Become The Leader

Jody Holland & Meghan Slaughter
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Become The Leader is all about finding your pathway to the skills needed to inspire others to follow. There is a whole new generation of leaders rising up, ready to lead and inspire greatness in their teams. Join us to learn what it means to truly become the leader others want to follow.

  1. 25 - Mid Year Momentum

    6d ago

    25 - Mid Year Momentum

    Quick Summary In this episode, Jody Holland, Meghan Slaughter, Maleah Grigsby, and Mike Grigsby discuss how leaders can use the mid-year point to refocus, regain momentum, and finish the year strong. The conversation centers on evaluating progress, simplifying priorities, celebrating wins, removing drag points, and creating daily or weekly habits that move goals forward. Key Learning Points Mid-year is a strategic checkpoint, not a slowdown. Leaders should evaluate where they are, where they intended to be, and what needs to change. Break annual goals into shorter execution cycles. Ninety-day sprints, weekly check-ins, and daily habits make big goals more manageable. Momentum requires both celebration and correction. Teams need to recognize what is working while also identifying what is slowing them down. Success comes from essential habits. Identify the few behaviors that, if done consistently, make progress almost automatic. Delegation works best with clear expectations. Define what needs to be done, when it is due, and how success will be measured. Protect your priorities. Saying yes to everything creates confusion, overload, and missed goals. There is no “done.” Growth, leadership, and improvement are continuous processes. Quotable Moments “Simple is what rules, and simple is what moves the needle.” “Stop thinking there is a place called done.” “Priority management is about figuring out what is essential and killing everything else.” “If you don’t protect your own time, you are giving everybody else permission to violate your boundaries.” “The mid-year check-in is like halftime. You come back in, evaluate the game, and decide what has to happen next.” “Do something every day toward your goals.” “Self-leadership is the first layer of leadership.” Final Takeaway The second half of the year is won by leaders who pause, evaluate honestly, simplify priorities, recommit to the right habits, and take ownership of the outcome.

