Bow Down: Spiritual Feminism Unleashed

The Cohere Collective
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Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Join Therapist, Coach, and TTRPG Enthusiast Dennis Carlson, and Writer, Coach, and Witch Reese Brown every Friday for conversations ranging from personal narratives to philosophical manifestos all about the same topic: The Terrifyingly Beautiful Divine Woman. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090066823729 https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-cohere-collective?trk=public_profile_topcard-current-company For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com

  1. The Manosphere, False Purpose, & The Loneliness Crisis: Rethinking Modern Masculinity

    11/28/2025

    The Manosphere, False Purpose, & The Loneliness Crisis: Rethinking Modern Masculinity

    What does “masculinity” mean in today’s society? Are we still defining manhood based on the violence of the past, or based on our hopes for the future? In this episode, Reese and Dennis unpack Equimundo’s study, State of UK Men 2025, exploring how patriarchal expectations, socialization, and emotional stunting shape the daily reality of men today. Why do so many men feel disconnected? We must go back to the underlying issues behind the cultural symptoms to begin unlearning internalized beliefs around dominance, violence, and self-worth are formed. This conversation dives into: Conflicting norms of masculinityThe dissonance between men’s reported and behaved valuesThe illusion of being “the provider”Stoicism vs. emotional repression v.s. violenceAttraction, biology, and unlearning subconscious biasMindfulness as a tool for deprogramming automatic thoughtsThe difference between false purpose and True PurposeEmotional alchemy as a tool for cultural healingHow patriarchy harms men while granting them privilegeIf you’re interested in psychology, philosophy, gender, or culture, or if you’re a man trying to make sense of your own inner world, this episode offers grounding, nuance, and a fresh perspective on the complex dynamics facing gendered experiences in the modern world. Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Equimundo’s State of UK Men Report, 2025: https://www.equimundo.org/resources/state-of-uk-men-2025/ Maxine the Princess on TikTok’s discussion of the Study: https://www.tiktok.com/@maxinetheprincess/video/7572611907115420950?lang=en Jamaal Burkmar’s Tik Tok discussing the Study and Maxine’s video: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamaalburkmar/video/7572967714742963479?lang=en Follow Maxine: https://www.tiktok.com/@maxinetheprincess Follow Jamaal: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamaalburkmar?lang=en With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    1h 41m
  2. Baby Formula, Witch Hunts, and What Happens when Power Overtakes Compassion

    11/21/2025

    Baby Formula, Witch Hunts, and What Happens when Power Overtakes Compassion

    We’ve all seen the clips of churches refusing to give a struggling mom baby formula for her hungry child, but what are the real implications of this experiment? What does this actually tell us about our current society, the state of Christian Nationalism, and our relationship to community? In this episode, you’ll hear about: Why so many churches refused the requestThe church leaders attacking the womanThe witch archetype as resistance and reclamationWhat Jesus actually said vs. what Christians practiceThe loneliness, repression, and fear shaping our cultureWhat modern Christianity has become and what we need to do to change it, or ditch it altogetherWhether you’re deconstructing, spiritually curious, or just trying to make sense of the world right now, this episode goes there. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Find and support the TikToker, Nikalie Monroe, here: https://www.tiktok.com/@nikalie.monroe Learn More about Richard Dawkins’ “Cultural Christianity” Claim: https://www.breakpoint.org/richard-dawkins-a-cultural-christian/ Read and Learn More about the Phoenix Pastor’s Offensive Tweet: https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/news/phoenix-pastor-says-church-shouldnt-help-single-mother-whores-40620567/ Learn More about the Louisiana Pastor Claiming the “Spirit of the Witch”: https://www.shreveporttimes.com/story/news/2025/11/11/did-baton-rouge-louisiana-church-deny-mother-baby-formula-for-starving-baby-tiktok-social-experiment/87212519007/ Learn More About the Tik Tok Trend and Appalachian Pastor Johnny Dunbar: https://ca.news.yahoo.com/tiktoker-calling-churches-see-help-184321348.html Learn More about Dropping U.S. Birth Rates: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/us-birth-rate-all-time-low-cdc-data/ With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    1h 22m
  3. Maybe This is Why You're Lonely... Unpacking Gendered Power Dynamics, Invisible Labor, and What Makes Women Angry

