Baggage Claim

Greg and Jess
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Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

  1. 2D AGO

    Who Holds Your Hand When Life Hurts

    Send us Fan Mail Some nights we want to show up upbeat and polished, but real life doesn’t always cooperate. We’re recording after a week that feels way too heavy, and instead of pretending we’re fine, we sit in the truth: it’s okay to not be okay. If you’re carrying grief, stress, or that quiet dread you can’t explain, we want you to hear this clearly. You’re not broken. You’re human. We talk about what heavy seasons do to marriage and relationships, especially when one person is deeply affected and the other feels numb, practical, or ready to “fix it.” We unpack why validation can be more loving than advice, why silence can sometimes be support, and how work culture and social media can train us to perform instead of process. We also share the kind of perspective that helped us most: people who can look at your life like a movie producer and point out what you can’t see from inside the moment. Community comes up again and again because isolation is gasoline on emotional pain. We end by reminding you that you don’t have to walk this alone and by sharing ways to connect with us, plus our free 27-question audit at unpacktogether.com to help you figure out where you are and what a next step could be. If this hits home, subscribe to Baggage Claim, share it with a friend who needs a steady voice, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations. What’s one thing you wish someone would say to you when life gets heavy? Support the show

    49 min

  2. APR 28

    The Iceberg of Family Culture: What's Hiding Under the Surface

    Send us Fan Mail Someday your child will describe your childhood home to someone you’ve never met, and they’ll focus on the parts that stayed: the feeling at the door, the tone at the table, the way safety and tension lived in the room. That thought stopped us in our tracks, because it makes family culture feel less like a vague idea and more like a daily decision. We talk about how “culture” works in the workplace and why it matters just as much in parenting, marriage, and blended families. We share the small childhood details we still remember (the porch wave, the honk around the corner, the farm table, the butterfinger milkshake) and connect them to what kids actually carry into adulthood. Then we get practical, using the iceberg model of culture: what’s visible on the surface, what we say we value, and the deeper beliefs we often assume without ever naming. If you’re blending families, raising kids, or trying to build a healthier home atmosphere, we dig into how unspoken expectations create avoidable conflict. We also challenge the habit of waiting until something breaks before we get help, and we offer simple questions to ask your partner so you can set the table on purpose and build real emotional wealth over time. Subscribe, share this with your partner, and leave a review if it helped. Then come tell us: what’s one childhood moment that still shapes you today? Support the show

    45 min

  3. APR 21

    Stop Repeating The Same Fight

    Send us Fan Mail Ever notice how a new relationship can start fresh… then somehow you end up having the exact same argument you swore you’d never have again? Tonight we get honest (and a little ridiculous) about why patterns repeat, why “they’re the problem” is rarely the whole story, and how personal baggage quietly runs the show until we finally unpack it. With Jess out sick, it’s Greg and Michael on the mics, using a tortilla-slap challenge to keep each other accountable while we dig into the real work: becoming healthier people. We break down the five pillars of personal health (mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial) and how one weak area can drag the others down fast. We also separate mental health from emotional health in plain language, talk about building margin before you hit burnout, and share what coping looks like versus what thriving requires when you’re recovering from divorce, resentment, or recurring intrusive thoughts. If you’ve been stuck in anxiety spirals, depression resets, money stress, or relationship frustration, you’ll hear practical ways to slow down, grab the reins of your thinking, and choose a healthier response. We wrap with a simple challenge: stay consistently aware, get honest with yourself, and keep people around you who love you enough to tell you the truth. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a reset, and leave a review if the framework helps you. What’s the one repeating fight or thought loop you’re ready to break? Support the show

    55 min

  4. APR 14

    Dinner Rolls and Marriage Roles - Defining who we are in marriage

    Send us Fan Mail The smallest moments can reveal the biggest patterns. One of us walks into a room and talks to everyone, the other hangs back and watches, and suddenly you can see the same dynamic playing out at home: who leads, who follows, who carries the social load, and who quietly keeps the whole thing steady. We start with a question about your most visible talent and end up somewhere deeper, because what people praise in public can create real tension in a marriage if you never name the pros and cons out loud. Then we get practical about marriage roles and expectations. Provider and caregiver are the classic labels, but real life is more layered: discipline, schedules, emotional support, decision making, money pressure, and the constant question of “what do you expect me to handle?” We also talk identity in marriage, including why so many men tie self worth to their job and why so many women tie self worth to their kids and their home. When stress hits, that identity drift can pull couples apart unless they learn to ask for help, set boundaries, and stay connected on purpose. We also unpack the rise of gray hair divorces, when couples make it to the empty nest and realize they no longer know each other. Our takeaway is simple and hard: choose intentional connection now, build margin into your family schedule, and keep having the conversations that make you more than roommates. If this hits home, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find the show. Support the show