    31 min

  2. Jun 17

    24 - Stay Humble and Kind

    Become The Leader Podcast Episode 24: Stay Humble and Kind Overall Summary In a world that often celebrates self-promotion, hustle, and personal achievement, the greatest leaders take a different path: they stay humble and kind. Inspired by the lyrics of Tim McGraw’s song Humble and Kind, this episode explores how humility strengthens leadership, how kindness fuels accountability, and why ego quietly destroys trust and influence. Jody Holland, Meghan Slaughter, and Maleah Grigsby discuss the delicate balance between confidence and arrogance, the importance of remaining teachable, and the responsibility leaders have to elevate others rather than themselves. Humility isn’t weakness. Kindness isn’t avoidance. The strongest leaders are those who continue learning, admit their mistakes, share the credit, and help others become the best version of themselves. As success comes and titles change, the challenge remains the same: When you get where you’re going, will you remember to turn back and help the next person in line? Key Points 1. Humility Is Not Thinking Less of Yourself Many people misunderstand humility. Humility doesn’t mean minimizing your abilities or dismissing your accomplishments. Instead: Ego says, “I’m more important than others.” Insecurity says, “Everyone else is more important than me.” Humility says, “I have value, and so do the people around me.” True humility is balanced confidence. 2. Stay Proud Without Becoming Proudful Leaders should celebrate progress and take satisfaction in meaningful accomplishments. The danger comes when achievement turns into entitlement. You can: Feel proud of the work you’ve done. Appreciate the effort you’ve invested. Recognize the contributions of others. Humility remembers that success is rarely a solo journey. 3. Kindness Requires Courage Kindness isn’t avoiding difficult conversations. Real kindness means: Giving honest feedback. Setting clear expectations. Coaching people toward growth. Holding others accountable because you genuinely want them to succeed. Avoiding hard conversations isn’t kindness—it’s neglect. 4. Vulnerability Builds Trust Leaders who admit mistakes create psychological safety. When leaders say: “I got this wrong,” they give others permission to: Ask for help. Admit errors. Learn without fear. Solve problems together. Perfection creates distance. Humility creates connection. 5. The Best Leaders Remain Teachable Research consistently shows that coachability predicts long-term leadership effectiveness. Jim Collins’ concept of the Level 5 Leader combines: Personal humility. Professional will. These leaders: Never stop learning. Stay focused on the mission. Share the credit. Take responsibility. 6. Humility Is Strength, Not Weakness Many people mistake humility for passivity. The opposite is true. Humility allows leaders to: Seek input. Adapt quickly. Learn continuously. Empower others. Put the mission above their ego. It takes confidence to admit you don’t have all the answers. 7. Titles Do Not Define Worth Leadership positions carry authority, but titles do not determine character. The panel explored the difference between: Respect for the position. Respect for the person. The title may open doors. Character determines what happens once you’re inside. 8. Great Teams Elevate One Another Healthy cultures are built when people help others succeed. High-performing teams: Recognize individual strengths. Extend grace during difficult seasons. Challenge each other to improve. Celebrate collective success. Leadership isn’t about shining the brightest. It’s about helping others see their own light. 9. Legacy Is Measured by Who You Lift At the end of every leadership journey, the question isn’t: “What did I achieve?” It’s: “Who became better because I was here?” The greatest leaders turn back and help the next person climb. Quotable Moments “Humble isn’t thinking less of yourself. Humble is not thinking more of you than you think of others.” “Ego is thinking more of yourself than others. Insecurity is tearing yourself down compared to others. Humility is the balance in the middle.” “If I care for a person, I will go out of my way to coach them and invest in them.” “We can share credit endlessly. We can take credit once.” “Humility determines whether I’m willing to keep learning.” “Kindness determines whether people will actually like me, want to know me, and trust me.” “I think our job is to illuminate, not to shine.” “If I’m shining a spotlight in everyone’s eyes to show how bright I am, nobody sees me.” “What we’re supposed to do is illuminate so other people can see more of themselves.” “Turn back around and help the one next in line.” Action Steps for Listeners Reflect on these questions this week: Where has confidence crossed into ego? When was the last time I admitted a mistake to my team? Am I avoiding a difficult conversation in the name of being “nice”? How am I helping others grow and succeed? Who helped me get where I am today—and who can I help next? Noteworthy References Tim McGraw – Humble and Kind The episode was inspired by the recurring message from the song: “I know you’ve got mountains to climb, but always stay humble and kind.” And its closing reminder: “When you get where you’re going, don’t forget turn back around and help the one next in line.” Jim Collins – Good to Great The discussion highlighted Collins’ concept of the Level 5 Leader: Personal Humility Professional Will Research suggests that enduring organizational success is often built by leaders who are ambitious for the mission rather than ambitious for personal recognition. C.S. Lewis “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.” This perspective captures the heart of servant leadership: recognizing your value without placing yourself at the center of every story. Final Thought Leadership isn’t about proving your importance. It’s about using your influence to help others discover theirs. Stay driven. Stay teachable. Celebrate success without letting it define you. Lead with courage and compassion. And when you finally reach the summit of your own mountain… Turn around, extend your hand, and help someone else climb. Stay humble. Stay kind.

