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  1. Hope & Victory in Ramadan

    6D AGO

    Hope & Victory in Ramadan

    We praise Allah for allowing us to complete another month of Ramadan and to celebrate the day of Eid together. Today is a day of celebration. Today we are happy. Today we are joyous. But if you look into the global geopolitical events at the moment, it is hard for us to be joyous. It is hard for us to celebrate. Palestinians are still being killed daily, still facing genocide. The Middle East is burning. Iran is under illegal attack by the US and Israel. And now we see yet another part of the region falling into war. It is hard for us to be joyous, because the Prophet ﷺ said: if you don’t care about this Ummah, you are not from among us. So how are we to celebrate? The Boulder in the Darkness To understand celebration in a time of conflict — when the future looks bleak and it’s easy to fall into despair — I want to take you back 1,442 years. The Muslims in the nascent city of Madinah, having migrated there only five years earlier, were now under attack by all of Arabia. The largest army the Arabs had ever assembled. The Quraysh from the south. The Ghatafan from the north. The Jews of Khaybar joining the coalition. The Prophet ﷺ consulted his companions, and Sayyidina Salman al-Farisi suggested a strategy the Persians would use when outnumbered: dig a trench so the enemy cannot breach through. The Prophet ﷺ accepted the idea and commanded the companions to dig at the most vulnerable point of Madinah. He joined them in the digging. It was winter. It was cold. Food was scarce. They were hungry. They were exhausted. Yet they had to keep digging — for survival. In the darkness of that trench, they struck a boulder they couldn’t break through. They called the Prophet ﷺ. He came — dusty like everyone else, hungry like all of them. He took the shovel and struck the boulder. A third of it crumbled. A spark flew. He said: Allahu Akbar — I saw the palaces of Yemen. Yemen is given to my Ummah. He struck again. Another third crumbled. Another spark. Allahu Akbar — I saw the keys of Rome given to the Ummah. He struck a final time. The boulder shattered completely. Allahu Akbar — I saw the Sassanid Empire given to the Ummah. In times of darkness — when it is easiest to fall into desperation and give up hope — the Prophet ﷺ inspired the Muslims. He told them there is a bright future for the Ummah. All we need to do is work hard and persevere in the path of Allah ﷻ. And here is what’s remarkable: the Prophet ﷺ passed away before any of it came true. Yemen had not yet been given. The Sassanid Empire had not yet fallen. Half the Byzantine Empire had not yet come under Muslim rule. But the companions did not despair. They did not give up because it hadn’t happened yet. They understood that when Allah promises something — lā yukhliful mī’ād — He never breaks His promises. All we need to do is fulfil our part. The Tried and Tested Recipe What is our part? Allah tells us in Surah Āl ’Imrān. The secret behind the victory of the Ummah — regardless of number, regardless of material strength — is two things: ṣabr and taqwā. If you have ṣabr and you have taqwā, Allah will send down thousands of angels to help you. And in the month of Ramadan, we trained exactly that. Ṣabr by day. And ṣabr here is not passive patience. It is not sitting quietly and doing nothing. In Arabic, ṣabr carries the meaning of steadfastness, perseverance — staying on the path regardless of how difficult it is, doing the right thing no matter how challenging. We did that in Ramadan. Allah told us no water, despite 40-degree heat. And this Ramadan, we saw those 40-degree days. We said no to water. We held the course until Maghrib. At 3:30 in the morning, we dragged ourselves up for suhoor, prayed tahajjud, prayed Fajr despite the weight of sleep. That is ṣabr. Taqwā by night. This is our direct line to Allah ﷻ — where the heart connects to Him in prayer, in tarāwīḥ, in Qur’an, in tahajjud, in adhkār, in du’ā. These two — ṣabr and taqwā — are a tried and tested recipe for 1,400 years. When the Ummah returns to them, Allah grants victory. Look at the history. The greatest victories came in Ramadan. Badr — 313 against 1,000 — in Ramadan. The Conquest of Makkah, the Prophet’s greatest political victory — Ramadan. Qādisiyyah, the fall of the Sassanid Empire — Ramadan. The fall of Iskandariyyah at the hands of ’Amr ibn al-’Āṣ — Ramadan. Victory after victory. Because Ramadan produces the two ingredients Allah asked for. Celebrate. It’s an Act of Worship. Islam is a religion that celebrates our fiṭrah. Allah who created us understands our wants, our likes, our nature. He knows we like to eat good food. He knows we like to dress well. He knows we like to be with our families and friends. So He legislated a day where dressing nicely is rewarded. Eating good food is rewarded. Sharing laughter with loved ones — within the boundaries of the Sharī’ah — is rewarded. What kind of religion is this? Everything we love, Allah rewards us for it. The Prophet ﷺ said that one of the most beloved deeds to Allah is to bring happiness to the heart of a believer. When we share happiness, when we cause others to be happy, when we create joy in the community — Allah loves to see that. And there is no better place to start than with the children. Especially the ones who fasted this year — in the heat, in public schools where their friends had cold drinks and ice cream at recess. They had ṣabr. They held on to their religion. They stood steadfast without wavering. Today is the day we celebrate them. We put joy in their hearts, smiles on their faces. Spoil them a little. Allah will reward you for it. The Work Ahead Today we celebrate our graduation from Ramadan. We stand shoulder to shoulder and declare: Allahu Akbar. God is greater than our worries. Greater than our troubles. Greater than all the problems the Ummah faces. When we make du’ā, we say: Yā Allah, our problems are big — but You are Allahu Akbar. The Ummah needs ṣabr. And ṣabr is not passively waiting for miracles, not sitting around hoping angels appear. It is hard work. What do we need to do to strengthen the Ummah? What planning, what skill sets, what community building needs to happen? Let’s do it together. And at night, we maintain the line — prayer, Qur’an, du’ā, that personal direct relationship with Allah ﷻ. Taqwā. We ask Allah to accept all our deeds in Ramadan. To grant us ṣabr and taqwā. To make us the people of change who bring glory back to the Ummah. To grant relief to our brothers and sisters who are oppressed everywhere — in Palestine, in Iran, in Lebanon, in Syria, in Yemen, in Sudan, and in every place. اللهم آمين Eid Mubarak.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ This is a public episode. 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  2. Night 29: The Last Night — and Why La Ilaha Illallah Is a Declaration of Independence

