Beyond The Banter

Beyond The Banter

The podcast is designed to be a platform for men to communicate and seek advice on day-to-day life. By talking about our own situations we hope to encourage others to speak out too. Through discussion and self-education, we'll assist in understanding what is going on mentally and physically, and prevent loss of life.

  1. 08/13/2025

    #30 Interview with Jack

    In this episode of Beyond the Banta, hosts Chris and Nick delve into their long-standing friendship, sharing personal stories and experiences related to mental health, particularly anxiety and depression. They discuss the importance of accountability, the challenges of managing mental health, and the significance of having strong support systems in place. The conversation underscores the importance of humour and camaraderie in navigating challenging times, as well as the necessity of seeking professional help when needed. In this conversation, Chris shares his journey with anxiety and depression, discussing the stigma he faced as a young adult and the importance of seeking help. He emphasises the need for empathy and support for others who may be struggling, as well as the various therapy options available today. Chris also talks about his daily management strategies for mental health and the long-term approach he has taken with medication. He concludes with advice for his younger self, highlighting the importance of self-care and accountability. Takeaways - Friendship can be a powerful support system during tough times. - Mental health challenges are often ongoing and require management. - Accountability to family can motivate personal growth and recovery. - Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can significantly impact mental well-being. - It's important to have open conversations about feelings and struggles. - Humour can be a coping mechanism in difficult situations. - Professional help is crucial for managing mental health disorders. - Building strong friendships allows for vulnerability and support. - Staying busy can help manage anxiety and prevent negative thoughts. - Recognising the signs of mental health issues is the first step towards recovery. Anxiety and depression are often intertwined but can be addressed separately. - Stigma around mental health has decreased, but challenges remain for young people. - Support systems and resources are crucial for recovery. - Empathy towards others can help identify those in need of support. - Therapy options vary, and finding the right fit is essential. - Daily routines and self-care practices are vital for managing mental health. Long-term medication can be a valid choice for managing anxiety. It's important to check in with oneself regularly to assess mental health. Sharing personal experiences can help others feel less alone. Advice to younger selves often includes being kind to oneself and seeking help. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Friendship Origins 06:45 Navigating Mental Health Challenges 14:04 Managing Anxiety and Depression 19:46 The Importance of Accountability 28:04 Building Strong Friendships and Support Systems 29:33 Understanding Anxiety and Depression 32:12 The Journey of Recovery 35:40 Empathy and Support for Others 39:28 Exploring Therapy Options 43:44 Daily Management of Mental Health 48:08 Long-term Strategies for Anxiety 51:34 Advice to My Younger Self

    59 min
  2. 05/05/2025

    #28 Interview with AJ the warrior

    In this episode, Chris and Nick engage in a heartfelt conversation with Adriano Frio, who shares his profound journey through multiple cancer diagnoses, mental health struggles, and the importance of community support. The discussion highlights the resilience required to face such challenges, the role of humour in coping, and the impact of relationships on recovery. Adriano's story serves as an inspiration, emphasising the need for open conversations about mental health and the strength found in vulnerability. Key Takeaways - The importance of face-to-face interactions in podcasting. Sharing personal experiences can help others feel less alone. Mental health struggles are often invisible but deeply felt. - Community support plays a crucial role in recovery. - Humour can be a powerful coping mechanism during tough times. - Navigating health challenges requires resilience and adaptability. - Building relationships can provide essential emotional support. - It's okay to question medical professionals and seek second opinions. - Living with PTSD is a continuous journey of management. Finding purpose in life can shift perspectives on challenges. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose 05:11 Adriano's Cancer Diagnosis Journey 11:29 Mental Health Struggles During Treatment 18:31 The Impact of Cancer on Life and Relationships 25:31 Finding Strength in Community and Support 36:18 Overcoming Challenges and Celebrating Small Victories 36:47 The Aftermath of Transplant Surgery 39:14 Hospital Stays and Recovery Challenges 42:29 Facing New Health Issues 44:50 Rebuilding Strength and Identity 48:13 The Journey Through Dialysis 55:34 Mental Health and PTSD 01:01:11 Finding Purpose and Inspiration #MensMentalHealth #BreakTheStigma #MentalHealthMatters #ItsOkayToTalk #EndTheStigma #YouAreNotAlone #MensHealthAwareness #SupportMen #StrongerTogether #BeyondTheBanter #MentalHealthCharity #LaughterIsHealing #ComedyForACause #LaughingMatters #StandUpForMentalHealth