    20 min
  3. 23-The Art of the Handoff

    Jun 10

    23-The Art of the Handoff

    Become The Leader Podcast Episode 23: The Art of the Handoff Based on the transcript provided.  Overall Summary Every leader eventually faces a handoff. Whether it’s onboarding a new employee, preparing someone for promotion, transitioning leadership to the next generation, or preserving knowledge before retirement, the quality of the handoff determines whether momentum is maintained or lost. In this episode, Jody Holland, Mike Grigsby, Meghan Slaughter, and Maleah Grigsby explore what it takes to transfer not just responsibilities, but confidence, context, and culture. They discuss the dangers of knowledge hoarding, the coming “Silver Tsunami” of retiring Baby Boomers, and the importance of documenting critical work before institutional knowledge walks out the door. At its core, leadership isn’t about becoming irreplaceable. It’s about preparing others to succeed. Great leaders leave organizations stronger than they found them by building systems, developing people, and ensuring the next person has what they need to thrive. Key Points 1. Great Leaders Prepare the Next Person to Win The goal of a handoff isn’t survival—it’s success. Leaders should intentionally equip the next person with the knowledge, tools, and relationships needed to thrive. “You want it to be better for them than it was for you.” 2. Institutional Knowledge Is Leaving the Workforce As Baby Boomers retire in record numbers, organizations risk losing decades of experience if they fail to capture critical knowledge. Approximately 4 million Americans turn 65 each year. Around 10,000 Baby Boomers retire each day. Tribal knowledge that exists only in someone’s head creates organizational vulnerability. 3. Track the Work Before You Need the Handoff Documentation should happen continuously—not during a crisis. Practical ways to capture knowledge include: Tracking daily responsibilities. Listing recurring tasks. Identifying subject matter experts. Taking screenshots of processes. Recording videos demonstrating procedures. Updating job descriptions regularly. 4. Being “Irreplaceable” Can Make You Unpromotable Many employees believe job security comes from being the only person who knows how to do something. The opposite is often true. Leaders who develop successors create opportunities for advancement because they free themselves to move into greater responsibility. 5. Stop Hoarding Information Knowledge isn’t power when it’s hidden. Sharing expertise: Builds organizational resilience. Develops future leaders. Reduces dependency on one person. Creates capacity for growth. Hoarding information creates fragility. 6. Separate Identity from Role Many people tie their self-worth to the position they hold. The panel emphasized that: Your personality influences your work. Your role is not your identity. Success comes from creating systems others can build upon. Future leaders should bring their own strengths and perspectives. 7. Documentation Creates Stability During Crisis Unexpected departures happen. Without systems: Entire departments can become dysfunctional. Training becomes reactive. Productivity plummets. With systems: Organizations recover faster. New employees gain confidence. Continuity remains intact. 8. Culture Must Be Part of the Handoff A successful transition includes more than task lists. Leaders must transfer: Relationships. Context. Organizational values. Informal norms. Community perceptions. People don’t simply inherit a job—they inherit a culture. 9. Legacy Is Measured by What You Leave Behind People remember leaders by how they exit. Did they: Leave chaos? Create dependency? Or build capability? The strongest leaders make others better prepared because they were there. Quotable Moments “You can’t hand something off if you’ve got a death grip on it.” “If you’re irreplaceable, you’re unpromotable.” “You don’t preserve your job by hoarding information. You create fragility.” “The organization is going to carry on without you. Prepare it to thrive.” “People remember you for how you left them. Did you leave them better off than when you found them?” “I want to be missed because I was great—not because they’re struggling without me.” “Leadership isn’t about protecting your importance. It’s about multiplying your impact.” “Systemized success with a personality twist beats personality-dependent success every time.” “The quality of the handoff determines whether momentum continues or disappears.” Action Steps for Listeners This week, ask yourself: What knowledge do I possess that only exists in my head? If I left tomorrow, what would create chaos? Who am I actively preparing to take my place? What process could I document this week? Am I building dependency—or developing capability? Final Thought Leadership is temporary stewardship. Titles change. Roles evolve. People move on. But the leaders who make the greatest impact understand that their true success isn’t measured by how indispensable they become—it’s measured by how well others succeed because of what they invested before they left. The art of the handoff is ultimately the art of leadership itself.

    26 min
  4. 22-Prioritize Like A Pro

    Jun 3

    22-Prioritize Like A Pro

    Podcast Show Notes Managing Time & Priorities: Stop Managing Time and Start Managing What Matters In this episode, the team explores the difference between time management and priority management. They challenge the idea that time can actually be managed and instead focus on how leaders can better manage their attention, decisions, habits, meetings, and priorities. Through practical examples and personal experiences, they share strategies for reducing overwhelm, increasing productivity, and reclaiming control of your schedule.  Key Takeaways 1. You Can’t Manage Time—You Can Only Manage Yourself Everyone gets the same 168 hours each week. The real challenge isn’t managing time; it’s managing what you do with the time you have. Effective leaders focus on controlling priorities rather than trying to create more time.  2. Great Leaders Practice Priority Management Successful executives don’t fill their days with activity—they focus on what matters most. A simple daily practice is identifying the three most important tasks to accomplish and making those a priority before everything else.  3. Eat the Frog First Difficult, high-value tasks should be completed early in the day. Knocking out the most important challenge first creates momentum and prevents procrastination from stealing productivity.  4. Meetings Should Create Outcomes Most meetings consume far more time than they create value. Every meeting should have: A clear agenda Defined outcomes Action items Time limits Shorter meetings often produce better results than longer ones.  5. Systems Reduce Mental Load Tools such as project management software, recurring task systems, checklists, and calendars help reduce cognitive overload and improve execution. The goal is to create systems that manage routine work so leaders can focus on higher-level thinking.  6. Urgency Is Often a Choice Many “emergencies” are simply someone else’s lack of planning. Leaders must learn to distinguish between true urgency and artificial urgency created by poor preparation.  7. Use the Eisenhower Matrix Tasks should be filtered through four categories: Urgent & Important → Do it now Important but Not Urgent → Schedule it Urgent but Not Important → Delegate it Neither Urgent nor Important → Eliminate it This simple framework can dramatically improve focus and productivity.  8. Protect Your Thinking Time The best leaders intentionally create time for reflection, planning, and strategic thinking. Daily and weekly review sessions help eliminate clutter and maintain focus on what truly matters.  9. Reduce Decision Fatigue The more routine decisions that can be systemized, the more mental energy remains for important decisions. Simplifying recurring choices creates additional capacity for leadership and problem-solving.  10. Respect Time—Yours and Others’ People tend to respect your time when you respect it yourself. Showing up prepared, being present, and maintaining clear boundaries communicates professionalism and leadership.  Quotable Moments “You can’t manage time. You can only manage what you do with it.” “Great executives manage priorities. They don’t manage time.” “If you have a tough thing to do, do that thing first.” “Most meetings are inputs with no outputs.” “Urgency is a choice.” “They didn’t need it done right away. They needed it off their plate.” “Any system is better than no system.” “The most successful executives protect their thinking time.” “If you want people to respect your boundaries, start by respecting your own.” “Control your time. Don’t let it control you.” Final Summary Productivity isn’t about cramming more into your schedule. It’s about intentionally focusing on what matters most. By prioritizing key tasks, creating effective systems, eliminating unnecessary decisions, protecting thinking time, and establishing clear boundaries, leaders can accomplish more while experiencing less stress. The key lesson from this episode is simple: stop trying to manage time and start managing your priorities.

