The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

  1. 14小时前

    When Fights Test Your Relationship: Handling Conflict in Consensual Non-Monogamy

    In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer’s heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle “isn’t right” for them — and reveal why the opposite is often true.  Drawing from over two decades of experience, John and Jackie explain that conflict is a normal part of any relationship, not just open ones. They share how fear, unfamiliarity, and emotional overwhelm can spark arguments — and how learning to communicate calmly and empathetically can turn those same moments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. They also discuss how to “baby step” through difficult moments by adjusting boundaries and pacing, creating space for healing and rebuilding trust. This episode reminds viewers that consensual non-monogamy isn’t simply about sexual exploration — it’s about cultivating safety, self-worth, and authentic partnership through honesty and emotional awareness.    🔑 Key Insights: Fights happen in all relationships — they don’t mean you’re failing in non-monogamy Fear often underlies conflict; naming it builds empathy Approach fights as a team instead of adversaries  Emotional reactions can differ from intellectual acceptance Baby-stepping through boundaries rebuilds safety and trust Keep discussions focused to prevent escalation Conflict can be a catalyst for growth and deeper intimacy ⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:32 – Overcoming fights in consensual non-monogamous relationships 01:36 – Fear as a common root of conflict 03:19 – Approaching disagreements as a team 05:45 – When emotions clash with logic 07:31 – Rebuilding trust with baby steps 08:55 – Keeping conversations concise and constructive 10:36 – Growth and self-esteem through consensual non-monogamy

    13 分钟

  2. 10月7日

    How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites

    How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Looking to connect with like-minded people in the open or swinging lifestyle? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share their top tips for creating an honest, attractive, and successful profile on adult social sites like SDC, SLS, and Cassidy. They cover everything from choosing the right photos and being clear about your desires to using validation features for safety and credibility. Whether you're new to the scene or looking to improve your experience, this video helps you present your authentic self—and make meaningful connections both locally and while traveling. 📸 Be real. Be respectful. Have fun. #OpenLove101 #AdultDatingTips #SwingerLifestyle #OnlineDating #ProfileTips #JohnAndJackie #NonMonogamy

    7 分钟

  3. 9月30日

    Breaking Stereotypes in Open Relationships 🌍

    Breaking stereotypes and redefining what relationships can be! 🌍 Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let’s explore it together 🙂!   In this exciting and eye-opening discussion, we dive into the world of swinging, polyamory, and non-monogamous lifestyles. Ever thought about how trust, communication, and intimacy play a key role in building stronger connections?  Tune in to learn how inclusivity and open-mindedness are transforming relationships everywhere! Discover the secrets of creating safe spaces for conversations, breaking societal norms, and navigating threesomes, swinging, and open lifestyles!   From lifestyle clubs to community events and even the unique experiences at Burning Man, this video celebrates the diversity of love and relationships. Ready to explore new perspectives? Hit subscribe, join the conversation, and embrace the freedom to define relationships your way. Don’t miss out—your journey toward trust and connection starts here! 🎉    #openrelationship #mentalhealth #trauma #relationshipadvice #love CHAPTERS: 00:00 - What is SLP  02:00 - How does SOP Bring People Together 07:10 - Burning Man and Life Outlook 13:14 - Understanding Consent 15:42 - Consent Differences in Lifestyles 17:40 - Fun Ways to Ask for Consent 24:37 - Exploring Bisexuality 27:30 - Changes in the Lifestyle 28:30 - Monogamy vs Non-Monogamy 30:33 - Right Ways to Have a Relationship 31:08 - Arriving at Relationship Conclusions 37:04 - Finding You Online 38:58 - Community Building 40:15 - Building a Community 43:50 - Outro

    44 分钟

  4. 9月23日

    How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship

    How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Think swinging ruins relationships? Think again. In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how embracing the swinger lifestyle has enhanced their communication, intimacy, and emotional connection. They dive into how exploring fantasies without guilt, talking openly about desires, and learning from other couples can actually bring partners closer together. With personal stories and practical insights, this conversation breaks down misconceptions and highlights how swinging can lead to deeper trust and a more fulfilling partnership. 💬 Honest talk. No shame. Real connection. #OpenLove101 #SwingingBenefits #RelationshipGoals #NonMonogamy #SexPositivity #JohnAndJackie #OpenRelationships

