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BecomingU Podcast is a safe space for adults figuring it out. New episodes every Thursday.

  1. 1D AGO

    Is Ghana More Progressive Than Nigeria?

    In this episode, Selina and I talk about love, work-life balance, and the cultural differences between Ghana and Nigeria. We share our Valentine’s Day experiences, discuss the challenges of integrating into new environments, and reflect on gender roles and the position of women in African society. We also touch on entrepreneurship, travel plans, and the importance of cultural understanding between our countries. It was a fun, honest, and free-flowing conversation.00:00 Valentine's Day Reflections09:02 Work-Life Balance and New Ventures15:46 Cultural Perspectives on Nigerians and Ghanaians22:11 Integration Challenges and Experiences23:14 Navigating Cultural Integration25:50 Communication Styles and Identity30:36 Cultural Shock and Observations33:01 Entrepreneurial Journey and Challenges35:49 Travel Plans and Excitement38:03 Dating Dynamics in Ghana vs Nigeria40:27 Gender Roles and Women's Rights44:25 Final Thoughts and Reflections48:27 for watching.mp4

    49 min

  2. FEB 12

    Is love ever enough?

    In this episode, Comfort Omovre, a relationship coach, and I unpack the question, “Is love ever enough?” We talk about heartbreak, healing, and the role friendship plays in romantic relationships. We also share our experiences with toxic dynamics, self-discovery after heartbreak, and learning to let go of the desire for validation. We share it all from the heart. 00:00 The Crisis of Faith in Love 02:52 Understanding Love and Healing 05:29 The Balancing Act of Life and Work 08:46 The Nature of Love: Choices and Actions 11:44 Friendship as the Foundation of Love 22:41 Reviving Romance in Long-Term Relationships 23:45 Understanding Anger in Relationships 26:02 The Complexity of Love and Conflict 27:54 Navigating Breakups and Emotional Turmoil 30:02 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Branding 44:53 Resilience Through Pain and Growth 47:20 Struggles with Mental Health and Self-Perception 50:12 The Power of Letting Go of Others' Opinions 51:35 Navigating Heartbreak and Personal Growth 52:24 Understanding the Roots of Relationship Failures 57:30 Cultural Influences on Self-Worth and Relationships 01:03:07 The Journey of Reinvention and Letting Go 01:09:33 Navigating Difficult Relationships 01:12:48 Understanding Love and Attachment 01:13:44 The Triangle of Love 01:18:07 Unlearning and Self-Discovery 01:23:00 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth

    1h 33m

  3. FEB 5

    How to Get Into Tech by Self-Learning

    I had a really chill conversation with Deborah about how she moved from food science into tech and is now working as an AI software developer. We talked about learning tech on your own, dealing with imposter syndrome, and why having the right community matters so much. She also shared some honest truths about tech, especially for women, and why it is never too late to start. If you have ever thought about getting into tech, you will definitely enjoy this episode. 01:28 Deborah's Journey in Tech 03:24 Understanding AI and Software Development 05:32 Navigating Career Transitions 07:43 The Importance of Networking 10:09 Work-Life Balance and Personal Reflections 23:30 The Journey to 1K Subscribers 23:32 Introversion and Social Dynamics 25:53 Transitioning from Food Science to Engineering 27:16 The Role of Mathematics in Tech 29:21 Curiosity and Self-Learning in Tech 43:20 Finding Free Resources for Learning Tech 45:11 Women Supporting Women in Tech 47:47 The Changing Landscape for Women in Tech 50:10 Overcoming Misconceptions About Tech

    59 min

  4. JAN 29

    You can create digital visibility as an introvert ft Adura

    In this episode, Aduragbemi Oladunjoye and I talk about content creation and what it really means to be visible in the digital space. We talk about the pressure that comes with being called a “content creator,” personal branding, and the balance between planning and spontaneity when showing up online. We also talked about networking, self-promotion, and why advocating for yourself matters in competitive spaces.This episode is about visibility, growth, and learning how to show up fully, even when it feels uncomfortable. 00:00 The Journey to Content Creation 02:58 Understanding Content Creation and Digital Presence 06:03 The Importance of Personal Branding 08:58 Navigating Content Strategy: Planning vs. Spontaneity 11:54 The Numbers Game in Content Creation 14:58 The Pressure of Going Viral 17:55 Controversial Topics and Engagement 19:56 Culinary Preferences and Nostalgia 21:03 Reflections on Growth and Hard Work 22:01 2016: A Pivotal Year in Education 24:00 Transitioning from Education to Digital Marketing 26:56 Understanding Social Media Management 30:05 The Importance of Visibility in Career 31:58 The Role of Education in Professional Development 34:01 Navigating Digital Marketing Strategies 35:58 The Balance of Online Presence and Professionalism 39:04 Networking and Self-Promotion 43:39 The Challenges of Networking 44:30 Effective Networking Strategies 46:36 Building Connections at Events 48:43 The Importance of Horizontal Networking 51:01 Overcoming Timidity in Networking 52:05 Sharing Personal Journeys: Alopecia Awareness 01:05:08 Finding Courage to Share Your Story 01:09:09 Continuous Learning in Content Creation

    1h 4m

  5. JAN 22

    Is Nigeria a safe space to build ?