    MAR 18

    Night 29: The Last Night — and Why La Ilaha Illallah Is a Declaration of Independence

    Tonight is the 29th night of Ramadan. The last taraweeh. The last night of the year. Make full use of it. The best du’a for Laylatul Qadr is Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul afwa fa’fu anni ya Kareem — O Allah, You are the Pardoner, You love to pardon, so pardon me. Keep returning to it tonight, and especially at suhoor time. Allah mentions in the Quran a special rank for those who make istighfar in the early hours before dawn: wa bil ashari hum yastaghfirun. Some of our scholars would dedicate that time between the sunnah of Fajr and the salah itself entirely to istighfar — a hundred times, quietly, consistently. Do that tonight. And in your du’a, ask Allah not to make this our last Ramadan. Ask Him to grant us another. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. A few reminders: tomorrow night — Thursday, the eve of Eid — is our potluck iftar at Qaswa House. Doors open at 6pm, iftar around 6:35. Bring a plate to share. The kids will have games and activities, weather permitting. Friday is Eid prayer at MacDougall Park in Como — takbir at 8, prayer at 8:30. And this tafseer series continues. We will pick up Surah Al-A’raf every Thursday night at Qaswa — Maghrib together, some dhikr, tafseer, then Isha and dinner. 7pm. Starting this coming Thursday. If you want to follow the surah through to the end, come join us. Hadramaut, Nusantara, and the People of ’Ad We began the story of Prophet Hud last night. He was sent to the people of ’Ad — a civilisation that lived in Hadramaut, Yemen, not far from the city of Tarim. Hadramaut holds a special place in the hearts of Malay Muslims. It is the origin of the Hadrami scholars and traders who brought Islam to the Nusantara — the vast Indonesian archipelago. They came not with armies but with akhlaq. They traded honestly. They treated people beautifully. And when people asked why — why are your manners like this, why are you so trustworthy — they would explain: because I follow the teaching of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. That is how Indonesia became the largest Muslim country in the world without a single Arab army ever setting foot on its soil. Thousands of years before any of that, ’Ad was there. A people of extraordinary power. Allah says to them in this surah: We increased you in your creation — strength, stature, capacity. They built civilisations. The Quraysh of Makkah knew about them. They took pride in them as ancestors. And so when Allah tells their story in the Quran, He is speaking directly to the Quraysh: this is who you are proud of. Look what happened to them when they rejected their Prophet. The Message Never Changed — Only the Details Prophet Hud stood before his people and said: O my people, worship Allah. You have no god other than Him. The same words as Prophet Nuh. The same words as every prophet before and after. From Adam to Muhammad ﷺ, the core of the message has never changed: La ilaha illallah. Tawheed. Worship only Allah. But the details of the Sharia — how that worship is expressed, what the laws look like, the specifics of punishment and obligation — those have changed across time. And that is not God changing His mind. That is God being perfectly calibrated to the people He is speaking to. Every generation is different. The laws of previous nations were stricter, harsher. The tawbah for shirk in the Sharia of Musa, for instance, required death — the only atonement for major sins was the taking of life. Christianity inherited this concept and built the doctrine of atonement around it: the idea that someone must die for sin to be absorbed. Our belief is different — no one carries another’s sin, and Allah does not need anyone to die on His behalf in order to forgive. He is Al-Afuww. He simply pardons. Islam came with the lightest sharia of all the prophetic traditions: even shirk, the gravest of sins, requires only sincere tawbah and the shahada. Why lighter? Because humans have become softer over time. That is simply true. My mother cycled ten kilometres to school each morning without complaint. My father hunted birds with a slingshot as a child, cooked them himself, and came home with his stomach half full before his parents knew anything about it. Today, children cry when they watch someone slaughter a chicken. People change. Allah knows this. The Sharia adapts. But the tawheed does not move. Some things remain constant from Adam to Yawmul Qiyamah: worship Allah alone, honour your parents, maintain good character, care for the orphan and the poor, speak kindly to people. The details of how — the minimum of zakat, the specific forms — may be calibrated to time and place. The principles themselves are eternal. