BeUPod

Anya & Dr. Tiamo

BEUPod is hosted by Anya & Dr. Tiamo; two ambitious African women navigating life, identity, and mental health while chasing the American dream. Born from personal experience and a shared commitment to honest dialogue, this platform exists to remind us: everybody struggles with something, and it’s okay to be vulnerable, even while striving for excellence. Each episode features unfiltered stories from their own lives and honest conversations with guests from across the globe; creatives, professionals, healers, and everyday people. You’ll hear about burnout, identity, resilience, and what it really takes to protect your peace while going after your goals. Expect laughs, reflections, and practical tools for your mind and heart. This is Black Excellence, Unfiltered. Connect or collaborate: beunfilteredpod@gmail.com

  1. 09/24/2025

    Episode 8: "If You Become Your Greatest Self, You'll Set the World on Fire"

    In this episode of Black Excellence Unfiltered, hosts Anya and Dr. Tiamo sit down with Nthanda Manduwi (@nthandamanduwi), a Malawian storyteller, techie, entrepreneur, and fearless advocate for youth empowerment and mental health. Nthanda’s journey from Malawi to New York is anything but ordinary. Along the way, she’s led digital innovation hubs that have impacted over half a million young Africans, shaped global initiatives at the United Nations and Microsoft, and authored books that continue to empower women and youth to embrace their own brilliance. But behind the accolades lies a story of resilience, courage, and purpose. In this conversation, Nthanda shares what it really takes to navigate professional spaces as a Black woman, how cultural bias has shaped her journey, and why storytelling remains one of the most powerful tools for change. She also reveals the practices of community and self-care that keep her grounded while holding such a bold vision for Africa’s future. This is more than just a career story, it’s a call to action. Whether you’re an immigrant forging your own path, a creative searching for your voice, or simply someone who believes in the power of possibility, Nthanda’s words will challenge you to step into your highest self and, as she says, “set the world on fire.” ✨ Special Giveaway ✨ Nthanda is giving away 50 free copies of her book "Traversing my terrible twenties" to 50 lucky listeners! To enter: a) Leave a comment on any of our social media or podcast pages b) Share Nthanda’s episode on your social media and tag us c) Subscribe to our podcast on your favorite platform The first 50 people we see will receive a copy! All book proceeds will be donated to Ntha Foundation. 📚 Nthanda’s Books By the End of Your Teens (2018) Traversing Your Terrible Twenties (2025) Upcoming titles: Feminine Silence (2025), Lady at the Helm (2026), Lessons (2026), Balance (2027), and more. 🌍 Organizations & Programs Ntha Foundation – U.S. 501(c)(3) non-profit empowering youth across Africa Kwathu Kollective – Youth innovation hub driving digital transformation Bien Corporation Africa – Creative & media company channeling Africa’s digital economy Q2 Corporation – Bridging AgTech and Gaming to build Africa’s future 📩 Connect with Nthanda Email: nthanda@q2corporation.com | nthanda@biencorp.com | nthanda@kwathu.org | nthanda@nthafoundation.org

    59 min
  2. 09/01/2025

    Episode 7: “It's In the Most Vulnerable Moment That You Can Actually Find Strength”

    In this episode of Black Excellence Unfiltered, co-hosts Anya and Dr. Tiamo sit down with Felix, a Software Engineer at Bloomberg, marathon runner, and coffee and beer enthusiast originally from Malawi. Felix’s journey has taken him from Malawi the “warm heart of Africa” to the US where he contributed to genetics research for medicine discovery and later worked in California engineering electric vehicle platforms. He now lives in London, building reliable systems that keep global finance running. Beyond work, he is chasing the world’s six major marathons, with London already checked off, and diving deep into the science behind life’s simple pleasures, from a well-brewed cup of coffee to a perfectly poured draft beer. In this conversation, Felix opens up about cultural differences, racial anxiety, and the pressure of living up to the term Black Excellence. He reflects on caring for his aging father while navigating work demands and visa challenges, and highlights the importance of vulnerability, self-care, and strong social support systems. As he shares, “It’s in the most vulnerable moment that you can actually find strength,” a philosophy that has guided him through both personal and professional challenges. On Black Excellence, Felix sees it as both a celebration and a contradiction: a pride in truth and achievements, yet a reminder of the unfair weight of needing to be “twice as good” just to be seen. For him, it is a dialogue still unfolding, much like the yeast in beer, the intricacies of a coffee bean, or the races he runs: complex, personal, and worth every step. Follow us on social media @beupodcast, subscribe for new episodes, and reach out to us at beunfilteredpod@gmail.com, we’d love to hear from you!

    41 min
  3. 07/23/2025

    Episode 6: "I Am My Ancestors’ Wildest Dreams"

    Trigger warning: This episode includes thoughtful discussion of suicide and grief. In this profoundly moving episode of BEUPOD, we welcome Tamara Grossett—minister, life coach, and intuitive connector—whose story is one of faith, healing, and radical transformation. A woman of quiet strength and deep wisdom, Tamara invites us into her journey across identities, continents, and callings. Tamara speaks candidly about navigating cultural assumptions, embracing her spiritual calling, and discovering her passion for coaching. With degrees from Princeton, the University of Pennsylvania, and Carnegie Mellon, her voice carries both intellectual rigour and soulful depth. Reflecting on her personal mission to help others become who they were uniquely designed to be, Tamara shares how the devastating loss of her son to suicide reshaped her life. Prayer, community, and spiritual rhythms became her lifelines. Through vulnerability and grace, she offers wisdom on reclaiming purpose, building connection, and leading with authenticity. At the heart of this episode is Tamara’s declaration: “I am my ancestors’ wildest dreams.” We explore how she lives that truth—honoring her ancestors’ strength, resilience, and creativity while paving a path for generations to come. If you're seeking grounding, healing, or a reminder that transformation is possible even in the face of deep loss, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends. To learn more or work with Tamara as a coach, you can reach her at tamara.grossett@gmail.com. 🌿 Support & Resources If this episode brings up feelings of grief, depression, or thoughts of self-harm, know that you're not alone. Here are trusted resources you can tap into: In crisis or feeling suicidal? Call or text 988 for 24/7 confidential support via the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (cdc.gov) For text-based support in the U.S., text HOME to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line (crisistextline.org) More resources from trusted organizations: NAMI HelpLine (info & emotional support): 1-800-950-NAMI or visit nami.org SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline: Call 1‑800‑985‑5990 or text TalkWithUs to 66746 (mhanational.org) To Write Love on Her Arms (TWLOHA): Hope & support for those struggling with depression, self-harm, addiction, and suicide (twloha.com) HeadsUpGuys: Tools and support for men’s mental health and suicide prevention (headsupguys.org) Active Minds: Peer-to-peer mental health advocacy for young adults and students (activeminds.org) Outside the U.S.? Visit findahelpline.com for local, confidential support wherever you are.

    50 min
5
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BEUPod is hosted by Anya & Dr. Tiamo; two ambitious African women navigating life, identity, and mental health while chasing the American dream. Born from personal experience and a shared commitment to honest dialogue, this platform exists to remind us: everybody struggles with something, and it’s okay to be vulnerable, even while striving for excellence. Each episode features unfiltered stories from their own lives and honest conversations with guests from across the globe; creatives, professionals, healers, and everyday people. You’ll hear about burnout, identity, resilience, and what it really takes to protect your peace while going after your goals. Expect laughs, reflections, and practical tools for your mind and heart. This is Black Excellence, Unfiltered. Connect or collaborate: beunfilteredpod@gmail.com