    44 min

  5. APR 7

    The Ghosts At The Table

    Send us Fan Mail A lot of relationship fights aren’t really about the dirty dishes, the unread text, or the vibe in the room. They’re about the ghosts that show up with us, old trauma, old trust breaks, old survival habits that still run in the background like an outdated operating system. Jess and Greg get honest about what those “ghosts” look like in real life, including how silence can trigger panic, how a phone can feel like betrayal, and why we sometimes react fast before we even know what we’re reacting to. We dig into the operating system analogy: your coding is built from childhood, past relationships, and the messy moments that taught you how to protect yourself. The problem is that protection can turn into conflict when your current partner ends up paying a debt they don’t owe. We also talk about blended family pressure, how finances and co-parenting can keep old wounds close, and why healing after divorce can take longer than most people expect. Along the way, we make space for a surprising truth: not every imprint from the past is bad. Some of it becomes gratitude, perspective, and a deeper appreciation for simply being together. If you want practical tools, we share a simple starting point that works at home and at work: slow down, do a self-audit, and lead with curiosity like “help me understand” instead of trying to fix or win. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review. What “ghost” are you ready to name so it stops running your relationship? Support the show

    42 min

  6. MAR 31

    We Call It Safe Space and It Gets Messy. Finding deep rooted adult friendships.

    Send us Fan Mail Real friendship is easy when life is easy. The test is what happens when the story gets complicated: divorce, remarriage, blended family dynamics, babies, exhausting work weeks, moving houses, and the slow drift into routine that can make a marriage feel like a roommate situation. We sit down with our best friends Michael and Ashley and talk honestly about why our friendship has held strong for more than 16 years. We trace it back to shared history, a “no judgment” kind of love, and the choice not to pick sides when life got messy. We also get into the practical realities of adult friendships: how most of us default to work friends, neighbors, church community, or our kids’ sports circles, and why it takes real intentionality to keep deeper relationships alive when time and energy are limited. Along the way, we unpack what friendship does for your mental health and physical health, why isolation can be so dangerous, and how even small connections and casual relationships can lower stress and remind you that you’re not alone. We also talk marriage advice for different seasons, from parenting little kids to empty-nest life, and why the best foundation often starts at home when your spouse is truly your best friend. If you want stronger adult friendships, a healthier marriage, and a tighter sense of community, hit play, then subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find Baggage Claim. Support the show

    57 min

  7. MAR 24

    Moon Landings To Marriage Lessons In One Unscripted Night

    Send us Fan Mail We decided to do something risky: hit record with no plan and trust the conversation to take us where it needs to go. What starts as a fun question about conspiracy theories quickly turns into something more honest about trust, power, and why our brains chase stories that feel hidden. We trade our favorite rabbit holes, laugh at how deep YouTube can pull you, and admit there are some topics you can’t touch without people assuming the worst. From there, we get real about modern disagreement. We talk about social media, keyboard courage, and what it feels like to be misunderstood by strangers who don’t know you at all. We’re not asking everyone to agree. We’re asking for civil conversation, better questions, and friendships that can handle tension without turning into hate. If you’re tired of echo chambers, this one is for you. Then we shift into the personal stuff we don’t always make space for: hobbies and the ways they keep us alive. Jess shares how painting became a grief outlet and a path toward healing. Michael talks about music, songwriting, and how picking up a guitar with no agenda can be therapy. We reflect on loss, memory, and the surprising power of a playlist made from grandparents’ favorite songs. We also circle back to why we keep doing Baggage Claim: marriage, blended family life, community, and leaving something our kids can hear one day. If you like relationship podcasts, real talk conversations, and unscripted storytelling about grief, marriage, music, and community, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a table to land at, and leave a review so more people can find the conversation. Support the show

    58 min

  8. MAR 17

    Boundaries Or Secrecy? Setting Phone Rules In Marriage

    Send us Fan Mail Your phone can be a calendar, a camera, a workspace, and a dopamine machine, but it can also become the loudest unspoken argument in a marriage. We go from joking about road trip snacks to a topic that hits a nerve for almost every couple: phone privacy, screen time, and what it means when your partner wants to look or when you feel the need to hide. We talk through the tension behind “I need boundaries” versus “I’m keeping secrets,” and why those two ideas are not the same. We also name the red flags that show up on both sides: the urge to snoop to calm anxiety, and the urge to guard a device so tightly that trust can’t breathe. Along the way, we connect digital behavior to deeper relationship issues like honesty, insecurity, defensiveness, and control. If you’ve ever felt your heart race when someone picked up your phone, or you’ve ever felt tempted to check a partner’s messages just to feel safe, we give you language to start an awkward but necessary conversation. Our biggest takeaway is simple but not always easy: the phone isn’t the real problem. Trust is. We share practical questions to ask each other about motivation and end goals, plus how to create a safe space to talk when emotions spike, cool down, and come back to finish the conversation instead of burying it. If this helps you, subscribe, share the show with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find Baggage Claim. Support the show

    41 min
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About

Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

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  • Creator
    Greg and Jess
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    62
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Baggage Claim
  • Show Website
    Baggage Claim

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