Basically Unbothered

Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered.
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Basically Unbothered Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered. A podcast that serves side-eye, soft chaos, and sharp takes on pop culture, life, and everything in between. blakegabrielle.substack.com

  1. Unbothered and Refusing to Be an Athena

    4d ago

    Unbothered and Refusing to Be an Athena

    This week on Basically Unbothered, we got into one of those conversations that somehow starts in one place and then suddenly you’re talking about grief, women’s health, mental health, AI, survival, societal pressure, and all the things people usually try to tiptoe around. And honestly? I love conversations like that because they remind me how human we all actually are underneath all the noise. I sat down with Kayla Branstetter to talk about the inspiration behind Don’t Be an Athena, the importance of women’s stories, and the reality that so many women are expected to carry impossible emotional weight while still showing up for everybody else. Kayla shares the inspiration behind her book Don’t Be an Athena, which focuses on amplifying women’s stories across different backgrounds and experiences. We talked about the way society often expects women to be endlessly strong, endlessly selfless, endlessly resilient, while rarely giving them room to simply be human. We also get into: * The realities of women’s reproductive healthcare * Mental health and societal expectations * The ethics of AI and technology * Celebrity culture and emotional disconnection * Community support and survival * Why empathy feels so rare right now * The importance of telling stories that reflect real women’s lives There’s a moment in the episode where we discuss how legislation impacts real women’s lives, and honestly, that conversation stayed with me long after recording ended. So much of this episode is about remembering the humanity behind the headlines, statistics, and debates people casually throw around online. It’s emotional. It’s thoughtful. It’s occasionally chaotic in the most human way possible. And at the center of it all is the reminder that women deserve to exist outside of impossible expectations. You can connect with Kayla here: * Kayla Branstetter on Instagram * Kayla Branstetter on LinkedIn And check out Don’t Be an Athena. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 43m
  2. Recapped: Breadcrumbs, Bad Twists & Bucharest

    6d ago

    Recapped: Breadcrumbs, Bad Twists & Bucharest

    On this episode of Basically Unbothered Recaps, Blake takes listeners through the chaotic aftermath of a writers retreat that promised creativity and delivered… gluten-free disappointment, questionable planning, and emotional whiplash. From overpriced workshops and identity discourse gone sideways to being kicked out of a group chat after speaking up, this episode is equal parts hilarious, frustrating, and painfully honest. Then the pop culture spiral begins: fake AI music drops, Cat’s Eye controversy, Huda’s new single, Drake’s contract escape plan, Ariana Grande updates, and finally a deep dive into the psychological thriller Unforgettable starring Rosario Dawson and Katherine Heigl. Blake breaks down why the movie almost works, where the thriller breadcrumbs fail, and why some twists collapse like a folding chair at a family reunion. It’s messy, funny, sharp, and deeply “what the hell was THAT?” energy from start to finish. Watch Unforgettable here. Read the Katseye article here. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  3. Unbothered by Playing it Small

    May 20

    Unbothered by Playing it Small

    What happens when mindset meets momentum? In Episode 53 of Basically Unbothered, Gabi sits down with entrepreneur and founder of LogisticsSales.com, Daman, for a conversation about building success without losing yourself in the process. Together, they unpack the realities of entrepreneurship, the power of community, and why imagination might be one of the most underrated tools for growth. From overcoming fear and self-doubt to navigating social media illusions and learning how to trust your own vision, this episode dives deep into what it really takes to create a meaningful life and career. Gabi and Daman explore: Why momentum matters more than perfection Breaking free from “the matrix” mindset around work and success Building supportive communities that actually help people grow The role of sacrifice, discipline, and adaptability in entrepreneurship Social media’s impact on our perception of success Why imagination and belief are essential at every age This episode is equal parts motivational, reflective, and real. If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure about your next move, consider this your reminder to keep going. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 27m

