Beyond I Do

Byron and Margaret McKie
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The Beyond I Do Podcast is where married couples come to stay connected, communicate better, and build lasting friendship. Hosted by Byron and Margaret—married 28 years and still best friends—we share real conversations about love, marriage, conflict, intimacy, parenting, and everything in between. Whether you're newly married or decades in, we help you laugh more, fight less, and stay in love without losing yourself. Subscribe for honest talk, practical tools, and weekly episodes that help you divorce-proof your relationship.

  1. Jul 16

    The Marriage Rule That Kept Them Together 31 Years with Terry and Shari Doherty

    What happens after the kids grow up, careers settle down, and it's finally just the two of you again? For Shari and Terry Doherty, the answer is simple: they're falling in love all over again. In this conversation, they share what 31 years of marriage has taught them about friendship, forgiveness, conflict, parenting, and building a relationship that keeps getting better with time. They also talk about raising children who actually want to model their marriage, working together, handling disagreements without letting them define the relationship, and why they believe your best years can still be ahead. If you've ever wondered whether marriage can stay fun after decades together, this episode will leave you hopeful. What You'll Hear Why they believe life after 50 is their favorite seasonThe importance of liking your spouse—not just loving themTheir approach to conflict after three decades togetherWhy friendship is the foundation of a lasting marriageThe story behind their daughter's decision to share their anniversaryLessons they've passed on to their children about marriageHow gratitude changes everyday relationshipsLooking ahead to retirement, travel, and becoming grandparentsKey Takeaways Great marriages continue growing.Friendship makes difficult seasons easier.Small annoyances shouldn't overshadow a lifetime of good.Appreciation should be spoken out loud.Conflict doesn't have to threaten connection.Healthy marriages are built through daily choices, not perfect moments.

  2. Jun 16

    Powerful At Work, Present At Home with guest David Kiwimagi

    Can you build a successful career without sacrificing your marriage? On this episode, we're joined by David "Kiwi" Kiwimagi, relationship coach and co-founder of Kiwi Coaching. David shares how he and his wife went from sleeping in separate rooms, feeling disconnected, and struggling to communicate, to building a thriving marriage and business together. We discuss: • Why busy couples often feel like roommates• The difference between coaching and counseling• How to identify your current season of life• Why date nights should be treated like million-dollar meetings• The surprising impact your marriage has on your children• Judging vs. accepting personalities• A simple 5-minute daily habit called "Couch Time" If life feels busy, overwhelming, or disconnected, this conversation offers practical tools you can start using today.

  3. May 26

    “It’s Her.” The Moment He Knew She Was His Wife

    Some couples take years to figure things out. Jaylee and Chana knew quickly that what they had was different. In this episode, they share how they met, blended their families, handled conflict early in marriage, and built a relationship rooted in communication, trust, and intentionality. We also talk about: Dating and marrying later in life Blended family dynamics Learning how your partner communicates Conflict without disrespect Trusting your instincts in relationships Step-parenting and partnership Why intentional connection matters This conversation was honest, funny, warm, and full of wisdom. If you’ve ever wondered whether healthy love still exists, this episode is for you.

  4. May 13

    The Truth About Lasting Marriages

    What happens after the honeymoon phase fades and real life shows up? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Alena Crawley (Dr. Lena) to talk about the real work of marriage. We discuss conflict avoidance, gratitude, sacrifice, personal growth, purpose, and why love alone is not enough to sustain a long-term relationship. This conversation goes beyond surface-level relationship advice. We talk honestly about what it takes to build a marriage that lasts through changing seasons, shifting goals, stress, and everyday life. Some of the topics we cover: Why unresolved issues always come backThe danger of “back burner” conflictHow gratitude changes relationshipsWhy marriages feel heavier over timeGrowing together without losing yourselfWhy purpose matters in marriageThe difference between coaching and therapyWhat couples should discuss before getting marriedThis episode is full of practical wisdom, honest conversation, and reminders that healthy marriages are built intentionally.

