Because This Matters

Mark Poiesz
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Because This Matters explores the values that shape us, stretch us, and sustain us. Hosted by leadership coach and musician Mark Poiesz, each episode features insightful conversations with thoughtful, authentic people about how their personal values guide them through complexity, growth, and change. Whether the stories are everyday or extraordinary, every conversation reveals the power of living with intention—because a life aligned with values is a fulfilled life. Sometimes it takes witnessing someone else’s clarity to rediscover our own. Join us to reflect, reconnect, and remember what matters most. Subscribe and listen—Because This Matters.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Solo Reflection: Nine Conversations, Three Threads

    Because This Matters set out to explore how values take shape—and become action—through the experiences that define our lives. Nine conversations later, recurring themes began to emerge. Across conversations with musicians, educators, military operators, nonprofit founders, advocates, and business leaders, three values surfaced again and again: compassion, humility, and relationships. In this first solo episode, host Mark Poiesz reflects on the common threads woven throughout the podcast’s first nine guests, pairing his own observations with excerpts from those conversations. This episode explores what these remarkable individuals collectively reveal about growth, leadership, service, and what it means to become more fully human. Featured guests: • Nasim Lari • Joe Arias • Rich Redmond • Nancy Hajek • Steve Rucker • Melissa • Alison Krebs • Dr. Heather Baker • Chad Bernstein This episode explores: • Why compassion begins with understanding • Humility as openness to growth and change • The role relationships play in shaping who we become • Why becoming more fully human may be the work of a lifetime Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:41 Theme: Compassion 07:53 Theme: Humility 15:35 Theme: Relationships 21:07 Synthesis ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how values take shape—and become action—through the challenges and experiences that define our lives. If this episode resonates, please follow, rate, review the show, and share it with someone who might enjoy the conversation. markpoiesz.com

    26 min

  2. Jun 23

    Chad Bernstein: Belonging, Mentorship and Growth

    A professional musician, educator, mentor, and co-founder of Guitars Over Guns, Chad has dedicated his career to helping young people discover possibilities beyond the circumstances they were born into. What began as a conversation between musicians and youth in a juvenile detention center grew into a nationally recognized organization serving thousands of students through music, mentorship, and community. Underneath the growth of the organization is a more personal story. In this conversation, Chad reflects on the bullying and self-doubt he experienced as a young person, the role music played in helping him find belonging, and the lessons that shaped his approach to leadership, mentorship, fatherhood, and service. Together, Mark and Chad explore what happens when people feel truly seen, the responsibility that comes with leadership, the power of curiosity over judgment, and how growth often begins when someone believes in us before we believe in ourselves. This episode explores: • How music became a refuge during Chad’s early struggles with belonging • The juvenile detention center experience that inspired Guitars Over Guns • Why mentorship is about helping people discover what’s possible for themselves • What young people have taught Chad about leadership, trust, and human potential • The relationship between creativity, service, and personal identity • Why growth in an organization is limited by a leader’s willingness to grow • Gratitude, spirituality, and finding meaning in a complicated world ⸻ To learn more about Guitars Over Guns or support their work, visit Guitars Over Guns⁠ online. The organization provides music education, mentorship, and creative youth development programs for young people in underserved communities across multiple U.S. cities.   ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how values take shape and become action through the challenges and experiences that define our lives. If this conversation meant something to you, please follow, rate, and review the show—and share it with someone else.

    54 min

  3. Jun 9

    Dr. Heather Baker: Vulnerability, Gratitude and Leadership

    Dr. Heather Baker knows how quickly life can change. After surviving sudden cardiac arrest, Heather found herself asking questions far deeper than emergency preparedness or public policy. What do we owe one another? How do we lead when we know life is fragile? And what matters enough to dedicate our lives to protecting? Today, Heather is an elementary school principal, researcher, educator, and nationally recognized advocate for cardiac emergency preparedness in schools. Her work has helped train thousands of people in CPR and AED use, shaped legislation, and expanded awareness around sudden cardiac arrest and prevention. In this conversation, Heather reflects on survival, motherhood, leadership, vulnerability, and the perspective that comes from knowing everything can change in an instant. She shares how surviving cardiac arrest transformed her relationship with stress, why asking for help became one of the most important lessons of her life, and how raising a child with a congenital heart condition deepened her understanding of courage, responsibility, and gratitude. Together, Mark and Heather explore what it means to prepare for uncertainty without living in fear, and how life’s most difficult moments can become a catalyst for service. This episode explores: • Surviving sudden cardiac arrest and its lasting impact • Leadership through vulnerability rather than perfection • Learning to ask for help and accept support • Parenting a child with a congenital heart condition • Advocacy, resilience, and creating meaningful change • Gratitude as a practice during challenge and uncertainty • How awareness of mortality can clarify what matters most ⸻ Follow Heather on social media @heathersheartsquad ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how values take shape—and become action—through the challenges and experiences that define our lives. If this conversation meant something to you, please follow, rate, and review the show—and share it with someone else.