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Why Hud Said Something Different From Nuh Here is something small but worth paying attention to. When Prophet Nuh called his people, he said: I fear for you the punishment of a great day. He had to tell them what was coming — because they had never seen collective divine punishment before. Nuh’s people were the first community to be destroyed. There was no precedent. The warning had to be explicit. But when Prophet Hud called his people, he said something different: Do you not have taqwa? He did not need to spell out what the punishment looked like. Because the people of ‘Ad still remembered. The great flood was not ancient history to them — it was recent memory, passed down through their ancestors. The story was fresh. All Hud had to do was point to what they already knew: don’t you remember what happened? Are you not afraid? This is the Quran being precise in a way that rewards attention. The surface looks similar — a prophet calling his people to Tawheed, the elite rejecting him. But the language shifts in exactly the way historical context demands. And when you notice those shifts, as Professor Sayyid Naqib Al-Attas — who passed away just days ago, may Allah grant him the highest Jannah, one of the greatest Muslim thinkers of our age — always said: the Quran is not a book for lazy people. It rewards those who think, who ponder, who are willing to ask why. Al-Attas spent his life arguing that after colonisation and the fall of the Ottoman Caliphate, Muslims should not paste Islamic varnish over Western philosophical frameworks. He said the answer had to come from within the tradition itself. His work gave birth to institutions like IIUM — the International Islamic University Malaysia — and ISTAC. His book Islam and Secularism remains essential reading for anyone serious about Islamic education and worldview. We lost a giant. Al-Mala’ — Then and Now As with Nuh, the first to reject Prophet Hud were al-mala’ — the rich and powerful elite. But there is a subtle and important difference. In the story of Nuh, the Quran simply says al-mala’ min qawmihi — the chiefs of his people rejected him. In the story of Hud, it says al-mala’ alladhina kafaru min qawmihi — the chiefs who disbelieved from his people. Why the extra qualification? Because not all the chiefs of ’Ad rejected Hud. Some of them believed. The memory of the flood was still close enough that some of the powerful had held on to their fear of Allah. So Allah was precise: it was specifically the disbelieving chiefs who called Hud a fool and a liar — not all of them. The pattern of al-mala’ rejecting the truth is a constant across every prophet’s story in the Quran. It repeats so often it cannot be coincidence — Allah is drawing our attention to a structural reality of power. The elite benefit from the existing order. A prophet comes and says the order is unjust, that the weak deserve protection, that no one is above accountability. The elite’s wealth and status depend on that order remaining intact. So they fight back. And the masses, generally, follow whoever is loudest and most visible. The Prophet ﷺ said that every prophet before prophethood worked as a shepherd. Including him ﷺ. Because you learn people management from managing sheep — you learn how to lead those who follow instinct and momentum, who drift toward whoever is in front of them. We think we have escaped this. We are in 2026. We have the internet. We have access to every idea in human history. Surely we are not sheep. And then you walk into a supermarket. Milk and bread — the things almost everyone needs — are placed at the furthest possible corner. You have to walk past everything else to reach them. The placement is not accidental. It is psychologically engineered to make you spend. Children love McDonald’s not because of the food but because that golden arch has been placed in their visual field since before they could speak, associated with happiness, associated with play. We did not choose to love it. We were led there. The top influencer on Instagram earns more than the CEO of Instagram. The top creator on YouTube earns more than the CEO of YouTube. We have simply replaced the ancient al-mala’ with a new one — one that reaches us through screens instead of town squares, but shapes our choices just as effectively. This is why La ilaha illallah is not just a statement of theology. It is a declaration of independence. I submit to Allah alone. My thinking is shaped by what Allah has revealed. My standard for acceptance and rejection is not whatever the powerful say, not whatever is trending, not whatever algorithm is currently deciding what I see. It is La ilaha illallah, Muhammadur Rasulullah ﷺ. That is the only real freedom. Prophet Hud Responds The disbelieving chiefs called Hud a fool and a liar. He responded with quiet dignity: O my people, there is no foolishness in me. I am a messenger from Rabbil Alameen — the Lord of the universe. Every prophet, before prophethood, wa

