Before You Do with Verlyn

Verlyn Tarlton

Welcome to the Before You Do Podcast! Each week, join Verlyn Tarlton as we have real conversations about issues, we don't typically talk about that will better prepare women for the complex realities of marriage before saying "I Do". The goal is to prepare one million women to be and stay happily married. Subscribe to hear more. May you experience extraordinary love. (C) 2024 Verlyn Tarlton. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED www.verlyntarlton.com

  1. MAR 25

    Submission: Truth Exposed Season 4 Episode # 7

    Most women miss the secret to truly empowering their relationships — and it’s all wrapped up in a misunderstood word: submission. What if understanding this simple concept could unlock the peace, protection, and partnership you've been craving? Verlyn Tarlton, your favorite premarital coach and Auntie who’s seen the transformational power of truecooperation, dives deep into how submission isn’t about weakness or losing control — it’s about creating order, strength, and harmony in your marriage. She reveals how embracing this principle can liberate women from the burdens of decision-making and change the dynamic with your man from constant conflict to mutual support. In this episode, you'll discover: The true meaning ofsubmission and how it aligns with everyday hierarchies like workplaces, schools, and governments. Why women often resist submission and how to reframe it as a source of power and peace. Practical ways to support your husband’s leadership and why it benefits the whole family. How faith, prayer, and cooperation can turn conflicts into moments of bonding and growth. The surprising ways feminism and modern culture have skewed perceptions o submission, and why returning to faith-based principles is essential. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re battling against your husband, or if you want a marriage built on trust, respect, and divine order, this episode is your wake-up call. Perfect for women of faith, those seeking peace in their home, oranyone wanting to redefine strength in marriage. Get ready to see submission as your secret weapon for a healthier, happier partnership — and start building the love life you truly deserve. Verlyn Tarlton is a seasoned premarital coach and speaker dedicated to helping women embrace their divine roles in marriage and life. Her insights stem from years of experience guiding women to lead with faith and purpose. Don’t miss this opportunity to transform your perspective and your marriage. Hit play now and take the first step toward a relationshipwhere love, respect, and harmony reign supreme. Thank you for joining the conversation. Please make sure to hit the subscribe button, like, and share with three or four friends. Make marriage great again. Connect with Verlynhttps://verlyntarlton.com/ #respect #love #marriage #wisdom #family #relationship #couple #goals #peace #podcast Key words Submission, Empowerment, Partnership, Hierarchy, Cooperation, Faith-based, Spiritual unity, Gender roles, Feminism, Marital dynamics, Support and growth, Relationship foundation, Decision-making, Mutual support, Peace and harmony May you experience extraordinary love.

    16 min
  2. MAR 16

    Most Women Overlook This Season 4 Episode #6

    Most people overlook the real test of a relationship — how your partner responds when life doesn’t go according to plan. In this eye-opening episode, Verlyn Tarlton shares profoundinsights from her personal health challenge, revealing what truly defines a partner’s character beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover why the foundation of lasting love isn’t just about chemistry or shared interests but about resilience, dependability, and how someone shows up when everything is falling apart. Verlyn breaks down the critical traits you must assess — from leadership under pressure to family values — to avoid costly mistakes that could impact your future children, finances, and emotional well-being. You'll learn How to recognize "stickability"- the ability to stay composed and dependable through adversity The importance of observing your partner's response to simple challenges and stresses Why character and heart matter more than looks when life hurdles arise How to shift from emotional infatuation to strategic future focus making in choosing a spouse Practical questions to ask yourself and partner to determine if he's truly marriage minded If you’re tired of making choices based solely on fleeting feelings, and ready to build a love that lasts through challenges, this episode is your must-listen. Verlyn, a seasoned pre-marital coach, draws from over 20 years of marriage and real-life experience to guide you toward discerning intent over attraction. Her insights will inspire you to see beyond the surface and focus on the qualities that create a legacy of love. Perfect for women serious about making smarter, future-proof relationship choices. Tune in for a mindset shift that could change your life — because love built on character, trust, and resilience lasts forever. #respect #love #marriage #wisdom #family #relationships #couples #goals #peace #podcast #levelup Key words Relationship resiliencePartner's characterLeadership under pressureFamily valuesEmotional infatuationFuture-focused decision-makingMarriage materialTrust and resilienceThank you for joining the conversation. Please remember to like, share with friends, and subscribe. That is greatly appreciated. Pick up your freebies as well as connect with Verlyn: Home - Verlyn Tarlton May you experience extraordinary love

