Baggage Claim

Greg and Jess
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Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

  1. 3D AGO

    Waffle House > Roses. "Put the Phone Down and Pass the Syrup"

    Send a text February gets loud with glitter, cards, and big-price dinners. We go the other way. Greg and Jess unpack why hype-heavy Valentine’s pressure rarely leads to connection, and how simple, repeatable habits—naming expectations, choosing quality time, and putting phones away—create the nights you actually remember. With a little chaos, a lot of humor, and a Waffle House tradition that keeps us grounded, we show how to design a date that fits your real life instead of your feed. We dig into why expectations derail romance, how love languages change what a “win” looks like, and why planning intimacy doesn’t kill the mood—it protects it. From the origins of Valentine’s to the way social media and spicy book tropes warp our sense of “special,” we challenge the need to perform and offer a practical framework: ask specifically, agree honestly, and celebrate in a way that feels like you. Whether your heart wants a fancy steakhouse or takeout by the fire, attention is the luxury item. Along the way, we share updates on our growing community, the live 50th episode with giveaways and Q&A, and how you can hang out behind the scenes. Most of all, we invite you to choose presence over performance. Tag your date selfie, tell us what made it meaningful, and borrow ideas from other listeners. If this conversation helps you breathe easier about Valentine’s—or plan a night that actually fits—tap follow, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review so more couples can find us. Your support keeps this community thriving. Support the show

    39 min

  2. FEB 3

    The Baggage Claim Method™: 9 Steps to Build a Stronger Marriage and Home

    Send us a text What if you could trade relationship chaos for a simple map you can actually follow? We break down a practical framework that moves from You to Us to Family, so you can stop reacting to fires and start building rhythms that last. No silver bullets, just nine honest steps that make real life feel more navigable. We start with You: knowing your operating system, naming emotion before reaction, and choosing response over reflex. Think of it like updating your mental software so new habits can run. Then we shift to Us, where the real magic happens—rebuilding the language of safety, clarifying expectations before they turn poisonous, and remembering why you chose each other in the first place. Tone, timing, and truth-telling matter, and small check-ins beat big blowups every time. Family brings the framework home. We talk about defining a culture on purpose—how you speak, rest, repair, and celebrate—then inviting your kids into that culture with age-appropriate voice and shared values. Finally, we show how rhythms like weekly huddles, state-of-us talks, and recurring date nights turn good intentions into muscle memory. Between ice storm cabin fever, a righteous gas-pump rant, and a few pronunciation battles, you’ll hear how everyday moments become practice reps for healthier connection. Explore the full framework and take our “Which step am I in?” self-assessment at unpacktogether.com. Join us for a live recording on Feb 21 with giveaways, and check out our Patreon for exclusive extras. If this helped, tap follow, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review—what’s one rhythm you’ll start this week? Support the show

    44 min

  3. JAN 27

    The Good Old Days Aren’t Over—They’re Unfolding

    Send us a text What if the good old days aren’t behind us at all—but unfolding in front of us, easy to miss because we’re scrolling, planning, or rushing to the next thing? We open with laughter and a live-show announcement, then settle into a conversation that digs beneath nostalgia to ask what we’re really craving from our memories: freedom, warmth, and the sense that we were fully there. From storm-hammock nights and muddy garden laughs to the chaos of small kids under one roof, we unpack why those moments matter and how we can feel more of that right now. Together we examine the tug-of-war between presence and distraction. “Be where your feet are” becomes more than a quote—it’s a practice. We trade practical ways to anchor in the moment: five minutes of silence in the car, turning off the radio, listing gratitudes out loud, and setting tiny, repeatable rituals that make connection a habit. We press on a tough pattern too—why we wait until relationships are strained before we tend them—and offer small maintenance moves that keep joy from leaking out: a monthly lunch with old teammates, a weekly walk with your partner, and protecting time for the hobby that fills you. There’s room for firsts, even years into a relationship; our first gym workout together in fourteen years turns into a story about trying, laughing, and noticing. That’s the bigger takeaway: the feelings you miss aren’t locked in the past. They’re produced by attention, gratitude, and choices you can make today. If you’ve felt stuck in the next-thing chase, this conversation gives you simple steps to slow down, look around, and build new good days on purpose. If this resonates, tap follow, share it with a friend who needs a breather, and leave a quick review—it helps more listeners find the show and join the conversation.