    10 分钟

  5. 9月16日

    The Truth About Cheating in Open Relationships

    In this eye-opening discussion, hosts John and Jackie Melfi tackle the intriguing question: "Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples?" Drawing from their extensive experience in open relationships and as owners of Colette Swingers Clubs, they explore the nuances of infidelity, trust, and boundaries within consensual non-monogamy. Join the conversation as they dive into what really constitutes cheating across different relationship models, why trust matters regardless of relationship style, and how open communication can potentially reduce infidelity. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights for all couples.   Topics Discussed: The definition of cheating in different relationship contexts Emotional vs. physical infidelity Why consensual non-monogamy might reduce certain forms of cheating The importance of trust in any relationship model Why people sometimes feel threatened by different relationship styles Timestamps:   00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:42 - Main topic: Do lifestyle couples cheat less? 01:46 - Defining cheating in open relationships 03:31 - The role of honesty and transparency 04:24 - Addressing jealousy across relationship models 06:05 - Emotional vs. physical cheating discussion 09:23 - Why opening a relationship won't fix infidelity 11:35 - Trust and dishonesty in relationships 13:24 - Why people invalidate different relationship models 15:28 - The "defensive reaction" to alternative lifestyles

    18 分钟

  6. 9月9日

    Swinging as a Threesome

    Can swinging ever be truly “equal”? In this honest and insightful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the emotional dynamics of open relationships—especially around gender, jealousy, and fairness. Sparked by a viewer email, they dive into what happens when one partner is more actively exploring than the other, and how communication and trust play a key role in navigating those feelings. From their first threesome experience to emotional growth and lasting friendships, John and Jackie share how open relationships can lead to deeper connection—not resentment. This is a must-watch for anyone exploring non-monogamy or seeking a fresh perspective on love, sex, and emotional balance. 💬 Real stories. Real growth. Real connection. #OpenLove101 #OpenRelationships #Swinging #NonMonogamy #Jealousy #RelationshipAdvice #JohnAndJackie

    9 分钟

  7. 9月2日

    Boundaries vs Rules: Why Language Matters in Relationships

    In this insightful episode, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into the important distinction between boundaries and rules in relationships, especially within consensual non-monogamy. They share their personal experiences and wisdom from over 20 years in open relationships to help couples navigate these concepts effectively.   The Melfis explore how boundaries are personal, fluid, and evolve with trust, while rules often feel controlling and parental. Learn how establishing healthy boundaries has helped their relationship thrive and how you can apply these principles to your own relationships.   🔑 Key Insights: The difference between boundaries (personal, flexible) and rules (rigid, controlling)   How boundaries can evolve over time as trust builds   Finding solutions together rather than imposing restrictions   Building a relationship based on trust rather than control ⏱️ Timestamps:   00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:42 - Welcome and show overview 01:05 - Defining boundaries vs rules 03:14 - Personal boundaries in relationships 05:07 - Handling different boundaries between partners 08:39 - Example of how boundaries can evolve 10:11 - Working together on solutions 12:45 - How rules can create parental dynamics 14:49 - Living with boundaries vs being controlled by rules   Visit openlove101.com to sign up for their email list and stay updated on new content about open relationships and consensual non-monogamy!   Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts.

    17 分钟

  8. 8月26日

    Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs?

    Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Curious about visiting a swinger club as a single woman—but feeling unsure? In this empowering video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the common fears and societal judgments that often hold women back from exploring their sexuality in safe, respectful environments like Colette Clubs. They break down myths, share real experiences, and explain why women are always in control at swinger clubs—no pressure, no expectations. Whether you're there to dance, socialize, or simply explore, this video is a reassuring guide to stepping into the lifestyle with confidence. 💃 Come as you are. Stay as long as you like. Do only what feels right. #OpenLove101 #WomenAndSwinging #SafeSpaces #SexualEmpowerment #ColetteClubs #JohnAndJackie #SwingerClubs

    6 分钟
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

信息

  • 创作者
    John & Jackie Melfi
  • 活跃年份
    2019年 - 2025年
  • 单集
    100
  • 分级
    儿童不宜
  • 节目网站
    The Openlove101 Show

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