    59 min

  4. May 26

    Alison Krebs: Humility, Achievement and Community

    Alison Krebs has lived many lives within one lifetime. She began her career in the high-pressure world of corporate leadership, helping build a Fortune 500 company. After entering recovery in 1999, her path took unexpected turns—through monastic formation, years running a dog grooming business, and eventually to the stage as the lead vocalist of Rok Ali and the Addiction, an internationally touring hard rock band. Underneath every chapter is a deeper thread: humility, community, surrender, and the ongoing process of becoming more fully human. In this conversation, Alison reflects on how her understanding of achievement changed over time, why vulnerability became essential to growth, and how recovery reshaped the way she sees identity, spirituality, accountability, and purpose. The conversation explores the tension between striving and surrender, the role of community in healing and alignment, and what it means to let go of certainty in order to become more fully human. This episode explores: • How humility transformed Alison’s relationship with achievement • The role of recovery in reshaping identity and purpose • Why vulnerability and accountability are essential for growth • Community as a foundation for healing and alignment • Spirituality, “unknowing,” and learning to let go of control • The relationship between performance, purpose, and transcendence ⸻ Connect with Alison / Rock Ali and the Addiction: https://rokali.com/ ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how values take shape—and become action—through the challenges and experiences that define our lives. If this conversation meant something to you, please follow, rate, and review the show—and share it with someone else.

    51 min

  5. May 12

    Melissa: Kindness, Community and Giving Grace

    Melissa is a school psychologist, mother, and one of the most thoughtful people Mark knows. In this conversation, they explore the values that shape how we relate to others—and ourselves. Drawing from both her personal life and nearly two decades working with children and families, Melissa reflects on kindness, compassion, emotional intelligence, and the importance of community. She shares the early experiences that shaped her perspective, how parenting deepened her understanding of these values, and why giving grace matters more than ever. Throughout the episode, a deeper thread emerges: that much of what people need most is not judgment or perfection, but patience, understanding, and the willingness to meet people where they are. This episode explores: • Why kindness must be modeled, not just taught • Emotional intelligence and helping children navigate big feelings • The role of compassion in parenting, friendship, and community • The difference between transactional relationships and genuine care • Learning to accept people as they are—not as we wish they would be • Why giving grace to ourselves matters too ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action through conversations with leaders, artists, and entrepreneurs. If this conversation meant something to you, please follow, rate, and review the show—and share it with someone else who may find it meaningful.

    42 min

  6. Apr 28

    Steve Rucker: Identity, Flexibility, and Life Beyond Labels

    What does it mean to live beyond the roles and titles we use to define ourselves? In this conversation, Mark sits down with one of his mentors, Steve Rucker—musician, educator, and longtime director of contemporary drum set studies at the University of Miami—to explore a life shaped not by rigid identity, but by openness, curiosity, and continual evolution. Steve reflects on the moments and influences that reshaped how he sees the world—from discovering the work of Joseph Campbell to experiencing the difference between belief and direct knowing. He shares how these perspectives have informed not only his career as a performer and educator, but also the way he approaches growth, creativity, and human connection. Throughout the conversation, a deeper thread emerges: the idea that who we are is not confined to what we do. That flexibility, presence, and openness may matter more than any title we carry. This episode explores: • The difference between belief and lived experience • Identity beyond roles, labels, and professions • How openness and flexibility shape a meaningful life • Teaching, mentorship, and meeting people where they are • Creating a life that evolves over time rather than staying fixed ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action through conversations with leaders, artists, and entrepreneurs. If this conversation resonated, follow the show and share it with someone who might find it meaningful.

    58 min

  7. Apr 14

    Nancy Hajek: Openness, Curiosity, and Shared Humanity

    What does it mean to stay open in a world that often pulls us toward judgment, reaction, and division? In this conversation, Mark sits down with Nancy Hajek, hypnotherapist and founder of Dream Lodge Hypnotherapy, to explore a way of moving through life rooted in presence, curiosity, and a deeper sense of connection with others. Nancy shares how her life’s work has been shaped by a search to understand what happens in the space between people—moments of openness, trust, and something that feels like recognition. Through her experiences in hypnotherapy and spiritual study, she offers a perspective that invites us to look beyond surface-level behavior and relate to others in a more grounded, intentional way. The conversation moves through themes of attention, self-awareness, and how we meet others in real time, along with the challenge of holding that way of being in a world that doesn’t always reward it. This episode explores: • Why reacting with anger often creates more of what we’re trying to change • The practice of “catching yourself” in moments of resistance • Curiosity as an alternative to judgment • The tension between inner clarity and the external world • What it means to move through life with a sense of shared humanity ⸻ Find Nancy Hajek online: http://dreamlodge.org/ ⸻ Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action through conversations with leaders, artists, and entrepreneurs. If this conversation resonated, follow the show and share it with someone who might find it meaningful—perhaps sparking a conversation of your own.

