Better Than Alright

Better Than Alright Show
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Better Than Alright is a weekly podcast where brothers-in-law and best friends, Francisco and John, check in on life, manhood, and what it means to grow. Most guys say they’re “alright” when they’re not. This show is about pushing past that—through honest conversation, shared struggles, and small steps toward becoming better men. No pretending. No quick fixes. Just real talk, brotherly encouragement, and the hope that better is possible.

Episodes

  1. Grounded in Faith with the Courage to Listen

    09/21/2025

    Grounded in Faith with the Courage to Listen

    John reflects on the tragic loss of Charlie Kirk, a man of deep faith, and the impact of his death on the community. He discusses the importance of understanding the true enemy, which lies in misguided ideas rather than individuals, and emphasizes the need for mercy and forgiveness. John calls on listeners to be a source of light in a dark world and to pray for those who have wronged us, highlighting the transformative power of faith and compassion. Takeaways There's deep sadness and chaos in the community. Charlie Kirk's death has brought people closer to faith. The world is grieving a loss on a greater scale. The enemy is not a person, but misguided ideas. We must show mercy and forgiveness to others. Your potential is unrealized and your fate is unwritten. We are called to be salt and light in the world. Praying for enemies can soften hearts. The darkness in people can be overcome by light. Charlie promised a Turning Point, and this is it. Chapters 00:00 Reflections on Tragedy and Loss 02:17 The Impact of Faith and Community 05:34 Understanding the True Enemy 07:28 The Uns 08:33 Being Salt and Light in Dark Times

    11 min

  2. 08/25/2025

    What If the Temptation You Struggle with Most is Masking Your Life's Purpose?

    In this conversation, John and Francisco explore various themes surrounding personal growth, parenting, and the impact of self-doubt and insecurities. They discuss the dynamics of in-person conversations versus virtual interactions, the challenges of parenting in a post-COVID world, and the importance of affirmations and self-love. The dialogue delves into the idea that temptations and weaknesses can often be linked to one's purpose and potential, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and the power of belief in oneself. Throughout the conversation, they reflect on the significance of relationships, the role of friends in personal growth, and the journey towards finding one's purpose.

    56 min

  3. 07/25/2025

    You're More than What You Produce, Failure is Perspective, and the Importance of a Friend Group

    In this episode, we talk about the state of mental health in men - specifically those reporting struggles on Reddit. So many men reveal their pain is tied into what they can (or cannot) produce, and see their lives as set in stone. Today, we unpack the idea of our lives being our current states of being - remembering that we're in a perpetual state of growth and development. Francisco talks about his new job, and getting comfortable in a new space. Like, subscribe and share! Thank you for your support!

    49 min
  4. The Bear & The Burden: Understanding a Man's Value & Purpose from "The Bear"

    07/21/2025

    The Bear & The Burden: Understanding a Man's Value & Purpose from "The Bear"

    This week, we explore the themes of men's mental health through the lens of the FX show 'The Bear.' We discuss the show's characters, particularly Carmy and Richie, and their respective journeys of self-discovery and personal growth. We analyze the chaos of the kitchen as a metaphor for life's challenges and the importance of relationships in finding purpose. We also highlight key moments from the show, including the significance of the refrigerator scene and Richie's transformation through his experience polishing forks. The discussion emphasizes the lessons learned from struggles and the value of service in achieving fulfillment.

    55 min
  5. Intentionally Building a Legacy... and Francisco Broke a Chair

    07/02/2025

    Intentionally Building a Legacy... and Francisco Broke a Chair

    In this conversation, John and Francisco explore the themes of legacy, parenting, and the impact of decisions on personal growth. They discuss the significance of leaving a legacy, the challenges of parenthood, and the importance of intentional living. Through anecdotes and reflections, they delve into how their experiences shape their understanding of legacy and the values they wish to impart to future generations. In this conversation, Francisco and John explore the themes of balancing parenthood and career, the importance of legacy, and the need for community and communication among men. They discuss nostalgic movies that resonate with personal experiences, the challenges of achieving work-life balance, and the significance of intentionality in life decisions. The dialogue emphasizes the role of control in shaping one's future and the necessity of building meaningful connections to support emotional well-being. Chapters =00:00 Legacy and Its Importance 01:22 The Concept of Control 04:08 Personal Legacy and Relationships 06:04 The Impact of Decisions on Legacy 08:31 Cultural Perspectives on Legacy 11:05 Intentional Living and Legacy 13:58 Parenting and Legacy 16:50 Navigating Conversations with Children 18:34 Navigating Parenting Decisions 20:33 The Impact of Decisions on Legacy 22:41 Intentional Parenting and Its Challenges 26:23 Limiting Beliefs and Their Effects 30:17 The Burden of Parenthood 33:56 Finding Meaning in Parenthood 40:50 Control and Its Role in Parenting 45:19 Embracing Control in Uncertain Times 47:25 Finding Structure Amidst Chaos 50:15 The Power of Intentional Mornings 52:06 The Importance of Community and Connection 55:50 Effective Communication Among Men 59:39 Navigating Emotional Challenges Together 01:03:28 Building a Legacy Through Intentional Choices Keywords legacy, parenting, personal growth, intentional living, family connections, gaming, masculinity, decision making, self-awareness, relationships, parenthood, career balance, legacy, communication, community, emotional support, control, nostalgia, personal growth, intentionality