    In this episode, I sit down with Ehiz Oriaifo to have an honest conversation about the journey from unemployment to entrepreneurship in Nigeria. We discuss the realities of building a creative business, using social media for marketing, navigating client relationships, and why diversifying income is key. Ehiz shares his personal journey, the fears of leaving stability, lessons learned along the way, and what keeps him going. This conversation is for anyone trying to build something meaningful despite uncertainty. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 02:31 The Role of Social Media in Business 04:02 Marketing Strategies for Reaching the Right Audience 08:03 The Challenges of Being a Photographer 15:00 Transitioning from 9-to-5 to Full-Time Entrepreneurship 20:58 Building a Portfolio and Collaborations 21:56 Technical Difficulties and Transitioning Focus 21:57 The Fear of Leaving Corporate Stability 23:23 Diversifying Income as a Creative 28:02 Navigating Family Conversations About Career Changes 30:36 Understanding Strengths in Entrepreneurship 34:32 The Joy of Capturing Moments in Photography 38:55 Balancing Worship and Photography in Church Settings 40:27 Introduction to Challenges in Nigerian Photography 43:48 Client Expectations and Wedding Day Woes4 5:37 The Emotional Toll of Entrepreneurship 51:26 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

    1 hr

  6. JAN 15

    Why Aren’t We Getting Hired?

    In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, I sit down with Tofunmi, an HR professional, and we get into it. She shares how she found her way into human resources, what the job market actually looks like right now, and how AI is changing the hiring process. We talk about confidence in interviews, what HR people are really looking for, and some personal experiences that shaped how we both think about job hunting and hiring. From tailoring your CV to negotiating your salary and showing up well in interviews, Tofunmi gives the HR perspective most people never get to hear. 00:00 Introduction to Job Hunting Insights 07:36 Tofunmi's Journey into HR 15:30 Interview Experiences and Lessons Learned 19:20 The Power of Preparation in Interviews 22:17 Building Confidence and Communication Skills 26:06 Navigating Interview Dynamics 30:56 The Role of AI in Recruitment 38:46 Crafting the Perfect CV 47:06 Navigating Salary Negotiations 49:14 Understanding Your Worth 52:00 The Interview Process: Insights from an HR Perspective 54:42 The Emotional Toll of Recruitment 57:31 Learning from Recruitment Mistakes 01:00:24 Preparing for Future Opportunities 01:04:09 Final Tips for Job Seekers

    1h 12m

  7. JAN 8

    What do we even do with money ?

    On today’s episode, we’re talking money, spending, saving, investing, and basically everything money-related that our parents forgot to mention lol. And we have a guest! Today, I’m talking with Oladapo, who is a data analyst, and we chat about our money habits. We talk serious stuff in the most light-hearted way ever. Enjoy the episode!Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram and join the conversation, I’d love to know your perspectives. 00:00 Introduction to Money Talks 01:45 New Year Reflections and Financial Planning 02:04 Building a Strong Financial Foundation 01:08:36 Essential Money Habits to Cultivate 01:09:55 Habits to Stop for Financial Health Youtube

    1h 15m

  8. JAN 1

    Choose YOU as the first goal

    Happy New Year, my friends, and welcome to 2026! In this episode, we talk about everything goals: the importance of setting them, the challenges that come with it, and why self-reflection is key to real growth. I share personal experiences, break down practical goal-setting strategies (including SMART goals), and talk honestly about why hard work still matters, manifestation aside. I also yap a little about my holiday recap, personal projects, and all things goally. I managed to write one article this time you’ll find the link below, along with our socials. Enjoy the episode https://linktr.ee/oluwabukola_adeyemi https://substack.com/@oluwabukolaadeyemi/note/p-182774464?r=1qua0z&utm_source=notes-share-action&utm_medium=web 00:00 The Importance of Setting Goals 04:30 Reflecting on Past Goals 08:34 Understanding Goal Realism 17:36 Finding Purpose Through Goals 25:30 Reflections on December Celebrations 32:57 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 42:21 Personal Projects and Self-Care 47:22 Goals for the New Year

    54 min
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BecomingU Podcast is a safe space for adults figuring it out. New episodes every Thursday.

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  • Creator
    BecomingU
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    73
  • Rating
    Clean
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