    1 hr

  8. Mar 31

    Rich Redmond: Enthusiasm, Alignment, and Showing Up Every Day

    What does it mean to show up fully, day after day, with energy, consistency, and purpose? In this conversation, Mark sits down with Rich Redmond, drummer for Jason Aldean, speaker, author and actor, to explore the mindset and values behind a sustained, high-level career. Rich shares how enthusiasm has become a daily practice, not just a personality trait, and how showing up consistently while staying aligned with purpose creates opportunities over time. The conversation moves beyond performance into something deeper: presence, gratitude, and the ability to smell the roses, even while pursuing what’s next. This episode explores: • Enthusiasm as a choice and a discipline • The relationship between alignment and opportunity • Consistency and showing up over time • Presence, gratitude, and “smelling the roses” • What it takes to sustain energy across a long career Connect with Rich Redmond Website: https://richredmond.com Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action through conversations with leaders, artists, and entrepreneurs. If this conversation resonated with you, please follow the show, comment and share it with someone else.

    54 min

  9. Mar 17

    Nasim Lari, Ph.D.: Compassion, Integrity, and Work That Matters

    In this episode of Because This Matters, Mark Poiesz sits down with Nasim Lari, PhD., a Senior Health Analytics Manager working at the intersection of healthcare, advanced analytics, and AI. Together, they explore the values that shape how Nasim moves through both work and life—especially compassion, humility, and integrity. Nasim reflects on how family influences, personal growth, and professional experience have shaped her perspective, and how those values guide the way she leads, serves others, and stays aligned when life feels off track. The conversation also touches on the difference between recognition and impact, the role of vulnerability in leadership, and the ethical possibilities of AI in healthcare. Topics in this episode include: • compassion and integrity as lived values • choosing impact over recognition • staying aligned in seasons of stress • vulnerability, leadership, and trust • ethical questions around AI in healthcare Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action in the way we live and lead. If this conversation resonates with you and you’re exploring your own values and direction, you can learn more about Mark’s coaching work at markpoiesz.com.

    50 min

  10. Mar 17

    Joe Arias: Family, Compassion, and Life After Special Forces

    In this episode of Because This Matters, Mark Poiesz sits down with Joe Arias, a senior non-commissioned officer in the U.S. Army Special Forces, as he reflects on military service, major life transition, and the values shaping the next chapter of his life. Together, they explore Joe’s shift from achievement and identity-driven ambition toward a deeper focus on family, sustainability, and compassion. Joe shares how years as a Green Beret shaped his relationship with service, conflict, and responsibility, and how becoming a husband and future father has clarified what matters most, once again. The conversation also touches on religion as a path to understanding others, the tension of impossible decisions in combat, and the role of compassion in a divided world. Topics in this episode include: • family as a defining value • transition out of Special Forces • achievement, identity, and ambition • compassion as understanding • conflict, responsibility, and impossible choices • religion, culture, and learning how others see the world • sustainability and the next chapter of life Because This Matters is a podcast exploring how personal values take shape and become action in the way we live and lead. If this conversation resonates with you and you’re exploring your own values and direction, you can learn more about Mark’s coaching work at markpoiesz.com. Connect with Joe Arias here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-arias

    54 min

  11. Mar 10

    Because This Matters | Podcast Trailer

    Welcome to the trailer for Because This Matters, a podcast about leading from the inside out. In each conversation, Mark Poiesz explores how values take shape and become action—revealing the ground people stand on as they navigate work, leadership, family, and life. Listen to the trailer and subscribe!

    1 min
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Because This Matters explores the values that shape us, stretch us, and sustain us. Hosted by leadership coach and musician Mark Poiesz, each episode features insightful conversations with thoughtful, authentic people about how their personal values guide them through complexity, growth, and change. Whether the stories are everyday or extraordinary, every conversation reveals the power of living with intention—because a life aligned with values is a fulfilled life. Sometimes it takes witnessing someone else’s clarity to rediscover our own. Join us to reflect, reconnect, and remember what matters most. Subscribe and listen—Because This Matters.

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    Mark Poiesz
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