  5. Apr 28

    What Happens When Two Healed People Find Each Other?

    In this episode of Beyond I Do, Byron and Margaret sit down with Eric and Carissa, a couple who met in Hawaii, spent a week putting every card on the table, and never looked back. Six months in, they've driven across the country twice, co-founded a business, and are building something most couples take years to find. In this episode: How they met on the Big Island and decided to be radically honest from day one Why both did deep personal work before finding each other The Kaufman Drama Triangle and breaking patterns of external validation How masculine and feminine energy shows up — and shifts — in their relationship What three months on the road taught them about each other Why "how you start a relationship is how you continue it" Redefining relationship success beyond just staying together What if you stopped waiting to feel safe before showing up as yourself?

  6. Apr 7

    Co-Pilots Don't Negotiate, They Collaborate.

    Most couples think their problem is communication. It’s not. It’s how they approach decisions, conflict, and responsibility in the relationship. In this episode, we talk with G. Scott Graham about the “co-pilot” mindset—and why most couples are stuck negotiating, avoiding, or forcing outcomes instead of actually working together. We get into: Why negotiation isn’t the goal in marriage What “turbulence” looks like in real life Why couples wait too long to have hard conversations The difference between love and commitment The patterns couples fall into (and how to break them) If your relationship feels off but you can’t quite explain why… this conversation will help you see it clearly.

  7. Mar 18

    Marriage is Hard. So is Divorce. Which Hard Do You Choose?

    What if the secret to a strong marriage isn't avoiding the hard parts, but actually choosing which hard parts you're willing to live with? In this episode, Byron and Margaret sit down with Jason and Christie McMullen, a couple who have been married 26 years and have personally mentored over 100 couples through their church in the Tampa Bay area. What started as a ministry has turned into a movement, and they're bringing it all to the Beyond I Do table. They get into the gym analogy for marriage, why butterflies and bubbles aren't enough to sustain a relationship, and two communication tools that have genuinely changed how couples fight, "clear as kind" and "the story I'm telling myself." They also talk about the difference between men as waffles and women as spaghetti, why timing matters more than most couples realize, and the one rule they implemented in their marriage that eliminated a whole category of arguments. This one is practical, honest, and a little bit funny. You'll want to listen with your spouse. In this episode: Why love alone won't sustain your marriageThe gym analogy that reframes commitment"Clear as kind" — how to ask for what you actually needGolf vs. tennis conversations — and why it matters which one you're havingHow to maintain intimacy when life is moving fastThe 10 pm rule and why it worksWhat "friends of your marriage" are and why you need them

  8. Mar 3

    Stop Compromising: How to Find Real Alignment

    Dr. Jackie Black has coached over a thousand couples, and she’s clear about one thing: emotional safety is the foundation of real connection. In this conversation, we get into how couples drift apart, how “fine” becomes normal, and why the smallest moments can quietly shut a partner down. We also talk about the difference between therapy and coaching, how to tell the truth without blowing things up, and practical ways to rebuild your “we” without forcing a big date night. In this episode, you’ll hear: Signs you and your partner may be drifting Why presence matters more than you think The 4 daily moments that keep couples connected Dr. Jackie’s win-win-win model (I win, you win, we win) Why she says compromise doesn’t belong in marriage—and what to do instead Connect with Dr. Jackie Black: Website: drjackieblack.com Instagram: @DrJackieBlack

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The Beyond I Do Podcast is where married couples come to stay connected, communicate better, and build lasting friendship. Hosted by Byron and Margaret—married 28 years and still best friends—we share real conversations about love, marriage, conflict, intimacy, parenting, and everything in between. Whether you're newly married or decades in, we help you laugh more, fight less, and stay in love without losing yourself. Subscribe for honest talk, practical tools, and weekly episodes that help you divorce-proof your relationship.

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  • Creator
    Byron and Margaret McKie
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    110
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Byron and Margaret McKie
  • Show Website
    Beyond I Do