184 episodes

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

Black Millennial Marriage Mikey and Randie Chapman

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 406 Ratings

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

    BMM EP 165: We Made Lemonade

    BMM EP 165: We Made Lemonade

    Hey y’alllllllll!

The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it.

    In this episode they discuss Randie’s revelation, Mikey’s heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now).

    Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu to the one most likely to be Robin Hood.

    Then, Randie brings a fight or flight that asks Mikey why he is always throwing away her shit. But it’s all love as you know when they end the show with some PDA.

    As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.

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    • 1 hr 12 min
    BMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]

    BMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]

    Hey y'all!

    Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging.

    So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.

    This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all.

    They'll see y'all next week when they get their voices back.

    About this episode:

    Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.



    Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.



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    • 1 hr 1 min
    BMM Indie 163: Sister, Returned Ft. Bri

    BMM Indie 163: Sister, Returned Ft. Bri

    Like Saturn, the sisters have returned to one another.



    Tune in for this extra special Indie where Randie interviews her baby sister, Bri.



    In this episode they discuss their childhoods, and Bri reveals what little Bri wants from Little Ran. Later, Bri talks about what going no contact with certain family members has taught her, what she does to take care of herself, and what being a sister means to her.



    This indie is full of warm hugs, apologies, love and laughter, and the girls hope you enjoy.







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    • 49 min
    BMM EP 162: What You Been Up To?

    BMM EP 162: What You Been Up To?

    Hey y’all!



    With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more.



    But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz.



    Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight about Randie’s “ways,” and after fighting, the Mrs. decides to fly.



    But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA.



    As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.







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    • 56 min
    BMM Indie 161: It Is Finally Safe

    BMM Indie 161: It Is Finally Safe

    So what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless.

    Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her.

    She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we’ll all find out together and it'll start with this episode.

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    • 36 min
    BMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED]

    BMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED]

    Hey y'all, Hey!

    It's a good day for a throwback.

    And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you.

    In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always appreciated PDA and they hope you enjoy.

    Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites?

    Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.



    NOTE: The unedited versions of the episodes are episodes without any editing. It is raw audio from the recording session before the public gets the cleaned up version. Normally, the couple only share these versions of the podcast with their Patreon, but a rabbit hole gave the Mrs. the idea to share this particular episode.

    Let the couple know if you like these kind of episodes and walks down memory lane. We hope you enjoy!

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    • 1 hr 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
406 Ratings

406 Ratings

RayaLinn ,

Wish I would have found you sooner

I first heard about your podcast from the collaboration y’all did with Sistas who kill. I am currently listening from the beginning. Just finished episode 25 and loving it. I chose the title wish I would have found you sooner because looking at the year you’ll started this was the year my marriage was taking a turn and I think this podcast would have given us great tools for our marriage. Sadly we are divorced but we are still friends and we both think that it’s for the best. Even though I didn’t find you guys sooner I’m happy I found you now and I’m taking all the notes for my future. Love you guys and can’t wait to be all caught up so I can listen in real time.

Cxcggujm17 ,

Happy I Stumbled Upon This Show

I just found this show and listened to episode 155. Loved it. Learned so much about myself, and discovered resources I didn’t even know I could have access to. Thank you both for the vulnerability.

LovelyLesReed ,

Inspiration

Heyy Mikey & Randie ,

I’m Leslie but I like for my friends to call me Les. I just want to say I wish I could have found this podcast when y’all originally started back in 2018, 😩 oh how y’all’s perspective on life could have helped my mindset, however I found you all right when I needed too! Keep thriving & being a great inspiration to all marriages 🫶🏾

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