    1h 11m
  6. Fathers (Part I)

    06/15/2025

    Fathers (Part I)

    In this conversation, John and Francisco begin to explore the complexities of fatherhood, the influence of media on masculinity, and the emotional challenges of navigating family relationships. They reflect on their personal experiences with father figures, the impact of societal expectations on men, and the importance of finding value in small accomplishments. The discussion also touches on the significance of reconnecting with estranged family members and the lessons learned from facing mortality. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Expectations and Responsibilities 02:29 Fatherhood Dynamics and Relationships 05:22 Exploring Personal Backgrounds and Family Dynamics 08:26 The Impact of Estranged Fathers 13:55 Understanding the Role of Fathers in Our Lives 16:45 Entrepreneurial Spirit and Family Influence 23:00 Navigating Family Dynamics 24:14 The Impact of Parental Absence 27:06 Male Role Models and Their Influence 30:54 Functional Skills and Assertiveness 34:30 Cultural Reflections on Fatherhood 36:06 The Need for Functionality in Masculinity 37:37 Finding Value in Small Wins 39:07 The Organic Nature of Conversations 43:10 Navigating Complex Father-Son Relationships 50:09 Reconnecting and Bridging Gaps 57:01 Facing Mortality and Reflection 01:01:26 Transitioning to Fatherhood Perspectives

    1h 3m
  7. Finding Meaning in Life's Challenges

    06/11/2025

    Finding Meaning in Life's Challenges

    Summary In this episode, John and Francisco explore the emotional challenges of job searching, the impact of professional setbacks, and the importance of vulnerability in male relationships. They discuss the balance between happiness and contentment, the significance of purpose, and the need for honest communication in both personal and professional contexts. The conversation emphasizes the value of finding peace amidst chaos and the idea that struggles can lead to personal growth and resilience. Chapters 00:00 The Warm-Up: Behind the Scenes of Podcasting 01:34 Navigating Job Hunting Challenges 04:24 The Emotional Toll of Job Searching 07:37 Business Relationships and Integrity 10:27 Struggles and Resilience in Business 13:45 Finding Meaning in Struggles 16:35 The Importance of Communication in Business 19:50 Recognizing Wins Amidst Challenges 22:42 Balancing Positivity and Reality 25:34 Purpose Over Happiness in Life 28:48 Planning for Personal and Professional Growth 36:26 Deliberate Time Management 38:46 The Balance of Planning and Spontaneity 41:31 Navigating Time Sinks and Productivity 45:09 Emotional Awareness and Vulnerability 49:18 The Importance of Open Communication 52:41 Hero's Journey: Overcoming Adversity 56:22 Finding Peace Amidst Chaos 01:00:11 The Pursuit of Joy vs. Contentment 01:04:33 Purpose and Connection in Conversations

    1h 13m
  8. The Heavy Weight of Being "Alright"

    06/09/2025

    The Heavy Weight of Being "Alright"

    Summary In the inaugural episode of the Better Than Alright podcast, hosts John and Francisco explore the complexities of self-discovery, vulnerability, and the challenges men face in expressing their emotions. They discuss the significance of living authentically, the cyclical nature of life and business, and the importance of integrity in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for community support, the role of parenting in finding purpose, and the impact of isolation on mental health. Through their dialogue, they aim to create a platform for open discussion and accountability among men navigating similar struggles. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Better Than Alright Podcast 02:38 The Struggles of Being Alright 05:49 The Importance of Vulnerability in Men 08:33 Compartmentalization and Its Effects 11:13 Understanding Cycles in Life and Business 14:23 Living Authentically and Integrity 17:02 The Role of Tithing and Generosity 19:28 Reflections on Parenting and Relationships 22:39 The Impact of Expectations on Happiness 25:15 Finding Fulfillment in Everyday Life 28:00 The Burden of Responsibility 31:02 Taking Action in Times of Uncertainty 36:16 The Balance of Life and Work 37:08 Purpose and Integrity in Work 38:02 Navigating Career Choices and Fulfillment 40:04 Taking Action and Embracing Change 42:06 Setting Goals and Life Aspirations 44:16 The Cost of Change and Realignment 46:55 Empowerment Through Self-Reflection 49:36 Living in Alignment with Values 52:46 The Importance of Connection and Support 56:46 Finding Purpose and Direction 01:01:13 Creating a Purpose-Driven Life 01:05:46 Saying No and Maintaining Integrity 01:09:17 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth

    1h 12m
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Better Than Alright is a weekly podcast where brothers-in-law and best friends, Francisco and John, check in on life, manhood, and what it means to grow. Most guys say they’re “alright” when they’re not. This show is about pushing past that—through honest conversation, shared struggles, and small steps toward becoming better men. No pretending. No quick fixes. Just real talk, brotherly encouragement, and the hope that better is possible.

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