  4. May 18

    Recapped: Criminal Minds & Modern Exhaustion

    This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped, Gabi dives into everything from the upcoming A Simply Different Worldspinoff to the complicated state of Black representation in media, celebrity controversies, and the emotional weight behind societal expectations. From nostalgic TV conversations to deeper reflections on boundaries, burnout, toxic cycles, and healing, this episode balances pop culture commentary with real-life vulnerability. Gabi also breaks down episodes from Criminal Minds Season 5, explores how media portrays abuse and recovery, and questions the pressure society places on productivity, perfection, and survival. Through conversations about Black women in entertainment, social media drama, and emotional resilience, this episode asks one major question: How do we get better as a society? Topics include: The A Simply Different World spinoff Black TV and wholesome representation Celebrity and influencer controversies Toxic relationships and CPTSD Mental health, rest, and burnout Boundaries and emotional healing Criminal Minds Season 5 reflections Social media culture and accountability This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  5. Unbothered by Their Definition of Success

    May 13

    Unbothered by Their Definition of Success

    In this episode of Basically Unbothered, Coach Lee and Gabi dive into the realities of balancing work, mental health, self-care, and personal growth in today’s world. From rising costs of living and political conversations to productivity coaching and authentic self-discovery, the two explore what it really means to build a life that works for you. They discuss boundaries, burnout, Black women’s voices in society, celebrity culture, perseverance, and the importance of trusting your own pace instead of forcing yourself into hustle culture. Packed with honest reflections, humor, and practical insight, this episode is a reminder that success doesn’t have to come at the cost of your peace. Resources Coach Lee’s Website The Devil Wears Prada Movie South Carolina State Protest This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 31m
  6. Recapped: Criminal Minds and Coping Mechanisms

    May 11

    Recapped: Criminal Minds and Coping Mechanisms

    This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped, Gabi catches listeners up on her whirlwind schedule, recent personal milestones, and the balancing act between ambition and burnout. From a successful vendor event and prepping for an upcoming writer’s retreat to thoughts on Met Gala fashion and binge-watching Criminal Minds season 5, this episode blends pop culture commentary with honest life reflections. She also opens up about officially ending her chapter with the Navy Reserves, getting a new piercing, and learning patience during a season of self-discovery and change. It’s a candid conversation about growth, exhaustion, creativity, and finding moments of joy in the middle of chaos. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    48 min
  7. Education, Entrepreneurship, and Why this still isn’t working

    May 6

    Education, Entrepreneurship, and Why this still isn’t working

    In this powerful episode of Basically Unbothered, Gabi sits down with Robert L. Wallace to explore how education, history, and entrepreneurship shape the future of our communities. They discuss: The impact of political decisions on marginalized communities Why understanding history is key to breaking harmful cycles How entrepreneurship can help close the wealth gap The importance of mentorship and leadership for future generations Global trends in entrepreneurship among people of color This conversation blends personal insight with societal analysis, offering a deeper look at resilience, accountability, and building a better future from the ground up. Robert Wallace’s Books Robert Wallace’s Website Bith Group Technologies Bith Energy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 38m
  8. Recapped: Trust, Trials & Twisted Truths

    May 4

    Recapped: Trust, Trials & Twisted Truths

    In this episode, Gabi opens up about her recent experiences and the lessons shaping her current mindset. From navigating personal growth to unpacking deeper societal issues, she explores what it means to move through life with awareness, intention, and radical acceptance. She dives into conversations around trust, betrayal, and the importance of authentic support systems—especially when it comes to how society shows up (or fails to show up) for Black men. The discussion also touches on the impact of the Larry Nassar scandal, highlighting the broader systemic failures that continue to silence and overlook victims. Gabi also unpacks the latest court developments surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul, using it as a real-time example of how narratives around abuse, accountability, and public perception can be manipulated—and why awareness matters more than ever. This episode is a blend of reflection and real talk—centered on self-love, accountability, and learning to let go of control while still staying grounded in your truth. Sound bites that linger: * “Whatever is meant to be will be.” * “Be careful who your friends are.” * “Why do we excuse someone’s behavior?” Listen deeper:Twisted Audible Original This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    52 min
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Basically Unbothered Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered. A podcast that serves side-eye, soft chaos, and sharp takes on pop culture, life, and everything in between. blakegabrielle.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Blake Gabrielle
  • Show Website
    Basically Unbothered