Behind the Lavalava

Behind the Lavalava Cast
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Welcome to Behind the Lavalava! Here, you will find authentic, firsthand perspectives on Pacific Island culture and life from a group of seasoned veterans. We share stories and express our opinions, all drawn from our own life experiences. This podcast places a special emphasis on all veterans, the people and cultures of the Pacific, and small businesses. 

  1. 09/12/2025

    #112. Fa'alavelave 101: Breaking Down a Samoan Tradition

    Send us a text In this episode, we take a closer look at Faalavelave, an important Samoan tradition where family and community come together to support each other during big life events like weddings, funerals, or title ceremonies. We share real stories and honest conversations about what Faalavelave looks like for Samoans living in the U.S. and abroad—the good, the tough, and everything in between. It’s about keeping family bonds strong, honoring culture, and figuring out how to balance these traditions with the challenges of modern life. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    55 min

  2. 07/01/2025

    #111. THT Cyrus Returns: Men’s Mental Health & The National Anthem Debate

    Send us a text We're back with hip hop artist and returning guest THT Cyrus for a powerful and heartfelt episode. We dive into the hot-button topic: Should the American National Anthem be sung in other languages?—with surprisingly thoughtful and hilarious takes. We also reflect on June as Men's Mental Health Awareness Month and ask the tough question: Are people out here exploiting others’ struggles for clout or profit? From calling out dirtbag opportunists to sharing our own pasts, it’s a raw conversation. Plus, we catch up with Cyrus on life as a new dad, balancing music and fatherhood, and what the future holds. From calling out shady behavior to talking through parenting fears and personal growth, this episode brings the laughs, the heart, and some raw truth. Ask ChatGPT Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    1h 12m

  3. 06/16/2025

    #110. What Every Young FOB Should Hear

    Send us a text In this episode, we briefly touch on the tense situation unfolding in L.A., sharing our hopes for peace and safety for everyone involved—civilians, law enforcement, and troops alike—without diving into politics. Then we shift into a heartfelt and humorous conversation about giving guidance to young legal immigrants, often referred to in our community as "FOBs" (Fresh Off the Boat). We share the advice we’d give if we met a young islander fresh off the plane—how to survive, succeed, and stay grounded in their cultural roots while navigating a new world. We also shout out Asuelu for representing the journey of a young fob making moves to better his life. This one's for anyone trying to navigate new spaces while holding on to where they came from. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    38 min

  4. 06/16/2025

    #109. From Gorilla Battles to Village Leadership

    Send us a text In this episode, we kick things off with a funny and wild debate—could 100 random guys (or even 100 random Samoan guys) take down a silverback gorilla? Things get ridiculous fast, with jokes flying about stamina, primal instincts, and even gout. But after all the laughs, we shift gears and dive into something deeper: the Samoan idea of aiga, or family. We talk about how that mindset could be used in things like social welfare, helping the homeless, and even how the military operates. We also imagine what we’d do if we were the matai (chief) of our village—how we’d lead with purpose and take care of our people. It’s a mix of jokes, real talk, and cultural pride all in one episode. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    48 min

  5. 05/05/2025

    #108. Mixing More Than Kava: Culture, Connection, and Care

    Send us a text In this episode, we dive into the world of kava—what it is, how it’s made, and why it holds such a special place in many Pacific Islander communities. We talk about what really goes on in a faikava and kalapu, the difference between ceremonial and social drinking, and how kava has evolved into a way to connect, support one another, and find peace in tough times. Whether you’ve been around kava your whole life or you’re just curious, this conversation offers an honest, personal look at its cultural roots, the pros and cons of the drink itself, and the deeper meaning behind gathering to mix. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    34 min

  6. 04/02/2025

    #107. The DEI Debate: Are We Asking the Right Questions?

    Send us a text In this episode, we dive into the hot topic of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI), especially in the military and government. With recent changes eliminating DEI programs, we discuss how these policies impacted service members and whether they were even noticeable during our time in uniform. Did DEI lower standards, or did it open doors for underrepresented groups? Are we even asking the right questions when it comes to DEI? We share personal experiences, debate the balance between merit and representation, and explore how DEI plays out in civilian government jobs today. Join us as we unpack the pros, cons, and lingering questions surrounding this controversial shift. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    57 min

  7. 03/22/2025

    #106 New Year, New Chaos: Catching Up on Life, Politics, and Global Conflicts.

    Send us a text We're back! After a long hiatus, we’re kicking off 2025 with a deep dive into the biggest headlines shaping the world today. In this episode, we catch up on life, health scares, and nonprofit work before tackling major current events. We discuss Trump’s first few months back in office, the ripple effects of his policies, and the role of Elon Musk in his administration. We also break down the ongoing conflicts in Ukraine and the Middle East, touching on the media's influence and what the future might hold. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on politics, global affairs, and the impact these changes have on everyday life. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    59 min

  8. 12/23/2024

    #105 Reflecting on 2024: Growth, Gratitude, and Goals

    Send us a text In this episode, we take a moment to reflect on an eventful 2024. It’s been a year filled with highs and lows, and with the holiday season here, it feels like the perfect time to pause, express gratitude, and think about what lies ahead. We talk about how the podcast has evolved over the past three years, from tackling controversial and meaningful topics to highlighting the incredible journeys of entrepreneurs and veterans. While we’ve faced challenges like balancing our schedules and producing content consistently, we’re proud of the quality conversations and connections we’ve built. We also dive into how our nonprofit has grown, celebrating milestones like launching it officially this year and hosting impactful events. As we look to the future, we share our goals for bringing back more topical discussions and expanding our efforts to make a bigger difference. Thank you for being part of our journey—your support means the world to us. Behind the Lavalava Foundation Sponsors: Matai, American United Federal Credit Union, Pasifika Foods, Veteran Business Resource Center, Frontline Heroes, Warrior Revival, Top Gun Home Inspection, Natin But Grindz, Ladies in Bloom, All Pro Concrete Cutters, Eni & Hina Faleomavaega Foundation, Humana, Toko Uso Protection, Paradise Porch, Cyprus Credit Union. 988 has been designated as the new three-digit dialing code for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (now known as the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). We can all help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.

    42 min
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Welcome to Behind the Lavalava! Here, you will find authentic, firsthand perspectives on Pacific Island culture and life from a group of seasoned veterans. We share stories and express our opinions, all drawn from our own life experiences. This podcast places a special emphasis on all veterans, the people and cultures of the Pacific, and small businesses. 

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    Behind the Lavalava Cast
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    112
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