    40 min

  4. JAN 20

    Collateral Beauty,Finding Grace That Stays When Grief Won’t Leave Part 2

    Send us a text Loss can level a life, but it can also sharpen what matters. We return to the theme of collateral beauty—those quiet, steady forms of goodness that rise alongside grief—to show how pain and hope can occupy the same room without canceling each other out. Through raw stories of faith, frustration, and surprising peace, we trace the moments of clarity that arrive in ordinary places: a bathroom floor, a broken lawn mower at dusk, a hug that suddenly carries the weight of time. We unpack what collateral beauty is not: it’s not comparison, a silver lining, or a tidy justification for suffering. Instead, it’s grace that shows up uninvited and stays; it’s the strength to forgive when forgiveness feels impossible; it’s the courage to ask for help and the humility to accept it. Along the way, we talk about urgency, time, and the small choices that build a life—calling now instead of later, thanking someone today, saying yes to community when isolation feels safer. Those choices become seeds planted in broken ground, the kind that can yield tenfold when tended with care. We also draw a clear line between being alone and being lonely, and we share practical ways to notice progress: track what hurts a little less, celebrate tiny wins, and allow joy without guilt. The desert metaphor runs through our conversation—flowers on a cactus, life after sundown—as a reminder that growth continues even in harsh seasons. Healing isn’t closing a chapter; it’s learning to read the rest of the story with honesty, compassion, and a renewed sense of purpose. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a little light in their desert, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, and leave a review with your own moment of collateral beauty. What small win are you claiming today?

    42 min

  5. JAN 13

    Collateral Beauty. We don't heal by explaining pain away; you heal by working through it.

    Send us a text The calendar flips, the resolutions fly, and then real life hits: loss rarely stays in its lane. We open the door to a raw conversation about what happens after death and divorce, where the heartbreak is obvious but the hidden fallout is not. Inspired by Collateral Beauty, we explore how grief ripples into identity, friendships, parenting, finances, faith, and that quiet ache of no longer belonging to someone. It’s not a sprint, not a tidy arc—just honest steps toward naming what broke and finding the courage to rebuild. We talk through invisible losses that rarely get airtime: kids stepping into roles they shouldn’t carry, friends choosing sides, church responses that help or harm, and the difference between casseroles and opinions. Each of us names three non-obvious losses—safety, trust, confidence, direction, joy—and how acknowledging them changed the way we heal. Counseling becomes a practical anchor: take one intrusive thought, test it for truth, decide what to change, and let go of lies that keep you stuck. That work isn’t glamorous, but it shortens the emotional swings and returns agency over your mind. Safe listeners matter. We draw a clear line between people who rush to fix and those who sit with you, speak hard truths, and still love you. We refuse comparison and timelines; your pain counts even if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s. And while we don’t promise quick answers, we do promise the next step: slow down, name your collateral damage, and start with one action you can take today. Stay with us for part two as we look for collateral beauty—the unexpected good seeded in the wreckage that grows into courage, clarity, and a deeper kind of joy. If this conversation moved you, tap follow, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What invisible loss did you have to name? We’d love to hear your story.