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  3. Night 28: The Flood of Nuh, the Aztecs, and the Kimberley

    MAR 17

    Night 28: The Flood of Nuh, the Aztecs, and the Kimberley

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Night 28. The last taraweeh is tomorrow. It went fast. A few housekeeping notes: Thursday night — the eve of Eid — we will have a potluck iftar at Qaswa House starting at 6pm, with iftar around 6:35. Bring a plate to share. The kids will have activities while the adults eat. After that we’ll pray Isha together and do takbir to welcome Eid. Friday is Eid prayer at McDougall Park in Como. Takbir at 8, prayer at 8:30. And yes — since Eid falls on a Friday this year, the question of Jumu’ah comes up. The Shafi’i position is that Jumu’ah remains obligatory for those living in the city. The Hanbali reading gives the option to skip it for those who came from outside the city, but holds that the Imam must still lead it. Since we live in the city and the masjid is not far, I’ll keep my khutbah to 10 minutes and the prayer short so everyone can go and celebrate. This tafseer series continues after Ramadan on Thursday nights at Qaswa — 7pm, finishing with Isha and dinner around 9 to 9:30. If you want to follow Surah Al-A’raf through to the end, come join us. Was the Flood Global or Local? We ended last night at the great flood. Today I want to address the question that comes up every single time I teach this story to kids in Australia. Were kangaroos on the ark? And before you smile — it is actually a serious theological question. The Bible says the flood was global and every species of animal was taken two by two. That immediately creates a problem: Australian animals are unique. Kangaroos, wombats, possums, platypuses — they exist nowhere else on earth. How did they get to Prophet Nuh to board the ark? And how did they get back to Australia afterwards without leaving any trace of themselves along the way? This level of specificity is precisely why many scientifically-minded people struggle with the biblical account. The Bible gives exact dimensions for the ark, an exact timeline, an exact animal count — and when those details collide with scientific and geographical reality, the whole thing becomes very difficult to hold. The Quran does not work that way. And that difference matters enormously. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Three Readings Our scholars hold two broad positions on the flood of Nuh, and I want to offer a third that I find most compelling. The first position: it was a global flood. The argument rests on the generality of certain Quranic ayat — particularly in Surah Hud — where the language is broad enough to suggest the entire earth. Allah saved Nuh and those with him and destroyed everyone else. “Everyone else” could mean all of humanity everywhere. The second position: it was a localised flood, specific to the qawm of Prophet Nuh. The theological argument is straightforward — Nuh was sent to his people. The punishment was for their rejection. Why would Allah destroy people in Australia, people in the Americas, people who had never received a messenger and had no idea any of this was happening? That is inconsistent with the divine justice we know from the Quran. Allah does not punish people who were never warned. The third reading — and this is where it gets interesting — is that the flood was localised geographically, but effectively encompassed all of humanity, because at that point in history, all of humanity lived in roughly the same place. Anthropological evidence suggests that when we trace humanity back 50,000 to 60,000 years, we find our ancestors concentrated in one region — having migrated out of Africa and settled in and around the Fertile Crescent. At the time of Prophet Nuh, the human race was still young. Its population was geographically concentrated. A great flood in that region could have destroyed virtually all of humanity that existed then — without covering the entire physical globe. And when the Quran says Allah took animals onto the ark, it was not every species on earth. It was the animals of that community. The sheep, the cattle, the camels — the practical animals you would need to rebuild your life after the waters receded. Not giraffes. Not hippos. Not kangaroos. The Story That Made Me Stop What makes this third reading extraordinary is the evidence you find when you look at how widely the flood story appears across human cultures — especially cultures that had zero contact with each other. The Aztecs of Mesoamerica were completely isolated from the Old World until the 15th century. And yet they have a flood story. A man named Coxcox went before the Creator God, complained about the wickedness of his people, and the Creator sent a great flood to cleanse the earth. Coxcox survived on a raft. When the waters began to recede, he sent a bird out — and it returned with signs of land. Identical in structure to the story of Nuh. Same moral arc. Same divine response. Same bird. And then there is the story from the Kimberley.