    16 min
  3. MAR 3

    Why Is Submission a Battle? Season 4 Episode #5

    Unlock the truth about submission that could transform your marriage or relationships today. Why do so many women struggle with the concept, and what do you really need to know to navigate it successfully? If you've ever felt confused, overwhelmed, or evenresistant to the idea of submitting to a husband or authority figure, this episode will challenge your perspective and equip you with practical insights. In a candid conversation, EB Davis reveals the four core categories of submission—spiritual, natural, logical, and mutual—and explains how understanding these can empower you to create peace and progress in your relationship. You'll discover how everyday acts of submission, like cooperating with your boss, adhering to laws, or making compromises at home, are proof that submission isn’t as daunting as society makes it seem. EB walks you through concrete steps like introspection,setting standards, and trusting God's guidance, helping you see submission as a tool of strength rather than weakness. We break down common pitfalls: poor decision-making, unforgiveness, unrealistic expectations, and childhood trauma that hinder your ability to submit. Plus, learn why respectingyour husband’s leadership is not about giving up autonomy but about fostering mutual growth, respect, and peace. Coach and host Verlyn Tarlton shares her personal journey of balancing strong wills in marriage and how respectfulcooperation leads to protection, provision, and long-term happiness. Why is ignoring the importance of submission a risk? Without it, couples can face stagnation, resentment, and missed divine blessings. This episode is perfect for women seeking clarity, healthy relationship strategies, or practical guidance in applying submission in real life. Whether you're single, dating, or married, these insights pave the way for stronger bonds and deeper trust. Remember, understanding submission is not just a religious principle; it’s a pathway to harmony, growth, and love. Tune in now to shift your mindset, unlock peace, and step into the fullness of your relationships with confidence and purpose. Who should listen? Women eager to deepen their understanding of submission, couples wanting harmony, or anyone seeking practical wisdom rooted in faith. Don't miss the chance to transform your perspective and your marriage today. #marriage #submission # relationships # yielding #faith #husband #wives #authority #acceptance #peace #liberation Thank you for joining the conversation. Make sure to hit that subscribe and like button. Share with a friend or two. Stay tuned for my future container just for women. If there's one thing I know how to do, that's get a good man. Connect with Verlyn Home - Verlyn Tarlton

    47 min
  4. FEB 6

    Do You Really Want This? Season 4 Episode #4

    Most women underestimate the profound impact their habits and mindset have on attracting and sustaining a healthy marriage. Viair Myles shares empowering, practical strategies that transform your focus from self-improvement to becoming the partner your spouse—and you—deserve. In this eye-opening episode, discover how your emotional maturity, appearance, and daily routines directly influence your relationship's success. Viair reveals the importance ofself-care, emotional intelligence, and community support, backed by her ow journey from health challenges to becoming a holistic wellness advocate forwomen preparing for marriage. You'll learn: Why starting with yourself is the key to lasting love and healthy partnerships. How to audit and upgrade your habits around food, finances, and self-image. The role of emotional maturity in accepting correction and growth. The impact of your environment, support circle, and spiritual walk on marriage readiness. Simple but powerful ways to show up confidently for yourself and your spouse every day. Many women miss out on deeper intimacy and respect because they overlook daily upkeep and emotionalgrowth. This episode is perfect for singles and those in relationships ready to level up and attract a fulfilling marriage. Whether you're dating or married, these insights will help you create a foundation of confidence, love, and resilience. Hosted by Verlyn Tarlton, a proven relationship coach, this conversation offers real tools to transform how you view yourself—and how the world sees you. Learn how small shifts today can prevent future regrets, unlock your best self, and build a marriage rooted in mutual respect and continuous growth. Are you ready to become the best version of yourself and truly show up in your relationship? Tune in now—your future happily ever after starts with how you prepare today. Thank you for watching. Please share, like, and hit the subscribe button. #marriage #love #relationships #couples #peace #goals Key Words • Preparation and upkeep of being a wife • Getting your mindset right • Spiritual walk • Emotional maturity • Bad habits and traits • Energy and habits to be a wife • Therapy • Emotional intelligence • Self-improvement • Relationship success Connect with Viair Myles on all social media platforms including: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok Also look for The Holistic Sister Circle on Facebook and Podcast Playground For Female Entrepreneurs Connect with Verlyn and pick up your freebies as well as your couples vision board template, click the link below. Home - Verlyn Tarlton

    51 min
  5. JAN 19

    Mismanaged Access Denied! Season 4 Episode #2

    In this conversation, Coach Verlyn Tarlton and Dr. Joyice Robinson Myers discuss the critical importance of understanding boundaries and access in marriage. Theyexplore how managing access before marriage can prevent issues later on, emphasizing the difference between social and emotional misuse. The discussion highlights the dynamics of attraction, the significance of awareness in relationships, and the potential consequences of mismanaged access. They also touch on the practice of male monogamy and the responsibilities that come with marriage, stressing that marriage is not just a practice field but a site of responsibility. In this conversation, Verlyn Tarlton and Joyice Robinson Myersdelve into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the dynamics of dating, marriage, and the ethical considerations surrounding infidelity. They discuss the importance of establishing boundaries, practicing vigilance, and understanding community ethics in maintaining healthy relationships. The conversation also highlights the challenges single women face when navigating relationships with married men, emphasizing the need forself-reflection and accountability in their choices. Ultimately, the discussion aims to provide insights and tools for fostering healthier relationships and preventing emotional pitfalls. Thank you for joining the conversation. Make sure you share and hit the subscribe button! Connect with Dr. Joyice Robinson Myers Joyice Robinson Myers | The DC Relationship Education Center - The DC Relationship Education CenterConnect with Coach Verlyn Home - Verlyn Tarlton

    1h 13m

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Welcome to the Before You Do Podcast! Each week, join Verlyn Tarlton as we have real conversations about issues, we don't typically talk about that will better prepare women for the complex realities of marriage before saying "I Do". The goal is to prepare one million women to be and stay happily married. Subscribe to hear more. May you experience extraordinary love. (C) 2024 Verlyn Tarlton. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED www.verlyntarlton.com