Stop Being Too Nice and Caring Too Much — Live Authentically and Unapologetically

Sabrina Phoenix

Are you always "too nice" and care too much? You're the woman who goes above and beyond in her relationship- you give too much, do too much, auto-accomodates and ends up feeling unseen, unappreciated, or emotionally drained. — ✨ Does love feel harder than it should? Take this 60-second quiz to reveal the hidden block that keeps capable, high-achieving women over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in their relationship: 👉 https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL So you can finally feel supported, chosen, and cherished — instead of feeling unseen, unchosen, and unapreciated. — If you're tired of shrinking, people-pleasing, over-functioning, over-giving — or losing yourself in your relationships — this podcast is your turning point. This podcast helps strong, successful women shift out of survival mode — and step into the secure, feminine, & powerful woman they were always meant to be. If you're done losing yourself just to be chosen, liked, or loved — and you're ready to live authentically, unapologetically, and fully be yourself. Lets go. — 🎙 Today's conversation is about the woman you're becoming — a woman who's done losing herself for love and approval, done waiting for permission, done shrinking, done accommodating, and ready to live authentically, unapologetically, and fully as herself. — and finally breaking the patterns of being "too nice," caring too much, doing everything, over-giving, and people-pleasing (high functioning codependency) that leave you drained and disconnected from yourself. — ✨ You're not "too much." You've been conditioned. Conditioned to shrink. To silence yourself. To perform for love. But that ends here. — This podcast is about becoming the woman who is self-led and deeply trusts herself, honors her needs, and stands in her feminine power. Not cold, hard, or detached. But authentic, expressed, grounded, confident — and deeply loved. — Inside, you'll learn how to: • Stop over-giving and doing all the emotional labor • Break free from people-pleasing and perfectionism • End the cycle of over-functioning and fixing • Rebuild unshakable self-worth • Feel calm, secure, and deeply confident in your own skin • Step into your authentic, unapologetic self • Honor your needs without guilt • Feel safe being fully seen and fully expressed • Attract emotionally available, high-quality men • Create a relationship where you feel deeply loved, cherished & adored — 💗 You'll trade: • Forcing life → flowing with life • Self-doubt → self-trust • Chasing → being chosen • Performing → presence • Self-abandonment → self-honoring — If you've ever thought: "I'm successful in life… so why is love so hard?" You're exactly where you belong. 🎧 Subscribe and start rewriting your love story —from shrinking, overdoing, over-giving… to authentic, unapologetic, deeply loved.

  1. Feel Deeply Loved This Valentine's Day — No Matter Your Relationship Status

    2D AGO

    Feel Deeply Loved This Valentine's Day — No Matter Your Relationship Status

    Valentine's Day can bring up a lot of emotions — especially if your life doesn't look the way you thought it would by now. If you're single, feeling lonely, in a relationship that feels distant, or quietly wondering why this day affects you more than you expected… this episode is for you. ✨ Take the Quiz Understand the pattern that's been keeping you stuck:👉https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL   ✨ Explore the Courses (BOGO for Month of Feb) (Use code: LOVE2026 at checkout) If you're ready to go deeper and create the kind of love you truly want…👉https://sabrinaphoenix.com/workwithme1   In today's conversation, we're breaking the silent pressure around Valentine's Day — the expectations, the comparisons, and the feeling that something is missing if you don't have the "perfect" love story. The truth is, nothing has gone wrong. You don't need a relationship to feel loved, whole, or complete. This is about taking your power back. It's about learning how to create love, warmth, and meaning in your life right now — not waiting for someone else to bring it to you. In this episode, we talk about: Why Valentine's Day can feel heavy or emotional The pressure to have it all figured out by now How to stop comparing your life to what you see around you What it really means to feel love — even if you're alone or things aren't where you hoped they'd be Whether you're single, healing, dating, or in a relationship that doesn't feel how you imagined, you deserve to feel peace, comfort, and connection today. This is your reminder that love isn't something you have to wait for — it's something you can begin creating for yourself right now. If this episode speaks to you and you want to understand the patterns that may be keeping you stuck in love, take my free quiz to discover what might be blocking the healthy, secure relationship you truly want: 🎁 Take the quiz here: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL

    11 min
  2. Stop Being Good & Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible)

    JAN 19

    Stop Being Good & Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible)