    11/14/2025

    Maybe This is Why You're Lonely... Unpacking Gendered Power Dynamics, Invisible Labor, and What Makes Women Angry

    How many times have you been told “You’re being too sensitive” or asked “Are you on your period?” How many times have you said these things? In this deeply honest and fiery episode, Reese and Dennis flip the script on classic gendered micro-aggressions. Drawing from their own experiences, emotional intelligence research, IFS Parts-Work, and an open-hearted desire to improve relationships, they unpack gender dynamics and how digging deep is the way to truly deepen connection. If you're interested in the male loneliness epidemic, the embarrassment of boyfriends, conscious partnership, gender dynamics, emotional depth, and unlearning cultural patterns that keep us disconnected, this episode is for you. Whether you’re a man trying to “get it,” a woman tired of being dismissed, or someone navigating relational sensitivity from any gender, you’ll leave with practical tools and a deeper understanding of each other. Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: How to Piss off Women by The Pissoff Krew: https://www.amazon.com/How-Piss-Off-Women-Clueless/dp/B0F9SSDTYW With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    2h 4m
  4. Patriarchy Hurts Everyone: How to Piss Off Men and Heal Humanity

    11/07/2025

    Patriarchy Hurts Everyone: How to Piss Off Men and Heal Humanity

    Why do men mistake anger for power? And how can humor, play, and philosophy help us heal the wounds beneath the rage? Reese Brown and Dennis dive deep into Kyle Prue’s ”How to Piss Off Men,” exploring masculinity, anger, emotional literacy, and the playful path toward dismantling the patriarchy. Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Please learn more about Kyle Prue and support his work: https://kyleprue.com Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Read “How to Piss Off Men”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/197036073-how-to-piss-off-men Introduction to Emotional Bids from The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/blog/an-introduction-to-emotional-bids-and-trust/ More from The Gottman Institute on Bids: https://www.gottman.com/blog/want-to-improve-your-relationship-start-paying-more-attention-to-bids/ Brené Brown’s book, Rising Strong (where she discusses, “the story I’m telling myself…”): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23317538-rising-strong An essay on Brené Brown’s “The story I’m telling myself…”: https://www.livmindfully.com/new-blog/2025/6/4/the-story-im-telling-myself Tik Tok discussing Dating App Hot Takes from Angelica on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@an9ele/video/7561154002579197191 Follow the Creator: https://www.tiktok.com/@an9ele Listen to Our Discussion of Free Will: https://youtu.be/Wyn5JSBUE9g With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    2h 8m
  5. The Book of Esther Was Never About Obedience, It’s About Rebellion: Biblical Womanhood Through the Lens of Esther

    11/03/2025

    The Book of Esther Was Never About Obedience, It’s About Rebellion: Biblical Womanhood Through the Lens of Esther

    Esther’s story isn’t the tale of sweet obedience your Sunday School teacher told you. It’s a complex, political, and feminist **narrative about women navigating power in a patriarchal system. In this episode of Bow Down, Reese and Dennis unpack the Book of Esther through a feminist and deconstructionist lens, exploring Vashti’s revolutionary “no,” Esther’s strategic “yes,” and what both reveal about women, autonomy, and power in faith communities. In this episode, we explore… Why Vashti’s defiance still scares the churchHow Esther’s silence and strategy challenge purity cultureThe “obedience” myth and Christian control narrativesWhy deconstructing scripture is an act of liberation Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Subscribe for more feminist deconstruction conversations that challenge faith, reclaim spirituality, and center women’s voices! Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Read The Book of Esther: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Esther 1&version=NIV Marion Ann Taylor, Professor of the Old Testament at Wycliff College and Author of “Esther” in “The Story of God Bible Commentary,” on Vashti: https://youtu.be/f6QGxfZ0SIo?si=ALqpnXcOARYgEsta With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    1h 58m
  6. What’s Really Going On with Men? Feminism V.S. The Tradwife Lie

