Bold Moves with Jools Raye

Jools Raye

I expected my jeans not to fit after having a baby. I didn’t expect my ambition and identity not to fit either! It’s time to Rediscover how Flocking Fabulous YOU are! Hi, I’m Jools, mama of 1 and a Rediscovery coach with 18 years’ experience guiding leaders through personal and professional transitions. I’ve picked up a few powerful Jools tools to as we navigate this Motherhood X Ambition path and prevent burnout, build real confidence and create a life that truly fits you who now. Bitesize episodes every Thursday with special monthly guest drops.

  1. 70. Why Manifesting Stops Working After Motherhood

    Mar 5

    70. Why Manifesting Stops Working After Motherhood

    For years, manifesting felt natural to me. Vision boards. Big goals. Unexpected opportunities. Even meeting my husband felt like something I had consciously called into my life (you can read the full story in this weeks Best Magazine) Then I became a mother. And something shifted. Not just emotionally. Neurologically. Like many women, my brain moved into survival mode. Creativity felt harder to access. Vision felt further away. The dreams I once felt so connected to suddenly felt blurry. In this episode of Mama’s Flight Path, I share a surreal moment that reminded me how powerful intention really is. Seeing myself in a magazine triggered a reflection on manifestation, motherhood, and the surprising ways our brains change during matrescence. We explore why manifesting isn’t magic. It’s alignment. When your heart, mind, and actions point in the same direction, life begins to reorganise around that clarity. If you’re a mother in your late 30s, 40s or 50s who feels the quiet pull to redesign your life, reconnect with your ambitions, or simply remember what you want again, this episode will resonate deeply. Because motherhood doesn’t erase your dreams. But it does require you to rediscover them in a new way. • Why manifesting is about alignment, not magic• How motherhood rewires the brain and shifts focus into survival mode• Understanding matrescence and the identity shift after children• Why ambitious mothers often lose clarity on their goals• How visualisation and metaphors reconnect us to our deeper ambitions• Redesigning life and career after motherhood Join the Flock Drop Newsletter www.mamasflightpath.com ⚠️Disclaimer: This podcast may cause breakthroughs and life enrichment ! The content shared in Mama’s Flight Path is for inspiration and education only. It’s not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or financial advice. I speak from lived experience, coaching practice, and research but every mum’s journey is unique. Please take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and always seek professional support if you need it. Love Jools x Chapters 00:00 The surreal moment of manifestation02:20 Motherhood and the shift in mindset07:44 The Soul Goal concept10:43 Reconnecting with intention Key Ideas in This EpisodeChapters

    11 min
  2. 69. The 5 People Quietly Shaping Your Standards (And What To Do About It)

    Feb 26

    69. The 5 People Quietly Shaping Your Standards (And What To Do About It)

    In this episode of Mama’s Flight Path, Jools explores how the five people you spend the most time with are quietly shaping your standards, mindset, and even your career decisions. After being quoted in the Sunday Times and experiencing a moment of comparison, Jools unpacks a powerful reframe: it’s not about after-school clubs or external success. It’s about the traits and behaviours being normalised in the rooms you occupy. Drawing on neuroscience-informed coaching principles and inspired by Tara Swart’s work on social influence and mindset, Jools shares a practical visual exercise to help you: • Identify the five people influencing your thinking• Recognise which traits you are unconsciously mirroring• Spot where comparison is body data, not failure• Curate your environment to support expansion instead of self-doubt• Make more intentional, sovereign decisions This episode is for high-functioning mothers who feel successful on paper but quietly restless, and who want to stop shrinking and start designing their next chapter with intention. Manifesting, in this context, isn’t magic. It’s design. It’s about choosing the rooms that raise your standards. Chapters 00:00 The Influence of Surroundings on Mindset 06:17 Manifesting and Taking Action for Change resources Connect with me www.mamasflightpath.com ⚠️Disclaimer: This podcast may cause breakthroughs and life enrichment ! The content shared in Mama’s Flight Path is for inspiration and education only. It’s not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or financial advice. I speak from lived experience, coaching practice, and research but every mum’s journey is unique. Please take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and always seek professional support if you need it. With Love and Kindness Jools x

    1 min
  3. 67. Stop Calling It Burnout. It’s Misalignment

    Feb 12

    67. Stop Calling It Burnout. It’s Misalignment

    Stop calling it burnout. What if you’re not exhausted because you’re doing too much…but because you’re building a life that doesn’t actually fit. We’re told to hustle. Set SMART goals. Push harder. Optimise everything. And then motherhood hits.And suddenly the goals that once felt powerful feel hollow. Heavy. Like another thing to carry. In this episode, I’m gently but firmly challenging the burnout story. Because sometimes it isn’t burnout. It’s misalignment. It’s building goals that look impressive on paper but don’t feel safe in your body anymore. I’m sharing my Soul Goal framework, rooted in NLP and behavioural science, to help you design goals that feel aligned with your values, your energy and your season of life. Not ego goals.Soul goals. Goals that expand your life instead of squeezing it. You’ll hear: • Why traditional goal setting ignores motherhood completely• The difference between burnout and chronic misalignment• How to design the feeling first, before the strategy• The neuroscience behind sensory visualisation and why it rewires motivation• A simple three-step framework you can use this week It’s about designing a life that feels like you again. Because you don’t need more pressure. You need more purpose. Ready to go deeper? If this episode hit something in you, that’s not random. Work with me:If you’re ready to stop optimising a life that doesn’t fit and start building one that does, book in a Vibe Call with me https://calendly.com/hello-mamasflightpath/new-meeting Freebie:Feeling stuck in survival mode? Download 56 Ways to Rest — seven types of rest every mama needs to feel human again. I’ve given you eight ideas for each type so there’s zero extra mental load. It’s free at mamasflightpath.com/freebies Join the Flock Drop:If you want early access to Soul Goal Parties, retreats in Portugal and the deeper work I’m building, sign up to my weekly Flock Drop newsletter via my website. And hit follow so you never miss an episode of Mama’s Flight Path and it helps me to keep pumping out these weekly episodes! ⚠️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for inspiration and education only. It’s not a substitute for medical, mental health or financial advice. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and seek professional support if needed. With Love and Kindness ,Jools x

    6 min

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I expected my jeans not to fit after having a baby. I didn’t expect my ambition and identity not to fit either! It’s time to Rediscover how Flocking Fabulous YOU are! Hi, I’m Jools, mama of 1 and a Rediscovery coach with 18 years’ experience guiding leaders through personal and professional transitions. I’ve picked up a few powerful Jools tools to as we navigate this Motherhood X Ambition path and prevent burnout, build real confidence and create a life that truly fits you who now. Bitesize episodes every Thursday with special monthly guest drops.