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  4. Night 27: The Night the Angels Come Down — and Why the Elites Always Reject the Truth

    MAR 16

    Night 27: The Night the Angels Come Down — and Why the Elites Always Reject the Truth

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Tonight is the 27th night of Ramadan. By the account of many companions and the opinion of many scholars, the 27th carries the highest probability of being Laylatul Qadr among all the odd nights. There is no guarantee — the Prophet ﷺ told us to hunt through all of the last ten. But if any one night has the strongest case, it is this one. The companions would dress nicely on this night. Apply perfume. Their wives would wonder — where are you going? And they would say: I am welcoming a very important guest. Because after the passing of the Prophet ﷺ, Jibreel only comes to earth once a year — on the night of Al-Qadr. Tanazzalul mala’ikatu warruh. The angels, led by Jibreel, descend. And the Prophet ﷺ said: if your eyes could see, on this night there would not be a single empty space on earth. Every spot, every gap, filled by angels. Recording. Witnessing. Think about that. Every angel comes down tonight — and what they record about you is entirely in your hands. The name Al-Qadr also comes from constriction — qaddara — because the earth, as vast as it is, becomes constricted by the sheer number of angels filling it. And in Surah Dukhan, Allah tells us this is the night when all divine affairs are distributed — the decree for the coming year is announced to the angels. Rizq. Life. Death. The angel of provision gets his list. The angel of death gets his. Every angel receives their assignment for the year ahead. Think of it like budget night — the night before the Prime Minister tables the budget, if you have something to submit, that is the time to submit it. Between the Luh Mahfuz and the angels receiving their instructions, tonight is when our du’a can be most profound. We make our requests before the roster is handed out. This is not a precise theological description of how divine decree works — nothing is comparable to Allah. But it helps us feel the weight of what this night is. Make du’a tonight. Make it seriously. And please — make du’a for me and my family as well. What We Established Last Night We began the story of Prophet Nuh. He made da’wah for 950 years to the first people in human history to worship idols. The idols started innocently — statues built to commemorate five pious people who had died. Remembrance became veneration. Veneration became worship. Generations passed, the original intent was lost, and what began as tribute ended as shirk. This is why Islam is strict about statues — not children’s toys, not Superman figures your kids kick around the room, but the veneration of figures, the careful display of them, the collecting of them. The trajectory has been seen before. It doesn’t always end in shirk, but the path that leads there started exactly here. The fiqh rule exists because of history. A paid subscription includes a free digital copy of the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. Da’wah Without Self-Interest Prophet Nuh stood before his people and said: I fear for you the punishment of a great day. Not: I want to be your leader. Not: follow me and I will give you power. Not: I have a new system and it will make us great. He was afraid — for them. His da’wah came entirely from love and concern for the people he was sent to. This is the sunnah of every prophet. And it is the standard for everyone who inherits their work. If you are teaching Islamic studies, running a halaqah, leading a masjid programme — the moment you stop caring about the people in front of you, the moment it becomes about status or position or income, you have lost the plot. In Australia especially, there is almost nothing to gain materially from Islamic work. In Malaysia, a good hafiz leading taraweeh can earn 30,000 ringgit in a month of Ramadan. Here, you are lucky if the costs are covered. Sometimes the teacher pays out of pocket just to keep things running. So why do it? Because you care about the akhirah of the people in front of you. Because you are afraid for them, the same way Prophet Nuh was afraid for his people. That is the only motivation that sustains this work. Al-Mala’ — The Elite Always Push Back The first people to reject Prophet Nuh were al-mala’ — the rich and powerful elite of his community. This is not a coincidence. It is a pattern. You will find it in the story of every prophet in the Quran, repeated so consistently that Allah is clearly drawing our attention to it. The rich and powerful elite reject the prophet. Every single time. Why? Because the prophet brings a new system. And the elite benefit from the existing system. They have built their wealth, their influence, their status within the current order — and now someone is standing up and saying: this order is wrong. You are oppressing the weak. You are exploiting the poor. The system you have constructed for your own benefit is not the system Allah approves of. Of course they push back. You are clearly misguided. That was what the mala’ of Nuh’s people said. It is what every elite says to every prophet who threatens the status quo. Prophet Nuh responded: I am not misguided. I am a messenger from the master of the universe. And I am giving you sincere nasiha. Nasiha — sincere advice. Not paid advice. The Arabic distinction is precise: if you are paid for your advice, you are a mustashar, a consultant. If you give it freely, from care, that is nasiha. The prophets were giving nasiha. Wa ana lakum nasihun amin — a sincere and trustworthy advisor. Unpaid. Uncorrupted. Answerable only to Allah. Feudalism, Communism, and Why Humans Need Revelation The pattern of al-mala’ rejecting the truth is not limited to ancient history. It is the pattern of human political organisation without divine guidance. What did feudalism look like? Kings and courts doing as they pleased. Peasants with no land, no rights, no voice — working someone else’s fields for nothing. The system existed entirely to serve those at the top. And what was the extreme human response to feudalism? Marx. Communism. Abolish all class structures. Everyone equal. Everyone paid the same regardless of talent, effort, or contribution.