    27 min
  5. 21-Emerging Leaders in Technology

    May 27

    21-Emerging Leaders in Technology

    Technology is evolving faster than ever, and the leaders who thrive will be the ones willing to keep learning, adapting, and stepping into the unknown. In this episode, Mike and Maleah share how technology has shaped their leadership journeys from two very different perspectives: one discovering tech throughout a career, and the other growing up with it from the very beginning. Together, they discuss why awareness + action matter, how to overcome imposter syndrome in a constantly changing world, and why you don’t have to know everything to become an effective leader. Their advice for emerging leaders: Don’t chase the title. Chase the experience. Volunteer, learn, struggle, and grow through the process. Find people you admire in the industry, learn their stories, and model the qualities you respect most. If you’re ready to grow as a leader in the age of technology, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss.

    17 min
  6. 20-Why Fitting In Is Not Always a Good Thing

    May 20

    20-Why Fitting In Is Not Always a Good Thing

    Why Fitting In Is Not Always a Good Thing Podcast Show Notes In this episode of the Become The Leader You Would Follow podcast, Jody Holland is joined by Meghan Slaughter, Mike Grigsby, and Maleah Grigsby for a powerful discussion about why standing out matters more than fitting in. The conversation explores the tension between the human need for belonging and the leadership necessity of thinking differently. From unconventional education paths and entrepreneurial risk-taking to innovation, leadership culture, and personal identity, this episode challenges listeners to stop chasing approval and start creating value. The group discusses how fear of rejection often keeps people trapped in mediocrity, while the people who make the greatest impact are usually the ones willing to be misunderstood first. Key Topics Covered Why humans are naturally wired to seek acceptance and avoid rejection The danger of “commoditized mediocrity” in leadership and business How innovation often begins with discomfort and misunderstanding The role of unconventional thinking in creating breakthrough success Why leaders who try too hard to fit in often lose credibility The importance of developing your own “Blue Ocean Strategy” How “exploiting the voids” creates opportunity where others see nothing The relationship between creativity, courage, and leadership influence Why authentic leadership requires self-awareness and conviction How organizational culture suffers when leaders avoid difficult conversations Memorable Stories & Examples The 1984 Macintosh Commercial The group discusses the iconic Apple commercial that symbolized breaking free from conformity and challenging the status quo. Southwest Airlines & Jack Daniel’s A humorous but insightful example of how Southwest Airlines differentiated itself early on by creating a unique customer experience instead of following industry norms. Blue Ocean Strategy The conversation references Blue Ocean Strategy and the concept of building a micro-niche instead of competing in overcrowded markets. The Origami Surgeon Story An incredible story about surgeon Yoichi Hashimoto using origami techniques to improve surgical precision, ultimately influencing advancements in robotic surgery and medical instrument design. “Exploiting the Voids” Mike Grigsby introduces the concept of identifying gaps others overlook — comparing innovation opportunities to the spaces between rocks, pebbles, sand, and water in the classic time-management analogy. Powerful Quotes from the Episode “Every major breakthrough starts with somebody being misunderstood.” “We don’t really fear failure. We fear rejection.” “The crowd is reactive. A true leader is proactive.” “Innovation is messy. Fitting in is easy. Not fitting in is scary.” “History pretty much never remembers the people who blended in nicely.” “You are the deliverable.” “If you keep doing the same thing over and over, you’re going to keep getting the same thing over and over.” Lightning Round Leadership Advice Mike Grigsby “Be comfortable with discomfort. You have to do something different to get something different.” Maleah Grigsby “Look at the qualities that made successful people who they are — don’t just replicate their path.” Meghan Slaughter “Think about what your five-year-old self would do and do it.” Jody Holland “You will develop what you tolerate.” Main Takeaway The leaders, innovators, and organizations that truly change the world are rarely the ones trying to blend in. They are the ones willing to challenge assumptions, embrace discomfort, think creatively, and stay authentic even when it is unpopular. If you want extraordinary results, you cannot continuously pursue ordinary thinking. Become The Leader You Would Follow.