    Stop Being Good and Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible). You cant create fulflling, deeply connected relationships if you're stuck in people pleasing patterns. 🔗 Chosen: Next Level Love - A private space for women who are done trying harder to be loved. Inside, you'll learn how to stop people-pleasing and overgiving, build emotional security, and create deeply connected relationships — without shrinking, performing, or losing yourself.        👉 Join here: https://www.skool.com/chosen-next-level-love-5566   People pleasing patterns, shrinking & performing in our relationships          Instead of feeling valued, you feel ignored. Instead of feeling loved, you feel used. Instead of feeling cherished, you feel invisible. If you've spent your life being the "good one" — easy to love, understanding, accommodating, low-maintenance — this episode is for you. People-pleasing doesn't start because you're weak or insecure. It starts because somewhere along the way, being yourself stopped feeling safe. So you learned to: keep the peace manage other people's emotions avoid conflict swallow your needs put everyone else first And slowly… you became invisible. In this episode: why people-pleasing is really about safety, not kindness how "being good" quietly erases your needs, voice, & desires the emotional cost of over-accommodating  why trying harder never makes you feel more chosen It's about honoring yourself — so that you can create authentic relationships where you feel deeply valued, loved, and seen. Take the Quiz to uncover the exact pattern keeping you stuck — and what shifts it: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL 👉 [Take the quiz here]

    8 min
  3. You Dont Need A New Year's Resolution — You Need A RESET

    JAN 3

    You Dont Need A New Year's Resolution — You Need A RESET

    Everyone talks about New Year's resolutions — doing more, fixing yourself, becoming someone new. But what if that's not the problem? In this live, I talk about why real change doesn't come from pushing harder or setting more goals — it comes from learning how to reset instead of carrying guilt, disappointment, and self-judgment into the next chapter of your life.   ✨✨✨ Take the Love Block Quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL — it helps you see the hidden pattern shaping your relationships and love life.   If you're a smart, capable woman who: feels exhausted from always trying to "do better" keeps overgiving or overfunctioning in relationships feels like love requires too much effort or is tired of starting over every January only to end up back in the same place… This conversation is for you. We talk about: why resolutions often fail how overgiving and self-pressure sneak into our goals and relationships why being "good" can quietly turn into self-abandonment and what it really means to reset — without fixing, forcing, or becoming someone new This isn't about telling you what to do, it's about learning to be self-led and develop self-trust so that your thriving in your relationships and life!   JOIN ME LIVE: I typically go live on Fridays and answer relationship questions — subscribe so you don't miss future lives.  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIqQk8e7hlHIkIlExPZTMjA   ✨ If you want more support: Visit sabrinaphoenix.com for coaching and courses.

    12 min

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Are you always "too nice" and care too much? You're the woman who goes above and beyond in her relationship- you give too much, do too much, auto-accomodates and ends up feeling unseen, unappreciated, or emotionally drained. — ✨ Does love feel harder than it should? Take this 60-second quiz to reveal the hidden block that keeps capable, high-achieving women over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in their relationship: 👉 https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL So you can finally feel supported, chosen, and cherished — instead of feeling unseen, unchosen, and unapreciated. — If you're tired of shrinking, people-pleasing, over-functioning, over-giving — or losing yourself in your relationships — this podcast is your turning point. This podcast helps strong, successful women shift out of survival mode — and step into the secure, feminine, & powerful woman they were always meant to be. If you're done losing yourself just to be chosen, liked, or loved — and you're ready to live authentically, unapologetically, and fully be yourself. Lets go. — 🎙 Today's conversation is about the woman you're becoming — a woman who's done losing herself for love and approval, done waiting for permission, done shrinking, done accommodating, and ready to live authentically, unapologetically, and fully as herself. — and finally breaking the patterns of being "too nice," caring too much, doing everything, over-giving, and people-pleasing (high functioning codependency) that leave you drained and disconnected from yourself. — ✨ You're not "too much." You've been conditioned. Conditioned to shrink. To silence yourself. To perform for love. But that ends here. — This podcast is about becoming the woman who is self-led and deeply trusts herself, honors her needs, and stands in her feminine power. Not cold, hard, or detached. But authentic, expressed, grounded, confident — and deeply loved. — Inside, you'll learn how to: • Stop over-giving and doing all the emotional labor • Break free from people-pleasing and perfectionism • End the cycle of over-functioning and fixing • Rebuild unshakable self-worth • Feel calm, secure, and deeply confident in your own skin • Step into your authentic, unapologetic self • Honor your needs without guilt • Feel safe being fully seen and fully expressed • Attract emotionally available, high-quality men • Create a relationship where you feel deeply loved, cherished & adored — 💗 You'll trade: • Forcing life → flowing with life • Self-doubt → self-trust • Chasing → being chosen • Performing → presence • Self-abandonment → self-honoring — If you've ever thought: "I'm successful in life… so why is love so hard?" You're exactly where you belong. 🎧 Subscribe and start rewriting your love story —from shrinking, overdoing, over-giving… to authentic, unapologetic, deeply loved.