    13 min
  5. Night 25: What Kind of Soil Are You?

    MAR 14

    Night 25: What Kind of Soil Are You?

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Night 25. Four nights left after tonight. Quick announcements: Eid will be this Friday insha’Allah, based on ANIC’s announcement. Qaswa will be praying at MacDougall Park in Como. Takbir starts at 8, prayer at 8:30. Setup is at 7:30 — the more hands the better. Bring a prayer mat or picnic mat, and a plate to share is very much welcome. Tonight is also a Sunday eve, which means tomorrow is a public holiday. No excuses. Sleep early, wake up at 3am, pray, read Quran, make du’a, do your adhkar. Then sleep after Fajr and sunrise. Use it. Allah Has Been Making His Case Before we go forward, let me zoom out for a second. The passage we’ve been in started at ayah 54. Before that, we had the conversations of Yawmul Qiyamah — the people of Jannah calling out to the people of fire, the people of A’raf watching both sides, the people of fire begging for a drop of water and being turned away. Allah was essentially laying out the map: these are the stations. Jannah. Jahannam. A’raf. Choose one. Pick your lane and start walking. Then from ayah 54, Allah pivoted. He said: you’ve seen the destinations — now let me tell you who your Lord is. He is the One who created the heavens and earth. The sun, the moon, the stars — all running on His command. And once you know that, He gives you the next step: call on Him. Make du’a. With humility on the outside and fear and hope on the inside. And now — if that still isn’t enough — He says: look around you. A paid subscription includes a free digital copy of the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. Two Revelations, Both Meant to Be Read Allah has sent us two books. The first is masthoor — the written. That’s the Quran. The second is manzoor — the observed. That’s nature. And our scholars tell us that both must be read together. If you read only the Quran and never engage with nature, you’ll be left behind as the world advances — because in the study of nature, properly done, you find your way back to Allah. And if you only engage with nature and ignore the Quran, you’ll have wonder without guidance. Both. Together. That’s the prescription. This is why our prayer times are tied to the sun and our fasting is tied to the moon. Islam is the only religion that makes you interact with the physical universe five times a day. But most of us have outsourced that interaction to an app. Which is fine — until two apps give different iftar times and then my WhatsApp fills up with the same question every Ramadan. Go outside. Look at the horizon. That’s when Maghrib is. Once in a while, find the Qibla with the stars. In WA, if you look for Orion’s Belt, that’s your east. Know when prayer time starts from the position of the sun. I make every student who comes through my class do this at least once. I don’t know if they remember it years later. But I hope they remember that they looked up at the sky and found their way to Makkah without an app.

