33 episodes
Boys Will Be Human Josh Gannon
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5.0 • 8 Ratings
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Boys Will Be Human is about toxic masculinity and how it shapes us all growing up in to adulthood. I'll share my own stories and interview others along the way about their experiences with masculinity.
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32. How I Met Your Mother is TRULY Problematic as seen in "Chain of Screaming"
Topics:
-Difficulty Ending a Long Show
-HIMYM It Wouldn’t Last Nowadays
-Have You Ever Yelled at Someone and Felt Good Afterwards?
-Scott Rudin
-Being Yelled at in your 20s vs 30s
-The F*** Budget
-Working Customer Service
-Character Pees on a Table
-Good Quitting Stories
Links:
‘I Rewatched ‘HIMYM’ After 4 Years and My Feelings Completely Changed: - https://edtimes.in/i-rewatched-how-i-met-your-mother-after-4-years-and-my-feelings-have-completely-changed/
Scott Rudin - https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/everyone-just-knows-hes-an-absolute-monster-scott-rudins-ex-staffers-speak-out-on-abusive-behavior-4161883/
Scott Rudin to Resign - https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/scott-rudin-to-resign-from-the-broadway-league-report-4172372/
Harvey Weinstein New Yorker - https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/from-aggressive-overtures-to-sexual-assault-harvey-weinsteins-accusers-tell-their-stories
Magic of Not Giving a F*** - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwRzjFQa_Og
Karen Olivo’s Video - https://www.instagram.com/p/CNqFSKBFBsj/
@karenolivo76
BOOKS:
“For The Love of Men” by Liz Plank - https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9781250757203
“Man Enough” by Justin Baldwin - https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9780063055599
“Boys and Sex” by Peggy Orenstein - https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9780062666987
@feministabulous
@justinbaldoni
https://www.peggyorenstein.com/
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31. Happy Mother's Day: Handling Expectations, De-gendering Interests and Exposing Emotional Intelligence
Topics
-1st Reactions to Having a Son
-Extra Pressure raising a son?
-Diversity in Children’s Books
-Assuming the Dad is incompetent
-“Everybody wants to tell you how to raise your child”
-What Do You Want Your Son to Cherish?
LINKS:
1. Dr. Tracy Baxley - @socialjusticeparenting
2. Molly and Sam's "The Hold Up" podcast
The Hold Up w/ Molly Sanchez & Sam DiSalvo
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hold-up/id1531355208
Twitter: @thisholdsup
Instagram: the_holdup_pod
Facebook: The Holdup Podcast
3. Music by Polaroid Bear
https://thepolaroidbear.com/
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30. Domesticating Women as seen in 'Woman of the Year" (1942)
Today's Topics:
“Katharine Hepburn needing to be taken down a peg”
1940 vs Now
Female Character who didn’t want children
the Passive Aggressive Husband
Hays Code
Women more successful than their partners
Links Discussed in Episode:
The Hold Up w/ Molly Sanchez & Sam DiSalvo
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hold-up/id1531355208
Twitter: @thisholdsup
Instagram: the_holdup_pod
Facebook: The Holdup Podcast
“Man Enough: Undefining my Masculinity” by Justin Baldoni - https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9780063055599
For The Love of Men by Liz Plank - https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9781250757203
Hays Code link - https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=93301189 -
29. Jeopardy: All About Women!
Today we play Jeopardy that is ALL ABOUT WOMEN! Do you think you'll do well?
I wanted to do a game show episode with questions about women that men should know by now, and it's a very fun time. I left in big pauses to really show how long it takes for us to answer or not answer these questions! Hope you enjoy!
Watch The VIDEO on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yco4wcuhad4&t=1s
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28. Women's Panel #2: Catcalling and Sexual Harassment
Catcalling - the act of shouting harassing and often sexually suggestive, threatening, or derisive comments at someone publicly
Sexual Harassment - behavior characterized by the making of unwelcome and inappropriate sexual remarks or physical advances in a workplace or other professional or social situation.
Today I speak to three of my female friends about being catcalled and/or sexually harassed. We discuss how close these two things are, they can be separated BUT catcalling leads to more more times than not. Great day for learning and talking to friends however they identify, let's talk!
Topics:
-It’s an EVERYDAY occurrence
-Being Catcalled at 13
-“Are you afraid of having a daughter?”
-Catcalling from different races, by Car, Walking on the Street, Elevator
-Women Harassing Men
-“What is your mental process for leaving your house?”
-“Everyone knows a woman who’s been raped, almost nobody knows a rapist”
-Survival Tactics
-If Men are walking behind you, and don’t want to scare her, what should we do?”
-“After all these stories, how do you function?”
-Leaving Drinks Unattended
-Learning and Educating
Videos and Links Mentioned in Podcast
-Catcalling VIRAL VIDEO - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A
-‘When They See Us’ Trailer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YyoSErErnCE
-Central Park Five Article - https://time.com/5597843/central-park-five-trump-history/
-Fred Hampton Article - https://www.zinnedproject.org/materials/assassination-of-fred-hampton
-Black Wall Street Article - https://www.theatlantic.com/sponsored/hbo-2019/the-massacre-of-black-wall-street/3217/
-LA Human Trafficking pdf - https://www.castla.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/CAST-Prevalance-Study-County-of-Los-Angeles-2019.pdf
-Jackson Katz TEDtalk = https://www.ted.com/talks/jackson_katz_violence_against_women_it_s_a_men_s_issue?language=en
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Music by Polaroid Bear:
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27. Social Perfectionism
Welcome to another BIG GROUP discussion! This week is about Social Perfectionism. I have no problem believing men try to be socially perfect because we want to look "perfect" to people to keep them away? Impress others with our 'success'? It's pretty on brand I think, and we talk about it!
Follow us on IG @boyswillbehuman
Some of Today's Topics:
-Gender Identity Crisis
-Feeling Different when Financially Stable
-Getting The House, Spouse, Kids and Fence
-Expectations one you’re “successful”
-Taking People’s Advice at your pace
-The Meisner Technique of Acting
Article We Talk About in The Episode:
https://www.psypost.org/2015/05/the-male-suicides-how-social-perfectionism-kills-men-34574
*National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish.
800-273-8255
*Better Help
https://www.betterhelp.com/
*‘Leaves of Gold’ book:
https://eclectuals.indielite.org/book/9780353501980
Music by Polaroid Bear
https://thepolaroidbear.com/
Customer Reviews
Awesome honesty
Love how in the episode they used what the guest did as a profession (script supervising) to get into the topic of toxic masculinity. Also loved the honesty of the host coming on at the end and making corrections!
Anyone who wants to learn more about how others deal with toxic masculinity, how pervasive it can be should give it a listen!
They will likely learn a little bit more about themselves as well.
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Love the idea behind this podcast and the conversations so far have been interesting as well as informative. Cannot wait to hear where this Podcast goes!
Great topic!
I love hearing these harmful issues being brought into a more public light. Toxic masculinity has been something that has affected all our young men and as they develop and then in turn affects women and non binary folks as we all navigate our way through this world. It’s great to hear some of these difficult issues getting demystified!