to Action

    In this deeply personal episode, Danielle shares the beginning of her birth story—one marked by resilience, unexpected challenges, and raw emotions. With her wife Ashley by her side, she recounts the journey leading up to the birth of their son, the mental and physical toll of the experience, and how EMDR therapy has helped her process the trauma. Expect honesty, vulnerability, and a real look at what birth can be like when things don’t go as planned. If you’ve ever faced a difficult labor or postpartum experience, you’re not alone—and this episode is for you. Topics Covered: ✨ The emotional and physical lead-up to labor ✨ The impact of trauma and how EMDR therapy plays a role in healing ✨ The support of a loving partner through the hardest moments ✨ A raw, unfiltered perspective on birth and recovery 🔹 Listen now and join the conversation! 📩 Have a story to share? Text me at 563-581-2879 and be part of our badass momma community!

    51 min
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Society doesn’t always tell the whole truth about birth and postpartum. I'm on a mission to change that. I sit down with my friends, who just happen to be experts in this field as they are mommas too! We get real about the fourth trimester. We're talking about the good, the bad, and the messy. From postpartum depression to breastfeeding struggles, and even birth stories we didn’t ask for!

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