    32 min
  7. 19-Step Into Their Shoes - Leadership Perspective

    May 13

    19-Step Into Their Shoes - Leadership Perspective

    Show Notes – “Step Into Their Shoes, If I Were You” In this unique and entertaining episode of the Become The Leader podcast, Jody Holland, Meghan Slaughter, Mike Grigsby, and Maleah Grigsby take on a fun challenge: answering questions as if they were each other. Father-daughter teams swap perspectives to explore empathy, leadership, self-awareness, and the importance of understanding others before leading them. Key Discussion Points Why perspective-taking is a critical leadership skill How empathy improves collaboration and team performance The role of self-awareness in leadership effectiveness Learning leadership lessons through books, movies, travel, and life experiences Why leaders fail when they assume instead of listening The importance of understanding people before offering solutions Balancing empathy with healthy boundaries as a leader How upbringing and role models shape leadership perspectives The value of listening to voices regardless of age, title, or status Memorable Stories & Insights Leadership Through Perspective Jody discusses how many leaders forget what it felt like to be led once they move into management positions. He emphasizes the importance of remembering the frustrations employees experience and leading with empathy instead of ego. Military & Public Service Lessons Maleah reflects on her military and public-sector experiences (as Mike), explaining how leaders who have “walked the path” gain credibility and deeper understanding of the people they lead. Meeting People Where They Are Mike shares how watching his father interact with others taught him the power of connection, humility, and adapting communication styles to build trust. (as Maleah) The Power of Listening Before Solving A standout story involved Mike attending a technology meeting as a young student and asking questions executives had failed to consider. The conversation reinforced a major leadership lesson: solutions fail when leaders never seek the perspective of the people affected. Stories Shape Perspective The hosts discuss how books, films, and storytelling help people step into another person’s journey and expand emotional intelligence and worldview. Key Leadership Takeaways Great leaders seek to understand before trying to be understood. Perspective drives empathy, collaboration, and stronger culture. Self-awareness is far rarer than most people believe. Every person has value and insight regardless of title or status. Leaders become more effective when they stop making assumptions and start asking better questions. Empathy must be balanced with accountability and healthy boundaries. Notable Quotes “When you change your perspective, you change your reality.” “You can’t embrace generations old or young if you’re not willing to step out of your own brain.” “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” “Never discredit anyone’s perspective.” Final Challenge to Listeners Before judging someone else, take time to see the situation through their perspective. Then, evaluate yourself through the eyes of others. Self-awareness and empathy are two of the most powerful tools any leader can develop.

    25 min
  8. 18-Go Figure... Why Leaders Fail

    May 6

    18-Go Figure... Why Leaders Fail

    Show Notes: The Danger of Arrogance in Leadership In this episode of Become The Leader, Jody Holland, Mike Grigsby, Maleah Grigsby, and Meghan Slaughter discuss why the most dangerous moment for a leader is believing they already have everything figured out. Inspired by insights from Ryan Holiday, the conversation explores humility, growth mindset, leadership failure, and the importance of staying coachable.  The episode covers: The difference between confidence and arrogance Why failure builds stronger leaders How ego destroys organizations like Blockbuster Why employees quit bad leaders The importance of adaptability and continuous learning Key takeaway: “When you stay humble and stay hungry, you stay successful.”  Become The Leader You Would Follow.

    29 min
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    Jody Holland & Meghan Slaughter
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    63
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