Being Different Together

Nyssa Hanger
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Being Different Together explores the realms of relationship, entrepreneurship, and personal development through the lens of Real Dialogue, a set of principles, practices, and methods for healthy conflict as a means for growth.  In other words, just because we disagree, doesn’t mean we can’t get along.  Through this series, Nyssa and Kelly will bring their combined experience as holistic health practitioners to the table to share what they’ve learned through the process of integrating these skills in their lives.  This podcast is for all the people who want to make the world a better place and feel a little less alone doing it.

  1. قبل ٦ أيام

    #18 - Intentionality, Part 3: If You Think You Can Change the World, You Have a Better Chance

    In this third episode of our Intentionality series, Nyssa and Kelly return to Murry Landsman’s handwritten bathroom poster to explore one deceptively simple slogan: “If you think you can do something about the world, you have a better chance.”  They unpack how this idea sits between toxic positivity and nihilism, framing it as “agency under constraint”—taking real responsibility for your participation in the world without pretending you can control everything. Along the way, they weave together stories of 90s eco‑kids trying to “save the planet,” Nyssa’s work helping clients heal through bodywork, Kelly’s reflections on Buddhism, karma, and projection, and why conflict is often the very thing that helps us evolve.  If you’ve ever wondered how to make a difference without burning out, stay hopeful without spiritual bypassing, and see “the whole world as medicine,” this conversation is for you. Main Topics Covered: How one simple slogan—“If you think you can do something about the world, you have a better chance”—can change how you see your role in life.The difference between toxic positivity, fantasy “manifestation,” and grounded, realistic hope.What Kelly means by “agency under constraint” and how it helps you avoid both grandiosity and nihilism.How 80s/90s “save the planet” messaging shaped Nyssa’s belief that her actions actually matter.Why believing your work might help someone (in therapy, bodywork, or relationships) gives you a better chance that it will.A playful dive into projective identification and how we unconsciously train people (and pets!) to act the way we expect.The Buddhist idea that “the whole world is medicine” and what it means for everyday conflicts and challenges.A wild pirate parable that reframes karma, intention, and “doing the least harm” in impossible situations.How trying to change anything—yourself, a relationship, or the world—inevitably brings conflict, and why that’s often what helps us evolve.Seeing intentionality as a uniquely human superpower in an age obsessed with AI, efficiency, and quick fixes.Links: Episode #16 - Intentionality, Part 1: Everything You’ve Done Prepared You For This MomentEpisode #17 - Intentionality, Part 2: Feeling Good Needs No ExcuseEpisode #11 - How to Get What You Want (Without Toxic Positivity or Wishful Thinking) Books: Me, But Better by Olga KhazanStay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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  2. ١٦ أبريل

    #17 - Intentionality, Part 2: Feeling Good Needs No Excuse

    In this second episode of our Intentionality series, Nyssa and Kelly return to the handwritten bathroom poster of Uncle Murry Landsman’s teachings to explore three more life-shaping slogans: “Everything works. Nothing works.” “Feeling good needs no excuse.” and “Anything worth doing is worth doing badly.”  They unpack how these paradoxical ideas speak to perfectionism, decision fatigue, and the pressure to “get it right” in self‑improvement, therapy, relationships, work, and even gardening—sharing stories about planners and exercise programs, laughing in the midst of grief, and Kelly’s humbling journey learning Thai massage.  Along the way, they explore intentional living as a uniquely human capacity, how “everything works and nothing works” disrupts the fantasy of the one perfect method, and why letting yourself feel good without guilt or justification is essential for emotional healing and resilience.  If you’re interested in letting go of perfectionism, starting before you feel ready, and finding more space and freedom in your inner life and relationships, this conversation is for you. Main Topics Covered: How “Everything works. Nothing works.” can free you from chasing the one perfect methodWhy perfectionism quietly keeps you stuck (and how to move anyway, even “badly”)The surprising link between intentionality, being human, and not wanting to be a “god”What it really means that “feeling good needs no excuse” in grief, crisis, and everyday lifeHow numbing difficult emotions can also shut down your capacity for joyThe secret life of planners, exercise programs, and self-help methods that “should” fix everythingA real relationship moment: choosing not to stay stuck in defensiveness and resentmentWhat gardening and Thai massage can teach us about being beginners againWhy hobbies matter more when you’re willing to be bad at themSimple ways to “do it badly” on purpose in your relationships and personal growthLinks: Episode #16 - Intentionality, Part 1: Everything You’ve Done Prepared You For This Moment Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #16 - Intentionality, Part 1: Everything You’ve Done Prepared You For This Moment