    47 min

  6. JAN 6

    Small Steps, Real Change: A Year-End Marriage Check-In

    Send us a text New years don’t remake us—honest reflection does. We open the door on our own wins and survival moments from the past year and share a simple, judgment-free way to review your relationship so you can grow without beating yourselves up. Think of it like a workshop, not a courtroom: identify what worked, name what cost more than you expected, and choose tiny steps that add up to real change. We start with communication—the place most couples stumble. Where did you avoid instead of engage? How often did assumptions replace questions? A small phrase, “help me understand,” can disarm defensiveness and invite curiosity. We also get real about phones. Six hours a day on average adds up to two full days a week. That’s time you could reinvest into no-phone dinners, date nights, or a simple walk around the block. Presence is a choice, and structure helps: phone baskets at meals, no phones on dates, and a weekly check-in you both protect. Time and attention tell the truth about your values. If your calendar is chaos, it’s time to realign. We talk through practical ways to schedule connection like any other priority—wall calendars, planned getaways, and recurring moments that survive busy seasons. Then we dive into emotional connection: processing feelings, avoiding numbing, and asking for help when the bag is too heavy to unpack alone. Healthy partnerships are built by people who keep doing their own inner work. Finally, we outline conflict skills that lower the temperature and raise understanding. Drop “always” and “never.” Call timeouts and return on purpose. Aim to make a difference, not just make a point. You don’t need a perfect year to have a strong relationship—you need a rhythm of reflection and a few small, stubborn steps toward each other. Grab our free reflection worksheet via the link on our Instagram, share this episode with someone who’ll do it with you, and if you’re local to North Georgia, reach out about hosting our live 50th episode. If this helped, subscribe, share, and leave a review so more couples can find it.

    38 min

  7. 12/30/2025

    From$12 To 115,000 Kids Served Rebekah Black’s Jambos story part 2

    Send us a text A single mom, $12 in the bank, and a calling that wouldn’t let go—Rebecca joins us to share how Jambos grew from a living-room operation into a 7,000-square-foot hub serving 15–20k kids in foster care every year. The spark was simple and specific: new pajamas for children entering care. The results have been anything but small, fueled by faith, relentless work, and a pivotal moment in Kenya where unexpected mentors stepped in to fund her salary so she could focus and build. We dig into what early traction looks like when you have no overhead, no fear of hard work, and an idea people instantly understand. From a church lending space during the pandemic to thousands of volunteers and more than $400k raised annually, the story mixes gritty details with moments that remind us why comfort matters—a foster alumna recognizing Jambos at a sleepover, and the quiet power of meeting a basic need on a hard day. Rebecca also opens up about the pressure of providing for three daughters while running payroll and learning, slowly, to step out of survival mode. Then we shift to the gap no one talks about enough: teens in foster care. About 30% of kids in care are over 13, but their sizes are the last to be donated. We walk through Jambos’ new teen-focused program, why neutral, comfortable options matter, and how monthly giving keeps inventory moving where it’s most needed. Finally, we share the next move—expansion into North Florida to serve 5,000 more children—alongside practical ways you can help: host a drive, shop the Amazon wish list, volunteer, or give monthly, because money moves pajamas and consistency powers impact. If this story lit a fire, tap follow, share with a friend who cares about foster youth, and leave a review telling us which moment hit you hardest. Your support helps more kids sleep better—and helps us bring more of these conversations to the mic.

    34 min

  8. 12/23/2025

    From Sales to Service: Rebekah Black’s "Yes" that launched Jambos.

    Send us a text What if the thing you’re best at isn’t the thing you’re meant for? We sit down with our friend Rebecca Black, a single mom of three and the founder of Jambos, to unpack how a six-figure sales career and a season in mega-church ministry led to a radical pivot: providing new pajamas to kids in foster care. The path wasn’t linear. It started with a teenage missions trip that sparked a “heartbeat mentality,” a later wrestle with identity on a big church staff, and a simple question at DFCS—what do kids actually need on day one of foster care? Rebecca shares the personal and practical beats behind Jambos: the name rooted in her childhood and in Swahili, the first small group drive that collected 223 pairs, and the living room that disappeared under mountains of pajamas as schools, gyms, and churches joined in. We dig into the operational side too—budgets, HR compliance, 990s, content calendars—showing how mission and management must move together for a nonprofit to thrive. Her story is a masterclass in purpose with teeth: ask specifically, serve with dignity, build systems that last, and let community power the movement. You’ll hear the humor of holiday icebreakers, the honesty of past pain, and the hope of provision showing up at the perfect time—a web developer offering help, volunteers raising their hands, and a first-year impact reaching 5,500 kids. If you’ve ever felt torn between comfort and calling, or wondered how to turn a burden into a blueprint, this conversation offers both heart and how-to. Hit play, share it with a friend who’s dreaming of impact, and if it resonates, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what small, specific act could your community rally around next?

    35 min
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Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

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  • Creator
    Greg and Jess
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Baggage Claim
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