6 episodes

Beyond the Binary is a podcast centered on queer, nonbinary, transgender, and gender non-conforming folks navigating spaces where binary gender is deeply entrenched and enforced. We’ll tackle each broader theme in a short series of episodes. Our very first five-episode arc will look at the experiences of trans and nonbinary parents.

Beyond the Binary Sumner McRae

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.0 • 28 Ratings

Beyond the Binary is a podcast centered on queer, nonbinary, transgender, and gender non-conforming folks navigating spaces where binary gender is deeply entrenched and enforced. We’ll tackle each broader theme in a short series of episodes. Our very first five-episode arc will look at the experiences of trans and nonbinary parents.

    Episode 4: Family

    Episode 4: Family

    What are family dynamics like for trans and nonbinary folks with kids? How does this shape our relationships with our families of origin? How do we create and nurture our own new families? Why are the bonds we have with our chosen kin so strong? This week, we talk with new guest Dylan Flunker, and again with returning guests Jess Venable-Novak, Meghan Myron-Karels, and Ash Dasuqi. 



    Visit us: beyondthebinarypodcast.com 



    Follow us on Instagram: @beyondthebinary_podcast 



    Episode resources:

    The Guardian: “The new American family: Trans, gender queer, nonbinary, two-spirit.” https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2019/jun/20/american-family-trans-gender-queer-nonbinary 

    Frontiers in Psychology: “Division of Labor Among Transgender and Gender Non-binary Parents: Association With Individual, Couple, and Children’s Behavioral Outcomes.” https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00015/full 

    Them: “Between the Binary: On the Gratitude I Feel to My Chosen Family.” https://www.them.us/story/gratitude-for-chosen-family-during-coronavirus 

    NBC News: “How the Black queer community is re-imagining the family tree.”

    https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/black-queer-community-re-imagining-family-tree-rcna16134

    Rainbow Families Trans and Gender Diverse Parents Guide: https://www.transhealthsa.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Rainbow_Families_TGD_Parents-Guide.pdf 



    Other Podcasts:

    The Queer Family Podcast: https://www.thequeerfamilypodcast.com/ 

    Gender Reveal Podcast: Transgender Parenting “Starter Pack”: https://www.genderpodcast.com/starterpacks



    Books:

    Blood, Marriage, Wine, and Glitter (S. Bear Bergman)



    For the kids:

    Neither (Airlie Anderson)

    Jamie and Bubbie (Afsaneh Moradian)

    My Maddy (Gayle E. Pittman)

    • 24 min
    This week, we need YOU!

    This week, we need YOU!

    This week we need you! New episodes will be back next week to wrap up our series on nonbinary parenthood. In the meantime, we need your help to keep growing our podcast community! We're starting to brainstorm ideas for future seasons of Beyond the Binary. If you have ideas of things you'd love to hear us cover, drop us a comment or message on Instagram, or use the contact form on our website. Don't forget to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen, and leave us a review!

    Episode 4: Family will be out next week, so stay tuned! 

    Visit us at: beyondthebinarypodcast.com 

    Find us on instagram: @beyondthebinary_podcast

    Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/beyondthebinary

    • 2 min
    Episode 3: Kids

    Episode 3: Kids

    So, what happens for nonbinary parents once their kids are here and fully realized? How do we navigate things like school, sports, activities, and you know, other parents? And how do we navigate gender identity journeys that may still be in progress, or fluid over the course of our lives as parents? We talk about queer and nonbinary parent visibility while getting involved in our kids’ lives, raising gender creative kids, anti-trans legislation looming in places like Florida and elsewhere, and doing the proactive work to make sure our families are seen and respected. This week we talk with guests Jess Venable-Novak, and again with Meghan Myron-Karels and Ash Dasuqi.

    Podcast website: beyondthebinarypodcast.com

    Follow us on Instagram: @beyondthebinary_podcast

    Episode resources:

    The Establishment: “How Queer and Trans Parents are Raising Revolutionary Children During the Trump Era.”

    https://theestablishment.co/how-queer-and-trans-parents-are-raising-revolutionary-children-during-the-trump-era-ef47de371fa2/index.html

    Xtra Magazine: “I’m a non-binary parent. There still isn’t space for me.” (andrea bennett): https://xtramagazine.com/love-sex/im-a-non-binary-parent-there-still-isnt-s pace-for-me-154990

    LGBTQ+ Family: An Interdisciplinary Journal: “Parenting Beyond the Binary? An Empirical Test of Norm-Centered Stigma Theory and the Stigmatization of Nonbinary Parents.” (Meredith G. F. Worthen and Chancey Herbolsheimer): https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/27703371.2022.2123422?journalCode=wgfs21

    Washington Post (March 5, 2023): “Florida bills would ban gender studies, trangender pronouns, tenure perks.” https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2023/03/05/florida-bills-would-ban-gender-studies-transgender-pronouns-tenure-perks/

    Rainbow Families Trans and Gender Diverse Parents Guide: https://www.transhealthsa.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Rainbow_Families_TGD_Parents-Guide.pdf

    Other Podcasts:

    Gender Reveal Podcast: Transgender Parenting “Starter Pack”: https://www.genderpodcast.com/starterpacks

    Books:

    Raising Them: Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting (Kyl Myers)

    Like a Boy But Not a Boy: Navigating Life, Mental Health, and Parenthood Outside the Gender Binary (by andrea bennett)

    For the kids:

    What are Your Words? (Katherine Locke)

    Jamie is Jamie (Afsaneh Moradian)

    Julian is a Mermaid (Jessica Love)

    • 31 min
    Episode 2: Birth

    Episode 2: Birth

    How does the gender binary show up around pregnancy and birth? How do trans and gender-nonconforming people navigate all that? How does race intersect with these experiences? And are things starting to change at all? Are our ideas about birth and gender becoming more expansive and more inclusive? And if they’re not, how can we make it better?