    In this first episode of our Intentionality series, Nyssa and Kelly pull back the curtain on a wild synchronicity in their shared lineage: a 1970s psychologist named Murry Landsman, the human potential movement, and a handwritten bathroom poster of life-changing intentionality slogans.  We explore the first two: “Everything you’ve done in life prepared you for this moment” and “It is frequently easier to get what you want when you know what it is.” Along the way, we talk about trauma reframing, secondary gain, and what it means to move from “this happened to me” to “this is mine to use” in your own healing and personal growth. If you’re interested in emotional healing, self-awareness, and the human potential movement, or you’ve ever wondered how to make meaning of your past, this conversation is for you. Main Topics Covered: How a 1970s human potential pioneer secretly shaped both our lives decades apartThe bathroom poster of “Murray’s slogans” that quietly trained Nyssa’s child brainWhat “Everything you’ve done in life prepared you for this moment” really asks of youHow shifting from “this happened to me” to “this is mine to use” changes your storyWhy we cling to diagnostic labels (trauma, anxiety, etc.) and what secondary gain has to do with itThe surprising connection between intentionality, Buddhism, and 12-step slogans“It’s easier to get what you want when you know what it is” — and why we avoid knowingVague desires vs. clear wants: how doing “the next relevant thing” brings clarityWhat it really means to give yourself permission to want what you wantSpace Mountain, home renovation, and why big life changes feel like roller coasters in the dark Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #15 - How to Handle Conflict in Relationships (Without Making Things Worse)

    In this episode of Being Different Together, Kelly and Nyssa unpack why conflict doesn’t have to mean something is wrong—in fact, it can be the very path to deeper connection. Drawing on the work of Dr. Polly Young-Eisendrath and the Center for Real Dialog, they explore how “healthy conflict” in relationships can reduce emotional threat, calm our inner “baby,” and transform repetitive fights into opportunities for understanding. You’ll hear how real dialog helps with couples conflict, family estrangement, and everyday triggers like dishes, laundry, and tone over email—plus why “working for peace” is different from stopping war in our homes and in the world. Along the way, they weave together stories from a big week of events in Tampa, including Polly’s talks on Buddhism, Jung, and real dialogue, and Kelly’s role as Chief of Staff at the Center. Themes like how to handle conflict in relationships, how to communicate during conflict, why we get stuck in the same arguments, and how to know your path (by doing the next relevant thing) all show up in practical, down-to-earth language. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay in relationship when you don’t agree—or how to turn “enemy button” moments into curiosity—this episode is a warm, honest guide. Main Topics Covered: How conflict can actually be the way to peace (and why trying to “keep the peace” often backfires)Why conflict doesn’t automatically mean there’s a “problem” in your relationshipWhat “real dialog” is and how it lowers emotional threat between peopleThe surprising power of healthy conflict in couples, families, and communitiesHow Dr. Polly Young-Eisendrath’s work blends Buddhism, Jungian psychology, and relationshipsThe “enemy button” and the baby inside us that still runs our reactions in conflictProjective identification: the invisible pattern that keeps pulling you into the same fights“Do the next relevant thing”: a simple way to navigate your path when you feel lostWhat happened when Polly brought real dialog to a high-end social club—and why people opened upKelly’s new role as Chief of Staff at the Center for Real Dialog and what she’s learning about working in conflict every dayLinks:  Center for Real DialogueTime is Honey Radiolab Episode - mentioned in the podcastEp #1: Welcome to Being Different Together: How It All StartedEp #2: What Our “Enemy Button” Gets Wrong About Conflict Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #14 - What Is a Meditation Bell For? Benefits for Focus, Presence, and Communication

    In this episode, Nyssa and Dr. Kelly answer a listener question about one simple but powerful object: the meditation bell.  What is the purpose of a bell in your meditation space? They explore how a meditation bell (or singing bowl, chime, or timer bell) can mark transitions, create a ritual for mindfulness, and help you “come home” to yourself. From Thich Nhat Hanh’s bell of mindfulness to Insight Timer bells, church bells, traffic lights, and even phone notifications, they look at how sound can become a cue to pause, breathe, and pay intentional attention. They also extend the idea of the bell into everyday life and relationships—introducing the idea of a “relational bell” for when conversations get heated. You’ll hear about code words like “lunch meat,” using heart-rate monitors as a bell for conflict, and how sound, silence, and space can transform how we communicate.  If you’ve ever wondered how to use a bell in meditation, how sound and ritual can deepen your mindfulness practice, or how to build in gentle pauses in your relationships and conflict conversations, this episode offers playful, practical, and heartfelt ideas to try. Main Topics Covered: How a simple meditation bell can completely change the energy of a roomWhy humans seem wired to respond to bells, gongs, and chimes (and what that has to do with archetypes)The “bell of mindfulness” in Buddhist practice and what Thich Nhat Hanh teaches about coming home to yourselfTurning everyday sounds—traffic lights, phone dings, microwaves—into mindfulness cuesHow to create a simple, meaningful meditation space (even if you don’t have a whole room)What Nyssa’s stop sign, Kelly’s wooden pyramid timer, and acupuncture chimes all have in commonThe idea of a “relational bell” for pausing hard conversations before they blow upCode words like “lunch meat,” heart-rate watches, and other creative ways couples can de‑escalateWhy silence, rest, and space are just as important as sound in music, poetry, and relationshipsHow playfulness, humor, and a well-timed pause can shift you from “you’re my enemy” back to “you’re my person” Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #13 - The Spring Equinox Episode: Peaches, Pruning, and Becoming More Yourself

