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We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

Black Millennial Marriage Mikey and Randie Chapman

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We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

    BMM 148: Before We Argue

    BMM 148: Before We Argue

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    There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.

    Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can’t help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this growth? No one knows. The only thing for certain is, the Mr. misses make-up sex SMH. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

    As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.

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    • 46 min
    BMM 147: We Want a Mansion

    BMM 147: We Want a Mansion

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    Mikey and Mikey are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.

    Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

    As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.

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    • 54 min
    BMM Indie 146: "Codependent No More"

    BMM Indie 146: "Codependent No More"

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    If you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she's certain may resonate with you a little all too well. 

    Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.

    It gets deep, y'all.

    Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it's been like taking responsibility over her life.

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    • 27 min
    BMM 145: Plastic Off the Sofa

    BMM 145: Plastic Off the Sofa

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    Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.

    Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

    As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.

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    46:31 Fight or Flight
    50:13 PDA

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    • 57 min
    BMM 144: You're Stuck With Us (SEASON 4 FINALE!)

    BMM 144: You're Stuck With Us (SEASON 4 FINALE!)

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    Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.

    In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. 

    Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.

    As always the Chapmans thank y'all for your grace, love, and listens this special season. May Noble's name live on forever and ever.

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    • 1 hr 9 min
    BMM 143: You Make Me Laugh

    BMM 143: You Make Me Laugh

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    Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.

    After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.

    So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you'll enjoy it.

    Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that makes no sense to the Mrs. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA--some spicy PDA, they might add.

    As always the Chapmans thank y'all for listening to this very special season.

    Remember to rate and review them 5 stars if you enjoy this and every other episode. It means more than you know!

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    • 48 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
395 Ratings

395 Ratings

jaxxxxxxpottt ,

YOU are worthy of so many great things!

Randiiiiiiiii,
This by far was your absolute best indie. As always, your transparency about your feelings and where you are in life help me to feel normal and show me that I’m not alone.I cried with you and for you throughout this episode, because I too have a black mom and am a black mom. I understood and felt your pain through your words. You are an amazing woman, wife, and mother. Please don’t let anyone or anything make you feel otherwise. I love the new work you are putting in to you. Keep fighting for you girlfriend. YOU GOT THIS!♥️

Manita143 ,

Randie is my “internal” twin

So many of Randie’s feelings and revelations are most of the things I have felt and/or learned in the past and recently. I love you girl. Mikey!!!!!! You are a complete fool. You keep me laughing. I love you guys, so sorry about your loss. It definitely hits a familiar nerve. Sending well wishes and virtual hugs your way. Please keep it up, I enjoy you guys so much and you inspire me more than you can know.

teecoop ,

Absolutely Love

I’m telling anyone who will listen about this podcast

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