    10/24/2025

    What’s Really Going On with Men? Feminism V.S. The Tradwife Lie

    In this episode of Bow Down, Reese Brown and Dennis dive deep into the viral ”Tradwife*”* trend, the so-called ”male loneliness epidemic,” and what “authentic masculinity” really looks like in 2025. From choice feminism to the shame surrounding vulnerability and sex work, Reese and Dennis unpack how social media shapes our ideas of gender, power, and love — and what it takes to live authentically in an algorithm-driven world. A HUGE thank you to DevidMiller62 on TikTok for inspiring this episode! Please go support his work! Drop your thoughts in the reviews: do you think the “tradwife” trend empowers or misleads? Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Subscribe for honest conversations about modern identity, feminism, and spiritual growth. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Watch the Orginial Tik Tok and Support @devidmiller62: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTM9kgWDu/ With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    1h 45m
  7. Love, Money, and the Lie That Women Have to End Up Married: Materialists Movie Analysis

    10/17/2025

    Love, Money, and the Lie That Women Have to End Up Married: Materialists Movie Analysis

    At the height of the “Male Loneliness Epidemic,” and when getting married is provably the most detrimental financial and health decision a woman can make, did we need a movie where the our leading lady must pick a man in the face of the false dichotomy between love and money? Maybe, maybe not, but it certainly gave us a lot of talk about! In this episode of Bow Down, Reese and Dennis unpack Materialists, the new film stirring up heated debates about love, money, power, and feminism. They dive into: Whether you can truly have both emotional and financial securityHow gender, class, and modern dating culture shape our idea of “love”The ethics of matchmaking and how money complicates relationshipsWhat this movie reveals about male vulnerabilityWhy some viewers adored it — and others couldn’t stand itIt’s a vulnerable, insightful, and sometimes spicy discussion about love in the age of luxury and late-stage capitalism. Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Watch Materialists: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxTcRHNlHQM Dr. Brené Brown on Vulnerability: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o Dr. Brené Brown on Shame v.s. Guilt: https://brenebrown.com/articles/2013/01/15/shame-v-guilt/ With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    2h 3m
  8. Which Fictional Character Are You? Personality Tests, Archetypes, & Self-Discovery

    10/03/2025

    Which Fictional Character Are You? Personality Tests, Archetypes, & Self-Discovery

    What do Twilight, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, and Rick & Morty have in common? They all reveal something about YOU. In this episode of Bow Down! Dennis and Reese dive into the Open Source Psychometric Character Quiz to discover which iconic fictional characters they are most like — and the results are surprising (and hilarious). From Scarlett O’Hara to Luna Lovegood, Lady Macbeth to Willy Wonka, Sam Obisanya to Moira Rose, this conversation explores: Why personality quizzes captivate usHow fictional characters reflect our archetypes & inner selvesThe divine masculine & feminine through literature and filmNeurodivergence, survival, and identity in pop cultureWhat it means to resonate with “heroes” and “villains”Whether you’re curious about your own character match or just love hearing passionate banter about movies, TV, and self-discovery — this episode is for you. Take the test yourself: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/characters/ Subscribe to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support References and Resources: Take the test yourself: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/characters/ With empowered Coherence, Dennis and Reese

    1h 39m
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Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Join Therapist, Coach, and TTRPG Enthusiast Dennis Carlson, and Writer, Coach, and Witch Reese Brown every Friday for conversations ranging from personal narratives to philosophical manifestos all about the same topic: The Terrifyingly Beautiful Divine Woman. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week. Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090066823729 https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-cohere-collective?trk=public_profile_topcard-current-company For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com

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