    In this episode of Being Different Together, Nyssa and Kelly welcome the spring equinox by exploring what this turning point in the seasons can teach us about personal growth, relationships, and real dialogue.  Using the story of their unassuming little peach tree—hidden, pruned back hard, and now bursting with blossoms—they unpack the difference between cultivation and control, and why pruning (in your garden and your life) can feel painful but is often exactly what allows new growth to emerge.  Along the way, they touch on the meaning of the spring equinox, the symbolism of eggs and Easter, and how ancient rhythms of light and dark mirror our own inner seasons. Main Topics Covered: How the spring equinox mirrors the inner seasons of your own growth and changeWhy a scraggly little peach tree became a powerful symbol for self-discoveryThe surprising connection between pruning and becoming more of who you already areWhat Jungian individuation really means (and how it’s different from self‑improvement)How real dialogue “prunes” people-pleasing, politeness, and performative responsesSimple language shifts (like dropping “you” and “we”) that make conversations more honestThe idea of “karma farming” and how to plant seeds for the life you actually wantWhy measuring success by effort and conditions, not outcomes, changes everythingHow to hold commitment in relationships when you feel stuck in the same old patternsThe difference between cultivating growth and trying to control it—in gardens, goals, and loveReferenced Episodes Ep. #13 on “The Pen”Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #12 - How to Use the Moon Phases for Goal Setting, Time Management, and Productivity

    Nyssa and Kelly explore how moon phases and lunar cycles can become a practical, soulful framework for goal setting, time management, and personal growth.  Nyssa shares how working with new moon intentions and full moon reflections helped her call in a conscious relationship, complete projects, and deepen her spiritual practice—plus the now-classic “have you seen this moon?” story.  If you’re curious about using the lunar cycle, astrology, and intuition to build a life that actually feels aligned, this episode is for you. Main Topics Covered: How a single new moon intention helped call in a conscious relationshipA simple way to use the lunar cycle as a framework for projects, from idea to completionWhy the full moon is not the finish line (and what phase actually gets ignored the most)What “creation cycle” means—and how it can help you finally complete what you startThe surprising link between moon phases, menstrual cycles, and emotional clarityHow a walk to a Zen meditation center under a full moon changed everythingThe playful edge where the sacred meets the profane (including an unforgettable mooning story)Using the moon for time management and productivity without losing the magicWhy Nyssa calls the moon her “forever teacher”and how to let it teach you, tooHow to tell if you’re in a waxing (build) or waning (edit/finish) season in your own life Links: Going Upward Newsletter – Join Nyssa’s list hereEssential Oil Moon Guide Books:  The Moon Book by Sarah Faith Gottesdiener Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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    #11 - How to Get What You Want (Without Toxic Positivity or Wishful Thinking)

    In this episode of Being Different Together, Kelly and Nyssa break down one of Buddhism’s most practical (and misunderstood) teachings: emptiness—using the now-famous story of the pen. Is it a pen or a chew toy? It depends who’s looking.  Drawing from the Heart Sutra, the Diamond Sutra, and modern life at the kitchen table (complete with dog Poppy chewing pens), they explore how reality doesn’t come from objects themselves, but from the karmic seeds and meanings our minds project onto them. You’ll also learn a simple 4-step Buddhist-inspired method for “getting what you want”—whether that’s more money, better health, deeper love, or greater inner peace—without relying on empty affirmations or spiritual bypassing.  Instead of “toxic positivity,” they talk about intentional action, generosity, and planting seeds in your mind through how you treat others.  If you’ve ever wondered how karma really works, how to manifest change in a grounded way, or how ancient Buddhist philosophy can actually help your day-to-day life and relationships, this conversation is for you. Main Topics Covered: How a simple pen (and a chew-happy pup) can explain Buddhist emptinessWhy reality doesn’t come from things, but from you and your mind’s “seeds”The surprising link between karmic seeds, perception, and everyday reactionsWhat Buddhism actually means by “emptiness”(and why it’s not “nothing matters”)A 4-step Buddhist-inspired method to get what you want in lifeHow to use karma and generosity to attract more money, love, health, and peaceWhy affirmations and prayers alone don’t change your life—and what doesThe role of intention in shaping your reality (and why that makes humans unique)How to “water” the right seeds at night with a simple bedtime reflection practiceTurning your life into a karmic garden: becoming a “karma farmer” on purposeLinks Mentioned: Going Upward Newsletter – Join Nyssa’s list hereBooks: The Diamond Cutter by Gesha Michael RoachWomen Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes Stay in Touch: Nyssa Hanger: www.nyssahanger.com | IG: @nyssahanger Kelly Brady: www.kellybrady.me | IG: @drkellybrady

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Being Different Together explores the realms of relationship, entrepreneurship, and personal development through the lens of Real Dialogue, a set of principles, practices, and methods for healthy conflict as a means for growth.  In other words, just because we disagree, doesn’t mean we can’t get along.  Through this series, Nyssa and Kelly will bring their combined experience as holistic health practitioners to the table to share what they’ve learned through the process of integrating these skills in their lives.  This podcast is for all the people who want to make the world a better place and feel a little less alone doing it.

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    Nyssa Hanger
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