    Visit us at: beyondthebinarypodcast.com 

    Episode resources:

    Doula4All (Nadine Ashby): https://www.doula4all.com/

    Birth Revolution: https://thebirthrevolution.org/

    Embodied Birth (Ash Dasuqi): https://www.embodiedbirthclass.com/

    “A Mother, But Not a Woman”: https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2019/08/16/non-binary-pregnant-navigating-most-gendered-role-all-motherhood/

    “Black birthing persons matter - all of them” (Harvard Medical School Primary Care Review): https://info.primarycare.hms.harvard.edu/review/black-birthing-persons-matter

    “For many pregnant trans people, competent medical care is hard to find”: https://www.pbs.org/newshour/health/for-many-pregnant-trans-people-competent-medical-care-is-hard-to-find

    Rainbow Families Trans and Gender Diverse Parents Guide: https://www.transhealthsa.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Rainbow_Families_TGD_Parents-Guide.pdf

    Other podcasts:

    Masculine Birth Ritual: https://www.masculinebirthritual.com/home

    Evidence Based Birth (Episode 182: Black-led Queer and Trans Birth Work): https://evidencebasedbirth.com/black-led-queer-and-trans-birth-work-with-mystique-hargrove-kortney-lapeyrolerie-and-nadine-ashby/

    Books:

    The Natural Mother of the Child: A Memoir of Nonbinary Parenthood (by Krys Malcolm Belc)

    For the kids:

    What Makes a Baby (author)

    • 38 min
    Episode 1: Conception

    Episode 1: Conception

    What does the super-gendered landscape of parenthood look like for non-binary parents? Our culture is largely organized around the idea that parents are either Moms or Dads. But not everyone feels like a mom or a dad, so then what? How do we conceive of ourselves?

    Beyond the Binary website: www.beyondthebinarypodcast.com

    Follow on Instagram @beyondthebinary_podcast

    Resources:

    National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org/issues/resources/understanding-non-binary-people-how-to-be-respectful-and-supportive

    NPR: A Guide to Gender Identity Terms: https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtq

    Beyond Kings and Queens: Gender and Politics in the 2019 Black Census: https://blackcensus.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Beyond-Kings-and-Queens-Gender-and-Politics.pdf

    Rainbow Families Trans and Gender Diverse Parents Guide: https://www.transhealthsa.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Rainbow_Families_TGD_Parents-Guide.pdf

    Xtra Magazine: “I’m a non-binary parent. There still isn’t space for me.” (andrea bennett): https://xtramagazine.com/love-sex/im-a-non-binary-parent-there-still-isnt-space-for-me-154990

    Other podcasts:

    “NB” My non-binary life” https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p06y51dp/episodes/downloads

    “Gender Reveal” https://www.genderpodcast.com/

    Books:

    Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity (edited by Micah Rajunov and Scott Duane)

    Like a Boy But Not a Boy: Navigating Life, Mental Health, and Parenthood Outside the Gender Binary (by andrea bennett)

    For the kids:

    Neither (by Airlie Anderson)

    • 16 min
    Beyond the Binary: Parenthood Trailer

    Beyond the Binary: Parenthood Trailer

    Beyond the Binary is a podcast centered on queer, nonbinary, transgender, and gender non-conforming folks navigating spaces where binary gender is deeply entrenched and enforced. We’ll tackle each broader theme in a short series of episodes. Our very first five-episode arc will look at the experiences of trans and nonbinary parents from birth to family life to community. Join us as we talk to non-binary parents about the unique challenges we face, the unique joys we experience and the ways we all come up against the gender binary at nearly every turn once we become parents.

    Follow us on Instagram @beyondthebinary_podcast or visit us at beyondthebinarypodcast.com. 

    You can also support the podcast at our Patreon page: patreon.com/beyondthebinary. 

    • 1 min

Customer Reviews

4.0 out of 5
28 Ratings

28 Ratings

ekimx425 ,

Much needed visibility of non-binary parents

This is a great podcast! So great to provide visibility to non binary parents and all of the unique ways that we can do family!

TransFamJ ,

Great podcast!

This is such a great podcast! I’ve loved hearing about other trans families and how they’ve navigated things. Can’t wait for more episodes!

Sneakers2009 ,

A Much Needed Podcast!

I was so excited when I was told about this podcast. It is so hard to find representation as a nonbinary parent so these first few episodes were a breath of fresh air.

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