    14 min
  6. Night 24: Allah’s Mercy Is Close — But to Whom?

    MAR 13

    Night 24: Allah’s Mercy Is Close — But to Whom?

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Tonight is the 24th night. Eid has been announced — next Friday, insha’Allah. That means 29 nights of Ramadan this year. Which means we have five nights left. Before anything else — stay out of the arguments about moon sighting. Online or otherwise. This is not the time. There is a hadith that the Prophet ﷺ was once shown the exact night of Laylatul Qadr and was on his way to tell the companions — when he found them arguing among themselves. And Allah caused him to forget it. That knowledge was lifted because of the dispute. Arguments in the community literally cost us Laylatul Qadr. Don’t be that person. Not in these last few nights. Quick Recap Before We Move Forward Last night we covered the four adabs of du’a from ayat 55 and 56: The external two — tadarru’, humility of body and word, and khufya, keeping your voice low and not screaming at Allah. The internal two — khawf, fear that Allah might ignore us the way we’ve been ignoring Him, and tama’, that deep aching hope that He — and only He — can answer. Both pairs working together. The outside and the inside. The posture and the heart. And then ayah 56 ends with a statement that stopped us last night: inna rahmatallaahi qaribun minal muhsineen — indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to those who are muhsineen. We said we’d come back to it. So let’s. Who Are the Muhsineen? Ihsan. We go back to Hadith Jibril — the hadith where Jibril came to the Prophet ﷺ in the form of a man and asked him about Islam, then Iman, then Ihsan. And the Prophet ﷺ defined ihsan as: to worship Allah as if you see Him. And if you cannot see Him — know that He sees you. That feeling of being permanently, completely seen. Not watched in the surveillance sense. Seen in the sense that matters — that Allah knows. That nothing is hidden. That what you do alone in the dark is exactly as real as what you do in front of people. A person with ihsan finds it hard to misbehave. Because wherever they go, they carry that awareness. They are, if anything, better in private than in public — because they’re not performing for anyone. They are performing only for Allah. The Prophet ﷺ is the living example. When he led the jama’ah in prayer, he kept it relatively short. He was always conscious of who was behind him — the elderly, mothers, children. He would actually turn and look at the congregation before beginning prayer, taking stock of who was there, adjusting accordingly. When Mu’adh ibn Jabal once led a prayer and launched into a long portion of Surah Al-Baqarah, the Prophet ﷺ pulled him aside after and said: ya Mu’adh, what is this fitna? There are people behind you. A paid subscription includes a free digital copy of the Surah Al-A’raf Study Guide and Workbook. But when the Prophet ﷺ prayed alone? Abdullah ibn Abbas narrated that he prayed behind the Prophet ﷺ one night. First raka’ah — Surah Al-Baqarah. Second raka’ah — Surah Ali Imran. Ibn Abbas eventually had to break his wudu, renew it, and come back. The Prophet was still praying. No audience. No performance. That is ihsan. And then there was the lady of the bukhur. There was a woman at the Prophet’s masjid whose duty was to bring incense and make the masjid smell beautiful. No name recorded. Just her role, quietly, faithfully. One night she passed away. She was washed, shrouded, and buried before Fajr — the companions didn’t want to disturb the Prophet ﷺ over someone they considered insignificant. After Fajr he turned around, noticed she was absent, and asked where she was. They told him. He said: why didn’t you wake me? And then he went to her grave and prayed Salatul Janazah over it. The cleaner. The incense lady. He noticed. He cared. He went. That is ihsan expressed outward — toward the people around you.

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