    1h 15m
  3. 04/03/2025

    #27 EMDR with Dr Boaz Gilboa

    In this episode of Beyond the Banta, host Chris welcomes Dr. Boaz Gilboa, an osteopath with a unique approach to healing that combines traditional osteopathy with neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). The conversation explores the intricate relationship between mental and physical health, particularly in the context of chronic pain and trauma. Dr. Gilboa shares his personal journey into osteopathy, the effectiveness of NLP in treating chronic pain, and the transformative power of EMDR in managing anxiety and trauma. The episode also addresses the risks associated with pain medication, particularly opiates, and emphasizes the importance of alternative healing methods. This conversation delves into the complexities of opiate addiction, the importance of emotional expression, and the transformative power of EMDR in healing trauma and anxiety. The speakers discuss the challenges faced by individuals dealing with addiction and mental health issues, emphasizing the need for supportive systems and self-reflection. They explore practical techniques for managing anxiety and the significance of understanding one's emotions in the healing process. The discussion highlights the potential of innovative tools like apps to facilitate personal growth and recovery. Dr Boaz Gilboa - www.https://www.mindcalmr.com/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Banta Podcast 02:00 Meet Dr. Boaz Gilboa: An Osteopath's Journey 04:51 The Connection Between Mental and Physical Health 10:00 Exploring NLP and Its Impact on Chronic Pain 14:30 The Power of EMDR in Healing Trauma 19:47 Personal Experiences with EMDR and Anxiety Management 28:12 Understanding Pain Management and Medication Risks 32:50 Understanding Opiate Addiction and Its Challenges 35:15 The Importance of Emotional Expression 38:59 The Role of EMDR in Healing 43:49 Navigating Anxiety and Trauma 51:01 Empowerment Through Self-Reflection and Support 01:01:05 The Journey of Healing and Future Steps #MensMentalHealt,#BreakTheStigma,#MentalHealthMatters,#ItsOkayToTalk,#EndTheStigma,#YouAreNotAlone,#MensHealthAwareness,#SupportMen,#StrongerTogether,#BeyondTheBanter,#MentalHealthCharity,#LaughterIsHealing,#ComedyForACause,#LaughingMatters,#StandUpForMentalHealth

    1h 4m
  4. 10/08/2024

    #24 Domestic Violence

    Domestic violence (DV) is not limited to physical assault, but also includes emotional and financial abuse. Coercive control and the impact of DV on victims, such as homelessness and financial instability, are major concerns. The rise in DV may be attributed to societal changes, such as a lack of resilience and an inability to handle rejection. Early detection and intervention, particularly in the 18-24 age group, is crucial in addressing DV. Community attitudes and education play a significant role in combating DV and supporting victims.Key Takeaways Domestic violence encompasses physical, emotional, and financial abuse. Coercive control and the impact of DV on victims, such as homelessness and financial instability, are major concerns. Societal changes, such as a lack of resilience and an inability to handle rejection, may contribute to the rise in DV. Early detection and intervention, particularly in the 18-24 age group, is crucial in addressing DV. Community attitudes and education play a significant role in combating DV and supporting victims.#domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolenceandsubstanceabuse #domesticviolenceandmentalhealth #domesticviolenceandhomelessness #domesticviolenceandchildhoodtrauma #domesticviolenceandaddiction #domesticviolenceandptsd #domesticviolenceandtrauma #domesticviolenceandalcohol #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthpodcast #mentalhealthmotivation #mentalhealthandresilience #mentalhealthandexercise #mentalhealthandaddictionrecovery #mentalhealthandwellness #mentalhealthandnutrition #mentalhealthandrelationships

    38 min

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The podcast is designed to be a platform for men to communicate and seek advice on day-to-day life. By talking about our own situations we hope to encourage others to speak out too. Through discussion and self-education, we'll assist in understanding what is going on mentally and physically, and prevent loss of life.