Behind the Paddle

Porcelain Victoria
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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

  1. 2天前

    E91:How to be you part 5

    Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, and organization are reframed as personal failings rather than simply different ways of processing the world. We unpack how government cuts to support services have made it even harder for neurodivergent people to access the accommodations they need. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    1 小时 1 分钟

  2. 5天前

    E90:Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World

    Send us a text  From diner booths to dungeon floors, “Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World” explores the social and sexual spaces where kink comes alive. Porcelain Victoria guides you through the history, the people, and the rules that shape these gatherings from the casual comfort of a munch to the charged intensity of a play party. This is not porn, not fantasy, but the real story of how community, consent, vulnerability, and desire meet in public kink.  Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    51 分钟

  3. 9月8日

    E89: Secrets in the Sheets: Husbands, Fetishes, and the Cost of Silence

    Send us a text Welcome to Behindthepaddle. I’m Porcelain Victoria, and this episode… is a tender one. Today, we’re stepping into the bedroom but not just for fun. We’re pulling open the drawer of secrets. Hidden fetishes. Quiet urges. And those deeply human moments when a husband or partner finally tells the truth… to the person they love most. We’re talking about the difference between being honest and being unfaithful. Between sharing a kink and hiding it with someone else. Between keeping secrets… and finally being real. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    42 分钟

  4. 9月4日

    E88: How to be you part 4

    Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, and organization are reframed as personal failings rather than simply different ways of processing the world. We unpack how government cuts to support services have made it even harder for neurodivergent people to access the accommodations they need. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    54 分钟

  5. 9月1日

    E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics

    Send us a text Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics. We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, MDLB, Littles, Middles, Brats), the psychology of regression and attachment, the rituals of rules and punishments, and the playful, sometimes erotic, worlds of diapers, pacis, and discipline. We dive deep into: What regression really is (and isn’t)Why structure makes Littles feel safeThe brat’s defiance as a plea for loveRituals of affirmation and daily caregiving practicesThe risks of Littlespace, drop, and unsafe dynamicsHow permission to need, regress, defy, and be loved is the heart of it allSupport the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    52 分钟

  6. 8月28日

    E86: How to be you part 3

    Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, and organization are reframed as personal failings rather than simply different ways of processing the world. We unpack how government cuts to support services have made it even harder for neurodivergent people to access the accommodations they need. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    22 分钟

  7. 8月25日

    E85:Kink vs Fetish

    Send us a text In this episode, I dive into one of the questions I hear all the time: what’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? These two words get thrown around a lot, but they aren’t the same thing and understanding the difference can change how we see ourselves and our sex lives. I share my own experience as someone who needs BDSM in my life to feel whole and authentic, but who can still enjoy and orgasm through vanilla sex. For me, kink is the language of my desire not always required for climax, but absolutely essential for fulfillment. We’ll also look at how fetish has been understood historically, why it was once pathologized, and how modern sex-positive approaches view it today. Along the way, I’ll reflect on how kink expands pleasure, how fetish sometimes replaces it, and why neither is something to be ashamed of. Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    42 分钟

  8. 8月21日

    E84:How to be you part 2

    Send us a text Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant stimulation? This fascinating tension sits at the heart of Ellie Middletons transformative book "How to Be You," which we explore in depth on this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast. The book presents a "pick-and-mix" approach to executive functioning strategies, acknowledging that no single method works consistently for neurodivergent brains. This feels revolutionary in a world where we're often made to feel broken for not fitting into neurotypical productivity models. As the author confesses to having drawers full of barely-used planners and abandoned productivity apps, many listeners will feel deeply seen and validated. Support the show Support the show Check out our socials! Thank you so much for listening 💖

    49 分钟
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Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs)  on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through anysocials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.comOur socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

信息

  • 创作者
    Porcelain Victoria
  • 活跃年份
    2024年 - 2025年
  • 单集
    91
  • 分级
    儿童不宜
  • 版权
    © 2025 Behind the Paddle
  • 节目网站
    Behind the Paddle

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